Sex Ed, Scandinavians & Samosas: An Interview with Girl Boner’s Mom

Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her “nutrition,” as she calls it. 

Some of the topics you’ll hear about:

Sexological bodywork and massage

Erotic self-pleasure trans states

Incongruent desire in a relationship

Sexual self-embracement for eating disorder healing

Female sexuality

Sexual empowerment

D/S dominance/submission and sensation play

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Lala didn’t realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the “best sex [of her] life” with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. (The same didn't work for August...) And Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn’t just a “female experience.”

In this Girl Boner episode, you’ll hear these stories plus related tips, multiple orgasm myths, busted, and more!

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For years, Leah Carey felt equal parts shut down and obsessed re: sex. Meanwhile, she chose terrible partners. Then in her 40s, during her final session with a therapist, she revealed a long held sexual secret. 

Leah’s admission marked the start of what would become an across-the-country sexual awakening adventure. She eventually landed on desires that surprised her and began transforming her life into helping other women find similar healing.

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EF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!)

This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet curious, about dirty talk, and August’s favorite tip.

To learn more about EF and her latest novel, Almost Perfect, visit efdoddwrites.com. 

For more from Jenay, check out her podcast, My Naked Mindset. 

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Women’s sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward.

Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com

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Can an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles.

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Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn’t realize she’d been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week’s Girl Boner replay is a juicy one…

You’ll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive podcast event August is co-hosting with three wonderful colleagues in February. Register (with early bird pricing) here!

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Learn more about Liz Asch and Your Salt on My Lips: lizasch.com/salt-lips

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When Jennifer Silva Redmond asked her fiancé, Russel, “What would you do if you could do anything?,” his response and the decision that followed changed the course of their lives. Since then, she’s learned a great deal about intimacy, sex, her body and herself while living and loving at sea.

You’ll also learn:

How Jennifer’s hippy-like upbringing made bodies okay (at first)

The impact LA’s acting culture had on her body image

How she moved past faking orgasms

Benefits of trying a sex toy or position you don’t love

Jennifer’s advice for choosing an ideal partner and bolstering the relationship

Check out Jennifer’s memoir, Honeymoon at Sea, on Amazon.  

Find more of her writing on her substack.

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Jenay Leger and Court Vox have had different sexual self-discovery journeys with powerful common threads — including an illuminating ho-phase. Learn what their spicy escapades revealed about their desires and kinks, plus tips for making the most of your own sexual exploration. 

You'll also learn a simple way to play with power dynamics in a  relationship, how Dominant and Submissive (D&S) experiences can vary from media depictions and how a crying kink can play out. 

Learn more from Jenay by listening to My Naked Mindset. Find her Self-Love Journal on Amazon.

Learn more from Court or sign up for his SACRED retreat or workshops at bodyvox.com. Or follow along at @thebodyvox on Instagram and Facebook.

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Yuval Mann is an erotic intelligence mentor who helps people use their sexual expression as “a vehicle of individual and collective evolution.” Early on, though, he was barely allowed to interact with girls, much less embrace his sexual desires. His journey from the Israeli army to the global fetish and kink scene taught him about pleasure, intimacy and so much more.

You’ll hear about:

His sexual awakening, after growing up as an Orthodox Jew

A relationship that helped heal some of his sex-related shame

What he discovered at his first sex party

A hot triad relationship on Paradise Island

Tips for exploring in your own sex life

Learn more from Yuval here, and check out his Sensual Alchemy community on Telescope.

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Note: This episode features a man who grew up in Israel. It was finalized before the Israel-Hamas war broke out, bringing profound tragedy. Like so many, I’m thinking of those who are most affected with deep heartache and care. Credible aid organizations you can donate to: https://www.npr.org/2023/10/13/1205235922/help-israel-gaza-humanitarian-organizations

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