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    Spoon Theory with Chronic Illness Featuring Emily Fraser

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    About this Episode

    Welcome to "Shit Talking Shrinks," I'm your host Paulie Siegel, a Licensed therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor and master-level trained mindfulness practitioner with a passion for psychology, humor, and insightful journeys through the realm of mental wellness. Join me as we explore the depths of the human mind, unraveling complexities while keeping it lighthearted.

    Today, we have a special guest, Emily Fraser, a Chronic Illness Advocate who works with a unique group of individuals known as Spoonies. Ever wondered what Spoon Theory is? Emily breaks it down for us and helps us identify the characteristics of a Spoonie.

    In this episode, we'll dive into the world of chronic illness, exploring what it means and how Spoonies can cope with its challenges. Emily shares valuable insights on pacing oneself and using energy wisely, essential skills for those navigating chronic health conditions. As a seasoned advocate, she provides practical strategies to enhance the lives of individuals who relate or identify as Spoonies.

    Join us for an enlightening conversation that combines psychology, humor, and genuine insights into the human experience. Whether you're a Spoonie yourself or simply curious about this unique perspective, you won't want to miss this episode.

    Listen now for episode that promises to be both informative and uplifting, as we navigate the intricacies of chronic illness with Emily Fraser on "Shit Talking Shrinks."

    Learn more about Emily’s work at: https://www.emilyfraser.ca/
    Connect with Emily on Instagram here: @thespooniementor

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    Music by Blue Claw Philharmonic.

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