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    Life After Divorce Coaching

    Are you ready to create a life that is better than ever before? We are Doreen Yaffa and Jeff Wilson and we are here to give you the strategies you need to create the life after divorce that you deserve and desire. As partners in both marriage and in coaching, we use our expertise as well as our own personal experiences to help you make the next chapter of your life the BEST chapter. DISCLAIMER: The content of Life After Divorce Coaching is for educational purposes only. As always, consult a lawyer for your legal questions. Email questions to DYaffa@lifebalancelawyer.com
    en-usDoreen Yaffa137 Episodes

    Episodes (137)

    Ep. 136 - Loving your life after Divorce

    Ep. 136 - Loving your life after Divorce

    You truly have the capacity and capability to create the life you want and deserve after Divorce. In this episode Jeff and Doreen will discuss how the pieces explained in the last five episodes all work together in this recording of February’s webinar.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usMarch 11, 2024

    Ep. 135 - The Results of our Actions

    Ep. 135 - The Results of our Actions

    In the fifth installment of our series, Jeff and Doreen dive into the concluding segment titled "Results." They explore the current state of your life and the journey that brought you here, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in determining what your life will look like in your life after divorce.

    This invaluable resource underscores the idea that the fulfilling and desirable life you seek is closer than you may realize, offering insights into how to attain it.

     

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usMarch 04, 2024

    Ep. 134 - Actions

    Ep. 134 - Actions

    Sir Issac Newton said, “For every action there is a reaction.”

    Meaning there is going to be an action created by a feeling. Another famous saying says “reaping what you sow” meanining you are going to get out of it what  you put into it.

    Welcome to episode 134 on Actions. Whether you do something or do nothing, there I always going to be some kind of result from it.

    If you aren’t please with something in your life, change what you are doing OR what you’re not doing and see the results in desire.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usFebruary 26, 2024

    Ep. 133 – Feelings

    Ep. 133 – Feelings

    Greetings and welcome to Episode 133 of our podcast! In today's installment, marked as Part 3 of our five-part series, we embark on a journey to unravel the profound connection between your thoughts and the outcomes they generate in your life. Delving into the intricate workings of emotions and exploring effective coping mechanisms, you'll gain insights into the notion that feelings are intricately tied to our thoughts.

    As we navigate this exploration of understanding feelings' origins and how to manage them, a revelation awaits - the realization that feelings are born solely from our thoughts. This revelation is a potent catalyst in the healing process, illuminating the empowering truth that change is within your reach. Get ready for a transformative experience as we navigate this insightful episode.

    To register for “The Love Your Life after Divorce” click this link: https://my.lad-coaching.com/webinar224

    We look forward to seeing you there!

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usFebruary 19, 2024

    Ep. 132 - Thoughts

    Ep. 132 - Thoughts

    Welcome to Episode 132 of our podcast. This is Part 2 of 5 and where we uncover how powerful our thoughts can be and how they create different feelings and emotions. Doreen and Jeff discuss how you can have thoughts that serve your goals and dreams. It’s all about awareness and control of your thoughts.

    Find out how this ability alone will make the biggest changes to your life after divorce and grace you with amazing empowerment.

     

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usFebruary 12, 2024

    Ep. 131 - Circumstance

    Ep. 131 - Circumstance

    Welcome to Episode 131 of our podcast, where we kick off a 5-part series on the Elements of the Model.

    In this series, we explore the powerful tool known as “The Model” and how it can be used to customize your amazing life after divorce.

    In this episode, Doreen and Jeff take a deep dive into the elements that make up the model, starting with the first step: the Circumstance. They discuss why circumstances cannot be changed or denied, and provide insights on how to navigate them effectively.

    Join us as we unravel the secrets of the model and discover how it can guide you towards the incredible life you deserve after divorce.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usFebruary 05, 2024

    Ep. 130 - Brian Howie, Host of The Great Love Debate

    Ep. 130 - Brian Howie, Host of The Great Love Debate

    Today's guest is the incredible Brian Howie, the creator of the highly acclaimed podcast "The Great Love Debate," which is known as the world's number one dating and relationship podcast. Brian has earned the title of America's number one dating enthusiast through his extensive knowledge and expertise in the field.

    For our listeners who are either going through or have gone through divorce, Brian has some valuable advice to offer. He understands the challenges and emotional turmoil that come with this life transition and provides guidance on how to navigate the dating world with confidence and resilience.

    When it comes to loving again and rebuilding trust after divorce, Brian offers practical strategies and insights. He emphasizes the importance of self-love and healing, as well as taking the time to understand one's own needs and desires before entering into a new relationship.

    Overall, Brian's expertise and passion for helping others find love and happiness make him the perfect guest for this episode. Tune in to gain valuable insights and inspiration on how to navigate the world of dating and relationships after divorce.

     

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usJanuary 29, 2024

    Ep. 129 – Is it Happiness or is it Success?

    Ep. 129 – Is it Happiness or is it Success?

    In this thought-provoking podcast episode, Doreen and Jeff dive into the misconception that success is a prerequisite for happiness. They explore the idea that happiness actually plays a crucial role in achieving success, especially in the context of life after divorce. Additionally, they delve into the distinction between happiness and success, questioning societal expectations and exploring the true meaning of both. Join us as we uncover the secrets to finding happiness and success in your own life!

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usJanuary 22, 2024

    Ep. 128 - Loving Yourself: Embracing the Past, Present, and Future

    Ep. 128 - Loving Yourself: Embracing the Past, Present, and Future

    Welcome to a motivational episode where Doreen and Jeff dive into the concept of self-love. Discover the significance of loving your past, present, and future self, and learn practical strategies to cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance and appreciation. Tune in to gain valuable insights on how to truly love yourself, regardless of your personal history, current circumstances, or future aspirations. Get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and unlock the limitless potential of self-love.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usJanuary 15, 2024

    Ep. 127 - Influence

    Ep. 127 - Influence

    If it’s your goal to change your life after divorce it’s important to guard the door to your mind. In this episode we are going to discuss how you might be influenced and by whom. How to protect yourself from unwanted influences and to invite inspiring influences into your life.

    If you want to have the most amazing life after divorce, change who you're influenced by and change who you compare yourself to. And you can end up having a more inspired, more exciting, more amazing life after divorce.

     

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usJanuary 08, 2024

    Ep. 126 - New Year, New You

    Ep. 126 - New Year, New You

    We have with the brand-new gorgeous year ahead of us and the past completely behind us. We now have a fresh start and an amazing opportunity to make 2024 the best year ever.

    In this episode Doreen and Jeff talk about the choices that we make when we have a new start. How to get past the tough times and focus on your successes.

     

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usJanuary 01, 2024

    Ep. 125 - Saying Goodbye

    Ep. 125 - Saying Goodbye

    Saying goodbye isn’t easy and most of us don’t do it enough. What we mean by that, it is beneficial to your future life after divorce to say goodbye to the things in your life that no longer serve you. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how and why to say goodbye to things in your life that don’t serve your future self.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usDecember 26, 2023

    Ep. 124 – Before, During and After Divorce Accountability

    Ep. 124 – Before, During and After Divorce Accountability

    Get ready for a sizzling episode that will leave you fired up and ready to take charge of your life! It's time to own up to your thoughts, actions, and results, and yes, even your role in that divorce. Brace yourself for a mind-blowing shift in perspective as we dive into the power of personal accountability. This episode is all about empowering yourself, learning valuable lessons, and embarking on a healing journey like never before.

    But hold on tight, because it's not as easy as it sounds! Life throws obstacles our way, and that's where having an accountability partner becomes a game-changer. Join Doreen and Jeff as they spill the beans on how to embrace personal accountability for your divorce and discover the secret to finding an incredible partner who will keep you laser-focused on achieving your desired results.

    Get ready to be blown away by this no-holds-barred, in-your-face conversation that will leave you craving more. Don't miss out on this electrifying episode that will ignite your passion for personal growth and transformation!

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usDecember 18, 2023

    Ep. 123 – Setting Passionate Goals

    Ep. 123 – Setting Passionate Goals

    Divorce can be a challenging and transformative experience. As you navigate this new chapter in your life, it's important to find ways to rediscover your passions to create a fulfilling future. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss finding your passion and how to apply them to your post-divorce journey.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usDecember 11, 2023

    Ep. 122 - Loneliness and Divorce

    Ep. 122 - Loneliness and Divorce

    In the beginning stages of healing after divorce it’s normal to experience grief, sadness, and anger and other emotions can start you on an emotional rollercoaster. Emotions like these may cause you to pull away from others and isolate yourself, which can eventually lead to feelings of loneliness. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss loneliness and divorce and what you can do to about it.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usDecember 04, 2023

    Ep. 120 - Revisiting the Model

    Ep. 120 - Revisiting the Model

    The thoughts we have are very powerful to the results we have in our life, especially when you are moving past divorce and picking up the pieces to your next best life. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss a helpful tool called the Model that will  clarify how this works.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usNovember 20, 2023

    Ep. 118 - The Manual and Divorce

    Ep. 118 - The Manual and Divorce

    Often the people we have Manuals for aren’t even aware that these so-called “rule books” exist, yet we expect them to follow the rules in them and then we get upset with them when they don’t. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how to shed your manuals and lead a more empowering life after divorce.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usNovember 06, 2023

    Ep. 117 - Divorce Anger

    Ep. 117 - Divorce Anger

    A very common and expected emotion that shows up before, during and after divorce is Anger. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how to except your anger as a normal emotion. Once you are aware of your anger and what to do with it to serve your goals and your future.

    Life After Divorce Coaching
    en-usOctober 30, 2023