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    Start Separating Yourself From the Old Version of You

    enJuly 27, 2024
    What is Growth Day and how can it help individuals?
    Why do people become casual during the holiday season?
    How can we alter our internal thermostat settings?
    What role does discipline play in personal growth?
    How can surrounding ourselves with successful individuals benefit us?

    Podcast Summary

    • Separation SeasonsDuring certain times of the year, staying disciplined and focused can help individuals separate from their competition and previous selves. Utilizing resources like Growth Day can aid productivity and growth during these seasons. Overcoming subconscious reluctance is also important.

      During certain seasons, particularly the holiday season, people tend to relax and get casual about their routines, providing an opportunity for those who remain disciplined and focused to separate themselves from their competition and previous selves. Utilizing resources like Growth Day, an app with valuable content and mentorship opportunities, can help individuals stay productive and grow during these separation seasons. Additionally, recognizing and addressing any subconscious reluctance to separate from one's current situation or group can be essential for maximizing personal and professional growth.

    • Personal growth during holidaysFocus on intentional actions for personal growth despite external factors, leading to significant changes in identity and overall well-being.

      During this holiday season and throughout the year, making conscious decisions to separate yourself from your former habits and excuses in areas like fitness and nutrition can lead to personal growth and improvement. Instead of using external factors like COVID or holidays as reasons to slack off, focus on doing one more rep at the gym, eating half the dessert, or finding creative ways to spend time with family that sets you apart. These small actions, when acknowledged and given credit, can lead to significant changes in identity, mindset, and overall well-being. By being intentional about separating yourself, you'll stack up deposits of positive change that will magnify over time.

    • Separating from the former youIdentifying specific times and situations to make small but significant separations can lead to personal growth and transformation through building new habits, forming new relationships, and creating a new identity

      Separating from the former you and creating new habits and behaviors is essential for personal growth and transformation. This can be achieved by identifying specific times and situations where you can make small but significant separations, such as Friday afternoons or Saturdays. These separations can involve abstaining from certain behaviors or taking actions that are unconventional or counterintuitive. By doing so, you can build new habits, form new relationships, and create a new identity for yourself. It's the small, intentional actions that add up to make a difference in your life and help you stand out from the crowd. Remember, the average and ordinary people do the opposite of what you should do to separate yourself. So, be intentional, be creative, and be willing to take small but meaningful actions to separate from the former you and become the better version of yourself.

    • Small separators for personal growthConsistently making incremental improvements, rather than massive shifts, leads to personal growth. Visualize future self and create a plan to achieve goals through daily habits and disciplines.

      Separating oneself from the crowd, even in small ways, can lead to significant personal growth. This separation can take many forms, from improving nutrition and fitness to focusing on work during holidays instead of overindulging. The speaker emphasizes that the key to long-term change is making consistent, incremental improvements, rather than trying to make massive, dramatic shifts all at once. He also encourages listeners to visualize their future selves and create a plan to achieve their goals. Ultimately, the willingness to consistently do the things that others do occasionally is what separates the winners from the losers in any endeavor. The speaker encourages listeners to adopt the habits, rituals, and disciplines necessary to make progress every day, even on days when they don't feel motivated or inspired. By focusing on these small separators and making them a part of daily life, individuals can set themselves on a path to growth and success.

    • Consistency and disciplineConsistency and discipline are crucial for success in all areas of life. Discipline enables small, daily improvements that lead to significant differences over time.

      Consistency and availability are key to achieving success, whether it's in personal life or business. Discipline, the ability to do things even when you don't feel like it, sets apart those who make progress from those who don't. It's the small, incremental changes made every day that eventually lead to significant differences. The great ones don't just do things when they feel like it, but they tackle their feared tasks first and maintain momentum. The belief system that you're far away from your goals can perpetuate patterns that keep them out of reach. Instead, sprint the whole race of life, the marathon, and believe in your ability to make progress every day.

    • Mindset for greatnessBe relentless, obsessed, and make daily decisions for greatness in various areas of life, debunking the myth of balance and rejecting limiting beliefs

      There are no mysteries to achieving greatness in various areas of life, such as being a great parent, athlete, or entrepreneur. The key is to be relentless, obsessed, and willing to make small daily decisions that can significantly impact your life. The notion of balance is a fallacy, and focusing on one area of your life doesn't mean another area has to suffer. Instead, magnifying one area can expand and improve others. The lies that hold us back include believing that our dreams are for other people, that greatness is far away, and that expanding one area means suffering in another. By recognizing and rejecting these lies, we can increase our chances of success and become the best versions of ourselves.

    • Identity and life's directionOur beliefs about ourselves, or identity, significantly impact the direction of our lives. Focusing on altering our identity rather than external results can help us control the ultimate destination of our lives.

      Our beliefs about ourselves, or our identity, plays a significant role in shaping our lives. Just like a thermostat regulates the temperature of a room, our identity sets the conditions of our life in various areas. It's essential to work on altering our identity instead of solely focusing on producing external results. Our external circumstances do not dictate the ultimate destination of our lives, but our internal beliefs do. By consistently aligning our thoughts, ideas, and beliefs with our desired identity, we can control the direction and ultimate destination of our lives. It's crucial to remember that external circumstances are not the sole determinant of our lives. Instead, it's an internal game, and our faith, our beliefs, and our identity are what will ultimately shape our lives.

    • Identity and External ConditionsImprove external conditions by altering internal identity, surround yourself with successful individuals and consciously learn from them, or behave differently to shock system and change water line in life

      The key to significantly improving the external conditions of our lives lies in altering our internal thermostat settings. This internal thermostat, or identity, acts as the regulator of our lives, determining the temperature or comfort level we maintain. To raise this temperature and achieve greater success in areas that matter to us, we can make deliberate efforts to surround ourselves with individuals who live at higher temperatures in those areas and consciously learn from them. Another strategy is to behave differently in a short window of time, shocking our system into believing we deserve something new and changing the water line in our lives. By focusing on these methods, we can effectively change our internal thermostat settings and, in turn, transform our external circumstances.

    • Identity and beliefsUpgrading beliefs and identity is crucial for personal growth and success, as our brains work to prove them true. Dropping old thoughts, behaviors, and emotions and telling a new story can lead to creating a new identity.

      Our beliefs and identity play a significant role in shaping our actions and the results we produce. Our brains work to prove our beliefs true, so it's crucial to upgrade our identity with new visions and goals. Additionally, we need to drop old thoughts, behaviors, and emotions that are no longer needed as we strive to become a new version of ourselves. If we're stuck, we may be telling an old story that doesn't serve us anymore. To create a new identity, we must begin to tell a new story and write the next chapter of our lives. Being aware of the power of identity and constantly working to upgrade it will put us in the 1% of people who truly understand this concept.

    • Identity and MindsetStrengthening faith, acknowledging intentions, and surrounding ourselves with positive influences can help raise our internal thermostat and improve overall well-being.

      Our mindset and identity play a significant role in shaping our external circumstances. Just as a thermostat regulates the temperature in a room, our identity sets the temperature for various aspects of our lives, including relationships and finances. To raise this internal thermostat, we can focus on three areas: faith, intentions, and associations. By strengthening our faith, acknowledging our intentions, and surrounding ourselves with positive influences, we can shift our identity and improve our overall well-being. This perspective encourages us to focus on personal growth and development, rather than being helpless to external circumstances.

    • Associations' impact on lifeChoose associations wisely based on emotional maturity and desired qualities to positively impact ourselves and others, and remember our power to rewrite our life's narrative

      The people we surround ourselves with significantly impact our lives. To evaluate if these associations are beneficial, consider their emotional maturity and if they possess qualities we desire or wish to avoid. By focusing on our faith, intentions, and associations, we can elevate our identity and make a positive impact on ourselves and others. Ultimately, we have the power to rewrite our life's narrative and step into the person we're capable of becoming. Remember, we were born to make a difference in the world, and by improving ourselves, we can contribute to others' lives in deeper and more meaningful ways.

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