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    #HealMeToo: Insights, Art & Activism to Change Our Culture

    The #HealMeToo Podcast went on “pause” with the shutdown, but for our third season, we’re excited to announce a special series and a new YouTube channel for #HealMeToo At-Home—with insights, art, and activism to meet the needs of now. Survivors and our communities are experiencing many forms of trauma in this time of confinement, illness, uprising, and economic stress—not to mention the urgency of November’s elections. So we’ve retooled the #HealMeToo platform to feature video as well as audio interviews, with ideas and tools that may help in the midst of crisis. You can watch each new episode and podcast extra our new YouTube channel at bit.ly/hm2youtube. Binge Season One to hear excerpts and conversations from the first-ever #HealMeToo Festival last spring, and don't miss the live events and deep conversations about ways to have healthier relationships in all aspects of our lives, in Season Two. Follow @healmetoofest on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook to join the conversation, and sign up for our mailing list at www.healmetoopodcast.com to get alerts when episodes drop, hosted by Hope Singsen, the artist, activist, survivor, and Founding Artistic Director of the #HealMeToo Festival.
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    S2 Xtra 1: Our Community Agreements Language

    S2 Xtra 1: Our Community Agreements Language

    Before A LOVE THING (shared in Episodes 1&2 of Season 2), host Hope Singsen read a few Community Agreements, as we do at every #HealMeToo Festival show that includes audience conversations. Hope referred to these agreements briefly during the panel discussion in last week’s episode, and thought now would be a great time to share them in full.

    Our language is largely based on the Community Agreements used at the Alliance of Resident Theaters/New York. You can read the text of the agreements used at #HealMeToo Festival events here or at healmetoopodcast.com.

    About #HealMeToo Podcast Season 2: Relationships
    Throughout Season 2, we'll explore ways survivors and our allies can experience healthier relationships -- whether that’s at work, in our communities, within our own bodies and ourselves, or in our intimate sexual lives.

    Subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast & binge Season 1 today, then look for the second installment of A LOVE THING next week. Till then, you'll find us on all social media @healmetoofest and at healmetoopodcast.com.

    A LOVE THING Audio Direction: Delaney Hafener
    Podcast host & editor: Hope Singsen
    Opening & closing music: "Love Is Rising" written by Vanessa Marie Milanesi & Helga Kaefer, performed by Vanessa Marie (@vanessamariemusic)

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    S2 E2: A Love Thing, Part 2: Live Event Recording

    S2 E2: A Love Thing, Part 2: Live Event Recording

    Part 2 of a live recording of the first #HealMeToo Festival Popup event of 2020 -- A LOVE THING, featuring teen and young adult musicians, performers and advocates talking about ways to have more healthy relationships and handle harmful ones

    A LOVE THING was co sponsored by The NYC Mayor’s Office to ENDGBV, The Angel Band Project, and The Tank theater. Artists and advocates heard in this episode include:

    • A panel discussion led by host Hope Singsen with Daniella Love Misyuk & Maisie Breit from the NYC Mayor’s Office to End Domestic and Gender-Based Violence (ENDGBV), and Cassity Yeye of the Early Relationship Abuse Prevention Program (RAPP) from STEPS to End Family Violence, about their work helping youth and adults learn ways to create healthier relationships and prevent harmful ones. Followed by Audience Q&A.
    • Writer, activist, motivational speaker and Early RAPP community educator, Jovan Martinez, performed her original spoken word piece.
    • A choral improvisation with the audience, led by Music Therapist Katie Down and her friends Bonita Oliver, Jessica Lurie and Vanessa Marie

    See pics, read participant bios and find links to resources at bit.ly/hm2love.

    Throughout Season 2, we'll explore ways survivors and our allies can experience healthier relationships -- whether that’s at work, in our communities, within our own bodies and ourselves, or in our intimate sexual lives.

    Subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast & binge Season 1 today, then look for the second installment of A LOVE THING next week. Till then, you'll find us on all social media @healmetoofest and at healmetoopodcast.com.

    A LOVE THING Audio Direction: Delaney Hafener
    Podcast host & editor: Hope Singsen
    Opening & closing music: "Love Is Rising" written by Vanessa Marie Milanesi & Helga Kaefer, performed by Vanessa Marie (@vanessamariemusic)

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    S2 E1: A Love Thing, Part 1: Live Event Recording

    S2 E1: A Love Thing, Part 1: Live Event Recording

    Part 1 of a live recording of the first #HealMeToo Festival Popup event of 2020 -- A LOVE THING, featuring teen and young adult musicians, performers and advocates talking about ways to have more healthy relationships and handle harmful ones

    A LOVE THING was co sponsored by The NYC Mayor’s Office to ENDGBV, The Angel Band Project, and The Tank theater. Artists heard in this episode include:

    • Singer/songwriter Vanessa Marie sharing work created with The Angel Band Project, accompanied by Katie Down and Jessica Lurie, and talking about her experience with Music Therapy, with Angel Band Board Member Natasha Repass 
    • Five talented teens from the Smash Arts Productions troupe of NYC’s JKO High School under the direction of their teacher Elisa DeGragorio, performing their moving original works as well as a monologues from SKIN by Hope Singsen and Now That We're Men by Katie Cappiello (creator of NETFLIX's upcoming series, Grand Army) (additional direction by Charlotte Arnoux)
    •  An amazing choral improvisation created by Angel Band Project Music Therapist Katie Down and her friends Bonita Oliver and Jessica Lurie

    See pics, read participant bios & get resources at bit.ly/hm2love.

    Throughout Season 2, we'll explore ways survivors and our allies can experience healthier relationships -- whether that’s at work, in our communities, within our own bodies and ourselves, or in our intimate sexual lives.

    Subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast & binge Season 1 today, then look for the second installment of A LOVE THING next week. Till then, you'll find us on all social media @healmetoofest and at healmetoopodcast.com.

    A LOVE THING Audio Direction: Delaney Hafener
    Podcast host & editor: Hope Singsen
    Opening music: "If I Can" by Hope Singsen, arranged by Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess

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    Season 2 Premieres on Valentine's Day

    Season 2 Premieres on Valentine's Day

    Tune in on Valentine’s Day for the first episode of #HealMeToo Podcast’s brand new season of insights, art and activism to change our culture.

    You’ll hear the live recording of the first #HealMeToo Festival Popup event of 2020 -- A LOVE THING, featuring teen and young adult musicians, performers and advocates talking about ways to have healthier relationships and handle harmful ones. 

    A LOVE THING was co sponsored by The NYC Mayor’s Office to ENDGBV, The Angel Band Project, and The Tank theater. Our program featured the artists heard in this trailer, Vanessa Marie singing her beautiful songs, including Love is Rising, plus spoken word artist Jovan Martinez from the City’s Relationship Abuse Prevention Program and the talented teens in the Smash Arts Productions troupe of NYC’s JKO High School, performing original works as well as a monologue from Now That We're Men by Katie Cappiello (creator of NETFLIX's upcoming Grand Army) -- plus so many other exciting performers and panelists. Check out their photos and bios at bit.ly/hm2love.

    Every episode in Season 2 will explore ways survivors and our allies can experience healthier relationships -- whether that’s at work, in our communities, within our own bodies and ourselves, or in our intimate sexual lives.

    Subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast & binge Season 1 today, then tune in Friday February 14th for the Season 2 Premiere and the first installment of A LOVE THING. Till then, you'll find us on all social media @healmetoofest and healmetoopodcast.com.

    A LOVE THING Audio Direction: Delaney Hafener
    Podcast host & editor: Hope Singsen
    Music: "Love Is Rising" written by Vanessa Marie Milanesi & Helga Kaefer, performed by Vanessa Marie (follow her @vanessamariemusic)

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    Pssst--Free Live #HealMeToo Taping on Feb 5!

    Pssst--Free Live #HealMeToo Taping on Feb 5!

    FREE! A Love Thing: Live Show & #HealMeToo Podcast Taping

    Enjoy music, performance and conversation about some ways teens -- and we all -- can create healthier relationships & get out of harmful ones.

    One night only. FREE. 85 minutes. Appropriate for ages 16+. Reserve seats now.

    Featuring inspiring performances, original songs and a choral improvisation led by Music Therapist Katie Down of The Angel Band Project (angelbandproject.org). At the heart of this unique event in honor of Teen Dating Violence Prevention Month: a panel discussion with staff from the Mayor's Office to ENDGBV's Healthy Relationship Training Academy and the City’s Relationship Abuse Prevention Program.

    Co-sponsored by the #HealMeToo Podcast, The Mayor's Office to ENDGBV, The Angel Band Project, and The Tank. This event will be recorded live and released on Valentine’s Day as the Premiere Episode of #HealMeToo Podcast Season 2, which focuses on ways survivors and our allies can enjoy Healthier Relationships – at work, in our communities, with ourselves, and in our intimate lives. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod or via healmetoopodcast.com.

    Audience members can stay anonymous on the podcast.
    Content may include: relationship and family abuse, teen sexuality, explicit language.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship abuse, you can find information and resources at nyc.gov/nychope.


    FREE Tickets link:

    https://red.vendini.com/ticket-software.html?t=tix&e=342cf6fb8ef788a7af01a09fd0e41ae6


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    S1 E11: Healing #FamiliesToo--Broadway's Shona Tucker & Therapist Fiona True on the Impacts for "Secondary Survivors"

    S1 E11: Healing #FamiliesToo--Broadway's Shona Tucker & Therapist Fiona True on the Impacts for "Secondary Survivors"

    We often focus--rightly--on the needs of victims and survivors. But "Secondary Survivors" are the supporters and loved ones of any victim of sexual violence, who may themselves become traumatized. In this episode, we focus on the healing needs of everyone around the victim, to recognize and understand how sexual violence impacts #FamiliesToo. 

    #HealMeToo Festival hit show Growing Wild, created and performed by Broadway's Shona Tucker, tells the story of a family's inter-generational quest to heal from the trauma of a mysterious sex crime. Hear Shona share in-depth with expert family therapist Fiona True of the Ackerman Institute for the Family, about different ways the members of her family have been impacted by the murder of her older sister, a victim of organized crime, while employed in sex work. Fiona shares insights about the work families can do to heal, foster resilience, and become a resource for each other.

    Learn more about Growing Wild, and read Shona and Fiona's bios, on the details page for this episode at healmetoopodcast.com.

    The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    You can watch excerpted work from the Festival on the #HealMeToo Festival performance video page, and sign up on our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    The recording facilities and engineer for this episode were provided through the generous support of Fr. James Hauver, Pastor of St. Columba Church, and Fr. Walter Niebrzydowski of The Fr. Walter Outreach, inc., a nonprofit organization working to repair the effects of sexual violence and gender oppression. You can learn more about their mission to promote the true, the good, and the beautiful through spirituality, media, and technology at fatherwaltersparish.org.

    Recorded & Engineered by Corey Kaup
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 Xtra 7: Tony Award-Winner Tonya Pinkins' "Truth & Reconciliation" Performance Excerpts

    S1 Xtra 7: Tony Award-Winner Tonya Pinkins' "Truth & Reconciliation" Performance Excerpts

    As we get ready for an exciting #HealMeToo Festival Popup Event this weekend -- the World Premiere of Tony-winner Tonya Pinkins' Truth And Reconciliation of Womyn this Saturday at 3 PM in NYC at The Tank theater, we hope enjoy these excerpts from the #HealMeToo Festival presentation last March and April, 2019 at the IRT Theater.

    Then join us if you're in town! You can get $20 tickets to the Saturday matinee (or any of their performances) at https://thetanknyc.org/tonyapinkinstr.

    In this #HealMeToo Podcast Extra, you'll hear selections from the following plays and songs (in order of appearance):

    Traditional Native American chant performed by Tonya Pinkins, Julie Brown, Amanda Rodriguez, Lina Sarrello & Sarah Teed

    Till Hell Freezes Over, by Tonya Pinkins directed by Lili Stiefel
    With Annie McGreevey & Rachael Holmes

    Tilling the Soil, by Michelle Tyrene Johnson, directed by Tonya Pinkins
    Featuring Carmen LoBue

    Womyn, a song written and performed by Julie Brown

    Law 136 by Carmen Rivera, directed by Tonya Pinkins
    With Amanda Rodriguez, Lina Sarrello & Mary Archbold

    The Grandmothers, by Kristine M Reyes, directed by Kat Yen
    Featuring Ako Dachs and Akiko Hiroshima

    You can also watch video from Truth And Reconciliation on the Festival Video page. While there, be sure join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events as well.

    Closing music credit: Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms. 

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    S1 E10: Festival Artists on Working Intersectionally to Speak Out, Create Change, Dance Blind & Heal

    S1 E10: Festival Artists on Working Intersectionally to Speak Out, Create Change, Dance Blind & Heal

    6 gorgeously interesectional artists share honestly (and humorously) about the beauty and challenges of working together to create art that heals our lives and culture

    These artists (together with about 6 more who couldn't join us!) helped make the #HealMeToo Festival's Self/Worth Variety Show a moving, sumptuous and transformative event: Raquel Almazan, Maybe Burke, Yvette Heyliger, Micaela Mamede & Krishna Christine Washburn.

    Reviewing the list of keywords for this episode tells the whole story:
    Intersectional, Immigrant, Undocumented, Racial Justice, Race, Disability, Blindness, Gender, Transgender, GNC, Nonbinary, Whiteness, Privilege, Sex Work, Stripper Shoes, Healing, MeToo, Cancel Culture, Feminist, Sexual Violence, Workplace Harassment, Coercion, Assault, Childhood Sexual Abuse, Vulnerability, Rage, Mental Health, Trauma, Victim, Survivor, Honesty, Healing, Creating, Creativity, Dance, Performing Arts, Storytelling, Spoken Word, Culture. 

    Interested to learn more about Intersectionality? Read a recent VOX interview of Kimberle Crenshaw, who coined the term in the late ‘80s, building on the work of other leaders for racial justice, including bell hooks.

    The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    You can watch excerpted work from the Festival on the episode details page. That's where you'll also find our guests' full bios and photos, and while there, can link to other #HealMeToo Festival performance videos, and sign up on our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    The recording facilities and engineer for this episode were provided through the generous support of Fr. James Hauver, Pastor of St. Columba Church, and Fr. Walter Niebrzydowski of The Fr. Walter Outreach, inc., a nonprofit organization working to repair the effects of sexual violence and gender oppression. You can learn more about their mission to promote the true, the good, and the beautiful through spirituality, media, and technology at fatherwaltersparish.org.

    Recorded & Engineered by Corey Kaup
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 Xtra 6: Performances by Maybe Burke & Ianne Fields Stewart

    S1 Xtra 6: Performances by Maybe Burke & Ianne Fields Stewart

    An audio drama extra featuring: 

    • "Do You Want Me To Stop?" from Love Letters to Nobody by Maybe Burke, as presented on thefemaleplaywrightproject.com with sound design by Natalie Johnsonius Neubert. 
    • An excerpt of Ianne Fields Stewart's live performance of their original work "On the Train to Nowhere in Particpular" and Other Poems, recorded at the Musical Theater Factory.

    Content warning: frank descriptions of sexuality and sexual assault.

    You can also watch videos of both excerpts on the Episode Details Page. You can also hear #HealMeToo Podcast Episode 9, where Ianne and Maybe discuss transgender, GNC and nonbinary perspectives on #MeToo and ideas for healing.

    While there, be sure join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events as well.

    Closing music credit: Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms. 

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    S1 E09: Ianne Fields Stewart & Maybe Burke--Transgender & GNC Perspectives on Healing & #MeToo

    S1 E09: Ianne Fields Stewart & Maybe Burke--Transgender & GNC Perspectives on Healing & #MeToo

    Two phenomenal artist-activists for social justice and the human rights of trans, nonbinary and gender nonconforming (GNC) folks, Ianne Fields Stewart and Maybe Burke, join us to talk about the pervasive experiences of sexual violence and gender oppression within their communities, and ideas that help support healing.

    Ianne Fields Stewart is a Black queer nonbinary transfeminine New York-based storyteller working at the intersection of theatre and activism. Their work and she are dedicated to interrupting the exclusivity of luxury by making things like entertainment, nourishment, and self care accessible to the most marginalized in their community. In a world that is constantly traumatizing Black bodies she believes that Black queer and trans people should have the space and time to center collective emotional, physical, and sensual pleasure. Ianne is also the founder of The Okra Project which hires Black Trans chefs to cook healthy and culturally specific meals for Black Trans People in their homes or community centers if they’re experiencing homelessness. Most recently, Ianne was named by Gay Star News as one of the 21 non-binary artists including Ezra Miller and Indya Moore who are redefining gender.

    Maybe Burke s a New York based actor, writer, and human rights advocate interested in telling the stories that haven't been told.  Their work has been seen at Joe's Pub, Lincoln Center, Cherry Lane Theatre, Ars Nova, New Dramatists, HERE Arts Center, The NYC LGBTQ Center, and more. Their solo show, Love Letters to Nobody, received the 2017 Fresh Fruit Spirit Award for Fostering Pride, Survival, History, and Progress and earned them a nomination for the 2018 Doric Wilson Independent Playwright Award. 

    Maybe and Ianne are co-founders of the Topics Include Podcast, available on Apple and everywhere.

    The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    You can watch Maybe Burke's work from the Festival on the episode details page. While there, you can also link to other #HealMeToo Festival performance videos, and sign up on our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    The recording facilities and engineer for this episode were provided through the generous support of Fr. James Hauver, Pastor of St. Columba Church, and Fr. Walter Niebrzydowski of The Fr. Walter Outreach, inc., a nonprofit organization working to repair the effects of sexual violence and gender oppression. You can learn more about their mission to promote the true, the good, and the beautiful through spirituality, media, and technology at fatherwaltersparish.org.

    Recorded & Engineered by Corey Kaup
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 E08: Sarah Jane Johnson & Patrice Miller on Devil In A Box, Collaborative Magic & Learning to Heal

    S1 E08: Sarah Jane Johnson & Patrice Miller on Devil In A Box, Collaborative Magic & Learning to Heal

    Artist and Chief-of-Staff at The Moth, Sarah Jane Johnson, and Patrice Miller, director, joined Hope Singsen to discuss their project, Devil In A Box, which was presented to sold out houses at The #HealMeToo Festival.

    Equal parts poetic theater and feminist stand-up, Devil in a Box follows the journey of a young American woman from sexual assault, through the French justice system and into life after trauma. A frightening yet joyous tale, Sarah Jane chronicles the complexities of it all with disarming honesty, beaucoup d’humour, and a 24 oz. can of Miller Lite.

    By turns frank, hilarious, and inspiring, Sarah Jane and Patrice share with Podcast listeners about:

    • The story of how Devil in a Box started as a performance art piece and evolved over years in tandem with Sarah Jane's court case and recovery process
    • Ways that working on the piece both were and weren't always healing for Sarah Jane
    • How the Devil in a Box team has developed a method of collaboration that engages them all in a healing process 
    • Patrice's insights as a self-declared “lazy witch” on the magic of imagination and the healing similarities between making magic and making art
    • The “go to” skills that help Sarah Jane, Patrice & Hope in moments of challenge, like:
      • Finding friends you can really talk to, 
      • “Trying on” ideas for yourself to act “as if” you were already “healed”, 
      • Stretching yourself by taking a “contrary action,” 
      • Learning ways to step back from dark thoughts that might otherwise spiral and seem larger than they are
      • How to honor your own ways of surviving and start seeing the next things you could do to have a fuller life, even while healing
      • Coming to accept that being a survivor will always be in one’s life, but it doesn’t have to control things, as you figure out how you want to dialogue with it
      • Observing tricky moments “in neutral” in order to avoid making things worse, and come back to it later

     The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find many testimonials about Devil in A Box, as well as a video teaser for the show. While you're there, you can also link to other  #HealMeToo Festival performance videos, and sign up on our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    Interview recorded & prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor





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    S1 Xtra 5: Solo play with music, SKIN, by Hope Singsen--Festival Performance Excerpt

    S1 Xtra 5: Solo play with music, SKIN, by Hope Singsen--Festival Performance Excerpt

    An audio drama excerpt from the solo play with music, SKIN, created and performed by Hope Singsen, the artist, survivor/activist, and founder of the #HealMeToo Festival. Director: Jessi D. Hill, Stage Manager: Yve Carruthers.

    In SKIN, two things threaten a grad student’s dissertation on Virginia Woolf: her hot new girlfriend and her own dark past.

    Frank and funny, this queer love story with music explores some of the ways art helps us heal, tracking a woman’s road back toward intimacy and wholeness after sexual violence. Racing to write herself into a happier future, both work and sex get more inventive as she strives for a love greater than any she’s known before. But after you learn to guard against life, can you open up again?

    Directed by Jessi D. Hill. Music by Hope Singsen, Bob Parins, Micah Burgess and Dillon Kondor

    Content warning: early life sexual violence.

    Includes text from Job's Body: A Handbook for Bodywork, by Deane Juhan, as well as excerpts from Virginia Woolf's To the Lighthouse.

    You can also watch video of this excerpt at the top of the Episode Details Page. While there, you can also hear #HealMeToo Podcast Episode 7, where Hope and two sex & relationship experts explore why healing can be so confusing, as well as ideas that help, Plus, another Podcast Extra, a recording of a talk Hope gave on "How Live Arts Impact Audiences," where you can learn surprising facts about the neuroscience of trauma and ways the arts can help.

    While you're there, join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Closing music credit: Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms. 

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    S1 Xtra 4: How Live Arts Impact Audiences--A Talk by Hope Singsen to the Alliance for the Arts in Research Universities

    S1 Xtra 4: How Live Arts Impact Audiences--A Talk by Hope Singsen to the Alliance for the Arts in Research Universities

    Listen to a recording of a talk Hope gave at the national conference of the Alliance for Arts in Research Universities (A2RU) in November 2018, about the ways she is using her solo play with music, SKIN, to hopefully impact and even help audiences to heal, and how she is demonstrating those impacts through audience research.

    Watch a video excerpt from SKIN on the Episode Details page on our website healmetoopodcast.com. You can also read the text of Hope's talk at the A2RU conference on Hope's Blog. While you're there, join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Closing music credit: Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms. 

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    S1 E07: The Healing Process--Why It's Confusing & Ideas That Help. Elise Schuster & Val Koutmina unpack questions raised by Hope Singsen's play SKIN

    S1 E07: The Healing Process--Why It's Confusing & Ideas That Help. Elise Schuster & Val Koutmina unpack questions raised by Hope Singsen's play SKIN

    Sex educator, relationship advisor & co-founder of iOS advice app, okayso.app, Elise Schuster, and Valeria Koutmina of The Art Therapy Project use the Festival performance of Hope Singsen's solo play with music, SKIN, as a jumping off point to consider common questions about the healing process.

    Along the way, Elise and Val share professional perspectives as Hope offers examples from personal life as well as within her play, SKIN, to illuminate: 

    • Why it takes so dang long to recover from impacts of sexual violence
    • Why it can be confusing to recognize these impacts 
    • Why it's often hard to know how "healed" we really are, and what to expect from the healing process
    • Why it takes time to change behaviors after they’re set, and how our assumptions about the process can make it more difficult 
    • Ways that sexual trauma can create challenges around identity, shame, safety, trust, sex itself, learned helplessness, self-doubt, and an impression our bodies are vehicles for pain 
    • How our cultural ideas about sexuality can get in the way for survivors and non-survivors alike
    • How practicing saying no can lead us to feel more empowered and safe to say yes
    • How we work hard to be ok, but feel as if we are “broken” and needing to be "fixed," which contributes to a feeling of helplessness -- even as we feel we have to present ourselves as unharmed
    • How nonverbal art-making within a therapeutic relationship can help because it works in the same parts of the brain where trauma was originally stored
    • The grief and loss that needs to be acknowledged as we learn to tolerate the feelings -- taking breaks and bringing humor into it
    • Why relapse is part of recovery and can help you practice changing your perspective from “I am this” to understanding “I do this,” which gives us more space to change what Brenee Brown calls “the story we are telling ourselves” 
    • Ideas to help practice new ways of healing, like:
      • Cultivating self-compassion instead of self-blame and helplessness
      • Recognizing that the healing process doesn’t make rational sense, and celebrating strengths that emerge, like the ability to reach out for help
      • Taking breaks to put aside the work and feelings sometimes to get some distance

    The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find Elise and Val's biographies and links to okayso and The Art Therapy Project. You'll also find a page with videos of many performances at the Festival, and can join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Soon, we'll also drop audio and video excerpts from Hope's performance of SKIN in the #HealMeToo Festival.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    Interview recorded & prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 E06: Tony-winner Tonya Pinkins & Art Therapist Lindsay Lederman on Neuroscience & Healing Through Art

    S1 E06: Tony-winner Tonya Pinkins & Art Therapist Lindsay Lederman on Neuroscience & Healing Through Art

    Artists and audiences alike describe feeling changed by visual, narrative, musical, and performance works of art. The shift can be slight, but it can be profound, too. What's happening in our minds and bodies when we engage with the arts, to allow that transformation to occur? Are there special ways art-making can help address the neurobiological effects of trauma, in particular? And might engaging with art, individually and as a culture, help inspire the changes we wish to bring about?

    Hear Tony-winning performer & playwright Tonya Pinkins and  Lindsay Lederman, the Clinical Director of The Art Therapy Project, discussing Tonya's project from the #HealMeToo Festival, Truth And Reconciliation of Womyn, while exploring the neuroscience of trauma and the process of healing through the arts.

    A few of the topics they discuss:

    • The neuroscience of trauma and of healing
    • Why Tonya asserts we have the ability to “change the past”
    • What art therapy is, how it works, and why it lets you work through past trauma at “a step away” so it may be less overwhelming--and sometimes more effective than addressing things “head on”
    • How imagination and being creative in many aspects of life can open the locked parts of the brain
    • How our neurons start to fire in new ways while we experience art, like putting footsteps down in a new path
    • How art can help us recover our sense of joy after trauma
    • Why artistic activities access feelings and memories through the body, to help us address experiences that were not captured in language at the time 
    • Why trauma of many kinds leaves survivors with a sense of shame, and how witnessing art and performance can help address that shame
    • How and why creating or viewing art that presents new and different ways of imagining the future may help change the way we respond to things that trigger or frighten us, even when we disagree with the artwork we’re responding to

    The #HealMeToo Podcast is hosted by Hope Singsen--the artist, creativity researcher and survivor-activist who founded the #HealMeToo Festival in NYC this Spring. 

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find Tonya and Lindsay's biographies and links to Art Therapy resources. You'll also find a page with videos of many performances at the Festival, and can join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Soon, we'll also drop an audio and video montage of work from Tonya Pinkins' amazing project in the #HealMeToo Festival -- http://tinyurl.com/hm2trwTruth And Reconciliation of Womyn.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Find the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    Interview recorded & prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 E05: #TheatreToo Panel Part 2--Personal Stories, Cultural Forces & Audience Q&A

    S1 E05: #TheatreToo Panel Part 2--Personal Stories, Cultural Forces & Audience Q&A

    Part 2 continues the #TheatreToo conversation, as 5 industry leaders answer audience Q&A and:

    • Recount their personal stories of empowerment through whisper networks
    • Describe ways LIT, ART/NY and even the Calisto app are working to organize the information in offline "whisper" networks  and increase accountability
    • Share a story of trauma getting triggered during the creative process, and finding support through sharing stories 
    • Explore some of the obstacles that prevent people from taking advantage of complaint processes 
    • Address ways economic exploitation of labor in theatre dovetails with harassment
    • Offer resources to help artists and arts organizations create culture change in their rehearsal rooms  

    Panel Moderators:

    Rachel Dart, Stage Director and Co-Founder, Let Us Work

    Stephanie Swirsky, Playwright and Co-Founder, Let Us Work

    Panelists:

    Hope Chavez, Creative Producer + Programs Manager at A.R.T./New York

    Yvette Heyliger, Playwright, Producing Artist and Activist

    Aimee Todoroff of League of Independent Theater & Artistic Director, Elephant Run District


    Subscribe today. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find additional details or can link to our page with videos of many performances at the Festival, plus join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Audio recorded and prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Episode edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 E04: #TheatreToo Panel Part 1--Ways to Effect Change in a Freelance Creative Industry

    S1 E04: #TheatreToo Panel Part 1--Ways to Effect Change in a Freelance Creative Industry

    How are theatre artists organizing to take the "whisper" out of the network? In Part 1, five knowledgable leaders discuss their work to address and prevent sexual harassment and assault within the theatre industry:

    • Programs that support independent artists to shift our culture and practices, especially in freelance and nonunion contexts
    • The advantages and disadvantages of a whisper network compared to traditional HR channels, and new ways of bringing our "whispers" forward
    • Upstander/bystander techniques that bring issues into the open in productive and transformative ways to help create safer spaces
    • The tiny yet impactful culture shifts we all can create in our creative spaces, regardless of what "top-down" approaches are implemented by arts administrators and organizations 

    Panel Moderators:

    Rachel Dart, Stage Director and Co-Founder, Let Us Work

    Stephanie Swirsky, Playwright and Co-Founder, Let Us Work

    Panelists:

    Hope Chavez, Creative Producer + Programs Manager at A.R.T./New York

    Yvette Heyliger, Playwright, Producing Artist and Activist

    Aimee Todoroff of League of Independent Theater & Artistic Director, Elephant Run District


    Subscribe today. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find additional details or can link to our page with videos of many performances at the Festival, plus join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Audio recorded and prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Episode edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 E03: Advocates on Bystander Intervention, Restorative Justice & Healthy Masculinity

    S1 E03: Advocates on Bystander Intervention, Restorative Justice & Healthy Masculinity

    Hear 3 survivor advocates doing amazing work to help #HealMeToo in our culture:

    • Offering bystander training with surprisingly simple techniques to intervene and deescalate harmful situations in the earliest stages.
    • Working with men and boys to cultivate healthy masculinity.
    • Illuminating the ways unconscious bias defines "who is worthy of help," leading to harm. 
    • Ways to support people as they process allegations of harassment and assault.  
    • Strategies to center trans and gender nonconforming people and concerns within single-sex identity groups.
    • How Restorative Justice practices can offer communities a path to healing without going through the courts, while engaging all parties in true accountability and remediation.

    In a live taping at the #HealMeToo Festival, Festival Founder and Artistic Director Hope Singsen interviewed:

    • Amanda Burden, a power-based personal violence interventionist and community educator who serves on the board of directors for okayso, a free app for iOS that connects users with personal questions to experts they can trust for quick, personalized support and advice. 
    • Eric McGriff, the Prevention Coordinator for the Crime Victims Treatment Center
    • Nastia Gorodilova, a practitioner of Restorative Justice and a Senior Coordinator of Systems and Training with the NYC Alliance Against Sexual Assault.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find guest bios, and can link to our page with videos of many performances at the Festival, plus join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Interview recorded and prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Music performed by Micah Burgess:
    If I Can by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess
    Gorgeous Fire by Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor

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    S1 Xtra 3: Festival Opening Night with Katie Cappiello's GoodCapp Arts & JKO High School

    S1 Xtra 3: Festival Opening Night with Katie Cappiello's GoodCapp Arts & JKO High School

    Meet performers from the #HealMeToo Festival Opening Night, including teens from Katie Cappiello’s GoodCapp Arts Ensemble and Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis High School’s Smash Arts Productions. 

    On this Podcast Extra, you'll hear:

    • Excerpts from a movement storytelling piece, titled Through the I’s, which was devised and performed by JKO's Smash Arts students under the direction of their teacher Elisa De Gregorio as part of a Roundabout Theatre Company residency with Teaching Artists Jason Jacobs, theater, and Nick Moore, sound design. Their text is from the transcript of survivor Emily Doe’s testimony in the Brock Turner case, and includes a description of her rape kit exam. The music is Lady Gaga’s anthemic Till It Happens To You. Full credits at tinyurl.com/hm2teens 
    • Then, GoodCapp Arts Ensemble shared a number of scenes from Katie Cappiello’s plays on Opening Night, including 16-year old performer, Lola, who performed Emma's Story, a monologue from Katie’s play The Naked Truth. This recording is from Equality Now's 2016 'Make Equality Reality' gala, where the piece was originally developed. 
    • Finally, you'll hear GoodCapp Arts performers Caleb, Alphonso, Rayshawn, Jordan and Fred, talking about how working on and performing Katie’s play Now That We’re Men helps them examine and change damaging ideas about masculinity.  

    You can watch video of all these performers on the Episode Details page for Episode 2 with Katie Cappiello on our website healmetoopodcast.com. While you're there, join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Closing music credit: Hope Singsen & Dillon Kondor, performed by Micah Burgess.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms. 

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    S1 Xtra 2: Q&A with Sarah Austin Jenness & Katie Cappiello

    S1 Xtra 2: Q&A with Sarah Austin Jenness & Katie Cappiello

    2 experts in the art of personal storytelling fielded questions from our live audience about how audience interactions with storytellers may contribute to healing -- for the audience, for the performers, and ultimately for the culture. In the process, they shared stories of encountering resistance, the value of empathy and the art of listening, and times that audience interactions could be guided toward transformational encounters.

    • Sarah Austin Jenness, Executive Producer of The Moth -- a 21 year old arts organization and home of The Moth Radio Hour, The Moth Podcast, and over 600 live storytelling events worldwide each year, and
    • Playwright Katie Cappiello, whose plays about teen sexuality, based on their own first-hand accounts, have been widely toured and praised.

    Subscribe now. Let's talk about how we can #HealMeToo.

    Listen and subscribe to the #HealMeToo Podcast on Apple Podcasts at bit.ly/hm2pod. Or visit healmetoopodcast.com to find links to other platforms.

    On the episode details page for this interview, you'll find Sarah and Katie's biographies, plus video of Katie Cappiello's teen actors discussing rape culture, masculinity, and what feminism means to them as young men and people of color.

    You'll also find a page with videos of many performances at the Festival, and can join our email list to hear about future pop-up #HealMeToo Festival events.

    Interview recorded & prepped by Delaney Hafener
    Edited by Hope Singsen
    Closing music performed by Micah Burgess:
    Rockabye by Hope Singsen, Dillon Kondor & Micah Burgess

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