Pain in My Cass Podcast

This week, Cassandra takes the microphone alone to explore the delicate balance between self-love and seeing beyond the delusions in dating. Cassandra delves into the delicate dance between keeping it real and keeping some cards close to her chest, especially when it comes to the dicey world of dating. Without holding back, she's here to dismantle the fairy tales we tell ourselves about potential suitors, diving headlong into the reality of modern romance and the indispensable role of self-love.

This episode takes you on a rollercoaster ride through Cassandra’s recent fling with a guy who seemed like he'd leaped right out of her favorite fantasy novels. She navigates the pitfalls of dating apps, and how she targets the tall, dark, and business-savvy types. She shares the highs and lows with a certain someone who ticked all the boxes on paper but ended up teaching her valuable lessons about expectations and self-awareness.

Cassandra doesn't shy away from the messy bits, exploring the trials of seeking validation, the quest for a man who gets her "wild heart," and the tough realizations that follow the heartbreak of mutual reciprocation. She opens up about the struggle with attachment styles and how they play out in the digital age of love.

But it's not all doom and gloom; there's light at the end of the tunnel. Cassandra reflects on the bigger picture of love and life, sharing the insights she's picked up along the way. This episode is a heartfelt one for anyone wrestling with the concept of self-love and finding their way in relationships. Tune in this Thursday for an episode that's as thought-provoking as it is personal – Episode 6: You Were Hotter in My Delusions. It's the update your week has been waiting for!

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When Jane Santiago entered the studio, the atmosphere changed; her prayer was not just words, but a catalyst for upliftment and connection. Her story, an intricate tapestry of Puerto Rican and Korean threads, is one of cultural richness and the courage to shape an identity amidst the challenges of military family life and societal prejudice. Our discussion weaves through the vibrant scenes of Austin's dating landscape, the complexities of friendship, and the serendipitous moments that turn strangers into confidants.

This podcast is far more than a conversation; it's an exploration of the deep-rooted issues that affect us all, from the subtleties of racism to the empowering journey of self-recognition. Jane Santiago, with her dynamic heritage, opens up about the resilience required to navigate and celebrate one's cultural background in a world rife with stereotypes. Together, we confront these challenges, drawing strength from the sacrifices of immigrant families and the beauty of diverse American history.

At the heart of this episode lies the nuanced sphere of love and relationships, where strength and vulnerability coexist. With Jane's candid insights, we tackle the paradoxical nature of emotional availability and the importance of authenticity in our connections. The healing process after heartache and the essential role of a support system in rediscovering joy also find their place in our conversation. Join us as we celebrate Jane's captivating online presence and the profound conversations that are the hallmark of our show.

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Imagine ringing in your 27th year with a thrilling leap into the world of innovative entrepreneurship. That's exactly what Matthew Iommi, the passionate CEO of Fetii, did, and he's here to recount the festivities and the strides his ride-sharing company is making in urban mobility. From the electrifying games at Electric Shuffle to the sumptuous dishes at ATX Casino, Matthew's birthday bash is just the prelude to a deeper conversation about Fetii's mission to connect people and reduce traffic congestion, backed by research from the University of Texas.

As the party bus wheels turn, so do the tales of starting up from scratch, with Matthew at the steering wheel of a solo bus, navigating the entrepreneurial highway. Embark on a journey that's far from the typical start-up tale, where breakdowns and cash transactions were mere stepping stones to the sophisticated, on-demand party bus empire Fetii is today. Discover the role of creativity, grit, and strategic partnerships in driving a business forward, and how a high school friendship turned into a business bond, contributing to the success of this innovative venture.

Wrapping things up, we get personal with Matthew as he discusses how youthful energy can be a catalyst for business success, even if it means facing industry skepticism head-on. This episode isn't just about the triumphs; it's about the friendships, the supportive relationships, and the shared laughs that are the real fuel behind the Fetii fire. Get ready for an engaging tale of growth, ambition, and the sweet spot where personal drive meets supportive bonds, all while getting a sneak peek at what the future holds for Fetii.

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 @fetii

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Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of love and fame is no small feat, yet our guest Mike Johnson does so with remarkable insight and vulnerability. From the military to the heart-fluttering highs and lows of reality TV, Mike’s tale is a mosaic of transformative experiences. Settle in as we explore his fascinating transition, the powerful influence of location on one's love life, and the enduring impact of Austin, Texas, on his heart. Mike's candid stories reveal the complex interplay between personal growth and cultural adaptation, offering a rich perspective on the nuances of modern romance and self-discovery.

As the spotlight's glare fades, maintaining an authentic self can be as challenging as it is crucial, and Mike opens up about his journey post-'The Bachelorette'. Delving into the importance of staying true to oneself and sound financial planning, Mike's anecdotes serve as a testament to life beyond the camera, complete with the practicalities of business ventures and investment strategies for those charting a course outside of conventional employment paths.

Our conversation takes a passionate turn as we tread through the realms of intimacy, sexology, and the foundations of fulfilling relationships. Mike, as a sexologist, imparts wisdom on nurturing connections that extend beyond the physical, underscoring the significance of emotional health in the tapestry of love and sex. We dissect the often misinterpreted concepts of conditional love, gender roles, and women's autonomy, engaging in a discourse that challenges societal norms and invites a reimagining of partnership dynamics. Join us for an episode that doesn't just entertain but promises to enrich your understanding of the delicate balance between our personal and professional lives.

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Have you ever dissected the intricate layers of relationships or pondered the delicate dance of self-discovery and partnership? Strapping on our boots for a heartfelt journey, we delve into the expectations that can either forge or fracture bonds. Our conversation is a raw look into the non-negotiables that define our quest for love, from an unyielding sense of self to the balance of shared passions and the kind of unconditional love that respects personal boundaries. We dismantle societal molds, like the outdated trophy wife, championing the importance of being equal partners in the narrative of our lives.

Navigating the tumultuous seas of dating, intelligence, and therapy, we bare our souls about the importance of intellectual parity in our partners and the solace found in 'us against the world' solidarity. The complexities of private struggles within relationships come to light, underscoring the role therapy plays as a confidential sanctuary. As we reveal our vulnerabilities, we highlight the transformative power of therapist-client connections, parallel to the unpredictable journey of finding 'the one.'

We confront the stigmas attached to dating, from gold-digging accusations to navigating significant age disparities, and embrace the freedom of scripting our futures. By celebrating the rich diversity of life's rhythms, we affirm that whether it's finding love or starting a family, there's no such thing as being behind schedule.

You can follow In the Lobby Podcast: @inthelobbypod 

You can follow Cassandra Jean:
@paininmycass_

You can follow Roger Braxton:
@arrogee

This episode is brought to you by Thursday. 

Single? Meet us at the thursdayº Event.


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Our heartfelt tale begins in the unlikeliest of places – a lobby where the buzz of conversation re-sparked a friendship destined to weave through career failures, the comfort of platonic friendship, and the laughter that only a great podcast co-hosting duo can share. As we share the origin story of 'In the Lobby,' join us for an episode that's part confessional, part celebration of the connections that come to define us. From impactful introductions to the awkwardness of denied podcast co-hosting that became a stepping stone to this very collaboration, our journey is as serendipitous as it is sincere.

Navigating the emotional baggage of breakups, the quirks of Austin's dating scene, and the importance of voicing our stories, we've discovered the therapeutic rhythm in sharing life's ups and downs. Whether it's the laughter that comes from recalling a Chili's date that somehow felt right or the introspection of differing dating expectations between the Big Apple and the Lone Star State, we've tackled it all. Each tale is a thread in the complex tapestry of modern relationships, where the line between personal and professional facades is as delicate as it is necessary.

There's a vibrancy in the stories we're set to share, the diverse perspectives of our guests, and the deeper connections we're eager to create with every one of you. So, whether you're here for dating insights, entertainment, or just to feel like you're part of the gang, remember: “In the Lobby” is where it's going down!

As the lobby doors slide open to welcome our listeners to our first season, we're rolling out a weekly invitation to join us every Thursday "In the Lobby".

You can follow In the Lobby Podcast: @inthelobbypod 

You can follow Cassandra Jean:
@paininmycass_

You can follow Roger Braxton:
@arrogee

This episode is brought to you by Thursday. 

Single? Meet us at the thursdayº Event.


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