Inthemidstofher

In this episode, I answer a Dear Inthe question from a woman who says her spiritual father is sabotaging her relationship because he is in love with her.

Once upon a time, my hubby's biggest complaints about me was that I was rarely "in the present" with him. In this episode, I explain what this means and share how I learned to "Mary my Martha-ness" and deal with this common relationship killer. 

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a woman curious about phone sex.

In this episode, I discuss the gift of forgetting and why it is important to leave some relationships in the past. 

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe Question about my top tips for single women looking forward to starting a relationship.

In this episode, I come clean about the fallacy that I have a perfect marriage and why I believe perfect marriage do not exist.

In this episode I answer a #DearInthe Question from a lady scared God might force her to marry someone she does not want.

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a woman in love with a man she knows she shouldn't be with. If she leaves him, how does she know she'll ever find a love like his?

In this episode, sharing from my own personal experience, I discuss a common mistake married women make of turning their husbands into idols.This is especially common if their husbands are "good men".

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a woman curious to know if dating a man 3 years her junior was taboo.

 In this episode, I continue our discussion on what sex is and is not, within the Christian relationship.

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a young lady afraid of committing to her boyfriend. 

In this episode, I discuss popular misconceptions about the role sex plays in the Christian relationship. 

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a woman interested in sexual abstinence but, concerned it might destroy her relationship. 

Have you ever wondered if you're in an actual relationship or a "situationship"? Have you ever wondered if the guy your dating sees the same future your planning for? In this episode, I discuss what a call the  "Who Are You and What Are We Doing" conversation. This is a discussion that will help both parties define the relationship and avoid grey areas that cause heartache. 

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a girl who is worried that her boyfriend of three years is not showing signs of proposing any time soon. Can she make him propose? Should she stay or should she leave? 

Have you guys heard of the 80/20 rule?
No? Let's talk about it. The 80/20 rule supposedly explains why some people cheat and leave very good partners for "not so good" ones. Understanding this rule has been transformative in helping me evaluate my motives and I believe it will help you guys as well.

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a young lady in a relationship with a man her parents disapprove of. Should she stay or leave?

In this episode, I discuss the stigma attached to girls who've never been in relationships before and why this status is not necessarily a bad one. 

In this episode, I answer a #DearInthe question from a male reader who's fallen in love with a "Catholic girl" but is concerned about the difference in their beliefs.