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    AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

    Danny Vega, TikTok cringelord, Shannon Dee, actor/director/writer/slash enthusiast, and Jake Davis, man about town & weed dealer with health insurance, read listener submissions & pilfer from the AITA subreddit. They discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at https://aitapod.com
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    565 AITA for removing an alpaca's spit mask while sheering against my uncle's wishes? (ft. OK OP)

    565 AITA for removing an alpaca's spit mask while sheering against my uncle's wishes? (ft. OK OP)
    Our sponsor today is Betterhelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod

    We've got some very special guests today, fellow Reddit podcast, OK OP Show with Sam & John! We had so much fun recording with them at their studio. Their energy is through the roof!! As a 34m 33f we sure did need a nap after!!!

    Check out our episode on their podcast here:
    OK OP! Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/0MTltIvS2iB56NZOZBq6Ii?si=6P7IWBzEQdGUzGwvQ-jbug
    OK OP! Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep1444-wibta-for-telling-my-sister-her-bf-cheated-on/id1587219409?i=1000646316765

    (14:42) - WIBTA for asking for a refund and writing a bad review? (Shannon's story)
    (24:31) AITA for removing an alpaca's spit mask while sheering against my uncle's wishes?
    (35:06) AITA for saying my sister's family can't temporarily move in with me due to their pets?
    (47:36) AITA for making my daughter use a water bottle from the thrift store?


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    563 AITA for telling brother's GF she's making everyone uncomfortable with her reactions? (ft. Yo)

    563 AITA for telling brother's GF she's making everyone uncomfortable with her reactions? (ft. Yo)
    Happy mon mon hon hons. We are joined by Shannon's boyfriend's brother, Yo!!! (he is so much more than this but that's just the easiest way to put it. He is also a tapdancer and retired pro thirst trapper)

    (22:37) - AITA for warning my brother's gf she's making everyone uncomfortable with her over-the-top reactions touching?

    (43:31) - AITA for being mean to my above neighbor for tapdancing?

    (56:50) - AITA because I lmao-ed bc my mom's roomba fell in the pool?

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    561 AITA for leaving oil on the counter?

    561 AITA for leaving oil on the counter?
    This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off!
    Happy holiday weekend all y'all!!!

    (20:40) - AITA for asking to change cleaning habits in my apartment?
    (35:09) - AITA for leaving oil on the counter?
    (49:27) - AITA for not agreeing to share a hotel room in Vegas with my sister-in-law?

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    559 AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles how I like? (ft. Shannon's Parents)

    559 AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles how I like? (ft. Shannon's Parents)
    Shannon is joined today by her creators! Get a little insight into how this airplane feetin', roommate food eatin' creature was made! Hope you enjoy!


    (2:22) AITA for disappearing for 20 mins on a first date? (Shannon's parents' first date story)

    (13:28) AITA for refusing to fart on the toilet?

    (22:41) AITA for telling my daughter that just like she prefers her dad, I prefer her brother?

    (37:07) AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles the way I like?

    (54:32) AITA for asking my son and daughter-in-law for a key to their new house?


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    557 - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the it girl?

    557 - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the it girl?
    Our sponsor this week is betterhelp! Betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off

    (16:03) - AITA for throwing dead animals into my neighbor's yard?
    (27:43) - AITA for choosing my wife instead of my neice?
    (48:45) - AITA for telling my sister she's no longer the it girl?
    (1:21:39) - AITA for wanting Danny to read my submission?


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    555 AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a wedding w her ex? (ft Horace Gold)

    555 AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a wedding w her ex? (ft Horace Gold)
    We're joined by Horace Gold for this super fun wedding ep! Thanks for listenin'!

    (17:16) - AITA for not inviting fiance's mom to the wedding bc she said I cheaped out?
    (28:35) - AITA for not wanting my GF to plan a wedding with her ex?
    (44:51) - AITA for refusing to go to my brother's 'overflow' wedding?

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    553 AITA for charging a couple after using our cafe to wed w/o asking?

    553 AITA for charging a couple after using our cafe to wed w/o asking?
    (0:00) - Banter
    (12:51) - AITA for invoicing after a couple used our cafe for their wedding?
    (24:54) - AITA for not letting our husband put a Peloton in our sun room?
    (39:53) - AITA for hitting on my classmate's mom?
    (43:08) - AITA for having it going on?

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    551 AITA for telling my buddy his comedy is bad? (ft. Andy Vega, my brother)

    551 AITA for telling my buddy his comedy is bad? (ft. Andy Vega, my brother)
    DANNY DOING STAND UP - South Tahoe, CA - this Saturday, January 20 · 7:30 - 9:30pm PST, https://www.eventbrite.com/e/real-men-are-58-a-stand-up-comedy-show-south-lake-tahoe-ca-registration-786822847317


    (0:00) - Banter with Andy, my brother, who visited LA

    (30:44) - AITA for not inviting my friend's husband to dinner bc he eats way too much?

    (38:39) - AITA for ditching my drunk friend at a comedy show?

    (47:52) - AITA for telling my buddy his comedy is bad and he shouldn't go on tour with his improv group?



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    549 AITA for cancelling a trip with my bf last minute and dumping him?

    549 AITA for cancelling a trip with my bf last minute and dumping him?
    Our sponsor this week is BetterHelp. Save 10% at betterhelp.com/aitapod

    DANNY STAND UP SHOWS - DM on insta (@dannyvegagram) or email me (amitheahole@gmail.com) for links/more info
    Big Bear, CA - Doors 7:00PM Saturday January 13th - Sessions Hotel and Resort
    South Lake Tahoe, CA - Doors 7:00pm, Saturday, Jan 20 - Cuppa Tahoe

    Listener submish ep! Enjoy and thanks for listening!!! You can submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod

    (0:00) - Banter
    (9:02) - Hypothetical: Fly bothers someone per $1 per hour
    (14:09) - Japan not the convo panacea Danny hoped
    (15:08) - Shannon gets her Japan candy
    (17:22) - AITA for cancelling a trip with my boyfriend last minute and breaking up with him?
    (35:34) - AITA for not trading my White Elephant gift?
    (46:24) - AITA for asking my BF to move his jacket?
    (57:44) - AITA for leaving a bad review?
    (1:06:52) - Trying the candy from Japan
    (1:13:56) - Danny's Super Quiet Show ("ASMR")


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    547xt AITA for giving the office bully a taste of his own medicine? (The Office Ep ft. Shannon and Jake)

    547xt AITA for giving the office bully a taste of his own medicine? (The Office Ep ft. Shannon and Jake)
    We got a little different ep for you today! Jannon/Shake break down one of their favorite shows, The Office, which is just chock full of a**holes! They take situations from the show and make them AITAs. This might be an episode that only pertains to fans so sorry for those who don't watch but don't knock it before you try it. ;)

    (16:03) - AITA for canceling my direct report's work anniversary party?
    (24:30) - AITA for ending a relationship over our age difference?
    (32:43) - AITA for giving the office bully a taste of his own medicine?
    (46:10) - AITA for taking a photo my idiot counterpart accidentally sent me and forwarding it to the entire company?
    (54:05) - AITA for faking labor to get out of a meeting?


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    546 AITA for accusing my daughter's boyfriend of stealing the turkey?

    546 AITA for accusing my daughter's boyfriend of stealing the turkey?
    TIME STAMPS IN THE DESCRIPTION POD PRESENTS

    (0:00) - Shannon's hat got roasted and her nana passed away
    (6:36) - Horse:24 attacked by hot tub glass
    (15:13) - Shannon saw a titan submersible tiktok
    (16:57) - Shannon saw a tiktok -- how many owls to freak you out?
    (19:27) - Shannon's mom update on stealing from neighbors
    (24:21) - Danny's haircut
    SITCHES
    (26:31) - AITA for crossing my boyfriend's boundaries?
    (37:14) - AITA for accusing my daughter's boyfriend of stealing the turkey?
    (1:00:43) - AITA for refusing to help my GF grade papers?


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    544 AITA for not going to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?

    544 AITA for not going to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?
    TIMESTAMPS BELOW
    But first... merry xmas and a happy holz to you and yours!

    Shouts to dear listener, Aya, and Chelsea, listener and Shan-sister, for meeting up with me on my Tokyo trip and giving me amazing tours! Also bonus shout out to Justine who linked me with her friend Kenta San who I met as well! Love all y'all!

    (0:00) - Danny gets a 'massage' in Japan

    (15:10) - Shannon's issue on Maui

    (21:55) - AITA for uninviting my oldest daughter to Xmas over Santa?

    (32:26) - WIBTA if I asked fiance to return his gift?

    (41:45) - AITA for saying I won't go to Xmas if I can't wear my hat?

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    542 AITA for not giving back my gf's grandma's $50,000?

    542 AITA for not giving back my gf's grandma's $50,000?
    OUr sponsor today is MANSCAPED. use code AITAPOD at check out for 20% off and free shipping HONEY.

    Hope you guys have a wondy week!!!

    (0:00) - Shannon ate reasonably on Thanksy G
    (2:06) - Casa Grande Tales: Meeting w an old friend
    (8:53) - Danny found a drunk in his apartment building
    (12:49) - Spotify Wrapped appreciation moment
    Sitches:
    NOTE: I’m sorry but these are estimates because the way our ad platform works. We don't control the ads unfortunately. BUT If you subscribe on patreon.com/aitapod, the timestamps are accurate!

    (16:39) - AITA for asking my college classmate about her pubic hair?
    (31:20) - AITA for refusing to give back $50k that my gf’s grandma gave me?
    (40:39) - AITA for letting others eat my food containing unrefrigerated eggs?


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    540 AITA for reporting a neighbor before talking to them?

    540 AITA for reporting a neighbor before talking to them?
    Our sponsor today is Betterhelp.com/aitapod
    Happy mon mon hon hons!
    (0:00) - Banter
    (7:48) - AITA for crop dusting a new consignment shop?
    (21:33) - AITA for ghosting someone for eating my soup?
    (44:04) - AITA for formerly reporting a neighbor before having a conversation?

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    538xt AITA for using a dating app to build my self-esteem? (ft. Joanna Hausmann & Sam Gerhardt)

    538xt AITA for using a dating app to build my self-esteem? (ft. Joanna Hausmann & Sam Gerhardt)
    I'm joined by my longtime friends. Joanna and Sam, to discuss diabetes, divorce, and dating. PLEASE see Sam's reddit post at this link (she didn't post it; it's her paper): https://www.reddit.com/r/FoundPaper/comments/15txlr9/found_in_a_target_parking_lot/

    (0:00) - Banter

    (6:15) - Sam's EPIC r/foundpaper discovery

    (20:59) - Joanna sleepover story, so long ago there was no Uber

    (26:58) - AITA for walking out of a baby sitting gig when I found out the kid was diabetic?

    (40:26) - AITA for laughing at my brother going through a bad divorce?

    (44:37) - Joanna's funeral bird story

    (1:02:11) - AITA used a dating app to build my self esteem?

    (1:09:16) - AITA for using dating apps for validation purposes only?

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    536xt AITA for being excited for Black Friday fight videos? (Black Friday theme)

    536xt AITA for being excited for Black Friday fight videos? (Black Friday theme)
    Shannon: We hope you all had a delicious Thanksgiving and bountiful Black Friday! Jannon/Shake take you through Black Friday sitches. Happy listening!

    (0:00) - Banter
    (22:19) - AITA for refusing to help my sister get gifts for Black Friday?
    (33:57) - AITA for telling my girlfriend she should be buying me gifts for Christmas?
    (41:05) - AITA for being excited for all the Black Friday fight videos about to happen?

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    535 AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?

    535 AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?
    Our sponsor today is betterhelp. https://betterhelp.com/aitapod


    Also it's my bday today. I sure would love a nice message on my instagram! @dannyvegagram


    (0:00) - Shannon's vocal fry

    (21:12) - AITA for taking back a gift and selling it on ebay?

    (34:41) - AITA for ruining my boyfriend's dinner plans with his parents?

    (46:52) - AITA for filing workman's comp when I know my employer doesn't have it?



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    533xt AITA for having my Thanksy G guests pay for their entrees?

    533xt AITA for having my Thanksy G guests pay for their entrees?
    via Shannon: Happy Turkey Day hun huns! Jake & Shannon have another Thanksy-G episode for ya. We hope you're having a great week and get to eat lots of yummy food!

    DeeAntonia’s Deelicious Deelights Web Series
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PU02Gl3iRg

    (0:00) - Banter
    (12:48) - AITA for having my Thanksgiving guests pay for their own entrees?
    (24:45) - WIBTA if I went to my mother's Thanksgiving without my husband?
    (43:50) - AITA for uninviting my MIL from Thanksgiving because she refuses to eat my cooking?


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    532 AITA for sitting on my husband's lap during Thanksy G dinner?

    532 AITA for sitting on my husband's lap during Thanksy G dinner?
    Our sponsor today is Manscaped! 20% off and free shipping. Use checkout code AITAPOD

    Our dear listener, Sam, is selling AITApod sticker design on Tumblers. $30 and could make a great gift! Instagram: @greeneggsandham1983 https://www.instagram.com/greeneggsandham1983/

    Also just as a sidenote, I am doing my first cameo. I'm charging $50. For Shan and I, it'll be $75. DM me (@dannyvegagram) or Shanny (@aita_pod) if you want that personalized cameo!!!

    (0:00) - Banter
    (2:14) Shanny story: AITA for verbally annihilating a Halloween trash talker?
    (7:23) Danny story: AITA for Onewheel-ing where I know I shouldn't?
    (21:14) - TW THE NEXT SITUATION
    (21:38) - tw: AITA for skipping Thanksy G when my mom bought my flight already?
    (34:02) - AITA for hosting my own Thanksy G after my daughter-in-law didn't invite me?
    (52:00) - AITA for sitting on my husband's lap during Thanksy G dinner?


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    530 AITA for participating in my fam’s gift-giving tradition? (gift theme)

    530 AITA for participating in my fam’s gift-giving tradition? (gift theme)
    Thanks for listenin'!

    (0:00) - Banter

    (17:39) - AITA for downgrading my sister’s gift for ghosting my GF out of her wedding party?

    (30:18) - AITA for participating in my family’s particular gift giving tradition?

    (40:34) - AITA for giving away my grandparents’ gift intended for my fiance?



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