Terminology Series: Victims in Infidelity

Vulture Cheater [ VC or Vulture ] (NSBT) 

These types of cheaters use the tactics of sexual predators, some Vultures may be actual sexual predators, so be advised.
Like a sexual predator, the vulture cheater hunts and grooms their target/s. The interactions are planned in advance to break a target’s boundaries to have sex with them.

TERM EP25 Vulture Cheater
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Zombie [ ~ ] (NSBT)
Kind of like the zombies in movies, the cheater zombie has changed from a loved one, into a dangerous monster that will eat the heart out of their victims. The cheater’s behaviors and personality have changed into a different person who is unusually cruel. 

And like a movie zombie, they have no empathy or emotions for the pain they cause to their victims. 

TERM EP28 Zombie
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Victim [ ~ ]
Any person’s harmed by cheating, even if they are secondary or third parties to infidelity. Besides the betrayed partner, it includes children, family members, friends, and anyone else caught up in the drama.

This does NOT include the cheaters themselves. There is no version of events or situations in which people who cheat are “victims”! 

TERM EP24 Victims
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Compilation of all terms: People
Version Dec 1, 2022

This compilation has all the episodes, 1~28 in a single 35min, 35sec episode.
These terms are used to describe individuals as well as groups of people as they relate to infidelity.  These are important as they help everyone understand the phrases used in conversations, podcasts, support groups, and therapy.  You may know the feeling, but not the words, this compilation of terms will help the betrayed and even the cheaters themselves if they want to reform themselves from cheating in the future.

Compilation Group A
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Target [ - ]

A person who has caught the interest of a serial cheater, sexual predator, or vulture cheater. This means they will be manipulated into an affair, usually a co-worker but can be a "friend" or neighbor. 

The affair won’t be by accident as the predator is being extra friendly, flirty, or even pitiful to get various emotional responses. 

TERM EP23 Target
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Serial Cheater [ - ]
 A person who cheats while in a committed relationship, past, and present.  They will cheat in future relationships. 

They will involve several Affair partners or sexual partners such as one-night stands and sex workers.

TERM EP22 Serial Cheater
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Reformed Cheater [ Reformed “title” ] (NSBT)
Title = Husband, wife, partner, etc.

A cheater who owns their past behavior and does not repeat the abuse.
Reformed cheaters are champions for the betrayed and will speak out against cheating to others.

TERM EP21 Reformed Cheater
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Potential Affair Partner [ PAP ] (NSBT)
Suspected Affair Partner [ SAP ]  (NSBT)
 
Not an affair yet. But situations or behaviors can lead to one.
Using phrases like “work wife” is very dangerous and unacceptable, saying such things are seeds that lead to affairs.

A suspect who may be in an active affair.  Calling them a SAP is fitting.

TERM EP20A and EP 20B PAP and SAP
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Other Person [ OP ]
Other Man [ OM ]
Other Woman [ OW ] 
 Its when someone of any gender that a cheater is having sex or romancing outside of the committed relationship? These are not Affair Partners. They can be innocent victims themselves or sex workers who are charging for a service. People such as these are not the cause of a person to cheat. This is a sub-set of Other Woman and Other Man.
TERM EP16~18 Other Person, Men and Women  (grouped)
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel

Mistress [ ~ ]
A woman who is in a long-term sexual or romantic relationship with a man who is married to a different woman.
Paramour[ ~ ] AKA manstress AKA boytoy

Is generally the male equivalent of a mistress. "Paramour" is sometimes used, but this term can apply to either cheating male partner in an affair.

TERM EP14~15 Mistress and Paramour cheaters
Category: People

When discussing stories, and articles and talking with clients; knowing the terms related to infidelity is helpful to everyone.

The compilation episodes contain ALL the terms.
This list is about 80  terms, but about half will not be their own episode.  So when you see missing numbers for season 1 (Terminology) it's because such episodes are very short and were not published as individual episodes. Otherwise, there will be several 45~70 second episodes!

The list is also available on the NSB website and Facebook.

The terminology sets are:
A: People
B: Phrases, actions, and behaviors.

Please excuse my voice, I have dyslexia which affects my speech + new to podcasting.   I am improving with every episode.

Website: noshamebetrayed.com
Facebook: facebook.com/noshamebetrayed
YouTube: NSB Channel