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    What To Do When You Can't Do Anything

    enJanuary 07, 2023
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    Open: Elese Birthday, Stories from kids about dead cats
    5:03: neutering and spaying animals and puberty blockers
    7:05: Cats reproductive systems
    8:31: Pete and Kim’s dogs
    10:27: Snowflakes and being so severed from reality
    12:06: Apocalyptic Politics; Carl Trueman article
    15:02: The real world experience vs. virtual and being increasingly marginalized in the public sphere
    19:06: China’s covid policy reversal
    20:53: Molly and JR bicker
    22:00: Ukraine, all the whys, and real suffering
    25:28: Reflections on Psalm 2 and the Jump to Jesus.
    29:37: Kings are never referred to as “Son of God”
    31:08: What is our posture towards the rulers of the earth
    33:41: What God calls us to do
    36:23: Voddie Baucham talk on Psalm 2
    40:01: Our brains were not designed to know more than we can control
    41:33: All the news all the time gives us a sense of omniscience and omnipotence
    43:05: JR’s comments about Liturgy Devotional, Be Thou My Vision.
    45:07: Thoughts and reflections on TB2F and our listeners.
    46:23: Rebecca’s voicemail
    48:25: Show close

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