Unexpected attraction

In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the common scenario of being mistaken for being married and how to respond to such assumptions. They share playful and humorous ways to handle these situations, emphasizing the importance of using humor to break the ice and creating relational opportunities. relationship status. Key Points: Using Humor: Aleeza and Rabbi advocate for responding to assumptions about being married with playful and humorous remarks, utilizing humor to diffuse tension and create a lighthearted interaction. Relational Opportunities: The hosts emphasize the abundance of relational opportunities in everyday life, from nonverbal interactions to casual conversations, highlighting the potential for unexpected connections in daily encounters. Embracing Playfulness: They encourage listeners to embrace humor and playfulness in responding to assumptions, viewing such moments as opportunities for engagement and connection. Positive Responses: Aleeza and Rabbi stress the importance of responding in a way that promotes positivity and opens the door to potential connections, emphasizing the value of seizing relational opportunities in various interactions. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Join us In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmerk where your hosts, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the challenging task of rejecting someone kindly in dating situations. They explore the use of technology, particularly Chat GPT, as a means to craft considerate rejections while emphasizing the ethical and responsible use of such tools. Key Points: Challenges of Kind Rejection: Discussion on the difficulties of conveying rejection kindly without being overly blunt. Role of Matchmakers: Exploring the potential role of a matchmaker in handling rejections in the dating process. Technology as a Communication Tool: Exploring the use of technology, particularly Chat GPT, as a helpful tool in communicating sensitive messages, emphasizing the ethical and responsible use of such tools. Ethical Considerations in Technology Use: Touching on the ethical considerations when leveraging technology in the dating and rejection process, integrating modern tools with traditional values within the context of Judaism. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Join us this week in the Matchmaker Matchmaker Podcast, where Rabbi and Aleeza discuss a listener's question that's all too familiar: Am I in the friend zone? They unpack what it means to be in the friend zone, the signs to look out for, and how to deal with the uncertainty of a relationship that might be stuck in friendship territory. Whether it's fear of ruining a good friendship or simply not feeling the spark, our hosts share their views on how to work this tricky situation. Key Points: The 'Friend Zone' Reality: Discussing whether true friendships can stay just that or if they're always a stepping stone to romance. Friendship as a Relationship Cornerstone: Exploring how friendships can be the starting point for a strong romantic relationship. Taking Chances Beyond Friendship: The pros and cons of moving past the friend zone and how to take that leap. Deciding Between Friendship and Romance: Advice on choosing whether to pursue a romantic relationship with a friend or to keep the friendship as it is. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Welcome to another episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, where your hosts, Jewish matchmakers Aleeza and Rabbi, go into the intricacies of dating and relationships within the Jewish community. Today's question comes from a listener who is perplexed by her date's annoying habits, such as repetitive phrases, and his decision-making, like letting her walk home alone and splitting the bill for coffee. Is she being too picky, or are these legitimate concerns? Aleeza and Rabbi dissect these behaviors, offering insights into communication, social etiquette, and when to speak up in a budding relationship. Key Points: Communication Habits: The conversation opens with the issue of repetitive phrases. Aleeza suggests that it could be a self-soothing mechanism for nervousness, while Rabbi points out the possibility of the date being oblivious to social cues. They both agree that it's something that can be worked on, especially if it's just a symptom of initial dating jitters. Safety and Courtesy: The man's decision not to walk the listener home after a late-night date sparks a debate about safety and common courtesy. Aleeza firmly believes in the responsibility of companions to look out for each other's safety, while Rabbi discusses how direct communication could solve this concern. Splitting the Bill: Aleeza and Rabbi explore the complexities of splitting the bill. They recognize that while this might be a contentious issue, it's important to understand each other's perspectives and expectations. It could also be an indicator of deeper values and how they align. Focus on the Positives and Deal-Breakers: Rabbi emphasizes the importance of weighing the good against the bad. If the listener finds more positives in the relationship, it may be worth addressing these concerns directly. Aleeza advises that if the negatives are too overwhelming, it might be a sign to reassess the potential of the relationship.

Jump right into this episode where Rabbi and Aleeza get real about a question many of us have after a date: why don't they call back like they said they would? They break down the reasons behind the silence after a date and get into the nitty-gritty of dating do's and don'ts today. Episode Highlights: Spotting the Signs: Aleeza gives it to you straight on how to tell if someone's just being nice or if they're actually into you. Not About You: Rabbi chimes in to say that sometimes it's not your fault at all – the other person might have their own stuff going on. Who Should Call Who?: They hash out if it's cool to stick with the old ways where guys make the first move, or if it's time to shake things up. Don't Give Up: They both agree – keep on dating and don't get down when things don't work out. The right one will come along and make the effort. Got ghosted? Confused by mixed messages? Rabbi and Aleeza have got some stories, advice, and a good dose of humor for you. Tune in to get the lowdown on why that second date might not be happening, and why that's totally okay. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the impact of the October 7th massacre on the Jewish community's approach to dating. They go into the heightened urgency and motivation to find a life partner following the tragic event, comparing it to the sense of urgency felt during the COVID-19 pandemic. The hosts explore how this event has led to a shift towards a more focused and intentional search for a Jewish life partner, noting changes in the diaspora and Israel. They also touch on the challenges faced in Israel due to the ongoing crisis and innovative ways individuals are seeking connections, offering a shared blessing for listeners to find their soulmates amidst these challenging times. Key Points: - The profound impact of the October 7th massacre on the Jewish community's approach to dating - Comparison of urgency post-massacre to the urgency felt during the COVID-19 pandemic - Shift towards a more focused and intentional search for a Jewish life partner - Challenges faced and innovative ways of seeking connections in the Jewish community, particularly in Israel To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast #JewishDatingShifts #CommunityReflections #DatingPostTragedy #NavigatingChange #LoveAmidstChallenges

In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the importance of dressing for dates and share their perspectives on finding the right balance between personal style and making a positive impression. They share personal experiences and provide practical tips for choosing an outfit that reflects your true self and matches the dating environment. The key topics covered in this episode include: - The significance of dressing in a way that represents your regular self - The impact of attire on creating the right impression - How to integrate self-expression while being mindful of the dating context - Discussing the appropriate time to showcase different sides of your personality To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Aleeza and Rabbi are back for another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker this week. They're tackling a listener's question: "What's the difference between a good guy and a kind guy?" They explain that a good guy is not only nice but also has a fun and engaging personality and is genuinely interested in getting to know people. On the other hand, a kind guy is someone who is simply nice, polite, and agreeable but may not be as interesting or engaging as a good guy. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videos To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Have you ever wondered why divorce rates in the Orthodox Jewish community remain remarkably low? On this weeks episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza explore this intriguing question, shedding light on the factors that contribute to the resilience of marriages within this community. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videos To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

Join your dating experts on a brand new episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker. Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the question 'Why am I attracted to bad boys'. They explore the reasons why people are attracted to bad boys, even though they know they are not good for them. They also offer some advice on how to shift your desires to something that is actually good for you. Key Points: - People are attracted to bad boys for a variety of reasons, including their physical appearance, attitude, and behavior. - Bad boys often play mind games with their partners, which can be both exciting and addictive. - People who are attracted to bad boys may have had a negative experience in their past that made them feel comfortable with this type of person. - It is possible to overcome the attraction to bad boys, but it requires a deep understanding of yourself and your needs. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videos To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast