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    What Would the Buddha Do? w/ Cory Allen

    enJune 27, 2024

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding othersListening to and understanding the perspectives and experiences of others is essential for creating meaningful change and growth. Seek objective information and cultural sensitivity to effectively communicate and resonate with your audience.

      Understanding the perspectives and experiences of others is crucial for making meaningful change and growth. Corey Allen, a podcast host, author, and social media influencer, wrote his book "Brave New You" based on feedback from his large following to help people believe in their potential. He emphasized the importance of seeking objective information and understanding cultural needs to effectively speak to what is needed. Allen's journey to writing the book involved paying close attention to his audience's reactions and using that information to create content that resonated with them. The book serves as a roadmap for self-awareness and personal growth, highlighting the importance of becoming aware of one's thoughts and self-understanding as the foundation for making change.

    • Mindset and storiesA clear mind is about self-awareness and noticing thoughts, changing limiting mindsets and letting go of hardened stories leads to positive experiences for self and others.

      Our mindset and the stories we tell ourselves significantly impact our experiences and interactions with the world around us. A clear mind, rather than an empty one, is about being self-aware and noticing our thoughts with space to make intentional choices. Changing limiting mindsets and letting go of hardened stories can lead to more authentic and positive experiences. The magic happens when we approach situations with a positive and conscious frame of mind, which not only affects how we feel and perform but also how others perceive us and the overall experience.

    • Perception and PotentialRecognizing that reality is subjective and trusting intuition can help break through self-imposed limitations, leading to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.

      Our perception of reality and the limitations we set for ourselves can be barriers to achieving our true potential. We often get used to the norms of our lives and accept them as the limits, but by recognizing that reality is what we make of it and listening to our intuition, we can break through these barriers and create meaningful change. This process involves setting attainable goals, building self-confidence, and trusting our instincts. It's a constant process that requires trial and error, but ultimately leads to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.

    • Buddhism and reactionsBe mindful of reactions, disrupt negative patterns by choosing intentional actions instead of reacting mindlessly, and engage in constructive conversations to broaden perspective.

      It's essential to be mindful of our reactions and not get stuck in negative patterns. Living in a Western society, we often apply our moral beliefs to Eastern philosophies, but it's crucial to understand that they are not always the same. In Buddhism, for instance, the Four Noble Truths state that suffering exists, desire causes suffering, there's a way out of suffering, and the Eightfold Path is the way. However, accepting reincarnation as real is a belief that some may not agree with, and that's okay. Corey, a friend and interviewee, emphasizes the importance of being quick to slow down our reactions. This means recognizing the feelings and urges that arise when we encounter situations and choosing to act differently, rather than reacting mindlessly. By doing so, we can disrupt negative patterns, become more intentional in our experiences, and broaden our perspective of the world. It's essential to remember that everyone has their unique beliefs and ways of being, and engaging in thoughtful, constructive conversations can lead to growth and understanding.

    • Mindfulness and Self-ReflectionThrough mindfulness and self-reflection, we can change our thoughts and reactions, leading to permanent change in our lives. It's not always easy, but the rewards are worth it.

      We have the power to change our thoughts, reactions, and ultimately, the course of our lives. By observing our minds in the present moment and making small changes, we can rewrite our thinking patterns and create permanent change. This process is not always easy, but it's worth it. It's important to remember that substances may offer temporary relief, but the real answers come from doing the hard work of self-reflection and mindfulness. Additionally, don't settle for a life that doesn't align with your dreams or goals. Be realistic, but don't be afraid to aim high and try new things. Change is possible, and every moment is an opportunity to return home to the present and start anew.

    • Letting go, self-discovery, healingTo promote personal growth and find peace, let go of negative emotions and limiting thoughts through self-awareness, introspection, and manifestation, while staying grounded in reality.

      Letting go involves releasing negative experiences and emotions that hinder personal growth, as well as disrupting peace and joy in the present moment. Self-discovery and healing go hand in hand, requiring self-awareness and introspection to understand the root causes of painful emotions or limiting thoughts. Manifestation can be a powerful tool for setting clear goals and intentions, but it's essential to stay grounded in objective reality and truth. By recognizing and understanding our emotions and thoughts, we can effectively work towards creating positive change in our lives.

    • Appetite for possible thingsCultivating an appetite for new experiences and putting energy into activities that bring us a sense of aliveness leads to personal growth, success, and happiness.

      Personal growth and success come from cultivating an appetite for possible things in life and intentionally putting energy into the activities that bring us a sense of aliveness. This process requires self-trust and self-reflection, which can be developed through small steps like improving our appearance or learning new skills. By focusing on what makes us feel alive and building expertise in those areas, we can create a sense of purpose and fulfillment, leading to happiness as an afterglow of meaningfulness. This journey is not always easy, but with determination and a willingness to listen and learn from others, we can reverse engineer our own path to success.

    • Military, Courage, Sacrifice, PodcastsExplore Malcolm Gladwell's 'Medal of Honor' for stories of military heroes, Holly Fry and Phoebe Judge's 'Criminalia' for dark historical and true crime tales, and Danny Shapiro's 'Family Secrets' for complex family dynamics.

      There are numerous intriguing and thought-provoking podcast series available on various platforms, each exploring unique themes and stories. Malcolm Gladwell's "Medal of Honor" podcast delves into the stories of courage and sacrifice of the recipients of the highest military decoration in the US. Meanwhile, Holly Fry and Phoebe Judge's "Criminalia" invites listeners into the dark corridors of history and true crime, with each season focusing on a new theme. Lastly, Danny Shapiro's "Family Secrets" explores the complexities of family dynamics, raising tough questions about childhood, truth, and justice. Listeners can explore these podcasts on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, or wherever they get their podcasts.

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