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    Eat the Rules with Summer Innanen

    Eat the Rules is dedicated to empowering you to break free of societal standards, body shame and live life beyond the scale. Summer interviews the leading experts in body image, the anti-diet movement, self-help and intersectional feminism, covering a range of topics that include: body positivity, size acceptance, fat positivity, self-worth, self-esteem, intuitive eating and eating disorder recovery, health at every size and positive psychology. Summer also gives practical advice and shares personal experiences to help you accept your body and break free of diet culture. Summer Innanen is a professionally trained coach specializing in body image, self-worth and confidence and is the best-selling author of Body Image Remix.
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    Episodes (297)

    #292: AITA Diet and Body Edition Part 2 - with Vinny Welsby

    #292: AITA Diet and Body Edition Part 2 - with Vinny Welsby

    In this episode, I’m cohosting with my best buddy Vinny Welsby. Have you ever read the “Am I The Asshole” questions on Reddit? If you don’t know what AITA is: People ask the internet if they were in the right or wrong about a situation that happened in their life. In the second half of this two-part episode, Vinny and I are reading some of these to give our verdict on AITA posts around weight and diets.

    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/291
    In this episode, we talk about:
    The cognitive dissonance we see in the responses,
    - How you can hear the anti-fat attitudes in what people write,
    - How we would have handled these situations,
    - How people’s own self-esteem influences how they treat and view the people around them,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/291

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    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #291: AITA Diet and Body Edition Part 1 - with Vinny Welsby

    #291: AITA Diet and Body Edition Part 1 - with Vinny Welsby

    In this episode, I’m cohosting with my best buddy Vinny Welsby. Have you ever read the “Am I The Asshole” questions on Reddit? If you don’t know what AITA is: People ask the internet if they were in the right or wrong about a situation that happened in their life. Vinny and I are reading some of these to give our verdict on AITA posts around weight and diets.

    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/291
    In this episode, we talk about:
    How much our views differ from the popular public opinion,
    - That people’s bias can create exaggerations in storytelling,
    - The incorrect assumption that someone’s ability is related to their size,
    - How universal the experience of being fat shamed as a kid is and the impact it has on your future body image,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/291

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #290: How Core Beliefs Influence Our Body Image with Nia Patterson

    #290: How Core Beliefs Influence Our Body Image with Nia Patterson
    I’m joined by Nia Patterson, author of the newly released “What’s The Story” A Guided Walkthrough of the Stories You Tell Yourself About Your Body. Nia shares their story of recovering from an eating disorder, what helped them in recovery, what body neutrality means when your body isn’t neutral in our culture, how core beliefs influence our body image, the importance of self-affirmation, and why eradicating anti-fat bias helps everyone.
    In this episode, we talk about:
    Their relationship with their body growing up,
    - How the way we perceive our bodies as kids is so different,
    - The hardest parts of being in recovery,

    - What helped them the most in recovery,

    - That there’s no one way to define body neutrality,

    - How if you work to benefit marginalized people, it benefits everyone,

    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/290

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #289: Beyond Body Neutrality with Tiffany Ima

    #289: Beyond Body Neutrality with Tiffany Ima
    I’m joined by Tiffany Ima, who is also a body image coach. She shares her story of how she developed exercise bulimia and bulimia and what helped her to overcome that. We also talk about why body neutrality isn’t enough for her, how she’s learned to celebrate and embrace her body, and the importance of using self-expression to heal.
    In this episode, we talk about:
    Her relationship with her body growing up and when her body image took a turn for the worse,

    - How the diet culture mentality remained even after she was recovered from her eating disorder,

    - What she called her “personal recovery phase,”

    - The comment that led her to shift her mindset and find her current path,

    - How body neutrality helped her initially and why she no longer feels it’s enough,

    - Why she worked to expand her idea of beauty and define her own beauty standard,

    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/289

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #288: Oprah & What to Do if Your Client Wants to Lose Weight with Danni “Amapoundcake” Adams

    #288: Oprah & What to Do if Your Client Wants to Lose Weight with Danni “Amapoundcake” Adams
    I’m joined by Amapoundcake - we are talking about some of the recent headlines in the news around anti-fatness including the photos of Emily Ratajkowski in the extra large jeans and Oprah’s announcement that she’s been using weight loss drugs. We segue into talking about what to do if you still want to lose weight or if you work with clients who still want to lose weight. Finally, we talk about the re-launch of our Body Image Coach Certification program, including our newest offering the Body Image Coaching Foundations course.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/288 
    In this episode, we talk about:
    Why we think people are wanting to lose weight,
    - Why we can’t criticize people for wanting to lose weight,
    - The importance of owning your privileged and the power dynamic when working with clients,
    - What it means to be “stuck on your privileged” and how it can get in the way,
    - The importance of grace and empathy,
    - Who our new offering is for and how it differs,

    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/288 

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #287: Body Acceptance After Weight Loss Surgery (Janine’s Story / YOF Spotlight)

    #287: Body Acceptance After Weight Loss Surgery (Janine’s Story / YOF Spotlight)
    I’m joined by Janine, who was one of the incredible women who worked with me during the You, On Fire program. She talks about how she struggled with her weight for over 4 decades and even went through two weight loss surgeries to find herself still feeling hatred and shame about her body. She talks about how she had had enough of being in that cycle of weight loss and gain and how she was able to move to a place of acceptance with her body. You’ll find all the links mentioned in this podcast at summerinnanen.com/287.
     
    You, On Fire is the online group coaching program that gives you a step-by-step way of building up self-worth beyond your jean size with personalized coaching from me and lifetime access to the program—so you can break out of the diet culture cage, get free from body shame and live your fiery, free, untamed life.
    Go here to get all the details and get on the waitlist for the upcoming cycle: summerinnanen.com/youonfirewaitlist

    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/287
     
    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #286: Letting go of external validation (Samantha’s Story / YOF Spotlight)

    #286: Letting go of external validation (Samantha’s Story / YOF Spotlight)
    I’m joined by Samantha, who was one of the incredible women who worked with me during the You, On Fire program. She talks about how aging had brought up some old body image concerns and had made her more concerned about what other people are thinking of her. Through our work together she was able to let go of that external validation and be unapologetically herself. You’ll find all the links mentioned in this podcast at summerinnanen.com/286.
     
    You, On Fire is the online group coaching program that gives you a step-by-step way of building up self-worth beyond your jean size with personalized coaching from me and lifetime access to the program—so you can break out of the diet culture cage, get free from body shame and live your fiery, free, untamed life.
    Go here to get all the details and get on the waitlist for the upcoming cycle: summerinnanen.com/youonfirewaitlist

    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/286
     
    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #285: Help! I have a friend who “watches their weight” (Body Image Series)

    #285: Help! I have a friend who “watches their weight” (Body Image Series)
    I’m talking about what to do if you feel triggered by someone in your life who is “watching their weight,” and five things to consider when this happens. Plus, how the weight loss industry is designed to make us question ourselves, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/285
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - Why my rage is directed at society, not the other person,
    - That it’s important to remind yourself how dieting worked out for you in the long run before,
    - Why weight loss doesn’t actually increase self-worth,
    - How calling out your assumptions can help put things into perspective,
    - That dieting is usually not in alignment with our values,
    - The importance of finding community,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/285

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #284: Is Recovery From an Eating Disorder Even Possible? With Cole Kazdin

    #284: Is Recovery From an Eating Disorder Even Possible? With Cole Kazdin
    I’m joined by Cole Kazdin, author of the book What’s Eating Us - Women, Food and the epidemic of Body Anxiety. We’re talking about what “recovery” actually looks like and whether being fully recovered even exists. We also talk about the problems with the eating disorder treatment industry and what’s helped her maintain recovery from a decade’s long eating disorder.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/284
    In this episode, we talk about:
    - The lack of research into this epidemic,
    - The great work being done by grassroots organizations and eating disorder survivors,
    - That there is not a standard of care in eating disorder recovery,
    - The lack of an agreed upon clinical definition of recovery and Cole’s personal definition,
    - How freeing it was to realize that the inner voice is not yours, it’s a voice that echoes systems of oppression,
    - The commonalities between the eating disorder treatment and weight loss industries,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/284

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #283: Dealing with Aging Body Changes (Body Image Series)

    #283: Dealing with Aging Body Changes (Body Image Series)

    I’m walking you through different steps you can take to navigate shame you may have about your aging body and the importance of being curious about what you’ve attached to your younger body, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/283
    In this episode, we talk about:
    - Where I’m at with my own aging changes,
    - That many of the principles I use around weight change also apply to aging,
    - How much more pervasive anti-aging pressure is now,
    - That it’s normal to experience weight changes as you age,
    - How we often neglect thinking about aging when doing body image work,
    - How my 3-phase framework for dealing with weight change applies here as well,
    - Some of the things you may find yourself mourning as your body changes with age,
    - That we need to look at what we believe and what’s feeding those beliefs,
    - The importance of normalizing aging through finding variety in aging role models,
    - That aging is looked at differently across cultures,
    - How to reframe this as an opportunity to discover yourself,
    - That looking for community in different social circles is a critical part of the process,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/283

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #282: Similarities Between Anti-Aging Culture & Diet Culture (Body Image Series)

    #282: Similarities Between Anti-Aging Culture & Diet Culture (Body Image Series)

    I’m talking about the similarities between diet culture and anti-aging culture, and the importance of being more discerning of the messages we’re taking in, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/282
    In this episode, we talk about:
    - How aging concerns spans generations,

    - The surprising stats on the growth of the anti-aging industry,
    - That they both stem from and profit off of oppressive systems,
    - How anti-aging upholds anti-fatness, sexism, classism, and ableism,
    - That once you’re invested, you have to keep investing,
    - A question to ask yourself to bring awareness to where anti-aging is impacting your decisions,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/282

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #281: Building Confidence and Being Unashamed with Leah V

    #281: Building Confidence and Being Unashamed with Leah V
    I’m joined by Leah V, author of Unashamed: Musings of a Fat, Black, Muslim. We talk about her incredible story of how she battled an eating disorder, mental illness, and body shame to own who she is unapologetically and become an international plus-size Hijabi model, award-winning author and body-positive activist. We also talk about her thoughts on NYFW and her experiences dating while fat.  
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/281
    In this episode, we talk about:
    - Her relationship with her body growing up and how it has evolved,
    - Growing up without any fat role models in pop culture,
    - How she found herself by breaking free of the expectations of her identities,
    - How she got into modeling,
    - The tools she uses to feel confident,
    - Advice for people who are fat and dating,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/281

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #280: Dealing with Weight Changes (Body Image Series)

    #280: Dealing with Weight Changes (Body Image Series)

    I’m walking you through a 3-phase framework to deal with weight change and talking about the importance of processing the feelings that come with weight change, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/280
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - How it’s common to go onto investigation and problem-solving mode and the problem with that,

    - The distress of losing access to things because of body changes, and that our culture is the problem,
    - The dangers of skipping over processing your feelings and grief,
    - That self-compassion is integral and it is not the same as positive self-talk,
    - What it means to see yourself as a whole human,
    - That acceptance gives you time, energy, and freedom back,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/280

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #279: When You Fear Weight Gain (Body Image Series)

    #279: When You Fear Weight Gain (Body Image Series)

    I’m talking about what to do when you fear weight gain. I also explore where this fear comes from and how it holds us back, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/279
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - The importance of aiming for unconditional acceptance,

    - This fear’s root in anti-fat bias and anti-Blackness,
    - The issue of accessibility and how our culture is the problem,
    - The importance of unpacking your belief system and challenging it,
    - 2 game-changing reframes to help you move past this fear,
    - Plus, 4 things we have to be doing on an ongoing basis to undo this conditioning,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/279

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #278: Season 9 Premier - changes, survey results, and what to expect from this season

    #278: Season 9 Premier - changes, survey results, and what to expect from this season

    This is the premier of season 9 of the podcast. I’m giving you an update on some changes that are happening, what to expect from this season, and I’m sharing some survey results about what you want more of.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/278
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - An update on some exciting personal changes happening this year and how that will impact this podcast,
    - Questions I ask myself whenever I’m contemplating big life changes,
    - Results of the listener survey I did over the summer,
    - What topics you want more of this year,
    - The top episodes from last season and where to start if you’re newer here,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/278

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #277: When you “intellectually get it” but still feel bad in your body (Body Image Series Revisited)

    #277: When you “intellectually get it” but still feel bad in your body (Body Image Series Revisited)

    I’m talking about when you “intellectually get it” but still feel bad in your body, what this process can look like, and what you can do to move forward and feel better in your body, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/277
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - A useful analogy between becoming a parent and starting on the path to a positive body image,

    - TWO things we can do to feel better in our bodies and why one of them is WAY more powerful than the other,
    - Where “intellectually getting it” sits within the 4 stages of acceptance and how to bust past that barrier,
    - Why you have to be intentional about challenging your negative thoughts,
    - That it’s normal to still have bad body days,
    - ONE question to visit daily to propel you towards giving less F’s about your body,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/277

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #276: What to do if you still want to lose weight (the answer might surprise you) (Body Image Series Revisited)

    #276: What to do if you still want to lose weight (the answer might surprise you) (Body Image Series Revisited)

    #276: What to do if you still want to lose weight (the answer might surprise you) (Body Image Series Revisited)
    Description: I’m talking about negative body thoughts, exploring how NOT to respond to them and how to begin the work of changing them, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/276
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - Potential sources of negative body thoughts,

    - The THREE things we’re typically told to do to change our thoughts and why you should avoid them,
    - A way to visualize how your brain evolves to think about self-doubt and self-compassion,
    - How our negative thoughts tend to stick more than the positive ones,
    - The TWO things that need to happen in order for our thoughts to change,
    - The ONE question to ask yourself to start to work on changing your negative body thoughts,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/276

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #275: Misconceptions About Body Acceptance (Body Image Series Revisited)

    #275: Misconceptions About Body Acceptance (Body Image Series Revisited)

    I’m unpacking 4 misconceptions about body acceptance that will help you shift your perspective and make accepting your body easier, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/275
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - How body acceptance doesn’t mean loving every part of your body,

    - The importance of choosing yourself and making space for all the different parts of yourself,
    - How body acceptance is intertwined with self-care,
    - That this is a process and the work is continuous,
    - Why this work is not about eliminating self-doubt completely,
    - Facing and rejecting the fears that keep us from acceptance,
    - The resilience that comes out of doing this work,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/275

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #274: Where Our Body Image Comes From (Body Image Series Revisited)

    #274: Where Our Body Image Comes From (Body Image Series Revisited)
    I’m unpacking where our body image comes from and how to unpack your own body image origins. I also talk about how this is a systemic and cultural issue that is hardcoded in our DNA, as part of the Body Image Series.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/274
    In this episode, I talk about:
    - How systems of oppression impact body image and how we’re treated in our society,
    - The importance of knowing that your self-worth isn’t dictated by your appearance or how other people feel about you,
    - How our culture has taught us that only certain bodies are worthy,
    - Beauty as social currency,
    - How the desire to fit beauty standards is hardcoded in our DNA,
    - How external systems of oppression create internalized oppressions,
    - Questions you can use to examine your past and be curious about where your body image came from,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/274

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap

    #273: What We Get Wrong About Self-Care with Taylor Elyse Morrison

    #273: What We Get Wrong About Self-Care with Taylor Elyse Morrison

    I’m joined by Taylor Elyse Morrison, author of Inner Workout. We’re talking about how she went from being terrible at self-care, to now helping others to truly care for themselves. We chat about her revolutionary approach to self-care, the 5 dimensions of self-care, and what we typically get wrong about self-care.
    Show notes: summerinnanen.com/273
    In this episode, we talk about:
    - Why she says self-expertise is the new self-care,

    - How she made the mental shift to seeing self-care as a relationship with herself instead of a list of tasks,
    - The importance of being intentional about the way you speak to yourself,
    - The biggest change most people need to make,
    - How caring for yourself in this way is counter cultural,
    - That self-care doesn’t mean solo-care,
    - Plus so much more!
    Get the shownotes: summerinnanen.com/273

    Get the free 10-Day Body Confidence Makeover with 10 steps to feel better in your body at summerinnanen.com/freebies
    If you're a professional who has clients or students that struggle with body image, get the Body Image Coaching Roadmap for professionals at summerinnanen.com/roadmap