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    • Igniting interest in science through diverse experiencesPeople's curiosity towards science can be sparked through various means, including pop culture and personal experiences, even if it wasn't a focus in their earlier years.

      People's interest in science can be ignited through various means, even if it wasn't a part of their upbringing or education. Kevin Smith, a filmmaker and comic book fanatic, shared his personal story of growing up close to the American Museum of Natural History but never having visited until recently. He admitted that his lack of curiosity towards science was due in part to his Catholic upbringing, which provided answers to the mysteries of the universe through faith. However, his interest in science was sparked through pop culture, particularly science fiction. This illustrates how diverse experiences and influences can lead individuals to develop a passion for science, even if it wasn't a focus in their earlier years.

    • Exploring the intersection of science and fantasyDespite a past struggle with science, Kevin Smith found a unique way to incorporate it into his love for pop culture, creating a successful career and a unique perspective on the relationship between science and religion.

      Kevin Smith, despite his admission of struggling with math and science in the past, has shown a unique way of incorporating real science into his love for pop culture, particularly in the realm of sci-fi. His lack of initial curiosity in science doesn't define him, as he has managed to make a successful career out of exploring the intersection of science and fantasy. Smith's perspective on science not being inherently in conflict with religion, and his humorous take on everyday scientific phenomena, highlight his unique perspective and appreciation for both the real and unreal worlds.

    • Exploring the Power of Scientific CuriosityScientific curiosity drives us to seek answers, challenge our understanding, and uncover the wonders of the universe, as shown by Hydro Man's water powers and Kevin Smith's fascination with antimatter.

      Scientific curiosity is a powerful driving force, leading us to explore the unknown and discover amazing facts about the universe. As discussed, Hydro Man from the Marvel universe showcases the effectiveness of water as a weapon, leading to questions about real-world applications and scientific phenomena. Kevin Smith's curiosity about science was sparked when he realized the existence of antimatter, a discovery that predates science fiction. The feeling of scientific curiosity is described as a gradual process of hard work and excitement, culminating in the discovery of something new and awe-inspiring. Antimatter, with its potential for annihilation and energy release, poses a challenge in terms of containment and potential weaponization. Ultimately, scientific curiosity drives us to seek answers, challenge our understanding, and uncover the wonders of the universe.

    • Science and fiction intersect in creating superhero backstoriesAstrophysicists contributed real scientific knowledge to Superman's home planet, Krypton, demonstrating the potential for science to enhance fiction and deepen our understanding of both worlds.

      The boundary between science and fiction can blur, as seen when an astrophysicist was able to contribute real scientific knowledge to the creation of a superhero's backstory. Kevin Smith, a comic book writer and superhero superfan, shared a story about how the astrophysicist helped identify a star for Superman's home planet, Krypton. This wasn't just a fun anecdote, but a meaningful contribution to the lore of the character. The astrophysicist was able to use his expertise to explain how Krypton might have exploded based on the principles of physics, showing that the science behind superheroes can be just as fascinating as the stories themselves. This intersection of science and fiction opens up opportunities for new discoveries and a deeper understanding of both worlds.

    • Superheroes inspire scientific curiosity with their fantastical elementsSuperheroes' exaggerated physics and fictional materials can inspire real-life scientific curiosity and innovation, making complex concepts accessible and leading to potential advancements in technology and space travel.

      The exaggerated physics of superheroes can help distill the coolness factor of science, making complex concepts accessible to everyone. For instance, Superman's connection to the Corvus constellation is a real astronomical fact. Another intriguing application of fictional materials like Vibranium, as seen in Captain America's shield, could be harnessing their abilities to absorb impact and launch spacecraft from anywhere, making space travel more accessible. These examples show how the fantastical elements of superheroes can inspire real-life scientific curiosity and innovation.

    • The appeal of comic books among adults lies in their scientific elements and fantastical natureComic books gained mainstream popularity due to scientific superheroes like Spider-Man, Fantastic Four, and Hulk, transforming disposable media into cherished pop culture.

      The popularity of comic books among adults is rooted in the scientific elements of the stories and the cultural shift towards appreciating the unnatural and fantastical in a relatable way. According to filmmaker Kevin Smith, comic books were once seen as a niche interest, but with the rise of Marvel and DC superheroes, whose origins were based in science and the unknown, the genre gained mainstream appeal. Characters like Spider-Man, the Fantastic Four, and the Hulk, who gained their powers through scientific means, captured the imagination of the public during the Post-World War II era. The fans' passion for these stories transformed disposable media into a cherished and indispensable part of pop culture.

    • Science and Fiction's Symbiotic RelationshipFrom gamma rays inspiring Hulk to microbiome's everyday impact, science and fiction influence each other profoundly. Scientists like James Kokkalios ensure accuracy in superhero stories, while scientific discoveries may inspire new fictional elements.

      Science and fiction have a symbiotic relationship. From fiction inspiring scientific discoveries to science providing the foundation for imaginative stories, they influence each other in profound ways. For instance, gamma rays gave us the Hulk, and particle accelerators might be the Flash. But not all scientific discoveries are sexy or story-worthy. Take the microbiome, for example, which is now a part of our everyday lives, inspiring probiotics and digestive solutions. Moreover, scientists like James Kokkalios bridge the gap between science and fiction, ensuring accuracy in superhero stories. His favorite example is the theory behind Thor's hammer, which emits gravitons when unworthy people attempt to lift it, increasing the hammer's weight to balance out the lifting force. When it comes to Wonder Woman, her powers stem from her Amazonian goddess status, granting her great strength, reflexes, and the ability to deflect bullets with her bracelets. The metal of the bracelets is not specified in the text, leaving room for imagination and potential scientific explanations.

    • Longing for simpler times and childhood memories through comic books and pop cultureComic Con and similar events transport us back to a simpler time, providing a sense of nostalgia and connection to childhood memories, while also offering moral lessons.

      The fascination with comic books and pop culture, as exemplified by events like Comic Con, represents a longing for simpler times and a connection to childhood memories. The science behind everyday things, from making breakfast to using technology, was explored in depth in James Gladstone's new book, "The Physics of Everyday Things." Regarding the seemingly superhuman abilities of comic book characters, such as Wonder Woman's bullet-deflecting bracelets, a suspension of disbelief is required, as no known material can withstand the compressive pressure involved without granting a one-time miracle exemption from the laws of nature. The appeal of Comic Con and similar events lies in their ability to transport attendees back to a time when life seemed simpler and more enjoyable. The peaceful nature of Comic Con attendees may be attributed to this nostalgia, as well as the moral lessons often found in comic books.

    • The power of superheroes to change heartsSuperheroes, with their ability to inspire change, symbolize the power to make a positive impact on people's lives and the world

      The world of comic books and superheroes, as represented by Comic Con attendees, values not just the celebrity aspect but also the content creators. Kevin Smith, a superfan and creator himself, believes that the greatest power a superhero could have is the ability to change a person's heart, focusing on rehabilitation rather than punishment. This idealism present in the comic book community is profound, as it encourages empathy and understanding instead of violence and conflict. This perspective is not only applicable to superheroes but also to real-life situations. By changing people's hearts, we can make a positive impact on their lives and the world around us.

    • Choosing happiness and optimism despite negativityFocus on creation, positivity, and impacting the world, rather than negativity and destruction.

      The science of positivity is about choosing happiness and optimism despite self-doubts and negative influences. It's about focusing on creation rather than destruction and surrounding oneself with a supportive community. The science of positivity is not just about feeling good, but also making a difference and impacting the world. It's important to remember that negativity is a constant presence in life, but it doesn't have to control us. Instead, we can choose to turn on the voice of positivity and focus on the good things in life. This doesn't mean ignoring criticism or challenges, but rather approaching them with a positive attitude and a commitment to creating something new and valuable. The science of positivity may not be a formal scientific field, but it's a powerful tool for living a fulfilling and meaningful life. And, as Carl Sagan reminds us, it's the geeks, the creators, the innovators, who will inherit the earth.

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    1.Curiosity is the late bloomer's fuel

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    2. We are predisposed to be compassionate

    "In facing the ups and downs of life, many late bloomers gain a greater sense of compassion. They show greater reflective thinking, diminished ego-centeredness, and a deeper appreciation of others' challenges."

    Because late bloomers have faced struggles along the way, have refrained from conforming at the expense of our social connections and acceptance into "the group", we can more easily put ourselves into the shoes of others, we are more empathetic.

    3.Better leadership skills are developed

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    4. Resilience is developed and strengthened

    "When it comes to developing resilience, the regulation of emotions gives mature people an advantange over the young: 'There is a naturally learnable set of behaviors that contribute to resilience. Those are the behaviors that we gravitate to more and more as we age'."

    5. Emotion regulation is easier which cultivates a calmer demeanor which leads to more effectiveness and better relationships

    "Our brains are driven to seek calmness as we age. Columnbia University social psychologist Heidi Grant Halvorson claims that calmness is central to happiness . . . research has long established that calm leaders are more effective".

    Late bloomers naturally develop the skills necessary to find calmness if we choose to keep exploring, learning, listening and observing what works and what does not. This is where our curiosity helps tremendously leading us to the blooming stage of our lives that is authentic and unique to each of us.

    6. Extensive insight

    "Our insights are the result of us drawing on our full mental library of experience, patterns, and context, yielding an idea of extraordinary value."

    Karlgaard explains that "the right hemisphere [of the brain] matures in childhood; the development of the left is consistent with the development of the prefrontal cortex, which is not fully mature until the mid-twenties". Due to the left-side's difference in development compared to the right, it takes time for us to see the connection of the awesome or unique events, sights and experiences of our lives and make sense of how we can utilize them in our unique way.

    7. Navigation of life's ambiguity becomes easier

    "Perhaps this is the perfection defintion of wisdom: reasoning and cognition based on knowledge and experience".

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    8. More easily determine what's important versus what's trivial

    To piggy-back onto #7, because we have acquired knowledge about the world over time and have made the conscious choice to continue to learn, we are then better at discern patterns faster and jump to logical solutions more quickly.

    9. A desire to cut the apron strings with your parents

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    10. Adult peer pressure is real, and if you've felt it and tried successfully or not to not succumb, you may be a late bloomer

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    12. Letting go of comparisons

    "Mass media ask us to compare our body shape, sex life, marriage, house, car, family and community to unattainable television versions of perfection. Social media ask us to compare our own commonplace or even boring reality against the curated accounts of how absoutely wonderful someone else's life is — people we know!"

    When we stop comparing and start celebrating, we liberate ourselves and enable the opportunity to observe our own awesomeness without the outside world's close-minded criticism or limited acceptance.

    The author shared something that I think is worth sharing here as a reminder that there are many paths to success, to reaching a goal, to attaining contentment. He writes, "There are always many ways to achieve a goal, gain expertise, or find success. In sports or music, they are easy to see . . . But it's not as easy to see multiple paths for success in most endeavors . . . [which leads to confusion. As a result,] we default to following norms and take the road everyone else is taking". And these paths to success have as much to do with professional "success" as well as personal "success". Your definition of a life of contentment, as I have said many times before on the blog and in my books, will most likely be very different than mine, but that doesn't mean we both cannot feel the contentment that is spoken about and written about that provides deep satisfaction and peace.

    It is important that we all recognize that each of us will bloom at a different time.

    "Each of us deserves the opportunity to bloom in our own way."

    When we do this there are many invaluable benefits:

    1.We protect ourselves, and others we encourage to bloom, in our own time from the consequences of disappoitnment or failure. (this doesn't mean there won't be bumps along the way, but it reminds us that it takes time to understand where we are headed and why)

    2.We learn how to work with self-doubt and let it be our superpower.

    "To bloom, we all must learn not to fear self-doubt but to embrace it as a normally occurring opportunity for growth and improved performance . . . The key to harnessesing self-doubt starts at the very core of our individual beliefs about ourselves . . . self-efficacy".

    3. We strengthen our self-efficacy

    Self-efficacy is an individual's confidence in their ability to accomplish what they set out to do.

    4. Obstacles begin to be seen as opportunities to grow rather than road-blocks

    "While you may feel a general sense of self-doubt . . . [you] proceed anyway".

    5. Improved positive self-talk

    "Positive self-talk can improve our performance by helping us regulate our emotions, thoughts and energy".

    When we begin to see skill-sets that render positive results, we are more likely to invest in them. For example, positive self talk leads to more confidence, a strengthening our self-efficacy and thus improved performance with whatever task is in front of us. And so we continue to practice positive self-talk and it becomes stronger with this skill rendering more positive outcomes.

    6. Stronger, healthier relationships

    When you bloom, gravitate toward those who celebrate your blooming, and for those who initially are not, give them a moment to understand why your blooming makes them uncomfortable. Depending upon the person, they may not realize that their discomfort with your growth is a reflection of their disappointment in what they feel they could have achieved but didn't. This is all about them. Some will grow from this and remain in your life, others will not, and you will need to move on. But all of the skills you have acquired and applied will help lead you toward building not only healthier relationships with others, but a healthier, less critical relationship with yourself.

    7. Excellence will arrive when you let your curiosity take over

    "When [curiosity takes over], a sense of exploration also takes over. I get in the zone, and I go for it. I feel pulled, not pushed — pulled by a beautiful power I cannot explain."

    8. The courage to repot when necessary

    "When it comes to repotting, late bloomers have a distinct advatnage over early bloomers. We're naturally curious and resilient. We're not afraid to follow a different path or break free of convention. We genuinely want to see what's around the corner or over the hill. These late bloomer strengths enable —even propel— the change we need to find the right people and the right place to help us thrive."

    Once you have a clearer understanding of who you are and what cultures and communities are best suited for you to bloom, you will have strengthened, as was mentioned above in the first list, an awesome skill set. This skill set will be your bedrock for being able to repot when and if it is necessary.

    "We need to give ourselves a break. We need to recognize and celebrate the fact that we're all different, with different skill sets, developmental profiles and backgrounds and that each of us will forge a different path toward blooming."

    Being a late bloomer is most certainly something to celebrate, and when we "change our story, we can change our behavior and even our life".

    Let me leave you with this lasting thought from the book that resonately powerfully with me:

    "If we're not forced to conform to standard timetables for success, we can —and will—bloom on our own schedules. And we can do it with a deeper sense of mission and a greater feeling of contentment. What we accomplish in the marathon of life depends on our persistence, our patience, and an ability to see ourselves as we really are. Our cultural obsession with youthful talent, with early achievement, distracts us from this simple truth. . . . our late bloomer power is different. It is the power to renounce what's supposed to happen in life and intead embrace what actually happens in life, with its ups and downs, twists and turns. It's the power to explore and experience, to be an individual. It's the power that comes with knowing and valuing ourselves."

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