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    Transcending the Self with Dr. David Yaden

    enMay 25, 2020
    What are self transcendent experiences according to psychologists?
    How do self transcendent experiences affect well-being?
    What role do mindfulness and meditation play in personal growth?
    Who are some notable figures that reported transcendent experiences?
    How can scientific exploration enhance our understanding of these phenomena?

    Podcast Summary

    • Exploring the value of self transcendent experiencesSelf transcendent experiences decrease self-focus and increase connection to others and the world, leading to long-term changes in well-being.

      Self transcendent experiences, as defined by psychologists like Abraham Maslow and William James, involve a decrease in self-focus and an increase in feelings of deep connection to others and the world around us. These experiences, which can range from daily moments to transformative events, have been studied by experts like David Yaden, who explores their biology and psychology to understand how they can lead to long-term changes in well-being. By examining these experiences and making them more understandable, researchers can help us appreciate the value of moments that transcend our individual selves. To learn more about self transcendent experiences and their potential impact on our lives, tune in to the Being Well podcast and join the conversation.

    • Exploring Self-Transcendent ExperiencesOne in three people have had a major self-transcendent experience, involving connectedness and self-loss. Practice a more permeable sense of self and world for everyday absorption and awe.

      Self-transcendent experiences come in various forms, from everyday moments like flow and mindfulness, to more intense and profound experiences like peak or mystical moments. These experiences share common themes of connectedness and self-loss. Research suggests that about one in three people have had a major self-transcendent experience. These experiences can be thought of as the wall between self and the world becoming increasingly porous. While not all of us may have had a full-blown, life-changing experience, we can practice cultivating a more permeable sense of self and world in our everyday lives. These experiences can range from the deeply absorbing to the awe-inspiring, and they offer a glimpse into what could potentially lie beyond ordinary reality. It's important to remember that these experiences are not a sign of psychosis, but rather a sense of the world flooding through us, bringing a greater sense of interconnectedness and meaning to our lives.

    • Experiences of oneness and connection to the worldOneness experiences, despite historical stigma, are valid and meaningful, bringing feelings of love, unity, and renewed sense of wonder

      Experiences of oneness or feeling deeply connected to the world around us are not necessarily signs of psychopathology, despite historical perspectives suggesting otherwise. These experiences, which can be profound and transformative, are reported by a substantial number of people and should be recognized as valid and meaningful. While they can be difficult to describe and may feel sacred or precious, they can also bring about feelings of love, unity, and a renewed sense of wonder and possibility. Freud's theory that these experiences are repressed memories of being in the womb is now widely discredited, but the stigma attached to them persists. It's important to approach these experiences with openness and curiosity, rather than fear or dismissal.

    • Exploring the profound impact of spiritual or mystical experiencesSpiritual or mystical experiences, regardless of worldview, can significantly impact individuals' lives and provide psychological value, with researchers studying their neural and physiological mechanisms using an agnostic approach.

      Profound, meaningful experiences, often referred to as spiritual or mystical, can significantly impact individuals' lives, regardless of their worldview. These experiences, which can be induced by psychedelic substances or spontaneously occur, are rated among the most meaningful moments in someone's life. Although these experiences happen inside the mind and often defy explanation, researchers are exploring the neural and physiological mechanisms behind them using an agnostic, material frame approach. Notable figures like Bertrand Russell, an atheist philosopher, have reported having such experiences and interpreting them within their worldview. These experiences, while not tied to any specific metaphysical assumptions, can provide significant psychological value.

    • Brain regions linked to spiritual experiencesResearch suggests brain's parietal lobe plays role in spiritual experiences, leading to increased self-transcendence and deeper connection to reality.

      Certain experiences of unity and self-transcendence, often described as spiritual or mystical, have been linked to specific areas of the brain, particularly the parietal lobe. Research suggests that these regions may be involved in processing the body in space and understanding self-other boundaries. People who have had these experiences, whether through meditation or other means, often report increased self-transcendence and a deeper connection to reality. While more research is needed to fully understand the underlying causes and conditions, it's clear that these experiences can have a profound impact on people's lives, leading to positive changes in behavior and emotions. Additionally, frameworks like neurodharma and the heal framework can provide valuable insights into how to induce and make use of these experiences for personal growth and well-being.

    • Framework for internalizing beneficial experiencesThe HEAL framework (have, enrich, absorb, link) helps in internalizing beneficial experiences, and daily practices like mindfulness, awe, and flow can lead to self-transcendent experiences for overall well-being.

      Beneficial experiences, whether naturally occurring or induced by psychedelics, can lead to personal growth when deliberately internalized. The HEAL acronym - have, enrich, absorb, and link - provides a framework for this process. People have embodied new ways of being after realizing them, and integrating these experiences into daily life is essential for long-term benefits. The notion of "sudden awakening, gradual cultivation" highlights the importance of making these experiences a part of our lives and not just forgetting about them. Research will focus on helping individuals integrate transformative experiences into their lives for continued growth. Daily practices like mindfulness, awe, and flow can also lead to self-transcendent experiences that contribute to overall well-being.

    • Embracing small moments for holistic wellnessTaking care of oneself through self-care practices and seeking practical resources can significantly improve mental and physical well-being.

      Allowing small moments of relaxation and self-care in our daily lives can significantly improve our mental and physical well-being. Rick's metaphor of the wall coming down between oneself and the world resonates with the importance of mindfully planning for these moments. For instance, taking care of our skin, like using OneSkin's simple and effective OS01 face topical peptide, can lead to greater confidence and overall wellness. Furthermore, seeking practical advice and resources, such as the Doctor John DeLaney show or the ZOE Science and Nutrition podcast, can provide valuable insights into improving our emotional and physical health. Interestingly, David, as a researcher, suggested that people generally don't need to actively seek spiritual experiences, but instead focus on the everyday moments that contribute to overall well-being. Overall, this discussion highlights the importance of embracing small, meaningful actions in our daily lives to promote holistic wellness.

    • Exploring profound spiritual experiencesProfound spiritual experiences can bring benefits but also risks. Openness to experience and practices like prayer and meditation can increase the likelihood. Approach with care and respect.

      The experiences of profound spiritual or transformative events are complex and multifaceted, and they require careful consideration and respect. While these experiences can be incredibly beneficial and even life-changing, they also carry potential risks and challenges. As a researcher, it's important to explore healthy ways to engage with these experiences, as well as identify contraindications and potential dangers. These experiences are beyond the scope of typical psychological interventions, and they involve engaging with powerful psychological forces. People who are more open to experience and have a high capacity for absorption are more likely to have these experiences. Practices such as prayer and meditation can also increase the likelihood of having these experiences. It's essential to approach these experiences with care and respect, recognizing both their potential benefits and risks.

    • Exploring mystical experiences scientificallyRelaxing self and opening to world can reduce feelings of isolation, provide insights, and lead to personal growth

      While some experiences, such as those described as mystical or transcendent, have been historically trivialized and even pathologized, it is valuable to approach them with a scientific and rational perspective. These experiences, which involve a relaxation of the sense of self and an increased sense of openness and connection to the world, can be beneficial in reducing feelings of isolation and separation. The scientific exploration of these phenomena, while not able to fully grasp their metaphysical or spiritual components, can still provide valuable insights and measurement. Practicing a balance of self-relaxation and openness to the world can lead to personal growth and alignment with various traditional beliefs. Additionally, the speaker suggests considering practices to cultivate these qualities, such as mindfulness or meditation.

    • The importance of self-transcendent experiences and connection for personal well-beingNew research highlights the significance of connection in self-transcendent experiences for personal well-being. Listen to oneself and be open to changing perspectives.

      Self-transcendent experiences, which involve both the loss of self and the sense of connection to others, are crucial for personal well-being. This intersection of annihilation and relational components was a topic of debate between the speaker and their wife, with the wife arguing that the relational aspect is the more significant contributor to well-being. The speaker initially believed that ego loss was the primary factor, but new research has confirmed the importance of connection. The speaker encourages listening to oneself and being open to changing perspectives when presented with new information. As Dogen, a Zen teacher, once said, "To study the way is to study the self. To study the self is to forget the self. To forget the self is to perceive oneself as all things." If the speaker could go back in time and talk to their younger self, they would emphasize the importance of connection and the benefits of embracing the relational aspect of self-transcendent experiences.

    • Exploring self transcendent experiencesSelf transcendent experiences involve openness, losing self, meaningful connections, intellectual growth, personal development, and lasting impacts. Kindness, perseverance, and recognizing we're not alone contribute to these experiences.

      Self transcendent experiences, which involve openness to others and a sense of losing individual self, can bring about meaningful connections and a sense of closeness to the world around us. Being kind, persevering through challenges, and recognizing that we're not alone in our experiences are important aspects of life that can contribute to these experiences. Self transcendent experiences, whether small or profound, can lead to intellectual growth and personal development, and can even have lasting impacts on our lives. Research suggests that people who have these experiences tend to have a high level of openness and absorption. While the science behind self transcendent experiences is still emerging, it's an intriguing field that offers insights into the human mind and our connection to the world.

    • Transformative experiences and their impact on lifeIndividuals with a deep connection to books, synesthetes, or those who have transformative experiences, whether secular or spiritual, can lead to positive impacts on life. Applying the lessons from these experiences through Rick's HEAL model creates lasting change.

      Certain individuals, including those who are deeply engrossed in books, synesthetes, or those who experience a closer connection to others, are more likely to have transformative experiences. These experiences, whether secular or spiritual in nature, can lead to positive impacts on one's life. However, it's crucial to learn from these experiences and apply the lessons to create lasting change, as per Rick's HEAL model. So, if you've found value in this podcast, please consider subscribing, rating, or leaving a positive review to help spread the word. Ultimately, these experiences can enrich our lives if we choose to learn from them.

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    • The importance of building a vision of self-love for you via journaling or a visual.
    • The importance of creating an action plan the next time you start having mean thoughts about yourself.

     

    Resources:

     

    Partners:

    Encore: Living in a Mindful Universe: A Conversation with Dr. Eben Alexander, author of Proof of Heaven

    Encore: Living in a Mindful Universe: A Conversation with Dr. Eben Alexander, author of Proof of Heaven

    In 2008, Dr. Eben Alexander’s brain was severely damaged by a devastating case of bacterial meningitis, and he lapsed into a week-long coma. It was almost certainly a death sentence, but Dr. Alexander miraculously survived – and brought back with him an astounding story (told in his best-seller Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife). During seven days in coma, he was plunged into the deepest realms of consciousness, and came to understand profound truths about the universe we inhabit. What he learned completely violated everything he ever knew about brain, mind and consciousness, and drove him to question some of the most fundamental assumptions of conventional science, leading to a complete flip from his former worldview.

     

    The entire scientific community is facing a similar conundrum: how to explain that consciousness is merely a byproduct of the brain when overwhelming evidence suggests otherwise. Ultimately, direct experience is key to fully understanding how we are all connected through the binding force of unconditional love and its unlimited power to heal.  Dr. Alexander will speak about his experience since his NDE and his observations about consciousness, mindfulness, healing and love.

    Living in a Mindful Universe: A Conversation with Dr. Eben Alexander, author of Proof of Heaven

    Living in a Mindful Universe: A Conversation with Dr. Eben Alexander, author of Proof of Heaven

    In 2008, Dr. Eben Alexander’s brain was severely damaged by a devastating case of bacterial meningitis, and he lapsed into a week-long coma. It was almost certainly a death sentence, but Dr. Alexander miraculously survived – and brought back with him an astounding story (told in his best-seller Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife). During seven days in coma, he was plunged into the deepest realms of consciousness, and came to understand profound truths about the universe we inhabit. What he learned completely violated everything he ever knew about brain, mind and consciousness, and drove him to question some of the most fundamental assumptions of conventional science, leading to a complete flip from his former worldview.

     

    The entire scientific community is facing a similar conundrum: how to explain that consciousness is merely a byproduct of the brain when overwhelming evidence suggests otherwise. Ultimately, direct experience is key to fully understanding how we are all connected through the binding force of unconditional love and its unlimited power to heal.  Dr. Alexander will speak about his experience since his NDE and his observations about consciousness, mindfulness, healing and love.

    012 2 Brain Hacks For Brilliant Problem Solving

    012 2 Brain Hacks For Brilliant Problem Solving

    Did you know the brain in your head  is the most complex and sophisticated object in the ENTIRE universe?! And yet, when it comes to solving problems, we don’t leverage the full potential of our thinking machines (talk about missed opportunities!)

    Most people don’t know how to access higher function thinking when faced with a challenge, even though we have a direct line to divine wisdom, a killer intuition, and are more capable of solving problems than we think. Today, I’ll share two brain hacks that will give helpful structure to your creative thinking process and turn you into an unstoppable problem solver.

    What You'll Learn:

    - How to see problems as an opportunity to build mental resilience 

    - What the diamond hunting approach is and how it helps you sort out everyday challenges

    - How to trick your brain into being more focused, sharp, and resourceful to solve the problem in front of you

    - How to open the brain's sunroof and clear limiting assumptions 

    The strategies I’ve shared will allow you to step into a new level of creativity, clarity, and confidence in your ability to think your way out of sticky situations. You’ll tap into your brain's brilliance and get rid of your limiting assumptions in a few seconds instead of wasting time proving them wrong. 

    Resources: 

    - Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kelly.mosser/ 

    - My website https://kellymosser.com/

    - Book: Nancy Klein - Time to Think: Listening to Ignite the Human Mind: https://www.amazon.com/Time-Think-Listening-Ignite-Human/dp/0706377451/ 

    024 How to Regulate Your Nervous System with Neuroscientist Stefanie Faye

    024 How to Regulate Your Nervous System with Neuroscientist Stefanie Faye

    Stefanie Faye is an educator and neuroscience specialist with a passion for improving people's outcomes by giving actionable neuroscience education that transforms mindsets and behaviors. She is an expert in coaching and teaching people how to use their mind-brain-body connection in ways that increase their sense of agency, self-compassion, meaning, and purpose.

    In this episode, we dive deep into how you can regulate your nervous system to be in touch with your mind and grounded in your body.

    What You'll Learn:

    - The power of the mind-body connection

    - What it means to be consciously aware of who you are

    - How to regulate and manage stress

    - How to change the way you view yourself

    - The difference between high performers and average performers 

    - Simple ways to channel your anger productively

    - How beliefs activate neural pathways in your brain

    - The unlimited possibilities of living an anxiety-free life

    - How to cultivate mental resilience

    From work to family and relationship obligations, your nervous system goes through it all. The good news is that the unconscious mind is built to interpret stimuli and decide how to react. The bad news is that these same protection mechanisms mean that some people constantly operate in fight-or-flight mode. Your nervous system needs breaks just like every other aspect of your life, so regulating it is not a luxury. It's a necessity.

    Links and Resources:

    - Stefanie' website: https://stefaniefaye.com/

     - Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kelly.mosser/

    - My website https://kellymosser.com/

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