Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

Time can be a big source of conflict in relationships. When you get married “your time” also becomes “their time” and if you have children then you need to also schedule in “family time” and of course time for family chores and all the other errands you need to run. Many couples I speak to are feeling so busy and stressed by feeling pulled in multiple directions that the quality of the marriage is declining. Perhaps you can relate? Are you both so busy with work, the children and your own interests that you can go for days without having a real conversation? Do you now only discuss financials and children's activities? And what about your physical intimacy? Is bedtime now only for sleeping? Arguments over how time is spent, is fairly common in relationships in this episode I will share 5 good ways to ensure you and your marriage is protected. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

It's extremely challenging to live with a negative person. They may have depression or they may be habitually negative and cannot see how miserable they are making themselves and the toxic effect they are having on others. They may even mock you for being positive or naive when you see the good in things and others. If you have already tried talking to them, asked if they need support and have been met with more negativity this article is for you. I will share with you my 5 secrets to keep you feeling good and your energy high. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

As a relationship counsellor who works online with couples all over the world, what I can say from my experience is that infidelity is by far the most common presenting issue I help couples recover— and transform their marriages—from. There are many reasons why people cheat. I believe that focusing on the factors contributing to extramarital affairs is futile; a bleak outlook doesn’t help a couple remain connected or move forward after the fact. As they say, prevention is better than cure, and below I’ve compiled a tried and tested list of critical steps to support you in affair-proofing your marriage. If an affair is already happening in your marriage, these steps can help put an end to a cheating spouse’s need to stray. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

Infidelity, Affair Recovery - How Long Does it Take to Recover from a Cheating Wife or Cheating Husband? In this episode I will go through the most common stages of affair recovery.

If you have had an affair but have regrets and hope to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading some of these tips. Or, if you are the betrayed spouse and your cheating wife or husband unintentionally keeps on hurting you in their attempts to make you feel better, put this episode in their in their hands. Looking For more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

After the honeymoon period in a relationship is over, and our partner raises complaints about us, or does things we don't agree with or is somehow absent, we often start to make or draw slightly negative conclusions about them or the relationship. Typically it starts off as a thought one day, but if their actions continue to match it, we can start to think that way about the relationship or them. Negative thinking doesn't only affect you, it can kill connection, communication and passion, if the thought patterns become habitual.

From the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protect them children may feel confused, frustrated and scared. No parent going through or coming out of divorce needs the added stress, anxiety and worry of how their actions are negatively affecting their children. I've worked with families where children have found out about affairs, been caught up in custody battles and where the parents amicably and peacefully explain that they just don't love each other anymore. In all cases many parents struggle when it comes to knowing what to say and how to explain it. Whilst what to say depends on the circumstances, their age, gender, maturity and culture; over the years I have found it beneficial to use the universal laws to help parents minimize the damage their children experience. Wouldn't it mean the world to you to see the children in your life not only survive but thrive through any marriage problems, separation and divorce? Of course it would. This is possible through teaching them the universal laws. So much has been written about the law of attraction and abundance; rightly so, they are powerful. Yet the other laws are equally beneficial, I cover the best 5 universal laws to use when helping children and their parents through separation and divorce: #1 The Law of Growth #2 The Law of Acceptance #3 The Law of Polarity #4 The Law of Oneness #5 The Law of Relativity I also list engaging exercises for each law you can do with children to demonstrate the law's power. This is part one of two - from my heart to yours Nicola - www.purepeacecoaching.com

Jane Duncan Rogers wrote her memoir Gifted By Grief: A True Story of Cancer, Loss and Rebirth 3 years after her husband died and now is passionate about enabling the western world to become more comfortable with the thought of dying and loss. She is committed to guiding people to the relief and peace of mind that comes from having faced up to the impact of loss in their lives, whether it be from death or from divorce. With over 25 years of experience working in the personal growth, psychotherapeutic and coaching fields, Jane is really well-placed to deal with these sensitive subject. Visit her website and download her free Before I Go Quiz http://giftedbygrief.com/

Brian Brunkow is a San Diego-based lawyer, sports parenting coach, and author of Zero Offseason – a guidebook on divorce & effective & “sane” sports parenting. With a background in family law and coaching youth football, Brian’s focus is helping divorced parents collaborate on the “ABC’s of divorce & effective sports parenting.” When time and money is used as a weapon in divorce, the “ABC’s” (Aligning Goals, Following the Best Interests Standard & Controlling Controllables) encourage parents to stay focused on helping kids develop life skills thru positive youth sports experiences Brian may be reached at Brian@ZeroOffseason.com for personal coaching on divorce & effective sports parenting. Nicola Beer is an International Relationship & Divorce Coach, Best-selling Author that supports individuals to minimize the stress and pain of divorce. For more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com to get your copy of free e-books "Protect Children Through Divorce" and "10 Steps to Creating a New Life After Divorce"

From the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protect them children may feel confused, frustrated and scared. No parent going through or coming out of divorce needs the added stress, anxiety and worry of how their actions are negatively affecting their children. I've worked with families where children have found out about affairs, been caught up in custody battles and where the parents amicably and peacefully explain that they just don't love each other anymore. In all cases many parents struggle when it comes to knowing what to say and how to explain it. Whilst what to say depends on the circumstances, their age, gender, maturity and culture; over the years I have found it beneficial to use the universal laws to help parents minimize the damage their children experience. Wouldn't it mean the world to you to see the children in your life not only survive but thrive through any marriage problems, separation and divorce? Of course it would. This is possible through teaching them the universal laws. So much has been written about the law of attraction and abundance; rightly so, they are powerful. Yet the other laws are equally beneficial, I cover the best 5 universal laws to use when helping children and their parents through separation and divorce: #1 The Law of Growth #2 The Law of Acceptance #3 The Law of Polarity #4 The Law of Oneness #5 The Law of Relativity I also list engaging exercises for each law you can do with children to demonstrate the law's power. This is part two of two - from my heart to yours Nicola - www.purepeacecoaching.com

From the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protect them children may feel confused, frustrated and scared. No parent going through or coming out of divorce needs the added stress, anxiety and worry of how their actions are negatively affecting their children. I've worked with families where children have found out about affairs, been caught up in custody battles and where the parents amicably and peacefully explain that they just don't love each other anymore. In all cases many parents struggle when it comes to knowing what to say and how to explain it. Whilst what to say depends on the circumstances, their age, gender, maturity and culture; over the years I have found it beneficial to use the universal laws to help parents minimize the damage their children experience. Wouldn't it mean the world to you to see the children in your life not only survive but thrive through any marriage problems, separation and divorce? Of course it would. This is possible through teaching them the universal laws. So much has been written about the law of attraction and abundance; rightly so, they are powerful. Yet the other laws are equally beneficial, I cover the best 5 universal laws to use when helping children and their parents through separation and divorce: #1 The Law of Growth #2 The Law of Acceptance #3 The Law of Polarity #4 The Law of Oneness #5 The Law of Relativity I also list engaging exercises for each law you can do with children to demonstrate the law's power. This is part one of two - from my heart to yours Nicola - www.purepeacecoaching.com

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Long-distance children experience many changes. Often, the relationship changes rapidly and dramatically, which can be upsetting and unsettling for children. I have outlined 6 of the biggest changes children experience and some solutions to minimize the stress and change, the absence of a parent can bring. My hope is through awareness you can take measures to strengthen the parent-child relationship, whether it's you, your partner or ex, who is living further away. P.S If you enjoyed reading this you may like the following 3 Free e-books 7 Secrets To Save Your Marriage http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/services-4/marriagecounseling Protect Children Through Divorce http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/help-childrenwithdivorce 7 Steps to Create a New Life After Breakup & Divorce http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/manifesting-a-new-life

7 Surprising Reasons Exercise Can Make You Happier Insomnia, Anxiety, Depression, Low Self-Confidence Are common when a relationship breaks down or ends in divorce Wondering what the future will hold and how things will turn out can send even a healthy, happy person into a state of turmoil and unrest It's in this time more than ever we need to turn to nature and our own bodies natural defense system to help us. I care about your happiness And that's why I'm excited to share with you an Interview with Laila Lallas Managing Director of a Ladies Fitness Center, who has 25 years helping people live healthier, fitter lives In the interview she will explain the 7 Surprising Reasons why exercise can make you happier and how to get started, no matter where your starting from For more free resources including marriage tips and divorce support visit www,purepeacecoaching.com To check out Laila' gym www.inshapeme.com Marriage and divorce support

WHEN PAST HURTS AFFECTS YOUR LOVE RELATIONSHIPS Past hurts from our previous relationships or even our childhood can get in the way of our current relationship happiness. When our partner says or does something we may get triggered and over react as: • We may fear history repeating itself • We may feel like we have been here before and know the score! • We may get angry, bitter and start doubting the relationship • We may want to run It is difficult to stop our past from affecting our current relationships. Bad experiences can make us more suspicious, anxious, jealous, careful and judgmental. I know I have been there. Perhaps you have too? I've worked with countless men and women who have been hurt and become fearful and bitter as a result of their past experiences. However instead of allowing it to cause havoc in their love life, they have used it to embark on a journey of healing and change towards greater happiness. Today I am going to outline 6 steps to help you today, start freeing yourself right now. For more free resources and e-books on relationships and divorce visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

I'm currently working with a couple in the U.S who are struggling to communicate and connect. They like many couples thought that when their baby was born they would be closer than ever. Instead 18 months later, they feel frustrated with one another and like they are drifting apart. Sadly this is a common occurrence, in fact the highest risk of divorce is when children are between 1-5 years old. I've outlined some of the most common problems in this episode and some tips gained from my experience working with couples to save their marriage and supporting individuals through divorce, who shared what drove them to it. I've also included strategies from other relationship experts, so you have a range of ways to strengthen your relationship after children are born. If you like this, you may like my free e-book 7 secrets to saving your marriage http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/services-4/marriagecounseling

Whether you or your partners hobby is triathlon's, golf, video gaming, sailing, football... many marriages suffer from a hobby that one passionately embraces and the other sees as nothing but an intrusion. If not dealt with, the built up frustration and resentment can lead to explosive rows or distance and withdrawal. So what can you do? Inside this episode you will get my 8 Keys to not let hobbies come between you. So they help the marriage instead of hurt it. Nicola Beer - International Relationship Coach - Get your free copy of my e-books here "7 secrets to saving your marriage" or 10 steps to creating a new life after divorce www.purepeacecoaching.com

You can waste your food. You can waste your money. You can waste your clothes... But wasting time is a whole other ball game. I'm not referring to the hour you spent in traffic or 2 hours you spent watching a trashy movie. I am talking about months and years of wasted time people stay in unhappy relationships. Where they either hope things will get better over time or don't want to give up on time they have already invested. One of biggest regrets I hear time and time again is YEARS of wasted time. In this episode you will here 5 tips to really let go of regret and move forward. For more free resources get my free e-books "7 Secrets To Save Your Marriage" or "10 steps to creating a new life after Divorce" www.purepeacecoaching.com

When expectations are not being met on a consistent basis in a marriage it can often lead to disappointment, destruction and sometimes divorce. As our expectations of others, our relationships, our self and how we expect live our life directly impact our happiness it is important to know if our expectations are realistic or too high. Knowing whether your expectations are too high or not, is a tricky one. Here I share 7 questions to know if your expectations are too high. P.S If you like this you may also like my free e-book www.purepeacecoaching.com/services-4/m…ecounseling

Insecurity is a feeling of general unease that is triggered by perceiving oneself to be inferior in some way or vulnerable. Listening to our inner critic can do serious damage to our self-esteem. It can cause us to feel desperate toward our partner or pull back, get angry and reject them in fear of being rejected. It can also exaggerate feelings of jealousy or possessiveness or leave us feeling unworthy. It's perfectly natural to feel insecure from time to time, especially after an affair or break up. However if you are plagued by it, where you feel like it is getting in your way of getting things done... then I have 8 ways to overcome them listed below. For more free resources check out www.purepeacecoaching.com Nicola Beer - International Relationship Coach - Infidelity Expert