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    The Wedding Bar: Consumption vs Open Bar

    en-usAugust 11, 2021
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    About this Episode

    Whether you are having alcohol or not, there are decisions to make when it comes to beverages at your wedding. The kinds of bars we touch on are:

    • Hourly per person (open or limited bar)  - by the hour or a package rate 
    • Hourly per person (open or limited bar)
    • Hosted bars aka Consumption Bars (open or limited bar)
    • Cash Bar (open or limited bar)
    • Signature or specialty drink Bar (can be by the gallon or per pour)
    • Wine Service

    We also tackle the questions that you should be asking your caterer, bar service or venue food & beverage manager.

    About my co-host Renee Sabo: Renée's lifelong love affair with weddings started out as a high school dream that quickly evolved as she pursued a career in the industry throughout college and beyond. From rentals to planning to catering, her diverse experience has touched every corner of the industry and has led to her role as a multifaceted thought leader for event professionals everywhere.

    Inspired to start her own business, Renée received her MBA with a focus in entrepreneurship and quickly put her degree to work when she launched Urban Soirée® in 2017. Today, her award-winning company delivers elevated and romantic celebrations through full-service wedding planning and design for couples on the East Coast and destinations worldwide. Renée’s success with Urban Soirée® has earned her and her company numerous accolades, including being named as the Best of Boston® 2020 – Best IRL Wedding Planner by Boston Magazine. She was also recognized as ILEA Boston’s Top Planner in 2019 and has ranked in WeddingWire’s Couples’ Choice Awards for three consecutive years since opening her doors.


    Places to go - People to see:

    Kelly's Site: http://www.kellymcwilliams.com

    Kelly's Blog: https://www.kellymcwilliams.com/blog
    Instagram: @kellyamcwilliams @thisvsthatweddingpodcast

    Lance's Website: https://www.mydfwdj.com/

    Lance's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mydfwdj/

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    Places to go - People to see:

    Kelly's Site: http://www.kellymcwilliams.com
    Kelly's Blog: https://www.kellymcwilliams.com/blog
    Instagram: @kellyamcwilliams


    About Kelly:
    Kelly knows how incredible a well planned wedding can be. Every moment counts and every decision plays a part. Wedding planning should be fun and as easy to do as possible. Besides planning weddings, Kelly travels the globe as an industry speaker. Kelly is a Martha Stewart Top Wedding Planner & this podcast won Brides magazine and WeddingWire's best podcast.

    Need a little help planning your wedding?

    The Getting Ready Room List (ON SALE NOW)

    Wedding Song Ideas: Spotify Playlist Included! (ON SALE NOW)

    Download the Wedding Spending Plan

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    About Kelly:
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