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    Curb the Binge: The Podcast

    Let's be real ~ most of us are battling addictions in one form or another. Katya Slivinskaya takes one form of addiction ~ the deceptively common Binge Eating Disorder (more common than you think) ~ and asks for help from the most skilled and inspiring coaches, therapists, healers and artists she can find, in search of one thing: how can we use our addictions to live happier, freer lives?
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    Episodes (40)

    Eating Disorders and the Mother Line with Kathe Izzo

    Eating Disorders and the Mother Line with Kathe Izzo

    Our relationships with our mothers and/or primary caregivers are inseparable from our relationship with food. If we use food as a path - as a way to constantly mature ourselves in our wholeness and health and in living our full vibrancy - then we are likely at one point or another to face head-on this question of our maternal relationship. What did our mothers teach us about food, about nourishing and nurturing ourselves? About hunger? About loving ourselves? And, an equally important question: what are we teaching and not teaching our daughters, nieces, and other young women of today? Kathe Izzo and Katya Slivinskaya dive in on these questions and a unifying approach to healing. 

    "I Don't Believe that God Likes Repetition" - Healing Habitual Patterns Through Mindfulness with Felix Lopez

    "I Don't Believe that God Likes Repetition" - Healing Habitual Patterns Through Mindfulness with Felix Lopez

    One of the biggest healing powers we have inside of us is our capacity for mindfulness. This is something innate to all human beings - it is our birthright and something we can choose at any moment. Mind-body medicine now fully supports that how - and what - we think directly and immediately affects the chemistry of our bodies. So how can we harness this incredible potential for awareness to heal addictions and other habitual patterns that we know just aren't good for us? In this episode, Felix Lopez gives us a fun, exploratory look at how we can change our habits organically, so that us and our "bad habits" become like oil and water - we just don't mix! 

    End the Suffering and Change Your Life with Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.

    End the Suffering and Change Your Life with Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D.

    For people suffering with binge eating disorder and stubborn excess weight, there is finally a long-term solution. One based on sound science and an honest look at our food industry, Bright Line Eating is not a diet - it is a way of life that allows the brain to stop making its 220+ daily decisions about food - decisions which put pressure on our willpower to constantly make healthy choices - and instead relies on habit-forming and automaticity. The truth is, most of us are depleting our willpower in so many other ways, we don't have that much left over to govern our food choices - and that's how, despite our best intentions, we find ourselves breaking our new year's resolutions to lose weight and eat better, usually just weeks after we've made them. Bright Line Eating is a system that trains your brain to relate to food from the habit-forming center, rather than the decision-making center, making life - and achieving your goals - a whole lot easier than you ever thought possible. 

    Staying Close to Yourself on the Wild and Curvy Path with Alison Rothman

    Staying Close to Yourself on the Wild and Curvy Path with Alison Rothman
    Stories have the power to heal. Hearing the stories of others may empower us to tell our own story, and telling our own story can transform our relationship to our struggles. This is because, once we tell a story of struggle, we distance ourselves from it, ironically. We get to see, as if from a distance, that we are not and we never were defined solely by a struggle, a behavior, or a trait. We are the hero inside - the hero that is learning to move beyond the behavior, to solve the struggle. To integrate and heal the different parts of us. When we start to identify with the hero inside of the journey, our story changes, and we can reclaim our rightful place among the constellation of characters inside of us. Alison Rothman has been studying alternative forms of healing for over two decades, has her own healing and embodiment practice out of Boulder, Colorado, and has been in recovery for almost 20 years from an eating disorder that involved though was not exclusive to binging. In this episode, she tells her own story. Her own experience of the dark night of the soul - what can be called rock bottom - was the space in which she found the strength to evolve to the next iteration of her being. Through living in a treatment center far from her home, where she was brought face to face with the inner dynamics that were causing her eating disorder in the first place, to learning how to begin life as a functioning adult after living in a reality constructed solely of her eating disorder for years - Alison now shares the mindset changes and tools that she still uses regularly to cultivate and hone what she says to be the most important ingredient of healing - love and compassion for oneself. Please join Alison and I as we talk about the path that isn't glamorous or advertised - and yet it is the path most of us walk, simply by virtue of being human. It is the wild and curvy path - the unmarked path - the path whereby, even if we are trying our best to follow a prescribed method for healing, we still come face to face with obstacles that are uniquely our own, and there is no way through other than to solve our own riddle.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    • One woman's story of doing the inner work to heal her eating disorder.
    • Going from counting every calorie to complete self-forgiveness and gentleness.
    • How and why disordered eating may be the symptom, not the cause.
    • Why waiting to wake up healed doesn't ultimately work - why being proactive is the answer, though it may not be how you thought, and what kind of gentle and loving work with yourself is guaranteed to start causing evolution and change at the level of root cause, so that you can begin to find greater and greater relief.
    • Specific practices to help you change your story about yourself so that your whole view of and regard for yourself changes. This is where deep and lasting change of habits comes from.
    • Ingredients of healing your relationship with yourself - hint: these have nothing to do with deprivation, self-blame or shame. In fact, these tools unravel those patterns.
    • Transitioning from hiding in your eating disorder, to living and interacting fully in the world.
    • How Alison used connection to others in her massage training to help provide the day-to-day engagement that supported her recovery.
    • The connection between hiding in an eating disorder, and intimacy.
    • Where she gets her juice and excitement for life from, now that food serves a different, more nourishing role in her life.

    Find Alison, her retreats and programs at http://alisonrothman.com.

    **Please read! Alison recently posted a blog on the subject of being interviewed for CurbtheBinge. If you love the raw vulnerability Alison came with in this interview, check out her writing on the subject, which reveals nuggets she didn't share here:  http://alisonrothman.com/the-silence-has-been-broken/

    Feeding Your Demons (a Loving Practice) with Charlotte Rotterdam

    Feeding Your Demons (a Loving Practice) with Charlotte Rotterdam
    In this episode, I interview Tibetan Buddhist teacher Charlotte Rotterdam, who teaches meditation, Feeding Your Demons, and other Buddhist practices around the US and abroad. She received her Masters from Harvard Divinity School and is an Instructor and Director of the Center for the Advancement of Contemplative Education at Naropa University. In 2016 she received the title of Magyu Lopön, lead teacher of Magyu: The Mother Lineage at Tara Mandala by her teacher Lama Tsultrim Allione. This episode is unique in that Charlotte will actually guide you through a Feeding Your Demons practice, which - despite how it sounds - is actually an incredibly gentle, loving way to transform parts of you that may seem challenging and problematic (and even hell-raising, at times!) into allies that can help you live a more full, rich and vibrant life. It's the quickest way I know to make real, lasting change that gets to the cause of what is happening. Because of the nature of this episode, you may want to find a comfortable seat in your house, rather than running, biking or driving during the episode. And, heads up, for the actual practice portion (last half hour of the show) you'll need two seats, situated across from each other. As you listen to the guidance given and follow along, please keep in mind that this powerful practice can be used on anything from binge eating and other addictions, to relationship issues, career challenges, political tensions, and so much more.

    Be sure to listen to the first half of the show, as we go into:

    • Why trying to rid yourself of your "demons" usually backfires - and why inviting these demons in and creating intimacy with them is actually a much faster, more fulfilling way to go if you want a more rich, vibrant and peaceful experience of yourself and your life.
    • How to increase compassion for yourself and others by seeing your "issues" in a radically new way.
    • How problematic patterns and behaviors were formed in the first place - the "root."
    • The fundamental relationship between needs and wants when it comes to your demons, and why developing a clear understanding of this distinction can make the difference between continuing a destructive pattern, and finding joyful freedom.
    You can find more of Charlotte Rotterdam and Feeding Your Demons practice, including trainings, at https://skymind.us/.  You can also contact Charlotte directly at charlotte@skymind.us. For more information on Tara Mandala retreat center and the teachings of Lama Tsultrim Allione, Charlotte's teacher, visit https://taramandala.org/.

    "This is the One Thing I Know that Works" with Dr. Susan Peirce Thompson

    "This is the One Thing I Know that Works" with Dr. Susan Peirce Thompson
    Dr. Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D., is a renowned professor, researcher, and now author on the subject of how to free ourselves from food addiction and, in her own words, "live happy, thin, and free." I've had the pleasure of reading some of her book, which will be out on March 21st, 2017, and, in this podcast, I speak with her about what makes Bright Line Eating the one method she knows that can work to stabilize binge eating. *My strong opinion is that everyone can benefit from learning about Susan's research and method, because disordered eating is not just common among a select few - the more I open up with folks about what I do with this website, the more I get the response - from all demographics - "hey, I have that!" (about binge eating).

    In this podcast, you will learn:

    • How someone with an intensely addictive past used science to understand her food addiction.
    • Why certain methods of managing binge eating, that work for some, may not work for others.
    • How you can find out your level of susceptibility to food addiction, which will help you find just the right level of strictness for a food plan that would best support you.
    • Susan's personal story of working towards a Ph.D. while actively binge eating, and how it affected her career then and now.
    • Why certain events that seem like "flukes" or "failures" when they happen may actually be serving us beyond what we could plan ourselves.
    • "Is addictability itself healable?"

    Here is Susan's bio:

    Susan Peirce Thompson, Ph.D. is an Adjunct Associate Professor of Brain and Cognitive Sciences at the University of Rochester and an expert in the psychology of eating. She is President of the Institute for Sustainable Weight Loss and CEO of Bright Line Eating Solutions, a company dedicated to sharing the psychology and neuroscience of sustainable weight loss and helping people live Happy, Thin, and Free. She is author of the forthcoming book Bright Line Eating: The Science of Living Happy, Thin, and Free (March 21, 2017)

    And some helpful links:

    Eat, Drink, Shine with the Blissful Sisters

    Eat, Drink, Shine with the Blissful Sisters
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Eat-Drink-Shine-with-the-Blissful-Sisters-122116-1.36-PM.mp3"][/audio]   In this podcast, you will learn:
    • How to replace judgement with engagement.
    • How to find peace with yourself when you're celebrating with food and drink.
    • How to avoid the "falling off the wagon" syndrome, and how to get back on!
    • A critical (and enjoyable) part of self-care that we too often overlook.
    • Why and how you can take excellent care of yourself and still love food.
    • The difference between eating for escape and eating for enjoyment.
    • How to satiate the body and the soul, and create intimacy through food.
    • How being afraid of "getting messy"( showing our real selves) can keep us from the experience of True Love - the experience we all desire.
    • Why eating in front of others is a gift to them.
    • A simple trick that will help you enjoy every minute of a party while also enjoying (and not obsessing over) the food.
    • In case you need it, here's more confirmation that hardship can lead to some of the most beautiful and meaningful developments of our lives.

    The Inner Child and Binge Eating

    The Inner Child and Binge Eating
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/The-Inner-Child-and-Binge-Eating.mp3"][/audio] This is likely one of my most personal podcasts yet, sharing a very raw and vulnerable process I have been going through lately, working at healing the cause of binge eating on the most inner, unconscious levels. In this podcast, I share the work that has brought me to tears many times in the past few weeks - the kind of shaky uncontrollable tears that flood us when we have touched something primal in ourselves. I also share the techniques that I have used to take myself to that place of vulnerability, and to support myself while I am there. Through this work, I am once again convinced that healing binge eating doesn't come simply from instating the perfect set of rules, no matter how much self-discipline we have. This is a deeper emotional nugget we are facing, once with the potential to bring us so much closer to ourselves and to Real Love than we may have ever imagined. And slowly, with gentleness, may we begin to see more and more of our true selves. Happy healing, Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
    Curb the Binge: The Podcast
    enDecember 17, 2016

    Rewrite Your Story with Adam Sommer

    Rewrite Your Story with Adam Sommer
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Rewrite-Your-Story-with-Adam-Sommer-12616-10.25-PM.mp3"][/audio] Our lives are run by the stories we tell ourselves. These stories keep us repeating the same patterns over and over again. If you want to change the way you are experiencing life, you're going to have to rewrite your story. The good news is, it's fun. In this podcast, you will learn:
    • What stories are made up of, and the one thing that - if we understand it - can help us rewrite out story entirely, from scratch.
    • The one thing we should have learned in school, that most of us didn't.
    • What astrology is and what it isn't - contrary to much popular belief.
    • The few aspects in an astrology chart to look for, even if you disregard everything else.
    • How to detect signs that you are moving in the right direction.
    • How to make good decisions.

    This is Me Doing 1 Terrifying Thing

    This is Me Doing 1 Terrifying Thing
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/This-is-Me-Doing-1-Terrifying-Thing-113016-11.48-AM.mp3"][/audio] Happy people advocate doing 1 thing that terrifies you, every single day. Why? Because your life energy will move instead of staying stagnant and stuck, and you will once again feel in alignment with the universe and all of creation. Change is life, and so when we resist change - which is what we are up to most of the time when we are resisting doing the things we fear - we resist life. And then we find ourselves slowly stagnating, holding on to what we have and never letting the current of life actually pulse through us and potentially bring us something new, something better. I'm not saying don't take care of what you have. Everything that is real, stays. Everything that is relevant, stays. But there are probably things in your life that you are holding on to for dear life, that are less than what you are ready for. That you have, in effect, grown out of. I have found over and over again that the more I challenge myself by doing those things that bring me fear, the more alive and in touch I feel, and the more I am able to give to others. Regarding binge eating, in this episode I take a leap, one I have been fearing for a long time. I do it on the air, and it's one that I know will change my life significantly. Join me. Oh yes, and here is the video mentioned in the talk. Brilliant. ENjoy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDQrMoksJ4Q

    Can Willpower, Self Discipline, and Self-Love Coexist?

    Can Willpower, Self Discipline, and Self-Love Coexist?
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/2016-11-22-Can-willpower-self-discipline-and-self-love-co-exist-112216-8.44-PM.mp3"][/audio] Some camps of binge eating recovery say that willpower is the answer. Others say binging is a result of deprivation, and attest that willpower and deprivation are not the answer and that they actually add fuel to the flame. What can we gain from both these camps? Are we to throw away willpower completely and let ourselves eat whatever, whenever? Or would it be faster and smarter to train ourselves to have discipline around food, and trust that the emotional healing will take care of itself? In this podcast you will learn:
    • An approach that does not discount either self-discipline or self-love, and uses both for their strengths.
    • A self-love practice that will help you to both, be present with your emotions without having to binge, and to feel more compassion and tenderness towards yourself.
    • Willpower and self-discipline techniques that stem from self-love rather than self-hatred or self-admonishment.
    • A specific order for trying these strategies in your life.
    • Plus: a way of looking at freedom that will change your relationship to self-discipline, forever!
    After you listen, leave a comment!
    Links mentioned in the show:
    1. Articles about Meditation and Awareness on Curb the Binge:
      1. What to Do After a Binge
      2. Binging: Is it a Question of Willpower?
      3. These Two Words Hold a Key to Healing
    2. 3 meals versus 6: A study showing there is no change in metabolic rate between 3 or 6 meals per day: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19943985
    3. ****How to Eat Your Way to Enlightenment with Maureen Whitehouse ~ Listen to the Podcast

    3 Steps to Transform Your Inner Saboteur

    3 Steps to Transform Your Inner Saboteur

    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/3-Steps-to-Transform-Your-Inner-Saboteur-111516-8.31-PM.mp3"][/audio] Binge eating can be experienced as an inner sabotage mechanism, a force that comes to undercut what we are trying to build. How can we work with this inner saboteur, instead of running away from it, denying its existence, or trying to push it down or wipe it out? In this podcast, Katya Slivinskaya talks about the nature of the inner saboteur, why we don't need to be afraid of it, and what to do instead. In this podcast you will learn:

    • What is the shadow?
    • How to detect your own shadow, aka "inner saboteur".
    • How to neutralize these parts of yourself that repeatedly make trouble.
    • What to do when the inner saboteur surfaces.
    • What your inner saboteur is really asking for.
    • What your inner saboteur is hiding - it's really good news.
    • How to create connection in times of vulnerability.
    • All of the above, condensed into 3 simple steps.

    Quotes from the Podcast: "One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." "A man who is unconscious of himself acts in a blind, instinctive way and is in addition fooled by all the illusions that arise when he sees everything that he is not conscious of in himself coming to meet him from outside as projections upon his neighbor." ~ Both quotes from Carl Jung

    How to Function at a Higher Level Starting Now with Tomas Jones

    How to Function at a Higher Level Starting Now with Tomas Jones
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/2016-11-08-Tomas-Jones-11816-10.22-PM.mp3"][/audio] Tomas Jones is a facilitator and educator with training in Chiropractic, Therapeutic Touch, Homeopathy, herbal and flower medicine, Reiki, Trigger Point, and Chinese Medicine. Since 1991, he has been employing a method called, "Inner Dialogue," developed by Solihin Thom, DO (Doctor of Osteopathy). For scheduling one on one sessions with Tomas, contact Colette Smith at colette@colettesgarden.com. For miscellaneous inquiries you can also contact Tomas Jones personally at jones.tomas@gmail.com. More about inner dialogue here: http://innerdialogue.org/. In this podcast you will learn:
    • One ridiculously simple step you can do right now to take your functioning to the next level.
    • How you can use the force behind binge eating to your advantage.
    • A profound and helpful metaphor for understanding the human system (how "we tick").
    • Why binging is nothing to be ashamed of.
    • Do we need to understand why we have a certain problem before we can solve it?
    • How you can take binge eating management into your own hands.
    • A radical new understanding of stress and it's hidden (surprisingly positive) message for us.
    • Why cravings are nothing to be afraid of.
    • A bonus technique for keeping weight off.
    And much much more! This podcast is jam-packed with applicable information you can start using to take your life to the next level today. Listen now and tell us what you found most helpful in the comments below.

    The #1 Action Step to Heal All Compulsions with Lisa Jo Landsberg

    The #1 Action Step to Heal All Compulsions with Lisa Jo Landsberg
    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Lisa-Jo-Landsberg-Version-2-101716-11.17-AM.mp3"][/audio] Certified Iyengar Yoga Instructor, Coach, and Clinical Hypnotherapist Lisa Jo Landsberg takes us into the meaning of compulsions, their hidden message, and the #1 Action Step (hint: it's not a quick fix, but it'll absolutely change your life) to dissolve compulsion at the root. In this podcast you will learn:
    • What is compulsion?
    • What makes all compulsions alike?
    • What do all women who experience eating disorders have in common?
    • What is yoga really about?
    • Why deprivation and binging are essentially the same thing.
    • Is there a light at the end of the tunnel?
    • Are we ever truly healed?
    • The remedy for self-hatred

    3 Steps to Reframe Your Hunger with Katya Slivinskaya

    3 Steps to Reframe Your Hunger with Katya Slivinskaya

    [audio mp3="http://curbthebinge.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/2016-10-06-Hunger-10716-6.07-PM.mp3"][/audio] Don't miss this ~ in this episode, Katya Slivinskaya dives deep in to the driving force behind binge eating ~ HUNGER. From MFK Fisher waxing poetic on her gastronomical trips to Dijon, to a Number One reason to congratulate yourself as a binge eater, this podcast is full of rich ideas and connections that will change the way you think about food, hunger, habits, and the way forward.

    Curb the Binge: The Podcast
    enOctober 09, 2016

    How to Eat Your Way to Enlightenment with Maureen Whitehouse

    How to Eat Your Way to Enlightenment with Maureen Whitehouse

    Maureen Whitehouse is indeed a powerhouse. Renowned transformational teacher, public speaker, bestselling author and now a teaching fellow and research fellow at Harvard Divinity School, she has been at the forefront of the food and spirituality movement for over two decades. Her teaching is juicy and uncensored, fueled by the genuine desire to guide others toward total liberation. This is a mindset-changing talk you won't want to miss!

    Curb the Binge: The Podcast
    enOctober 01, 2016