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    Is speaking up always about loud confrontations and setting boundaries with toxic individuals? No! Explore how speaking up is an essential skill for various interactions with a clear purpose. From securing a promotion to simply feeling heard, learn how to use your voice deliberately and positively. This episode is a guide to gaining more control over your life and career by effectively expressing your intentions to others.

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    ✔️ 50 inspiring approaches to speak your mind.

    ✔️ The importance of a clear purpose in speaking up.

     

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    The Real You: The Power of Being and Recognizing Yourself (with Alejandra Torchia)

    The Real You: The Power of Being and Recognizing Yourself (with Alejandra Torchia)

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    ✔️ Why to stop expecting people to recognize you and start recognizing yourself.

    ✔️ Practical strategies to recognize and affirm your own contributions and worth in the workplace.

    ✔️ The importance of tapping into your internal power and values for influential leadership

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    About Alejandra Torchia: Senior Vice President, Technology Global Infrastructure Solutions Equifax, WATT Women Advancing Tech Together EFX Advisory Board Member 2023 Start House Foundation Non-Profit Board Member

     

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    Tough Choices: Making Decisions When You Know You’ll Disappoint Others

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    Emotions in Negotiation: How To Use Emotions to Resolve Conflict (with Steve Alban)

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