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    Just Came For The Tacos

    A conversation between two ex-evangelicals (Jeff Elkins and Leigh Erdman) about life after the evangelical church. Together, they examine artifacts from their evangelical past (including books, movies, music, and things they did as pastors) and talk about how they are and have moved forward with the goal of finding hope, peace, and joy in life after the evangelical church.
    enLeigh Erdman57 Episodes

    Episodes (57)

    Leigh Talks Parenting with Her Mom

    Leigh Talks Parenting with Her Mom

    In this episode, Leigh sits down with her mom to talk about faith, parenting, and deconstruction. In this intimate and vulnerable conversation, Leigh and her mom get real about the difficulties of parenting in the evangelical world. 

    Just Came For The Tacos
    enMarch 12, 2024

    The Things We Bring With Us

    The Things We Bring With Us

    In this episode, Jeff and Leigh talk about "Core Beliefs" they picked up as evangelicals and how those beliefs have continued to impact them after they've deconstructed their faith. 

    Just Came For The Tacos
    enFebruary 27, 2024

    Things Giving Us Life

    Things Giving Us Life

    In this episode, Jeff and Leigh talk about the things they are doing, enjoying, and consuming that are bringing joy and grounding to their lives. It's a joyful episode of laughs and honesty. 

    Just Came For The Tacos
    enJanuary 16, 2024

    Thriving as a Couple Through Deconstruction

    Thriving as a Couple Through Deconstruction

    In this episode, Leigh is joined by her husband Sam. Together, they get vulnerable about what it was like to move out of evangelicalism as a couple. They talk about what their marriage was, what the change felt like, how they maintained a healthy partnership as they changed, and where they are now. It's a powerful, honest, and authentic episode about marriage during faith changes. 

    Rob Bell and Where'd You Park Your Spaceship?

    Rob Bell and Where'd You Park Your Spaceship?

    In this episode, Leigh and Jeff sit down with Rob Bell.

    That's right. 

    THE Rob Bell. 

    In addition to talking about the evolution of spirituality and the Rob's history with the American Church, they go deep into the themes of Rob's first fictional novel, Where'd You Park Your Spaceship? 

    They talk about how the themes are present in Rob's life and in the world, what it's like to move from nonfiction to fiction, and they get a small glimpse of what Rob has prepared for the future. 

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    You've Got Questions? We've Got Books.

    You've Got Questions? We've Got Books.

    In this episode, Leigh and Jeff look at the areas of deconstruction they routinely get asked questions about: parenting, LGBTQ allyship, and approaching the Bible post deconstruction. For each category of questions, they talk through books they recommend that help them think through these issues. 

    Books they cover: 

    • Inspired by Rachel Held Evans
    • What is the Bible? by Rob Bell
    • Blindness by Jose Saramago
    • Torn by Justin Lee
    • She Who Became the Son by Shelley Parker-Chan 
    • God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines
    • Parenting Forward by Cindy Wang Brandt
    • Anxious People by Fredrik Backman
    • Beartown by Fredrik Backman
    • Shameless by Nadia Boltz Webber
    • American Gods by Neil Gaiman
    • God According to Jesus by Stephen Mitchell 

    To find Jeff and Leigh, go to https://justcameforthetacos.com/