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    Why Your Perfectionism is Destroying Your Productivity

    en-usMay 26, 2021

    Podcast Summary

    • Perfectionism is a coping mechanism to avoid judgment and feelings of not being good enoughFocus on progress and putting your work out there, even if it's not perfect, to move forward in creating the life you desire. The fear of rejection or not being good enough is often worse than the reality.

      Perfectionism, which many people believe is a desirable trait, is actually a mask for deeper fears and can significantly hinder productivity. According to Rob Dial from the Mindset Mentor Podcast, perfectionism is not a real thing but rather a coping mechanism used to avoid judgment and feelings of not being good enough. This fear can prevent individuals from sharing their work with the world, even if it's of high quality. For instance, an artist may have a closet full of amazing paintings that could fetch a high price but never shows them due to the fear of rejection. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on progress and putting your work out there, even if it's not perfect, to move forward in creating the life you desire. Remember, the fear of rejection or not being good enough is often worse than the reality.

    • Overcoming Fear of ImperfectionFocus on progress and improvement daily, share work with others for feedback, and understand perfection is unattainable.

      Perfectionism is a major hindrance to productivity and progress, especially for artists. It's essential to understand that no one's art, music, writing, or performance will ever be perfect. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment or the perfect piece, focus on progress and improvement every day. You may find that your fear of imperfection is keeping you from sharing your talents with the world. Meanwhile, others with less skill or talent are advancing because they're taking action. To overcome this, share your work with others, even if it's not perfect, and seek feedback. Progress, not perfection, is the key to growth.

    • Overcoming perfectionism and diversifying investmentsDon't let fear of imperfection hinder sharing work, imperfections can seem worse in our minds than in reality. Diversify investments beyond traditional stocks, bonds, and mutual funds to private real estate for better risk-adjusted returns and consistent performance.

      It's important not to let fear of imperfection hold us back from sharing our work with the world. The speaker in this conversation emphasized that people often make things seem worse in their minds than they will be in reality. He encourages putting work out there, even if it's not perfect, because getting it done is better than continuing to work on it indefinitely. He also mentioned that diversifying a portfolio beyond traditional stocks, bonds, and mutual funds to include private real estate can lead to better risk-adjusted returns and more consistent performance. With platforms like Fundrise, access to private real estate investments is now easier than ever. Overall, the message is to take action, don't let perfectionism hold you back, and consider diversifying your investments for better returns.

    • Focus on top 3 tasks for greater productivityPrioritize top 3 tasks and complete them for over a thousand important accomplishments in a year

      Focusing on the most important tasks on your to-do list can lead to greater productivity and progress, rather than trying to complete every single item. The speaker emphasizes the importance of circling and prioritizing the top three tasks on your list, and then focusing solely on completing those. By doing so, you can accomplish over a thousand important tasks in a year, rather than getting overwhelmed and paralyzed by the length of the entire list. The key is to adopt a "GSD" (Get Stuff Done) attitude, which means stopping the analysis and starting the action. Believing in yourself is not a prerequisite for taking action, and the act of completing tasks can help build confidence.

    • Embrace imperfection and learn from mistakesFocus on progress and resilience, view mistakes as opportunities for growth, and understand that perfection is an unattainable goal

      Perfection is an unattainable goal, and embracing imperfection and learning from mistakes is key to growth and success. The creator of Honda emphasized that failure is inevitable and essential, as it's through messing up that we learn what doesn't work and discover what does. Perfectionism, on the other hand, often stems from a frail ego and fear of rejection or criticism. Nothing in the world is perfect, not even nature, and as humans, we are a part of nature. Therefore, instead of striving for perfection, we should focus on progress and resilience, and view mistakes as opportunities for growth.

    • Embrace imperfections and learn from mistakesEmbrace mistakes as opportunities for growth and improvement, just like hibiscus flowers and a child learning to walk.

      Perfection is an unattainable goal, and the only way to grow and improve is by taking action, even if it's incorrect at first. The speaker uses the example of hibiscus flowers and a child learning to walk to illustrate this concept. Hibiscus flowers, like people, are not perfect, but their imperfections make them beautiful. Similarly, a child does not start walking perfectly but learns through falling and trying again. The same principle applies to our own lives. We must take action, even if it's incorrect, because only through experience can we learn and grow. The speaker encourages embracing mistakes and seeing them as opportunities for improvement rather than setbacks. Incorrect action is always better than no action at all because it leads to valuable lessons and eventual success.

    • Overcoming perfectionism for productivityProductivity is hindered by perfectionism, focus on improving daily, and allow yourself to make mistakes for growth.

      It's important to take action and not let fear of imperfection hold you back. According to the speaker, productivity is hindered by perfectionism, and making mistakes is a necessary part of growth. Instead of worrying about others' opinions or striving for perfection, focus on improving a little each day. By taking action and allowing yourself to mess up, you'll eventually create the life you want. So, stop listening to the speaker and go make a difference in your own life. Share this message with others and help spread the word. Remember, the only way we grow is through the sharing of knowledge and experiences. So, make someone else's day better and strive to be a little better every day.

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