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    Second Coming: Help There’s a Gay Ghost In My Bed

    enJanuary 22, 2023

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    • Appreciate mothers with thoughtful gifts and quality sleepCelebrate Mother's Day with discounted gifts from 1 800 Flowers and prioritize quality sleep with Sleep Number's smart beds.

      This Mother's Day, show appreciation to all the wonderful mothers in your life with thoughtful gifts from 1 800 Flowers. Save up to 40% on handmade bouquets, sweet treats, gourmet food, and unique presents. Additionally, prioritize quality sleep with Sleep Number's customizable smart beds, now with a 40% discount. The podcast "Help I Sexted My Boss" offers advice on modern life dilemmas, and this episode, from 2019, covers topics like reconnecting with a favorite podcast and inviting your partner to dinner. The hosts, Jordan North and William Hanson, provide solutions to everyday challenges in a relatable and entertaining way. Remember, Mother's Day is a time to celebrate and give back to the special mothers in your life, and quality sleep is essential for overall well-being.

    • The hosts' signature drink: gin and de bonnetThe hosts' signature drink, gin and de bonnet, is a symbol of their podcast and their bond, often joked about as their trademark.

      The hosts of this podcast have a signature drink called "gin and de bonnet" which is a mix of one part gin and two parts Du Bonnet, best served with ice and a slice of citrus. This drink has become a tradition for them during their episodes. The hosts often joke about it and even crack a joke about it being their "trademark" or "signature." In short, their gin and de bonnet is not just a drink, but a symbol of their podcast and the bond they share. Additionally, the hosts shared a story about an unexpected encounter in a brothel during the summer break, but the focus remained on their signature drink throughout the conversation.

    • Adapting to uncomfortable living conditions and unexpected encountersHosts found creative ways to cope with summer heat and welcomed former producer back, demonstrating resilience and adaptability.

      Despite facing uncomfortable living conditions during the hot summer without air conditioning, the hosts found creative ways to cope, such as using a dustpan to fan themselves, while others suggested more conventional solutions like buying a fan or checking into a luxury hotel. Another notable event during the summer was the unexpected encounter with their former producer, Ben, who had taken them to a tribunal but now works with them part-time. Despite the past disagreements, they managed to maintain a professional relationship and even introduced Ben to a colleague. Additionally, Ben has adopted different voices for various roles in the radio industry, including a Mickey Mouse voice for a children's podcast that caused some confusion. Overall, the hosts demonstrated resilience and adaptability in dealing with unexpected challenges and maintaining a positive attitude.

    • Friend's army sergeant named Aurelie causes confusionFriend reveals army sergeant's name, age, and dislike for 'invite' word while sharing stories about crosswords, fear of lifts, and upcoming luxury party

      During a conversation, the speakers discussed various topics including misunderstandings, age milestones, and a shared friend. The speaker was surprised to find out that her friend had a relative named Aurelie saved in her phone with the first name only, leading to some confusion. The friend revealed that Aurelie was a sergeant in the army and was turning 40. The conversation also touched upon the friend's dislike of the word "invite," and her decision to have a luxury party at the Sky Garden in London, despite her fear of lifts and heights. The speakers also mentioned the friend's upcoming birthday, which was a significant milestone for her, and her past experiences with crosswords and luxury parties. Overall, the conversation was filled with personal anecdotes and shared experiences.

    • Struggling with personal identity and authenticityAccepting and admitting one's true self is essential, even if it's challenging. The support of loved ones can help in the journey towards authenticity.

      Honesty and authenticity are important, especially when it comes to personal identity and sharing it with loved ones. This was a topic that came up during a conversation about a podcast host, Jordan, coming to terms with his upcoming 30th birthday and his sexuality. He shared that he had been struggling to accept and admit this part of himself, but after reflecting on his desires for his own birthday party and the support of his family, he decided to be true to himself. Another theme that emerged during the discussion was the cost of events and the control that can come with being an executive producer or organizer. The hosts joked about the high cost of a recent event where they had paid for table service for their drinks, and how they were planning to have a more low-key birthday celebration in the future. Additionally, the podcast underwent a change in format, with William taking on a more executive producer role and Jordan becoming the talent. This shift was met with humor and a comparison to the dynamic between Sandra Oh and Jodie Comer in Killing Eve. Overall, the conversation touched on themes of self-acceptance, the importance of authenticity, and the various roles and responsibilities that come with organizing and producing a podcast.

    • Make your mom feel special this Mother's Day with personalized giftsSurprise your mom with a personalized card, beautiful jewelry, or online health consultation this Mother's Day

      This Mother's Day, make your mom feel truly special with thoughtful and personalized gifts. Surprise her with a beautiful, personalized card from Moonpig, which can be ordered with favorite photos and a heartfelt message for just $5. For something more tangible, consider a stunning piece of jewelry from Blue Nile, which offers a wide selection of timeless and dazzling options, most of which can ship overnight with guaranteed free shipping and returns. For those looking to start a healthier journey, PlushCare offers online access to board-certified physicians who can prescribe weight loss medications like Wegovy and Zepbound for those who qualify. And don't forget, William's "wacky word of the week" - "armoire" - means closet in French, adding a touch of international flair to your everyday language. So, whether it's a card, a piece of jewelry, or a new word, make sure your mom knows how much you care this Mother's Day. For those who want to join in on the fun, there's a competition going on - the "give me the d competition." Listeners can tweet or follow @sextonmyboss on Instagram and Twitter for a chance to win a bottle of Dubonnet, a hard-to-find liquor. So, stay tuned for more wacky words, jolly jokes, and opportunities to win great prizes. Happy Mother's Day!

    • Managing Crushes: Dilute Intensity and Maintain BalanceBeing aware of potential negative consequences, having multiple crushes, avoiding excessive social media use, focusing on other aspects of life, and participating in a giveaway can help manage crushes effectively.

      It's natural to have crushes and daydream about people, but it's important to be aware of the potential negative consequences, such as becoming too fixated or experiencing heartbreak if the feelings are not reciprocated. To cope with this, consider having multiple crushes to dilute the intensity. Additionally, engaging with the object of your crush on social media excessively may not be beneficial. If you have a crush on someone, try to focus on other aspects of your life and maintain a healthy balance. Furthermore, there's a ongoing giveaway on Instagram for a chance to win a bottle of Debonne, so make sure to check the rules and terms on the post. Lastly, if you've found the elusive du Bonnet, share a picture with William Hanson and me for a potential retweet.

    • Ghosting in Relationships: A Common Behavior in Internet DatingIf someone doesn't respond to messages after a few attempts, they might not be interested. It's important to move on and not waste time on someone who isn't worth it.

      While ghosting in relationships can be hurtful and frustrating, it's a common behavior some people exhibit, especially in the context of internet dating. Rachel shared her experience with being ghosted and expressed her disapproval towards this trend. William and Jordan discussed their own experiences with ghosting and offered their perspectives. They suggested that if someone doesn't respond to messages after a few attempts, it might be a sign that they're not interested. They also emphasized that if someone ghosts you, it's important to move on and not waste time on someone who isn't worth it. The conversation also touched upon the supernatural, with William sharing a personal experience of feeling the presence of a ghost in his room during his university days.

    • Personal Experience with Ghosts and Ghosting in RelationshipsBelieving in the existence of ghosts, dealing with their presence, and addressing issues in relationships through communication.

      The speaker shares his personal experience of feeling the presence of a ghost in his room and how he dealt with it by having his room blessed. He also believes in the existence of ghosts and that they can identify as straight, bisexual, or gay. The conversation then shifted to discussing the topic of ghosting in relationships and how to handle it. Lastly, they discussed the issue of noise coming from neighbors and the speaker's experience of addressing it directly with his own neighbors who were smoking weed and playing loud music. The advice given was to start with a letter to maintain embarrassment for both parties.

    • Addressing sensitive issues with effective communicationEffective communication, respect, and humor can help resolve sensitive issues and strengthen relationships.

      Effective communication is crucial when dealing with sensitive issues, such as noisy neighbors. The discussion revolved around the idea of writing a letter as a first step to address the issue anonymously. If the situation doesn't improve, then confronting the neighbors face-to-face is recommended. The conversation also touched on the topic of ghosting, with both parties acknowledging that it's a common occurrence in various aspects of life. The conversation ended on a light-hearted note, reminiscing about a favorite movie moment. Another important takeaway from the discussion is the importance of respecting privacy and considering the potential embarrassment or discomfort that someone might experience when being confronted with sensitive issues. The conversation also highlighted the role of humor in diffusing tense situations and bringing people closer together. In summary, the key takeaway is that effective communication, respect, and humor can go a long way in resolving sensitive issues and strengthening relationships.

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