I continue with the thought of, “What am I supposed to be doing with my life?” and “Why the belief is should be anything different than what I am doing right now?” And if I can strip off judgment, strip off expectations, strip off societal pressures, strip off familial pressures…I am freed.
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Mischa Z : 00:02 On the previous episode, I've referenced to the question of “what am I supposed to be doing with my life?” I'm 53. I’ve wondering for decades. With brief moments of, oh, I I've found my calling most of the time. It's like, “what is my calling?” Uh, but that, uh, but that what I'm supposed to be doing with my life is what I'm doing right now. And if I can strip off judgment, strip off expectations, strip off societal pressures, strip off familial pressures. Um, what I'm doing right now, creating podcast episodes. Um, I just did my bio yesterday. Um, you know, all these things, uh, they get to interview for somebody else's summit be interviewed.
Mischa Z : 01:05 Yeah, that's what I'm supposed to be doing right now. That's it. Why the belief that it needs to be different? And I like that question. And I like that concept. Finding acceptance of the moment, what I'm doing. I do not need to be anywhere different, differently, different. I believe you understand what I'm saying. So the strategy learned how to love what I'm doing right now, because that is what I'm supposed to be doing right now. That is literally what God has me doing right now, or the universe or infinite intelligence. So the tactics around that. I talk about them all the time. I do.
Mischa Z : 02:01 So then we graduate to, as I am now doing what I'm supposed to be doing, my calling, whether I believe it or not. As I'm working on my calling. This is so funny. Thank you for listening and indulging me. I hope you're having as much fun as I am. I do, because this is fun and I'm working hard to be of service, to carry a valuable message and, um, to lead by example to be the mad scientist and go out and try new things and report back. Um, but the question is I just really had this awareness. I was like, wow, I'm in the heat of the battle with this whole 2CCX thing with this whole Russell Brunson high-end coaching thing, just getting done with the summit. And now there's a lot, lot more to do and potentially a lifetime worth of work. And I'm like, well, if one day at a time, and I like this concept one day at a time, if I'm willing to keep at it, how do I not have it be pressure filled? How do I have sleepful nights? How do I find contentment where I am within that process? Not feeling that I'm behind not feeling that I need to do more, not feeling that I need to be farther along than I am. Not, not competitively looking at where I stand, where to relative to my perception of others.
Mischa Z : 04:10 And you know, the more I can keep in the moment, how do we keep in the moment? How do I keep in the moment by keep my thoughts to being of service, pray to be of service or a God, what do you have me? What will you have me do here? Where would you have me go? What would you have me do? And what would you have me say? And to whom, for example. Um, totally lost my train of thought. My son's alarm is going off in his room. It totally threw me off hold please.
Mischa Z : 04:48 And how can I find an appropriate amount of, to do or to do's or work or work life balance. I dunno if work-life balance is the right thing to say, but, you know. Can I be happy putting in, let's just say five solid hours towards it a day and not feeling the need to do more? And let me tell you five solid hours that's legit. Five solid hours that's legit, like there's little breaks in there. There's lunches, there's distractions. There's, uh, you know, this, that, and the other thing. So the reality of five solid hours, some people people might be thinking, well, gosh, I'm doing 10 or 12 hour days. Yeah. I'm sure that you're doing a 12 hour day. That's highly focused consistently. I find a five hour day is much more productive. I'm just saying, so how do I not fall into that trap of need more or needing to be further ahead?
Mischa Z : 06:02 Anyway, these are just, this is this, these are things. So of course I've got my standard tools of prayer, meditation, journaling, um, service, you know, talking to my coaches, my mentors, all these things, um, you know, learning, growing, trying to, and in that vein I have, um, I have a, uh… I’m interviewing Daniel Packard and we're going to talk about just that thing. We are going to talk about just this thing. So I'm super excited to learn some new tactics to help the mental, the mental, the mental, uh, hopscotchery. And, uh, I'm going to end with this and just a little bit of a rant here that, um, that oftentimes I am happy and comfortable and content, and it's all good, but it's when the shiny object takes over. I need to have X amount of money, X amount of success, X amount of looks, X amount of likes.
Mischa Z : 07:13 I need to, you know, just have, I can feel the pressure. What's the little, the bio, the little bio pressure, amplified pressure everywhere in my life. So now I've got the little pressure of having an email sequence done. That's amplifying the pressure and other parts of my life. And so how do I acknowledge the email sequence pressure and understand that in the big scheme of things, if it takes me an extra two weeks and I lose, you know, 50 of my 400 new list, like it's not the end of the world. Um, I'm just at the very beginning. I don’t know. This is just the stuff that was rolling through my melon a bit disjointed, um, trying to have fun people, trying to have fun. Welcome to the, um, to the fray. Those ahead. Thank you for leading the path. Peace out.
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