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    Marriage Unfiltered

    We are tired of fake people, fake marriages, fake lives. Together, the Fields and the Carters aim to be authentic as we talk about marriage and how it can be hard and the challenges that come with that. We hope to make you a part of our community in walking together toward more authentic and unfiltered lives and marriages. While the hosts of this show serve in the marriage ministry at Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX, this Show is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland TX or its marriage ministry.
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    Episodes (71)

    Unfiltered Sex Week 3

    Unfiltered Sex Week 3

    Have questions or comments? email us marrriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

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    To see photos of Lisa in her "Thug mode" or photos of Bryans hostage Tape check out our latest post on Instagram.

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Sex Talk week 2

    Unfiltered Sex Talk week 2

    We will dig into a couple questions from a romantic ice breaker card deck. Where did we learn about sex? What expectations for sex did we have going into marriage? As always, we get real and share what we have learned in this area. 

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Sex Talk week 1

    Unfiltered Sex Talk week 1

    We will kick this episode off with some of what we do best…real! We planned on recording about sex and one of our couples came to the mics with a real-life conflict that needed a referee. Once we talked through that, we kicked off this month with some talk about sex and its design. 

    We hope you’ll join us for four straight weeks of intimacy in marriage. What the Church says, what society says, what the Bible says, what gets in the way and what makes it great. As always, we’re not experts…just sharing what we’ve learned along the way.

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Holiness

    Unfiltered Holiness

    We decided to spring board off of a comment Blake made on the last episode. What in your marriage are you viewing as something that is failing to make you happy, when really, it is designed to make you more holy?

    This discussion went way into the weeds as the Fields and the Carters work through some miscommunication, understanding each other's love languages and how we still get it wrong. BUT...we are learning and these things are causing us to grow. 

    We hope you listen and see what really conversation and working through conflict and misunderstanding looks like.

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Miscarriage

    Unfiltered Miscarriage

    Even when setting our expectations low, we can still get caught off guard by the unexpected. This conversation will cover the ups and downs and what Blake and Lexy have walked through and what they have learned. You will be blown away by the wisdom from this young couple! 

    Colossians 1 Paul's conversation about the enemy attacking when the cause is great.

    Podcast about Miscarriage "The Joyful Mourning Podcast"

    Miscarriage Support Group Anthus Midland

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    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered New Start

    Unfiltered New Start

    Trying to make changes can be hard. The struggle to be your best you and have a better marriage can be real. The Carters and Fields sit down and just discuss our struggles with changing and improving. We also discuss how we react when things go awry. 

    We love to hear your new ideas for topics! 

    Please email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Or DM us on Instagram @marriage_unfiltered_podcast

    If you have an idea for what we should do if we hit 50,000 downloads by the end of 2024, email us or DM us.

     

     

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Christmas Unplugged

    Unfiltered Christmas Unplugged

    This episode may or may not have anything helpful in it. We just sit down as friends and share our struggles and hurts. We talk about some very vulnerable things including marital sex. Take this as your warning.

    We always appreciate feedback, so if you have something you would like us to discuss, please email us! marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Check us out on Instagram @marriage_unfiltered_podcast

    Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered manipulation

    Unfiltered manipulation

    Our story is messy, but it doesn't keep us from being used or receiving the blessing God has for us.

    Where do you turn when you feel unloved? What do you do when you feel you aren't getting what you deserve?

    We talk about Jacob and all the crazy ways he tried to manipulate his way into what he wanted. God Still Used Him!

    Gen 25-35

    Podcasts we reference:

    Elevation with Steven Furtick "The Blessing of Letting Go"

    Disrupted Faith Podcast "Jacob was Kinda Trash"

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Adoption

    Unfiltered Adoption

    James 1:27

    According to the US Adoption Statistics:

    391,000 Children are in foster care. 114,000 foster care children are eligible for adoption.

    115,343 Children are adopted each year

    1 out of 25 families with children have adopted

    115,343 children are adopted each year

    • 58% of children spend 2-5 years in the foster care system
    • 11% spend over 5 years

    8 yrs is the average age of a child waiting in foster

    REFERENCES

    Administration for Children and Famlies, The Adoption Hatory Project, Department of Health S

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Unlikely Warrior

    Unfiltered Unlikely Warrior

    Judges 6-7

    Do you trust God when He calls you to something that seems impossible? The Fields and the Carters chose to fight a battle for their marriages when it seemed impossible. What can we learn from the story of Gideon? When a battle is won, only God can receive the glory. He will make it known that it is only Him who can receive the credit.

    What do you need to lay down in obedience?

    What is God calling you to? Do you believe it is really God?

     

     

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Breast Cancer

    Unfiltered Breast Cancer
    WOW! Have we got a powerful interview for you! October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We decided to sit down with D and Jen Johnson to hear their story about walking through the diagnosis of Breast Cancer. You don't want to miss this one! We learned so much more than just what their journey looked like. We learned about how to walk with someone you know who has been diagnosed. We learned about what to do and say and what not to do or say. Share this episode with everyone you know, married or not. We all need to know how to walk with someone who is hurting.Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Mercy and Obedience p2 of 2

    Unfiltered Mercy and Obedience p2 of 2

    What exactly does it look like to hear from God? When we remove distractions and pay attention we can hear what God is telling us and what He is asking us to. When we respond in obedience, we cannot limit the ways God wants to use us and bless us.

    We will finish this discussion with powerful stories about encounters with God. We talk about the spiritual realm and what that looks like. 

    As always, we recognize our lack of theological training. We just read God's word and do our best to apply it to our marriages. Most importantly, we are open to hearing from God and what He is calling us to.

    Share this podcast, like, follow, subscribe, rate or whatever your platform will allow you to do. 

    email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

    Follow us on instagram @marriageunfilteredpodcast

    Prov. 16:3, Prov. 16:9

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Mercy pt 1 of 2

    Unfiltered Mercy pt 1 of 2

    This week, we talk about mercy, obedience and second chances. We get on such a role about obedience and hearing from God, we decided to make this a two-part episode. 

    Remember, we do not claim to be theologians. These are candid conversations about what we believe we have heard from God through His Scriptures. 

    We will hear Bryan and Alissa's story of redemption in their marriage and how Mercy and Obedience played a part.

    We will briefly breeze through the book of Jonah and reference a few other verses that talk about obedience and God's pursuit of His people.

    email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

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    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Masculinity Her Version

    Unfiltered Masculinity Her Version

    Thank you to Jen Johnson, Samantha Saville and Kenedi Carter for joining us in a powerful discussion about masculinity and leadership. We will also follow up with Brody Field with a few more questions from the ladies.

     What does masculinity look like to you? What did you expect in a spiritual leader? Where did you get your views on these things? We will all share our view and how expectations have gotten in the way.

    We hope you will share this episode with anyone who wants to learn a little more about what Spiritual leadership is.

    If you missed the Men's perspective on this topic, go back and listen to S2. ep 26

    We would love to hear from you! marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

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    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Love Busters

    Unfiltered Love Busters

    Dr. John Gottman did a lot of research to determine some of the ways we can damage our relationships by making withdrawals. The four of us talk about how subtle it can be to make a withdrawal and what it takes to make up for a withdrawal. We also talk about examples in our own marriages of what affect these withdrawals can have. Check out Dr. Gottman's research and tools on his website. https://www.gottman.com

     

     

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Emotional Needs

    Unfiltered Emotional Needs

    Top 10 most common emotional needs:

    Admiration

    ___Affection

    ___Domestic Support

    ___Family Commitment

    ___Financial Support

    ___Honesty and Openness

    ___Intimate Conversation

    ___Physical Attentiveness

    ___Physical Intimacy

    ___Recreational Companionship

    You can go to this link to complete an assessment. EMOTIONAL NEEDS ASSESSMENT WARNING:  Do not use the assessment as a weapon. Use it to have honest communication about your needs.

    John Gottman Love Bank Video 

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

    Unfiltered Parenthood

    Unfiltered Parenthood

    Parenting looks different in each home. We know that everyone has different challenges thrown their way when it comes to raising kids. On this episode, we just share what we have learned. Some things we learned the hard way, but that is the best way to learn. 

    Resources mentioned:

    Growing Kids God's Way

    Parenting With Love and Logic

    Scripture:

    Deuteronomy 21:18-21 (this one really no longer applies, but it makes a great threat :) )

    Deuteronomy 6:6-7

    Ephesians 6:4

    Col 3:13

    Psalm 133:1

    Let us know if there is more you would like to hear about anything!

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    Instagram @marriage_unfiltered_Podcast

    Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX