Dating Transformation

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Robbie Kramer
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiekramer/


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:53 - Deliberating Online Dating Strategies and Script Usage
04:45 - Playfully Identifying Weaknesses in Conversational Tone
07:18 - Effectiveness of Personalized, Effortless Messages
11:39 - Enhancing Responses with Quick, Tailored Messaging
14:53 - Flirting Advice for Dating Gracefully and Respectfully
17:35 - Utilizing Games to Enhance Date Intimacy
20:35 - Relationship Origins: Banter-Packed First Date
26:50 - Photo Opinions Solicited for Enhanced Profile Quality
28:21 - Crafting Profile Pictures: Appealing, Genuine, and Verified
30:53 - Picture Story: Man Amid Desert and Hammock
35:58 - Managing Photos Before Bio and Prompts Composition
39:20 - Experimenting with Playful Sexual Prompts
41:41 - Crafting Engaging Social Media Content Challenges
47:06 - Balancing Self-Presentation: Discretion over Grandiosity
49:35 - Prioritizing Social Circles Over Online Dating
52:10 - Outro

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If you’re struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or any app that uses prompts, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is up for your alley. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett shares his 10 funniest prompts to use on the apps, so you can STOP getting ghosted on the apps and START to get women laughing… and wanting to date you! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15 - Top 10 Hilarious Dating App Prompts
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Chats
08:03 - Your Go-To Dating Prompts: Copy and Paste
10:05 - Cooking Expertise: Specializing in Peanut Butter on Toast
11:04 - Witty Hinge Humor: Buttering Toast and Sock Divorces
12:39 - Surprising with Humorous and Romantic Prompts
15:19 - Hemsworth Vibes: Clickbait with a Twist
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence and Attracting Your Dream Match
21:12 - Adding Humor and Excitement to Your Dating Profile
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor and Charm to Draw Dates
30:16 - Crafting a Balanced Profile: Humor, Relatability, and Authenticity
31:17 - Outro

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Did you know that there are 5 dating superpowers that you can start using TODAY to confidently attract wonderful women? In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett takes you through these 5 superpowers and shows you how to use them to attract your dream girl… and to do it with integrity and authenticity. Listen now!

Quotes

"When you text her with the mindset of already being in a relationship, you shift from trying to impress her to genuinely expressing yourself."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:38 - Flirting and Confidence: Tips for Building Connection
05:11 - Projecting Confidence: The Power of a Clear and Friendly Voice
06:42 - Connell's Coaching Corner: Boosting Confidence in Dating and Self-Improvement
10:25 - Subtly Expressing Physical Interest: Creating Rapport
14:48 - Reading Signals and Gradual Progression: Respecting Boundaries
16:50 - The Power of Laughter: Expressing Appreciation and Connection
19:03 - Unleashing Authenticity: Overcoming Dating Struggles
20:27 - Compliments and Teases: Balancing Playful Interest
25:26 - Messaging from a Place of Confidence and Abundance
27:45 - Playful Challenges and Making Her Chase You
30:31 - Nicknames: Showcasing Confidence, Familiarity, and Closeness
33:40 - Embracing Simplicity: Focusing on the Present Moment
36:26 - Believe in Yourself: Finding Love in the Journey
37:00 - Outro

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If you’re not sure how to flirt with women, this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast is for you. Dating coach and host Connell Barrett has had 1,000 dates (literally!), so he knows exactly how to help you connect with women.

Listen in as he shares his Top 10 flirting moves to help you attract your next girlfriend, and do it with class and authenticity. You’re about to learn…

2:17 The first rule of flirting
4:30 How to use your voice to create a connection
7:31 The right posture and eye contact
8:45 The charming, consensual, NON-CREEPY way to physically touch her on a date
14:27 A simple, powerful thing to say on every first date that she’s gonna love
17:17 Advanced flirting move! How the “Push-Pull” can get her super into you
21:45 A texting shift to instantly become funny and confident when messaging her
24:00 Say THIS on first dates to make her want to chase you
26:00 An eye-contact secret to amplify mutual sexual tension
27:03 A fun first-date move to get her WAY more into you

Listen now so you can become a MASTER at flirting, which will bring you closer to finding that incredible girlfriend you deserve.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Just randomly placing your arm on... [UNTIL] and/or emotions." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett

Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:15- Top 10 Funniest Prompts for Dating Apps
03:52 - Navigating Fun and Flirty Date Conversations
08:03 - Reusing Your Favorite Dating Prompts
12:39 - Adding Humor and Romance to Prompts
15:19 - Clickbaiting with a Sense of Humor
19:09 - Boosting Dating Confidence for Ideal Matches
22:50 - Spark Conversations with Netflix Humor
25:21 - Exploring More Funny Bio Ideas
29:09 - Using Humor to Attract Dates
30:16 - Standing Out with a Balanced Dating Profile
31:03 - Outro

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Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Are you struggling with what to say and how to text? Are you still hurting from a past break-up?


You’re in luck, because in this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix those problems. How? You get to listen in on a live coaching session Connell does with his new client Nate.


Nate has some common dating struggles, and in their first coaching session Connell gives Nate some advice that you can also use. You’re about to learn…


5:45 How to get “out of your head” on dates

9:00 The RIGHT way to text women (and the WRONG way)

14:00 The kinds of texts to NEVER send

17:10 Why authenticity is what women want

21:00 How NOT to overshare with women

35:00 How to stop doubting yourself on dates and feel more confident

44:00 A simple way to get over getting dumped so you can meet someone new

52:00 How to achieve an abundance mindset in datingListen now, so you can find your dream girlfriend, while dating with confidence and authenticity.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

If you struggle with how to flirt with women, or your dates don’t go anywhere, or you’re not meeting the kinds of women you’re into… listen up!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, dating coach and host Connell Barrett talks with his superstar client John, who’s been having some incredible dates with some incredible women… and he’s done it all with RADICAL AUTHENTICITY (no creepy pickup moves
needed.)


John—a true, classy gentleman who likes and respects women—has gone from low confidence to an abundance of dating options.


Connell and John are about to teach you how to…

• How to stay out of the Friend Zone*Make first-date moves that women enjoy
• Get HER to kiss YOU first and chase for your interest
• Flirt and text in a charming, classy way women love.
• Be more self-confident TODAY

And a lot more!


Are you ready to get more dates, more confidence, and find your dream girl? Listen to John’s rock-star success stories with women, and go find the great, gorgeous girlfriend you deserve.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"In any given moment, our confidence or lack thereof is going to come from what we focus on and how we interpret that focus." John

Featured in the episode

John

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
04:26 - Confidence Boost and Refreshed Dating Skills
08:40 - Finding the Right Setting for Successful Dates
12:12 - Building Connection through Touch on Dates
13:17 - Fun Dates: Intimacy, Rapport, and Compatibility
18:19 - Embracing Confidence and Mindset, Letting Go of Insecurity
21:41 - Pre-Date Confidence Boost: Reciting Notepad Words
23:22 - Self-Reflection: Work Trip to Italy, Blake Shelton
28:07 - Memorable First Date Leading to an Unexpected Kiss
31:36 - Training for Improved Dating Success and Confidence
35:48 - Authenticity Over Fakeness: Good Dating Advice
37:34 - Having Fun Authentically: Showing Her the Way
42:53 - Outro

If you wonder what it’s like to work with a renowned dating coach, this episode is for you. Because dating coach Connell Barrett takes you “behind the curtain” and lets you listen in on a coaching session with his new client Ryan.


If you’re like Ryan, you struggle with flirting, or you have self-confidence. Or you want to approach women but it’s difficult for you? You’re about to learn…


• How to overcome “approaching anxiety” so you can meet some wonderful women
• What to say when you want to approach and not seem creepy
• The secret to self-confidence with women
• How to flirt with women with charm, and no pickup tricks
• How to gets dates in a matter of days!


And a lot more.


Listen to Connell’s live-coaching session with Ryan, as he has some BIG dating breakthroughs. It’s time to stop struggling in your love life, and to start attracting wonderful women, as your most authentic, confident self. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"So the lack of eye contact comes from your social discomfort. With doing this combined with those confidence pieces of confidence kryptonite. Okay? It's gonna take time." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
06:21 - Transforming Negativity into Positive Action
06:54 - Identifying Confidence Kryptonite: Building a Strong Foundation
13:23 - Discovering Areas Where You Feel Amazing
17:13 - Energy, Eye Contact, Confidence: Women's Response
20:38 - Extended Phone Sessions: Transformation and Confidence Talks
24:24 - Flirting Confidently: Asking About Her Eye Color
26:06 - Utilizing Colorblindness to Spark Conversations
30:03 - Overcoming Worry, Self-Doubt, and Overthinking
31:42 - Politeness in Approaching and Asking Someone Out
38:02 - Embracing Internal Validation, Ignoring External Sources
39:15 - Approaching: Not Weird, Actually Creepy Not To
42:25 - The Risky, Yet Safe Strategy: Confident Approaches
46:08 - Letting Go of Unrequited Love and the Past
49:06 - Accepting Rejection, Focusing on Future Opportunities
55:05 - Practicing Confidence: Voice, Approach, and Growth
55:51 - The Admiration for Social Charm and Gentlemen
56:10 - Outro

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You know what’s worse than a big hunk of coal in your Christmas stocking? Approach anxiety, getting ghosted, and getting locked up in the friend zone after a first date. Ho-ho-NOOO!


In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix all of those problems by taking some questions from listeners. You’re about to learn…

• Connell’s personal formula for taking massive approaching action
• A texting tip you’ve NEVER heard before
• The biggest dating mistake he ever made, which led to his biggest breakthrough
• How to NOT get ghosted
• A confidence “hack” to make you feel MUCH more attractive

Listen now, so you can STOP feeling stuck with women, and START making sparks fly with cool, cute girls, as your most authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“I sound like the love child of Suzanne Pleshette and Danny DeVito” -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:58 - Ignite Change: Embrace Disturbance and Take Massive Action
05:35 - The Internal Struggle: Devil Stabs Angel, Motivation to Approach Women
06:58 - Personalized Guidance: Boosting Confidence and Attracting Women
11:20 - The Regret of Hiding: Learning from Dating Mistakes
12:21 - Creating a Persona: Embellishing Adventures for Compatibility
13:37 - A Year of Transformation: Taking Positive Action and Embracing Authenticity
16:09 - Transforming Confidence: Finding your Dream Girl Through Self-Improvement
19:27 - Crafting Engaging Texts: Building Excitement and Intrigue
22:18 - Authenticity Over Lines: Emphasizing Confidence in Dating
21:18 - The Common Question: What to Say When Approaching a Woman?
24:12 - Outro

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Pop quiz, dating app user! Do cute, quality women match with you about as often as Halley’s Comet visits Earth? Yeah, I thought so.

It’s downright debilitating to grab your phone, check the app, and… crickets and tumbleweeds. No matches… no GOOD ones, anyway.

The good news? This is fixable! You just need to realize the cause of your problem: Your photos SUCK! It’s time to upgrade your photo game and see the matches pour in.

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 6 Game-Changing Photos that you need to get a LOT more matches (and dates!) on the apps.

These are the 6 specific kinds of photos that Connell and his clients have used to get thousands of matches with bright, beautiful women.

So listen now and upload 6 game-changing photos to YOUR profile, and turn your phone into a date-generating machine!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

“If you’re not getting matches on the apps, it’s NOT that you’re not enough. You’re awesome! But your portraits aren’t enough.” -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - The 6 Game-Changing Photos for a Successful Dating Profile
04:43 - From Jacket and Tie to Casual Style: Portraying Confidence in Photos
05:31 - The 'Ah' Photo That Tugs at Her Heartstring
07:08 - Boosting Confidence and Connections: Guidance from a Dating Coach
10:53 - Activity and Masculinity: The 4th Photo, Social Settings with Friends for the 5th
11:15 - The Dance Floor Connection: Capturing Unforgettable Moments in Photos
13:20 - Inviting Her into Your Life: Giving a Glimpse of Exciting Experiences
14:49 - From Fence-Sitter to Hell Yeah: The Power of the Goosh Photo
17:07 - Fun, Silly, and Memorable: Crafting the Perfect 6th Photo
20:12 - Game-Changing Photos for Dating Apps: A Quick Recap
22:12 - Unveiling Online Dating Success: The Power of Your Photos
23:55 - Outro

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‘Love Actually’ is now 20-years-old, and dating coach Connell Barrett is here to review the classic rom-com in terms of dating strategy. Listen in as he shares some lessons that YOU can use to improve your love life.


So… let’s go get the sh*t kicked out of us by love!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

“Avoid dating someone you supervise or who supervises you. Workplace romances can be problematic, especially when a power dynamic is involved.” - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:12 - The Love-Hate Relationship with Romcoms: Comedy vs. Strategies
03:50 - Connell Barrett's Review of 'Love Actually'
08:12 - The Danger of Inappropriate Workplace Relationships
13:23 - Advocation for the First-Kiss Initiative
15:27 - Cautionary Advice Against Desperate Romantic Gestures
18:20 - Embracing Romantic Risks for Love and Connection
21:49 - Lessons to Learn: Dating Strategy from 'Love Actually
23:57 - Outro

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Ever had what you thought was a good date or conversation with a woman, only to find out she just wasn’t interested?

And you have no idea what you did wrong!

Odds are, your conversation was too boring. And if you bore women, your dating life will suffer.
Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this all too well. As an introvert, he used to struggle with flirting. He didn’t know what to say. He bored women, who chose more charismatic guys over him.
And then he fixed it! How?

In this episode, Connell shares three simple strategies he used to go from being Mr. Dull to authentically charismatic.

Listen now, and take your love life from boring to SOARING!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"You can go from boring to charismatic with women if you convey an authentic, real, raw version of yourself." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:19 - Breaking the Cycle: How to Avoid Being a Boring Date
04:37 - Unconventional Love Story: Shelley and the Old Carriage Man
07:14 - Dating Transformation with Connell: Revamping Your Dating Life
11:09 - Mastering Compelling and Emotionally Charged Dating Approaches
15:53 - Role Reversal and Playful Confidence: Spice Up Your Dates
19:44 - Engagement Ring Role Play: Adding Fun and Playfulness to Dates
20:30 - The Power of Opposite Texting After a First Date
23:56 - Compelling Conversations: Personal Topics and Emotional Engagement
28:08 - Movie Preferences and Conversation Tips
33:27 - Attracting Women through Radical Authenticity
36:32 - Unleashing Your Charisma: Expressiveness, Emotional Connection, and Humor
38:56 - Outro

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If your love life is stuck in a neutral, well, dating coach Connell Barrett has been there. He battled every dating problem in the book, from low confidence to approach anxiety to a lack of matches on the apps.

And he fixed them all!

In today’s episode, Connell shares 7 of the biggest “Aha!” moments he had on his journey from “the King of the Friend Zone” to becoming, as the New York Post calls him, “the real-life Hitch.”
Listen now so you can have your own “Aha!” moment, and attract a wonderful girlfriend into your life.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"YOU don't suck. You're amazing! But your dating profile sucks. Fix your profile and you'll fix your dating life." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
https://www.heartcastmedia.com
Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:58 - Life and Dating Advice for a Younger Self
03:10 - The First Big Moment: Women Showing Interest
08:51 - Authenticity: The Magic Bullet in Dating
12:32 - Online Dating: A Digital Marketing Perspective
16:08 - A Deal Between Friends: Follow Each Other's Instructions
19:20 - Overcoming the Creepiness Factor
22:25 - A Major Turning Point: Confident Approach and Tonality
24:20 - Give to Get: Making Her Feel Special
28:06 - Shifting Focus: From Ego to Giving
30:44 - Magical Moments: Rainy Make-Outs and Potential Partners
36:41 - The Temperature Rises: A Friend's Remark
38:07 - The Power of Delivery: Tone and Non-Verbal Communication
40:50 - Outro

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Cue the confetti! Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest for this episode: the fun, funny, talented, effervescent Melanie Sutrathada!

Melanie is an actor, TV host and lifestyle expert who’s appeared on “Good Morning America” and “Today.” She’s also a single woman who knows what women want from single men! And she has a LOT of wisdom to share.

Connell and Melanie team up to talk about…

8:45: Why travel makes you more attractive

14:20: How activity dates make it easier to go for the first kiss

22:00: What to say to your date when you’re nervous and NOT confident

29:00: How to improve your flirty banter on dates

41:30: What women are really looking for from men

42:25: The right (and WRONG) ways to approach a woman

And a lot more!

Listen to the amazing Melanie Sutrathada wax eloquent about dating, true-crime, traveling the world, and much more.

SEE MELANIE TRAVEL THE WORLD ON INSTAGRAM: @‌melaniesutra

CHECK OUT HER HOSTING AND ACTING SKILLS ON HER WEBSITE:
Melanie Sutrathada | Actor ∙ Host ∙ Content Creator

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You have to shoot your shot and take chances, in life and in love, because tomorrow isn't promised to us." -Melanie Sutrathada

Featured in the episode

Melanie Sutrathada
Instagram: @‌melaniesutra
Website: http://www.melaniesutrathada.com/

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
00:42 - Embracing Multiple Roles: Actor, Host, Lifestyle Expert
04:37 - The Art of the Wingman: Navigating New York Dating
08:22 - Prioritizing Experiences over Money: Life's True Essence
10:17 - Seizing the Present: Acting Now in an Uncertain Tomorrow
15:27 - Self-Discovery, Love, and Sports: Years of Adventure
18:55 - The Awkwardness of Distant Date First Kisses
22:15 - Exciting Dates that Check Off Your Bucket List
25:38 - Cultivating Meaningful Connections through Honesty and Vulnerability
33:08 - The Power of Active Listening in Meaningful Conversations
36:08 - Expressing Compatibility and Nurturing Potential Relationships
41:26 - Heartwarming Note from Jess's Cat, Boots
45:25 - Seeking a Confident, Non-Jealous, and Initiative-Taking Partner
51:09 - Acts of Kindness: Crossing Paths with the Right Person
54:13 - Outro

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Dating coach Connell Barrett specializes in helping sober single men like YOU confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend… completely booze-free.

Is it hard for you to meet women, because you’re sober… and alcohol and dating are closely linked?

Are you worried that women may not be interested in you, once they learn that you’re sober?
Do you struggle to feel confident without the help of liquid courage?

In part 2 of Connell’s series on sober dating, he shares 7 strategies on how to confidently attract the right woman for you, sans alcohol. You’re about to learn…

3:45: How to confidently approach totally sober

5:32: Why your sober, authentic self is your MOST attractive, confident you

9:30: How sober dating makes it EASIER for you to make charming moves that women enjoy

11:45: How to feel confident as soon as you walk into a social venue

16:00: The Hinge prompt you can use today to get a LOT more matches

20:40: How to talk about your sobriety with a woman in an honest, attractive way

PLUS: A LOT of fun first-date ideas that don’t involve drinking.

Are you ready to say goodbye to your former wingmen (Johnnie, Jack and Bud) and instead attract women by being your best, most authentic and SOBER self?

(WARNING: You MIGHT get drunk on your own awesomeness.) Listen now!

ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You don't need liquid courage to approach women or make moves. You need ACTUAL courage. And unlike the liquid kind, courage is free, healthy and unlimited." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:12 - Breaking the Habit: Conquering Drinking on Dates
04:19 - Sobriety and Approaching Women: Overcoming Challenges
09:19 - Better Results, Sober Approaches: Unlocking Confidence
15:55 - Boosting Confidence and Sobriety: Approaching Women with Purpose
18:46 - Enhancing Matches: Non-Alcoholic Date Planning Tips
22:25 - Hinge Tips: Incorporating Sobriety and Trends
25:46 - Catering to Her Preferences: Planning a Wine-Loving Date
31:16 - Handling Dating Questions with Diplomacy
33:17 - Embracing Fear, Taking Romantic Risks, and Building Empathy
37:24 - Outro

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Drinking and dating go together like Scotch and soda. But are you a guy who uses alcohol as a crutch? Do you need a drink or two (or five!) to relax when talking to a woman? Do you depend on “liquid courage” to approach a woman, but you’re running low on ACTUAL courage? Sober dating coach Connell Barrett helps men confidently flirt, date and find love… without a drop of alcohol. In this special episode, Connell talks about his decade-long struggle to quit drinking (he was downing a gallon of whiskey each month), the moment he hit bottom, and how he finally became “a booze-free bad-ass.” If you’re a guy who wants to meet and date wonderful women and do it sober, this episode is for you.Or if you have ANY addiction that’s hurting your love life—alcohol, porn, pills, food—listen NOW, so you can slay the dragon of dependency and date with confidence.Are you ready to STOP using substances and START getting “drunk” on your own AUTHENTIC awesomeness... and find your soulmate? Listen now!

A SPECIAL SHOUT-OUT FROM CONNELL TO THE FOLLOWING AMAZING PEOPLE, WHOSE INSPIRING PODCASTS PROMOTE THE LIFE CHANGING POWER OF SOBRIETY:

DAX SHEPARD, ARMCHAIR EXPERT
https://armchairexpertpod.com/pods

NATE KELLY, THE SOBRIETY DIARIES
https://www.podcastnate.com/sobriety-diaries

SHANE RAMER, THAT SOBER GUY
https://www.thatsoberguy.com/

JAMES SWANWICK, ALCOHOL-FREE LIFESTYLE
https://alcoholfreelifestyle.com/homepage

ANDREW HUBERMAN, HUBERMAN LAB
https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast


ARE YOU A SOBER, SINGLE MAN LOOKING FOR DATING HELP? BOOK A
FREE CALL WITH CONNELL:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Take it from a sober dater: You don't need alcohol to confidently connect with women. You can get 'drunk' on your own authentic awesomeness."

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:41 - Conquering Addictions: Alcohol and Pornography
03:18 - Life Implications: Dating Coach Grapples with Alcohol Dependence
09:03 - The Downside of Indulgence: Body Changes and Erectile Dysfunction
12:35 - Shifting Perspectives: Alcohol Recognized as Poison
15:50 - Impending Perils: The Future Impact of Harmful Behaviors
19:11 - Joy in Change: Celebrating Sobriety and Weight Loss at Birthday
23:19 - A Sober Night Out: Reclaiming Confidence Without Alcohol
26:41 - Empowering Change: Assisting Men Towards Alcohol Independence
30:04 - The Reality Check: Analyzing Addiction Costs and Recovery Benefits
31:21 - Substitute with Health: Replacing Harmful Habits with Beneficial Alternatives
34:25 - Awaiting Your Authentic Self: Your Dream Girl's Expectations
34:39 - Outro

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We’re breaking the format in this episode as dating coach Connell Barrett knocks out not one, not two, but 15 (!!) quick dating tips in 15 minutes. You’re about to learn…

How to confidently approach, how to compliment women on dates, how to send a flirty opener on the apps, how to stop “running out of things to say,” how to get phone numbers the RIGHT way, how to flirt with lots of charm and zero creepiness, and a LOT more.

So listen now to get 15 practical tips in 15 hot minutes.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:

Apply to Work with Dating Coach Connell Barrett
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes
"Approaching women is NOT creepy, as long as you do it with authenticity and good intentions."

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - Flirting Mastery: Immediate Approaches
04:31 - Genuine Attraction: Key to Connection
05:39 - Standing Out in the Crowd: Authentic Compliments that Elevate Your Charm
09:35 - The Art of Persistence: How the 3-Times Rule Facilitates Connection
11:52 - Key Strategies for Maintaining Engaging Conversation
12:55 - Authenticity: Lower Expectations, Share Stories
16:35 - Decoding Women's Signals: Assertive Approaches
17:39 - First Interaction: Nervous Yet Cool
20:48 - Joining Groups: Attract through Shared Interests
24:37 - Conversation Skills: Humor, Wit, and Authenticity
27:47 - Free Consultation: Dating Life Transformation
28:09 - Outro

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If you’re like most single guys, you’re not sure how to be fun on your dates or when talking with women you’re into. What do you say? How do you make her laugh? What if you seem boring and she loses interest? Sadly, if your date or conversation is dull, she won’t be attracted to you—and you’ll be missing out on romance.

So let’s amp up the fun factor.

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 tools you can use to make your dates and conversations WAY more fun. Also, he’ll give you his No. 1 favorite game to play on a date, and it’s sure to get you both laughing and having a blast.

It’s time you STOP hearing women say “I just didn’t feel a spark” and START hearing them say, “Last night was fun! When can we go out again?” Listen now, because Cyndi Lauper was right: “Girls just wanna have fun.”

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Cyndi Lauper was right: Girls just wanna have fun. If she has fun with you on a date, she'll want to see you again."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:45 - Creating Laughter and Fun for Unforgettable Moments
03:35 - Mastering the Art of Making Dates More Enjoyable
08:13 - Success Through a Playful Approach
12:25 - Focusing on Positivity and Meaningful Conversations
14:34 - Unlocking Romance Through Emotions and Passions
18:20 - From Boring to Exciting: The Power of Fun Topics
22:45 - Choosing Enjoyable First Date Activities
26:50 - Sparking Conversations with Fun First Date Questions
30:01 - The '5 Questions Game: Getting It All Wrong
33:46 - The Art of Pretending and Posing Questions
35:09 - Turning the Tables: Trick Questions and Victory
39:17 - Revealing Nature Through Trick Questions
40:40 - Fun Questions and Game Recommendations
41:23 - Outro

Do you struggle to make sparks fly on first dates? Do you think it might be “creepy” to go for a first-date kiss? Do you TRY to be funny and interesting and cool, but you fall short… and women just don’t want to have another date?
Let’s fix this!

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the three most common first-date mistakes that you’re making… and you don’t even know it. He also gives you the RIGHT three moves to correct things. And he shares an incredible client success story, about a guy who went from the Friend Zone on first dates to FIREWORKS. (Your jaw will drop.)

Listen now, so you can start having fun, sexy, connected first dates… and do it as your most confident, authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"There's nothing wrong with fear, but there's something very wrong with cowardice. Sculpt a dating life of authenticity and courage, no cowardice allowed." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:40 - From Struggles to Coaching: Connell's Dating Journey
03:53 - Busting First Date Myths: The Quest for Truth
05:19 - Flirting Dos and Don'ts: Avoiding Surprises
06:06 - Bill's Journey: Overcoming the First Date Struggle
07:11 - Transforming Your Dating Life with Connell's Coaching
10:22 - First Kiss Realizations: Making Her Feel Desirable
11:01 - Deciphering Women's Desires: A Constant Interest
12:39 - Embracing Courage: Transforming Dating Fears
18:55 - The First Kiss and Deeper Connections
20:18 - Debunking First Date Myths: Quick Insights
24:05 - Impressing Women with Authenticity: The Key to Success
24:54 - Outro

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You’re not sure what women want, or how to connect with them, right? Plus, there’s so much dating advice out there from so-called “experts” that you’re not sure what to do. Act like an “alpha male”? Be a nice guy? Wear a “man of mystery” mask?
You’re drowning in information, but you’re starved for wisdom. It’s confusing and frustrating.
Here’s the solution: Show women your best, most authentic self. Because girls like you for YOU!
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the groundbreaking philosophy that his entire coaching empire is based on: Radical Authenticity. It’s all about awakening your most confident, attractive self, as you date with total integrity… and zero creepy “pickup” tricks. It’s how to make sparks fly with wonderful women.

Listen now, and unlock the power of Radical Authenticity…so you can find your dream girlfriend!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"By being Radically Authentic with women, you become more confident, and you create genuine trust and connection." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Intro
00:56 - Authenticity: The Key to Dating Success
04:51 - From Awkward Jokes to Confidence: Emulating Seinfeld's George
05:48 - Authentic Dating: Exploring the 'Opposite' Approach
07:09 - Building Confidence: Attracting Your Dream Girlfriend
10:22 - Unleashing Dad Jokes and Cheeky Charm in Dating
11:09 - Bar Adventures: Teasing, Joking, and Kissing
15:11 - Embracing Authentic Moments: Not About Ego
24:42 - The Value of Being True to Yourself: A Formula for Success
13:01 - A 10-Minute Connection: The Power of Confidence
18:57 - Radical Authenticity: Attracting Women with Confidence
22:24 - Embracing Authenticity: Dropping the Masks in Dating
25:23 - Outro

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https://www.heartcastmedia.com

You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.
Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating
04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey
08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins
11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation
13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators
16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating
19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices
22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation
24:35 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
https://www.heartcastmedia.com