Stop Overspending on 'Self-Care' in Sobriety: How to Reframe Toxic Spending Habits with Financial Coach Rachel Talks Money

In this episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast, Nadine sits down with Danay Jones, the founder of Sober Girls Houston, for an insightful conversation on the journey to sobriety and the creation of a supportive community for sober women.

We also get into:

1. Life Before Sobriety:
   • Danay opens up about her life before getting sober, sharing personal experiences and challenges she faced while navigating addiction.
2. When the Party is Over:
   • Delving into the realities of addiction, Danay and Nadine discuss the moment when the party lifestyle loses its allure and the journey towards sobriety begins.
3. Founding Sober Girls Houston:
   • Learn about the inspiration behind Sober Girls Houston and how Danay founded this empowering community for women seeking sobriety.
4. The Importance of Representation:
   • Danay and Nadine highlight the significance of Black representation in the sobriety community, discussing the unique challenges and perspectives faced by Black women on their journey to recovery.
5. Supportive Networks:
   • The conversation explores the role of supportive networks in the recovery process, emphasizing the importance of community and connection in maintaining sobriety.
6. Empowering Women:
   • Discover how Sober Girls Houston empowers women to embrace sobriety, fostering a safe and inclusive space for growth, healing, and self-discovery.
7. Looking Ahead:
   • Danay shares her vision for the future of Sober Girls Houston and her ongoing commitment to supporting women on their journey to sobriety.
8. Closing Thoughts:
   • As the conversation comes to a close, Danay and Nadine reflect on the power of vulnerability, resilience, and hope in overcoming addiction and building a brighter future.

Connect with Danay and Sober Girls Houston:

• Website: https://www.sobergirlshouston.com/
• Instagram: @sobergirlshtx @randomly_rude

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Michael Muldoon is a magician turned teacher who is passionate about using his skills to help educators build powerful connections with their students. Michael decided to quit drinking alcohol to  become the best version of himself, utilizing his passion for magic and teaching.

Growing up in  New York City, Michael faced numerous hardships. At a young age, tragedy struck when his family house burned down, leading to struggles in school and a period of truancy as he grappled with the aftermath of the fire.

Amidst the chaos, Michael discovered solace and purpose in magic. The art of illusion became his sanctuary, offering him an escape from the harsh realities of his surroundings. Through dedicated practice and unwavering determination, Michael honed his skills, finding a sense of empowerment and control in the world of magic which led to work with Magicians Without Borders, an organization focused on helping underprivileged youth get off the streets and pursue higher education. Through his work with  Magicians Without Borders, Micheal decided to pursue a career in teaching. Drawing upon his own experiences, he became a beacon of hope and guidance for his students, instilling in them the importance of resilience, perseverance, and self-belief.

Join us as we explore Michael Six Muldoon's inspiring journey from the depths of drinking to the pinnacle of teaching excellence, proving that with determination and courage, anything is possible.

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Connect with Michael:

• Instagram @sixfingermagic
• YouTube @MAGICSIX
• Website sixfingermagic.com

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Join us for an insightful conversation with Sam Bail, the visionary founder behind The Third Place Bar, a revolutionary non-alcoholic popup bar in the heart of NYC. In this episode, we delve into Sam's journey, her perspective on the toxic drinking culture in corporate America, and her fascinating insights on the contrasting drinking cultures between NYC and Germany.

Key Points:

1. The Third Place Bar: Sam Bail introduces us to The Third Place Bar, a haven for those seeking a vibrant social experience without the need for alcohol. Discover the inspiration behind its creation and the vision driving its success in redefining social spaces.
2. Medium Fun vs. Toxic Drinking Culture: Delve into the concept of "medium fun" as Sam elaborates on the pressures of toxic drinking culture prevalent in corporate America. Gain valuable insights into the societal norms surrounding alcohol consumption and the alternative narratives offered by non-alcoholic spaces.
3. NYC vs. Germany Drinking Culture: Sam provides a fascinating comparison between the drinking cultures of NYC and Germany, shedding light on the differing attitudes towards alcohol and socializing. Explore the nuances of these cultural contrasts and their implications on individual lifestyles.
4. Realizations on Drinking: Through personal reflections, Sam shares her journey of self-discovery and realization that drinking never truly made life easier. Hear firsthand accounts of her decision to embrace sobriety and the transformative impact it has had on her life and perspective.

Conclusion:
As we conclude our conversation with Sam Bail, founder of The Third Place Bar, we are left with a profound understanding of the complexities surrounding alcohol consumption and the growing movement towards non-alcoholic alternatives. Join us in embracing a culture of inclusivity and mindfulness as we navigate the realms of socializing and self-discovery, one sober sip at a time.

Connect with Sam

• Follow on Instagram: @thirdplacebarnyc
• Follow on TikTok: @thirdplacebarnyc
• Subscribe to Newsletter: https://www.thirdplacebar.nyc/

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In this episode of "The Sober Butterfly" podcast the millennial money coach Rachel @rachel_talksmoney and host Nadine  discuss  overspending on self-care  in sobriety. Our guest, Rachel @rachel_talksmoney shares invaluable insights and practical tips to strike the right balance between self-care and financial responsibility.

Key Points:

• Introduction to the Importance of Mindful and Intentional Self-Care
• Understanding the Risks of Overspending
• Practical Strategies for Mindful Spending

Connect with Rachel:

• Follow on IG: @rachel_talksmoney
• Follow on TikTok: @rachel_talksmoney
• Rachel's Freebie:
  • https://www.electrifiwealth.com/optin1654273482604

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Tune in to gain valuable insights and learn how to navigate the delicate balance between self-care and financial wellness on your journey to sobriety.

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This episode of The Sober Butterfly podcast explores the profound journey of self-love within the context of sobriety. Join Nadine as she delves into the transformative power of embracing all parts of oneself: the good, the bad, and the ugly, while cultivating compassion, and discovering authentic love in this journey of sobriety.

We also get into:

• Embracing Vulnerability: Acknowledging the challenges and vulnerabilities on the path to sobriety is the first step towards self-love.
• Cultivating Compassion: Learning to treat oneself with kindness and understanding, especially during difficult moments, is essential for nurturing self-love.
• Uncovering Authenticity: Sobriety provides an opportunity to rediscover and embrace one's true self, free from the constraints of addiction.
• Seeking Support: Surrounding oneself with a supportive community and seeking professional help can aid in the cultivation of self-love and sobriety.

To connect with Nadine:

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Resources from the Episode:

• The Love Atiya Experience Podcast - Sober Sex & Healthy Dating Tips with Nadine 
• No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model 
• Sober Toolboxes, But Make Them Sensory 

FREEBIE Guide to Quitting Alcohol - 30 Day Transformation (course)

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This week's episode delves into the captivating journey of my mother's path to sobriety. From Lerene's early memories growing up in the pub culture of 1970s London to navigating the lively party scene of the 1980s, my mother shares her experiences of being a part of an era defined by its social indulgences. My mum reflects on her own journey, where the lines between social drinking and dependency became blurred, leading to moments of introspection and realization. However, it was a profound turning point in her life when her best friend was diagnosed with cancer, serving as a wake-up call that prompted her to reevaluate her relationship with alcohol.

We also get into:

• stressors that perpetuate the "mommy wine culture" 
• if my mum knew I had a drinking problem
• why moderation isn't on the table
• subtle societal cues that normalize drinking

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FREEBIE Beginner’s Guide to Dry January (e-book)

FREEBIE Guide to Quitting Alcohol - 30 Day Transformation (course)

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"We have what you want" is a common expression heard in AA. But what exactly do we (sober people) have that you (others/non-sober people) want? In today's episode, Nadine delves into a nuanced topic – the experience of others being jealous of your sobriety, exploring the implications and ways to navigate this unspoken challenge.

We also get into:
-The three things people are most jealous of and why sober people have these things
-Jealousy versus envy, defining how  to distinguish one of the other
-3 red flags to look for to determine if someone is jealous of your sobriety
-How to pivot and address jealousy in sobriety

Resources mentioned in the episode:
Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown (Amazon)

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In this week's episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, we sit down with Ellie St. Alban, the proud founder and owner of Dry in the Desert, a virtual non-alcoholic bottle shop and events in Phoenix, Arizona. Ellie shares her journey toward sobriety and insights into the challenges and triumphs of running a business in non-alcoholic beverages.

We also discuss:
-The Challenge of Dry January and Its Limitations
-Transitioning from Dry Drunk to Emotional Sobriety
-The Ethics Behind Running a Non-Alcoholic Shop Business
-Why Alcohol-Free Drinks Mimicking the Taste of Alcohol May Be Triggering

To connect with Ellie:

• Website: https://www.dryinthedesert.com/
• Instagram: @dryinthedesert

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FREEBIE Beginner’s Guide to Dry January (e-book)

FREEBIE Guide to Quitting Alcohol - 30 Day Transformation (course)

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Angelica Roberts grew up an avid reader and passionate storyteller with a natural acumen for writing. As a military kid who moved around often, she never felt like she belonged. That is until she attended Florida A&M University (FAMU), a historically black college/university (HBCU) for undergrad. Here, Angelica finally felt she had found a home and a strong sense of community. Still, it was also here that Angelica first started drinking alcohol, which led to years of active addiction and ultimately led to sobriety.

Join us for a conversation that goes beyond the surface, weaving together narratives of resilience, redemption, and the unwavering belief that honesty and faith can pave the way to a fulfilling life after addiction.

We also get into:

• Exploring the complex relationship between artistic torment and alcohol as a means of expression and escape.
• Labeling and stigmas, specifically identifying as an alcoholic
• The importance and necessity of diverse stories in recovery
• The value of forging a connection with your higher power
• How honesty helps you get sober

To connect with Angelica:

Website: https://www.angelicarroberts.com/shop

The Root Cause, Book Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=POtByhnTsj4

Instagram: @Read.Write.Roberts

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Angelica-R-Roberts/author/B0C897G8J4?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

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Prakruti Makan not only brings her personal story of recovery, with almost four years of sobriety from substances like cocaine, alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, and caffeine, but also gems from her professional experience as a sober coach for the Reframe App and former psychotherapist. Prakruti shares unique insights into the process of reframing one's relationship with substances and life experiences in this week's episode.

We also get into...

• Cognitive reframing how to respond to life's curveballs
• Why celebrating monthly milestones in sobriety is important
• The illusion of control
• How to reframe your relationship to substances
• Parenting/dating/relationships in sobriety

Connect with Prakruti 

• Follow on IG: @brownwonderwoman2023
• Follow on TikTok: @brownwonderwoman2023

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