Why People Misunderstand You and How to Avoid It

Guess who's getting some professional education on communication! And in 2024, I'm also prepping for some interviews with a fantastic line-up of guests of professors, public speakers, and professionals ready to share their wisdom. I'll also continue to make solo episodes as well.

So, until then, stay tuned for a fresh wave of engaging content in 2024, and see you next year!

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Picture this, you're stranded in the middle of nowhere in West Virginia, cut-off from the world. This was my exact predicament during Thanksgiving, an experience that truly put me in my thoughts about empathy and understanding. I found myself questioning, how can we genuinely empathize with people who live vastly different lives from ours? In this journey of self-discovery, we grapple with the distinctions between sympathy and empathy, and why the latter matters in our interactions.

As we journey on, let's take a moment to acknowledge our global podcast family. Each one of you, from every corner of the world, has made a mark on this podcast, turning it into a multicultural tapestry of perspectives. Your support propels us to create content that enlightens your day, giving us the drive to dive deeper and push boundaries. As we celebrate our global connection, we also look forward to next week, where we'll explore more exciting topics together.

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Have you ever felt a sense of disconnection amid the constant buzz and ping of your digital devices? Do you long for genuine human interaction in a world that's dominated by screens? As an introvert, I, Olivia Lee, have struggled with the onslaught of digital stimuli and the impact it has had on my communication and social skills. I invite you to join me on this exploratory journey as I share my insights and personal experiences, aiming to help you regain control of your time, thoughts, and real-life connections.

In this era of ceaseless scrolling, I want to challenge you to pause and step back from the digital noise. Let's discuss the benefits of a digital detox, including better sleep, reduced eye strain, and improved personal connections. We're not suggesting you abandon your devices altogether, but rather learn to set boundaries and designate 'no-device' zones. So, let's together rediscover the lost art of communication and connect with the real world around us, exchanging viral cat videos for the irreplaceable joy and enrichment of face-to-face interactions.

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Have you ever caught yourself holding back, biting your tongue, fearing the judgment that might come with speaking your mind? It's a struggle we've all faced, thanks to our hardwired instinct for social preservation. In our latest episode, we dig into the heart of this fear, known as glossophobia, and the evolutionary roots that cause our brains to respond in such a visceral way to the prospect of speaking up.

Brace yourself as we journey through my personal path to finding my voice and overcoming this fear. Starting with harmless banter with Alexa and Siri, I gradually found the courage to express my thoughts more freely. We'll roll out practical tips on transforming this fear into courage, from the importance of preparation to the power of affirmative language. Let's conquer the art of speaking up together - because your voice matters. Your opinions are valid. And it's high time you felt comfortable expressing them. Tune in and let's take the leap towards a more confident, vocal you.

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Do you want to know the secret to standing out in a crowd, charming your way into hearts, and leaving a lasting impression? Prepare to experience a paradigm shift as we explore the transformative power of a magic word! A word that can redefine the way you communicate. I will guide you on this eye-opening journey that will unravel the allure of a positive vibe, the science behind first impressions, and the magnetism of a friendly attitude.

Experience the excitement of learning how a Harvard study supports the significance of a positive attitude in leaving a lasting impression. Brace yourself for bouts of laughter as we discuss how emotions can be contagious and how your attitude can steer the emotional course of a conversation. Prepare for an enlightening revelation about the concept of emotional influence and how the right attitude can turn your failures into opportunities. So, tune in and let's embark on this transformative journey together, as we change our attitudes towards communication and life in general.

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Ever found yourself caught in the crossfires of a miscommunication? You're not alone. This episode of Introvert on Stage delves into the labyrinth of communication and how we often find ourselves lost in translation. From dissecting how tone, gestures, and context play pivotal roles in conveying messages to the inherent pitfalls of digital communication, we uncover the nuances of this intricate process.

As we progress, we explore how our personal backgrounds and experiences shape our perception and interpretation of messages. Coupled with the often overlooked role of assumptions and listening skills in communication, we find ourselves in a quagmire of misunderstanding.

This episode not only explores these complexities but also offers advice on how to bridge these communication gaps. We wrap up by sharing personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the blow of misunderstandings.

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Ever felt the pressure to say "yes" when all you really want is some quiet, alone time? You're not alone! On this episode of Introvert on Stage, we tackle a common stumbling block introverts face daily - the struggle of saying "No". Let's face it, in today's fast-paced, always-on society, setting boundaries can feel like an uphill battle. But I'm here to tell you it doesn't have to be.

We delve into the fear, guilt, and dread that often accompany the decision to prioritize ourselves, and offer practical solutions to help you reclaim your space. Using relatable scenarios and real-life examples, we unpack the art of respectful refusal, and outline easy-to-remember scripts to guide you through awkward conversations. We also explore the liberating power of "No", and how it contributes to self-care and personal growth. By the end of this episode, you'll walk away with tools to help you navigate social expectations while being true to your introverted nature. So kick back, relax, and let's take this journey together towards embracing our solitude, one "No" at a time.

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Do you want to be a better communicator? Want to improve your speaking skills?

This short episode will share one simple, yet extremely uncomfortable, action that will instantly make you a better communicator.

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As a coach, it's impossible to forget about your first client... Same goes for me.
I will never forget my first time coaching my first client… 
But I will also never forget the doubts that my mind was going through…

‘Am I qualified to coach this individual who seems to already be doing well?’
‘What if I can’t bring any results or outcome…what if I waste their time and money…’
‘Maybe I should just give them a full refund and come up with an excuse…’

Little did I know, that first experience changed everything for me. 
From the way I think, the way I view other people, to the way I do business.

And here are the 7 things I learned and each one I go into detail in the episode:

1. Overdeliver could lead to overwhelm
2. You know more than you think you do
3. Often times, they need an outside perspective to be reminded of their potential
4. Your client will FEEL where your heart and focus are
5. Not holding back will open up new doors and create advocates for your business
6. You’ll learn new things and more about yourself from coaching your clients 
7. It doesn’t always require a tangible outcome for you to have made impact
8. (BONUS) You’ll learn that you have the heart for the people you serve and by not showing up daily and sharing your message, you’re allowing millions of people who need what you have to silently suffer.
   
   

And I hope you listening to this episode take away how important it is for us to impact lives, give, and serve the people we were called to serve.
 
So go out there and live as the version of you that God created you to be.



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Have you ever felt ashamed of yourself for not being able to join the course or coaching program of your dream? You're told to speak from the place of abundance and you and your soul feel like you've tried absolutely everything? Because you're not alone...

But do ask yourself, is this something you need or something you want?
If it's something you need, is it for the right reason? Or is it because you're afraid of missing out? (FOMO is real)

Because I'm so easily drawn in and love kind people, I want to say yes to everything and that is one of the reasons why I'm working so hard to have the resources to be able to support more people, learn from more people, and pay what they deserve. I'll be honest. I love giving. I love making people smile and feel content. But I'm terrible at receiving... Even after helping someone grow their business, it was difficult for me to receive the payment... And if the person on the supposedly giving side is not so giving, I would end up giving and giving trying to expect nothing back, but realizing I can't keep doing this.

I was talking to the wrong group of people. And being part of Dean Graziosi and Tony Robbins' Mastermind World Summit gave me the clarity and confidence to NOT chase the money, but show up authentically for the people who need you. Specifically Olivia in 2017... introvert trying to make something of herself, but not knowing what to do, how to speak to people, constantly giving but not receiving, feeling burnt out but thinking this is the path to success...

If this speaks to your soul, I'm here for you. This podcast is for you.
Introvert on stage will be focused on helping introverts become stronger and more artful communicators and my heart feels happy, which shows to me that this was the right move. :)

Much love,
Olivia Lee


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