What's your sexual orientation

In this episode Kim and Tee will discuss how 2024 has been so far and what they are looking forward to the rest of the year.

How are you doing so far in 2024.

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[13:50] Definition of sexual orientation

[20:40] Is this sexuality?

[26:33] Judging people based on what they look like

[30:06] Our rainbow community is divided 

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“If you transition to a man you must now be with women only”

“If you google gay doesn’t automatically make you gay”

“Why are we questioning masculinity?”

Website Referenced

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/types-of-sexuality/

https://youtu.be/lL-SxpW_1Go?si=ra0IsFN7nNXYE8Ty

https://www.grindr.com/blog/types-of-sexualities

Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[33:39]  Gift of time  

[27:58] Decreasing Screen Time  

[11:50] Not caring what others think

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“I need to do what I need to do for myself”

“I can no longer be a superwoman”

Website Referenced

https://www.allure.com/story/2024-horoscope-yearly-predictions

https://www.forbes.com/sites/ruthreitmeier/2023/12/28/5-critical-stages-for-creating-change-in-2024/?sh=d5e1bf2fd9d1

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Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[19:20] The A list celebrities are not shifting in 2024

[22:40] The invention of the celebrity

[26:20] How to heal yourself 

[39:00] Don’t expect to be supported all the time

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“Celebrities are not role model”

“Gen z has more access to celebrities now than we did in our childhood”

“you could not tell me Rock Hudson name was not his real name”

“I am black woman obsessed”

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Key Talking Points of this Episode:

[7:33] How each generation handles toxic family

[17:06] It can be very hard setting boundaries

[27:00] Putting yourself first

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“I am the messy one in the relationship”

“I do not think I am toxic”

“You shouldn’t force anyone to hug someone you don’t want to”

Website Mentioned:

Surviving Toxic Family Relationships: When to Set Boundaries and Walk Away.

https://www.dailyom.com/journal/surviving-a-toxic-family-and-knowing-when-it-s-time-to-walk-away-for-good/?aff=910&ad=1&utm_source=google&utm_medium=ppc&utm_campaign=PerformanceMax&acct=9358138875&campaign_id=16896613381&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA7t6sBhAiEiwAsaieYv9peZy44HSuO1ES_-9SrjudWIain504qCTka41CeWcEdzaRIwyqfxoCpfoQAvD_BwE

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Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“No child should be scared to play their ball outside”

“I am scared to accidentally walk by a persons home”

“Gun control is needed in this country”

"we don't hate guns we own guns"

Articles

https://news.yahoo.com/4-shootings-mistake-doorbell-driveway-basketball-us-guns-193010998.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAJPdiBhNTj7Bx_paEuCcyJr9Efpuvg4KqEyGd3MaPsljrahpwtyyGDj8Nl4XzFaTScN60iF0Aw-Qs-nos7U5F7u5akKvnWTEsqqUkJq-QnU2VB6_NuD8ZZV6ANORR90tlnvmJzHg6Oa-KlYKb4BsSzUw4IbYaEJzkVCTdY5t_TpS

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2021/09/13/key-facts-about-americans-and-guns/

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Key Talking Points of the Episode:

[08:31] Using your time wisely instead of just wishing

[16:40] Stop making excuses

[23:37] Self-Motivation

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“You have 90 million minutes in your life if you live to the age of 90”

“Wishing is a waste of time if you are not putting the work in”

“Stop saying I wish and start saying I want”

Websites To Visit:

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https://www.healthyincite.com/stop-wishing-and-start-doing/

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Key Talking Points of this Episode:

[2:22] Learning about a will, trust or anything in between.

[16:25] If no will next stop would be probate court

[17:41] Various ways to start a will or trust online

[26:10] Which is better will or trust?

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“It’s our responsibility to take care of our parents”

“Don’t put me in no ground I don’t want to be in no ground”

“Make sure your wishes are allocated”

Website Mentioned:

https://www.investopedia.com/articles/personal-finance/051315/will-vs-trust-difference-between-two.asp

https://www.consumerreports.org/money/estate-planning/why-people-of-color-are-less-likely-to-have-a-will-a6742820557/

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Key Talking Points of this Episode:

[10:30] sometimes you can’t fix everything 

[14:50] Being called a fixer 

[24:49] Protection on all fronts 

[41:59] Steps to stop being a fixer

Magical Quotes from the Episode:

“Everyone has their path they have to go thru. “ 

“There was no one there for us.” 

“it’s not about being in control.“

Website Mentioned:

https://www.dictionary.com/browse/fixer

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scandal_(TV_series)

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