The 6 Micronutrients Every New Mum Needs to Know About {S3E10}

How many toys do children really need? Is independent play a good thing? What effect does screentime have on our children?

This and many more questions came up during this week's episode on Raising Healthy Mothers when I chatted to Alexis Ralphs of 100 Toys, ex-primary school teacher, turned stay-at-home-dad, turned toy seller, turned course creator.

I was curious to know how imporant play is as a means to learn and develop in preparation for school, which prompted me to invite Alexis onto the podcast. In the we covered so much more. We discussed...

• How screentime affects children's play – and why they get so argumentative after watching TV
• Whether children actually need toys at all, and what we can do to foster creativity
• The importance of independence play
• Challenging toys vs entertaining toys, and why noisy, light up toys should be thrown in the bin
• How play prepares our children for school

One thing that shone through is Alexis's deep-seated belief in the importance of simple play, making me feel that we have over-complicated play, most likely contributing to parental burnout as they try and keep up with the latest crazes. Reining back and just using what we have around the house helps our children play for longer... and stay younger for longer too.

I loved that Alexis was honest and open about his challenges in play and parenting, despite his background as a teacher and a parent of 4 pre-tweens. It reminded me that no matter how experienced or knowledgeable you are, life is never straightforward as a parent!

Connect with Alexis:

Website | Instagram

Learn more about his courses:

The Good Old Days

You can use the code TASHA on checkout to get 10% off any courses, including the bundle offer of 3, and there's a special offer for all 3 courses for £49 here, which you can still get 10% off using my code.

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• Walking the fine line between setting boundaries in our relationships and accepting wisdom and knowledge from those who have mothered before us
• Martyrdom in motherhood and patriarchy, causing guilt and shame around our basic need for time alone
• How mothers take on the experience of generations of mothers to keep them imprisoned in martyrdom – and the strength it takes to break free
• Finding your own community of support in motherhood and the vulnerability of seeking help
• How supporting your children to take responsibility as a member of the family and learning to set boundaries contributes to easing the pressure of motherhood

• Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne
• The Mindful Mama Regulation Workbook
• Rejuvenation Morning Rituals for Mamas

How much do you talk to your children about where food comes from? This was a question I hadn't thought about much until someone posed a question about separating the imagery of an idyllic farm in the books we read to our children from the realities of animal husbandry.

It got me thinking hard - because as a passionate sustainable meat advocate, I care deeply about my meat.

Where does meat comes from? How is it reared? How has it been treated? Is it healthy to eat? How much should we eat? How is it produced? Is it bad for the environment? These are all questions I have thought about, changed my mind about and grappled with over the years. It is a question that has been close to my heart ever since my Paleo days, when I started becoming interested in food.

So in this episode on Raising Healthy Mothers I'm tackling the issue of how to talk to our children about meat – and realise in the process that it's very little to do with the meat itself and much more to do with our values and what we want our family to value. I discuss...

• The environmental impact of vegan food in agriculture and why it's important to have that conversation too.

• What's really important when it comes to choosing meat, and how to balance different priorities of cost and values

• How I talk to my children about eating meat – and why it's become difficult since moving out of London

• What sustainable animal farming means to me, and the hierarchy of importance according to my personal values

• The wider question of whether sustainable farming can feed the world

• The question of privilege in having a choice about the meat we choose to eat – and whether the choices you might feel forced to make is a short-term one.

This is one of those episodes that might ruffle some feathers as I'm sure many people out there have a different opinion to me. If you do have an opposing view point then I'd love to hear from you – and if you agree with me then let me know too!

Other podcast episodes I refer to:

• {10.4} What the heck is ultra-processed food and what should I do about it?

• {8.4} Eating well on a budget: 6 steps to feed your family without. breaking the bank

• {7.5} Should I continue being vegan?

• {3.3} How to optimise a plant-based diet in motherhood

Recommended Instagram account on sustainable farming: @sustainabledish

I expect this podcast will spark debate so if you have something to add, I'd love to hear from you! DM me on Instagram @tashadcruz or send me an email on tasha@tashadcruz.com with your thoughts and insights into talking about meat with our children.

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Website: https://tashadcruz.com/podcast

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I recently ran a survey on my mailing list to find out what the main struggles are with low energy in motherhood.

The results didn't surprise me - the no.1 issue that comes up is TIME.

Getting to bed early enough, fitting in the activities, procrastination.

And many who did the survey reported these all had a knock on effect on how much they were able to look after themselves. Eating enough, sleeping enough, exercising and seeing friends.

Anxiety came up a lot too - which of course is hugely driven by lack of sleep, lack of nutritious food, lack of good quality relationships.

It's a huge vicious cycle.

So this week on Raising Healthy Mothers I am looking at lack of time in motherhood, reflecting on how we think about our time and how we sub-consciously choose our priorities within the language we use when talking about what we feel we can or can't do.

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Website: https://tashadcruz.com/podcast

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DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on tashadcruz.com is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you may have heard on the podcast or on the website. I may earn commission on shopping links to external sites, e.g. Amazon. This doesn't change the price you pay but gives me a small commission which goes back into keeping the podcast running.

• The three toxic lies keeping you stuck in a cycle of stress, overwhelm and burnout
• Why these lies are so unhelpful
• How to break free of them

How much choice do you really have over what you eat and what you buy for food? Although I've always had an awareness of the importance of eating food tha thas been minimally processed, ideally cooked from scratch, I hadn't considered the role that marketing, advertising and packaging plays in making a food impossible to resist and stop consuming. 

In this episode of Raising Healthy Mothers I take a fresh look at ultra processed food thorugh the lens of the intention of the food as well as the ingredients in it that make it ultra processed. 

In the episode I talk about...

• What is a UPF?
• How to recognise and spot a UPF
• The top 3 UPF shockers you're probably buying on a regular basis
• How to reduce UPF without losing your mind
• Why you shouldn't become obsessive about it

Almost 10 years ago I bought my first Fitbit. I bought it because I wanted to track whether I was doing 10k steps a day. It worked really well - I would often find myself heading out for an extra walk at lunchtime.

But I found all the options for tracking overwhelming, and I especially found the sleep information disturbing. I would sometimes wake up feeling like I'd had an amazing night's sleep, check my Fitbit, only to be told  I'd had only actually had 30 minutes of restful sleep.

10 years on and the options for tracking is phenomenal. Even without buying any fancy equipment - your phone alone can tell you a lot about how you are supposed to be doing with your health. And there's more and more gamification in completing your health data, making it even more compulsive.

But is all this information a good thing? Does it actually help? Is all this tracking making us healthier? Is it empowering to know so much about yourself...or do you end up feeling enslaved?

In this episode I discuss this very question - and realise that it’s really not black and white at all! I talk about…

• The Zoe programme and what I think about it

• How tracking can lead to obsession and more anxiety around our health

• The problem with tracking only one aspect of your health

• What I tell my clients not to track

• How our children can inspire us to be instinctive in how we treat our bodies

• What you could track to gain clues into your wellbeing

I am opening up space for two 1:1 clients on a 3 month programme from February. Over the 3 months we’ll take a deep dive into your health challenges and make a plan together to get you out the other side with oodles of energy. To talk through whether it’s right for you, book in for a chat here.

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Website: https://tashadcruz.com/podcast

Loved this episode? Leave a review and rating on Apple Podcast.

Want more energy and motivation? To get yourself on the way to springing out of bed in the mornings, download my free guide: Ten Daily Strategies to Unlock More Energy.

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DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on tashadcruz.com is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you may have heard on the podcast or on the website. I may earn commission on shopping links to external sites, e.g. Amazon. This doesn't change the price you pay but gives me a small commission which goes back into keeping the podcast running.

Children have the incredible power to help us step into the here and now. They very much live in the moment, often have an instinctive need to be in nature and are excellent at knowing how much food and sleep they personally need - with little consideration for what you, the parent, need.

In this week's episode of Raising Healthy Mothers I have a fascinating conversation on why we often start instinctively tuning in to nature and the seasons of the year when we become mothers, and why it can help us parent more effectively.

This ended up being a wide-ranging conversation where we discussed...

• Why the start of the year isn't great for resolutions but is a wonderful time for intentions

• Winter as a time for introspection, meditation and contemplation

• The periods of our lives where we need more rest – and when to let go of a morning routine

• How to embrace the dark of winter by allowing ourselves to take it slow

• Why embracing the seasonality of food helps to remain in alignment with our natural rhythms

Sometimes the interviews I do on this podcast feel like I'm having a cosy cup of tea with a kindred spirit while you get to listen in. This was one of those conversation, and I hope you found as much wisdom and comfort from it as I did!

Resources mentioned:

Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May

Find Aja:

Website | Instagram

Connect with me: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tashadcruz
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tashadcruznutrition
Website: https://tashadcruz.com/podcast

Want more energy and motivation? To get yourself on the way to springing out of bed in the mornings, download my free guide: Ten Daily Strategies to Unlock More Energy.

#raisinghealthymothers

DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on tashadcruz.com is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you may have heard on the podcast or on the website. I may earn commission on shopping links to external sites, e.g. Amazon. This doesn't change the price you pay but gives me a small commission which goes back into keeping the podcast running.

Welcome back to Raising Healthy Mothers for Season 10!