Song Shit pt. 1

Hot sauce and Viola Davis: the potent combination that shaped my intentions for 2023!

The new year is nearing ever closer, and I’m more excited to see where this journey takes me than I think I’ve ever been.

As I endeavor to follow my inner knowing and stop using outward indicators to measure up, I’m going to take you along with me. Want to join?

Here’s to growing without “should’s” in our way! 

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Mr. Logan Roe has a lot to say:

-Emotions are cool.
-Dad’s are totally capable of being emotionally present with their kids.
-Saying “I love you” to those we love matters.
-Toxic masculinity is a problematic placeholder for real emotional validation and love.
-We are our guardians; all the little kids living in us can look to grown up us to guard and protect us.

Listen on for Logan’s powerful discussion around parenting and emotional regulation.

Find him on Instagram @heymrroe and @themindfulgamer 

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Writings from a shame slayer; a mix of poetry, 2 a.m. notes-to-self, instagram captions, and post-therapy emotions.

✨Happy healing, my friend.✨

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Did you know Frozen 2 had so much to say about healing, inner-knowing, and becoming a loving parent to yourself?

Listen for a discussion of Frozen 2’s song “Show Yourself” and all the ways it made me (and now maybe you, too) cry in the middle of the theater!

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Maternal mental health IS HEALTH.

⚠️CW: Talk of suicidal thoughts/ideations and intrusive thoughts ⚠️

On today’s episode, I sat down with Karla Carlston, CEO and founder of J.O.T. Journals. Karla’s mission is to get the tool of journaling into as many hands as possible.
Her own journey through postpartum anxiety/depression drove her to the creation of a journal that would show all the moments in life, even the difficult ones. 

Karla is a survivor of postpartum anxiety and depression, and wants others to know they don’t have to do it alone.
Find Karla and J.O.T. at Pinners Conference this weekend!

If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide due to postpartum depression, please call or text 988 for help.

Additional maternal mental health resources:
The Emily Effect
Maternal Mental Health Utah
Dr. Cassidy Freitas, Ph.D.

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Joan Gardner used muck to describe her experience with starting over after divorce. As a coach for women in the same spot, she wants you to know that your life is not over, and you aren’t alone

As you navigate the loss, you’re also learning how to rebuild a life that looks different than before. In that space, it’s easy to feel like an island. An island of muck, perhaps?

Joan shares how she navigated all of that, as well as how she can help you do the same. She ends it all with the promise that you’ll be okay. 

Join Joan on social media! Her Instagram, her TikTok, her Twitter, and her Facebook.

Keep an eye out for her upcoming book, too!

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What if it had a name?

The knowledge you can't pretend everything is okay anymore with small talk.
The mid-life crisis that has you wondering what it's all been for.
The realization that you can't ignore the dysfunction around you.
Like waking up and not being able to go back to sleep again.

It does have a name, and you're not alone. The Dark Night of the Soul is the "wait a minute" to your life, and comes with a whole new reality. It calls for your removal from autopilot and asks you to heal along the way.

Katie Hanlon guides us through the Dark Night with a surety that reminds us we're all in this together. After her own Dark Night and now, years later, Katie's walked where we're about to walk, has read a ton of research about it, and understands the jarring experiences we're living through.

Join her in today's episode, and let her guide you through what the hell is going on.

👉Katie on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter.

Stay tuned for the second episode in this series!

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What would it be like to not hate your body? ⚠️TW: Eating disorders ⚠️

Cara Cifelli, a food and body image coach, wants you to know that there is peace in rejecting diet culture's rules for you, including the idea that you are the problem.

In this episode, Cara discusses the ways she supports her clients in their inner knowing, and shares ways you can reject other people's rules for your body.

She tells her story of battling an eating disorder, and gives us living proof that healing and body connection are possible.

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Erika speaks EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and what it can do for our healing.

We know and love Erika, our in house Shame Slayer! She’s a:

Licensed clinical professional counselor of nearly 10 years

CEO of Greenstone Counseling

EMDR Trained Therapist

PUBLISHED AUTHOR (this is big, fam. HERE’S HER DAMN BOOK)

Human being dedicated to helping you ✨healurshit✨

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