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• Alihendry.co.uk
• Instagram
•  TEDx Survivor’s Guide to Jealousy https://youtu.be/BTtrGxZXWrI?si=voANt0hpmbHvJ8FL 

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Hey friends! We’re going on a journey with Nicoletta Heidegger, therapist, sexologist, and host of the "Sluts and Scholars" podcast, as we chat about the world of non-monogamy on my latest podcast episode. Nicoletta opened up about her 7-year exploration from monogamy to embracing a non-monogamous lifestyle, sharing the raw challenges she encountered along the way. From aligning with partners who share her vision to battling the need to feel "special" and dismantling a scarcity mindset, Nicoletta's story is both vulnerable and profoundly relatable.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Some of the joys and challenges of navigating non-monogamous relationships.
• Some Strategies for overcoming common hurdles in the transition to non-monogamy.
• The importance of building connections with seasoned individuals in the non-monogamous community.
• Techniques for nervous system regulation to achieve relationship harmony.
• The critical role of self-awareness in cultivating healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Want to get in touch with Nicoletta?

• @SlutsonScholars
• @therapywithnicoletta
• https://slutsscholars.libsyn.com/

Resources in this episode

• Check out the book The Polyamory Paradox by Irene Mourning for insights into somatic nervous system healing and finding confidence in non-monogamy.
• Explore the concept of Circles of Sexuality by searching online for resources and tools to understand your sexual narrative, beliefs, and values.
• Learn about equine-assisted psychotherapy and its benefits by researching local therapy centers or practitioners who offer this unique form of therapy.

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In the depths of Orit Krug's personal journey, she discovered an unexpected truth about love and relationships. As she bravely embraced polyamory, she unearthed the transformative power of self-love in navigating the complexities of multiple partners. But just when she thought she had it all figured out, a new challenge emerged, leaving her questioning everything she thought she knew. Stay tuned as Orit's emotional narrative unfolds, revealing the unexpected twist that shifted her perspective on love and self-acceptance.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Explore the nuances of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships for a deeper understanding of diverse connections.
• Experience the transformative power of dance movement therapy in healing past traumas and unlocking emotional freedom.
• Master the art of navigating jealousy in polyamorous relationships to foster trust and emotional resilience.
• Embrace the importance of self-love in polyamory to enhance personal well-being and strengthen relationship dynamics.
• Cultivate a healthy connection with your body to promote self-awareness, confidence, and overall wellness.

Orit Krug is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist who has helped transform the lives of more than 5,000 clients for the past 13 years. Orit specializes in helping individuals & couples strengthen their relationships by working through past trauma stored in the body. As Orit practices polyamory in her own life, she uses her experience and platform to ensure that partners can safely expand beyond normal boundaries, experience deeply satisfying love, and enhance pleasure without sabotage.

Want to connect with Orit? 

• Check out her retreat  https://oritkrug.com/polyamory-retreat
• Visit her website https://oritkrug.com

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Do you desire emotional healing and inner peace in your non-monogamous relationship journey? My guest today will be revealing the key to finding forgiveness and experiencing profound emotional growth. Unlocking the pathway to inner peace and healing is within your reach, and Daisy Sky will show you how to achieve this transformation.

Daisy Sky, a seasoned practitioner of polyamory, has been exploring non-monogamous relationships for over a decade. Describing herself as a chaotic femme, she infuses her gender expression with an element of delightful disorder.

Daisy Sky's journey into polyamory began in her junior year of high school, and since then, she has embraced a relationship anarchy approach. Throughout her experience, she has been an advocate for open communication, mindfulness, and mental health.

Daisy Sky's willingness to share her experiments with monogamy and her ultimate return to a more open way of loving, founded on personal sovereignty and ethical fulfillment, offers a unique and insightful perspective on the challenges and rewards of non-monogamous relationships.

In this episode: 

• Embrace the beauty of polyamorous relationships and their unique dynamics.
• Discover effective strategies for navigating multiple relationships with grace and understanding.
• Overcome scarcity mindset in relationships and cultivate abundance and fulfillment.
• Join a transformative non-monogamy coaching program for support and guidance.
• Explore the forgiveness process and experience deep emotional healing in relationships.

Want to connect with Daisy Sky?
Instagram @Theforgivenessdoula

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If you're feeling suffocated by societal expectations and constantly striving to fit in, then you are not alone! You may already be sacrificing your true self in order to please others, only to find that it's still not enough. You may be experiencing a constant sense of dissatisfaction, despite following the rules and norms that society has set for you. It's time to break free from the cycle of conformity and embrace your unique identity, because the result you're seeking is not found in conformity.

My guest, Sandra Possing, is an advocate for living authentically and embracing non-conformity and the host of the podcast "Oh Hi, Self". With a wealth of personal experience, Sandra has dedicated her life to helping others break free from societal expectations and live on their own terms. Her mission is to empower individuals to create relationships and lifestyles that align with their true selves. Through her open and honest approach, she aims to normalize unconventional relationship dynamics and inspire others to explore beyond traditional boundaries. Sandra's candid and relatable insights make her a valuable voice in the journey towards authenticity and self-discovery.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Embracing Non-Monogamy 
• Living Unconventionally 
• Normalizing Open Relationships 
• Radical Honesty and Boundaries 
• Embracing Change and Permission to Explore 
• Surprising Challenges: Dealing with Jealousy 
• Navigating Jealousy and Self-Judgment  
• Unleashing Inner Feminine Power 
• Honoring Emotions 
• Cathartic Movement and Communication 
• Unique Path in Sexuality 
• Embracing Authenticity and Self-Exploration 
• Relaxing into Who You Are 
• Embracing Wholeness and Inner Peace 
• Permission to Explore and Embrace Unconventional Paths 
  
  

Want to Connect with Sandra?

• www.sandrapossing.com

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Does this sound familiar? You're in a non-monogamous relationship, seeking to improve communication and openness with your partners, but you find yourself hitting roadblocks. Maybe you've been told that the solution is to just talk more, but deep down, you know that's not enough. The pain of feeling misunderstood, disconnected, and unfulfilled is all too real. It's time to break free from ineffective actions and unlock the power of healthy communication and openness, transforming the way you connect with your partners.

Deana Tanner, our guest on this episode, is a dynamic and knowledgeable voice in the world of non-monogamous relationships. With her down-to-earth and relatable style, Deana offers a fresh perspective on the importance of healthy communication and openness. As someone who has personally navigated the complexities of polyamory, Deana brings a wealth of experience and insight to the table. Her warm and friendly approach instantly puts listeners at ease, making her the perfect guide for individuals seeking to improve their relationship dynamics. 

Tune in to this episode for an engaging conversation with Deana Tanner and gain valuable insights into enhancing your own non-monogamous journey.

💨 TLDR;

• Embrace the beauty of polyamory and multiple relationships.
• Discover effective strategies for raising children in non-monogamous relationships.
• Master the art of healthy communication and openness in relationships.
• Unlearn unhealthy relationship patterns for a more fulfilling love life.

📚 The resources mentioned in this episode are: 

•  Listen to episode 16 of the show to hear Deana Tanner's previous interview.
• Check out Deana Tanner's website or social media profiles for more information about her and her businesses. https://healthyhumaning.com/
• Download the BRACE Method https://dashboard.mailerlite.com/forms/527367/101147856025421667/share
• Read Deanna’s Essay on Kids and Partners

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Curious about unconventional triad relationships and BDSM dynamics?

In this episode, we explore Hannah's journey from swinging to polyamory, the challenges of managing multiple partners, and the significance of setting boundaries and valuing personal time. Discover how Hannah copes with the demands of balancing two partners, work, family, and personal time, and the importance they place on clear hierarchy and boundaries within their unconventional triad setup with a BDSM dynamic. We also discuss the emotional impact, self-discovery, and constant learning within non-monogamous relationships. Delve into a candid conversation that emphasizes the ongoing nature of this journey, the rewarding moments, and the transformative power of non-monogamy on personal growth and self-discovery.

Hannah is an Empowerment & Relationship coach, delighting in the fringes of traditional society. Bisexual, Non-monogamous & kinky, she brings the topic of sexuality and taboo out into the light, to help others shift societal shame and live as their true selves. Hannah is a published author and hosts her own podcast "Kinky & Unpopular" which follows her BDSM journey alongside her partner and her submissive, in their triad type dynamic.

💨 TLDR;

• Embrace the freedom of non-monogamous relationships and polyamory to explore deeper connections and personal growth.
• Establish clear boundaries and prioritize personal time to foster healthy and fulfilling relationships within a non-traditional dynamic.
• Overcome the challenges of managing multiple partners by navigating communication and individual needs with compassion and understanding.
• Create a strong foundation for an unconventional triad setup with BDSM dynamics, fostering trust, intimacy, and mutual respect.
• Cultivate the importance of open and honest communication to strengthen connections and promote emotional well-being in non-traditional relationships.

Want to connect with Hannah?
https://desilvacoaching.com

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Brace yourself for an enlightening exploration of non-monogamous relationships, sexual health, and the importance of clear communication. This episode features the insightful Evalene Dacker-MD, who guides us through the intricate world of polyamory, debunking misconceptions and arming us with invaluable advice on navigating these partnerships in a safe manner. We delve into her revolutionary STARS framework that fosters open dialogues about sex, helping individuals to express their desires, set boundaries, and communicate their relationship intentions effectively.

We're not stopping there. The conversation takes a turn towards the often-overlooked issue of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) and the role they play in sexual relationships. Shedding light on the importance of pleasure and owning our bodies, concepts often neglected in traditional sex education, Evalyn provides critical insight on the necessity of regular testing and the misconception that condoms are the only form of protection against STIs. We also tackle the evolving views on common infections like herpes and HPV.

It's time to confront the discomfort around sexuality in the medical field, emphasizing the need to normalize non-monogamy and other forms of sexuality. We discuss the concept of hierarchy and couple privilege, reinforcing the importance of individual choice and non-conformity to societal standards. Laced with personal experiences, our dialogue concludes with an empowering perspective on self-image and compassion. After this episode, you'll be ready to engage in healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationships. Tune in, and let's redefine love together!

Want to connect with Evelin... 

• www.Maketimeforthetalk.com
• www.Evelindacker.com
• Tedx Talk on STARS

📚 Books mentioned: 

• “Polysecure”, by Jessica Fern
• “All About Love”, by Bell Hooks

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Astonishing revelations await as we journey into the realm of desires and sexual fantasies with the luminary, Artemisia De Vine. Imagine peeling back the layers of desire, treading into territories unexplored, and gaining a profound understanding of your own erotic wiring. This is not just about sex or fantasy; it's about self-discovery, connection, and pleasure in its purest form.

Dive into the world of stories; the narratives that fuel our fantasies, the scenarios that make our hearts race, and the characters that come alive in our minds. Let's dissect the power dynamic of predator and prey, a trope common in casual sex encounters, and the subconscious desires that control us more than we realise. The influence of these narratives extends beyond the bedroom to shape our relationships, experiences, and perceptions.

Finally, let's turn up the heat with Artemisia as she delves into the world of sex tips. This isn't just a list of 'do's and 'don'ts'; it's a guide to understanding your and your partner's erotic wiring. From communication to exploration, Artemisia shares insightful tips to help you unlock your desires and enhance your sexual experiences. Get ready to redefine pleasure as we navigate the captivating world of desire.

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Get ready for some real talk about relationships in this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous with guest Lesley Tavernier. We dive deep into the concept of radical responsibility and how it can transform your non-monogamous relationships. Lesley shares her personal journey and sheds light on the importance of not relying on your partner for happiness. Discover how taking control of your own well-being can create a more harmonious and fulfilling connection. If you're looking for practical advice on personal growth and increasing happiness in non-monogamous relationships, this episode is a must-listen!

 Leslie, a love coach, takes us on an enlightening journey through her personal experiences – from growing up in an unofficially non-monogamous household, living with strict monogamy, and finally embracing her true self in the realm of non-monogamy.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Explore the freedom and fulfillment of non-monogamous relationships.
• Challenge societal expectations and create a relationship that works for you.
• Take radical responsibility for your feelings and actions in relationships.
• Learn strategies to navigate and overcome jealousy and insecurity.
• Embrace change and personal growth through non-monogamy.
• Discover new levels of communication, trust, and intimacy in your relationships.
• Find happiness and fulfillment by embracing alternative relationship structures.

As we wrap up our heart-to-heart with Leslie, we address the elephant in the room – the radical responsibility each individual carries in a relationship. Speaking to those with self-esteem tied to their partner's actions, Leslie underscores the power of non-monogamous coaching. We uncover the courage required to admit attractions outside your relationship and the challenges of raising kids in a non-monogamous setting. So buckle up, and get r

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