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    Romance Writer's Therapy

    Hello and welcome to Romance Writer’s Therapy! Some people write therapeutically, authors need therapy after writing. We aren’t therapists, but we feel like we need one. This podcast is like our group therapy, just a couple of budding romance authors discussing writing, storytelling, reading and publishing--with many detours along the way.

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    Episodes (81)

    REPOST: To Critique or Not Critique

    REPOST: To Critique or Not Critique

    Enjoy this repost! Kate and Marty are feeling the pressure of time and they weren't able to record this week. BUT next week will be the season finale, where they share writing and give criticism. So this episode seemed appropriate. 

    Come on a journey with Kate and Marty, through the ups and downs of giving and receiving criticism.

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "Hazel and Elijah Don't Get Caught" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

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    75: Business Strategy On Minimum Brain Cells

    75: Business Strategy On Minimum Brain Cells

    Apologies for Sounds of Opening Mail in the first few minutes of the episode.

    Kate and Marty discuss:

    Progress by Wordcounts and Nanowrimo
    Shelving Projects and Coming Back to them
    How was Your Halloween?
    Not Impressed with Past Selves
    It Takes 200 Hrs for Marty to Write A Whole Book
    Rest Is Productive
    24 Hr Plays and Being Too Tired to Sleep
    Understanding Where Your Genre's Market Is At
    Marty Outlines Her 2024 Writing Plans
    Niche Troubles
    Kate Can't Conceptualize Time Further Out Than A Month

    Summary of the Strategy:
    Continue Building Backlist
    Apologize to the Buisness Majors, It Is Actually Hard Stuff
    Do Math
    Figure Out How Much Writing You Get Done Every Year
    Different Kinds of Sales

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usNovember 07, 2023

    73: Giving Your Characters Personal Growth

    73: Giving Your Characters Personal Growth

    It's all in the title this episode, Marty and Kate talk about the myriad of different ways a character can grow, what growth can look like and how it can serve the plot, as well as a really long (still relevant) discussion about Pride & Prejudice. 

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usOctober 24, 2023

    72: Things I Did Wrong with My Book Release

    72: Things I Did Wrong with My Book Release

    The girls are both a little sick in this episode so the pacing is slower, but this week Kate tells Marty things she realized she did wrong with her most recent book release only after the fact. They both compare things that they're currently doing with their books and strategize how to work around those obstacles for next time. 

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usOctober 17, 2023

    71: Giving Second Chance Romances Another Try

    71: Giving Second Chance Romances Another Try

    This week Marty and Kate dissect the Second Chance Romance trope, since they realized they're both writing books with it at the same time.

    We cover:

    Why Are They Werewolves?
    Giving Second Chances Another Try
    Marty Verbally Wedgies Kate from 1000 Miles Away
    Holding Suspense Throughout
    Plotting A SCR is Extremely Weird
    Getting Rid of the Mindset that All Chapters Need the Same Pacing
    Differences Between First-Time and Second Chance Romance Beats
    The Right Level of Emotionally Wounded
    Required Reading: Gwen Hayes' Romancing the Beat
    Mid-Pod Apology To Marty's Mom
    Kate Rails Against the Best Friend Character
    How Do It Right?
    Adding a Plot After The Book is Written
    Failing In Exactly the Same Direction
    Write Faster, Think Less

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    70: Undoing Hustle Culture

    70: Undoing Hustle Culture

    This episode is mainly about building your author business without giving in to hustle culture, but we also go off on a number of tangents, such as:

    Marty Is Eating Her Library Books
    If You Don't Enjoy Reading A Genre, Why Would You Write In It?
    There Are No Bears in Michigan
    The Lunar Cycle Brain Curse
    Kate Describes Writing Process Very Similar to ADHD Symptoms
    Your Manuscript's Honeymoon Stage
    Backlists Over Marketing
    FOMO Never Goes Away
    Get Out of My House, Off My To-Do List
    Kate Wants to See ChatGPT Cry
    Automating The Banal
    Ads Aren't the Only Answer
    Craft Books and The Bubonic Plague
    Coercing People Into Doing Your Taxes
    What's The Marketing For OnlyF*ns Look Like
    Don't Demonize Yourself for Wanting to Be Paid
    You're the Child of Our Divorce, Listener

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    69: Are You Happy About the Stress You Have?

    69: Are You Happy About the Stress You Have?

    This episode, Marty and Kate talk about:

    • The Outside Is Attacking Us (Allergies)
    • Marty Isn't DNFing Out of Spite
    • Marty F's Around with Prequels and Finds Out She Should Write More 
    • Sideboob Logistics
    • Kate and Marty Are Really Having An Easy Time Writing Books for Once and Are Really Confused About It
    • Marty Sets Some Really Wild Challenges for Herself
    • Surprising No One, Marty is an Extrovert, Kate is an Introvert
    • Making Friends Or Writing Books
    • Reflecting On Ways Our Lives Have Changed Over The Last Couple Years
    • 24 Minutes in We Get to the Point of the Episode
    • Defining Success Outside of Captialism
    • Nail Break
    • Also You Can't Really Remove Capitalism from the Equation, Yet
    • If You Really Knew What Your Dream Entailed, Would You Still Want It?
    • Put Pressure On Yourself Like Everyone's Watching, Even If They Aren't
    • Don't Love It When Things Happen to Me
    • Leaving in the Ice Noises Specifically For You 
    • Film Degrees Are Pretty Useless



    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    68: Maybe Your Neuroses Affect Your Writing Process

    68: Maybe Your Neuroses Affect Your Writing Process

    This episode, we talk about:

    • When the ADHD Hyperfixation Wears Off / Burnout
    • Is Self Publishing Actually Democratizing the Industry? Or Are we Creating Micro-Class Barriers
    • You Should Strong Arm Your Way Into Situations
    • 16 Minutes In And Kate Still Hasn't Explained Episode's Conceit
    • When It's Ok To Not Accept Criticism
    • TikToks Take FOREVER to Make
    • Quizilla and LinkedIn are the Only Valid Social Medias
    • Kate Realizes In Real Time The Thing She Wanted To Talk About Is Possibly Not That Relatable
    • This Episode Was About Receiving Edits, It's Now About Cleaning
    • Our Conversation Circumnavigates A Really Great Point About Pay-to-Win Video Game Dynamics and the Earlier Point About Micro-Class Barriers BUT IT'S FINE
    • Picking Up Hobbies And Immediately Dropping Them
    • Learning To Enjoy Not Being Good At A Thing



    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    67: Romantasy's Balancing Act - Interview with Shoshana Rain

    67: Romantasy's Balancing Act - Interview with Shoshana Rain

    The podcast starts off talking about Shoshana's new book, The Desert Heiress, when the conversation immediately takes a turn into video games. We talk about the ways this book differed from her first series, romantasy books vs fantasy books with romance arcs, balancing worldbuilding/plot vs relationships in romance/fantasy, the importance of building a backlist, the spectrum of writing to market vs the book of your heart.

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usSeptember 12, 2023

    66: Narrating is Our Coping Mechanism

    66: Narrating is Our Coping Mechanism

    Today's episode is at least partly about writing while life is happening, but also:
    BEEFY chapters and Amazing Critique Group Dynamics
    The Glorification of Overwriting and Writing Speeds
    Book Launches During Family Events (TW: death mention, funerals)
    Emailing You From My Sickbed
    Washing the Dishes But It's a Character Moment
    What It Means to Learn Your Writing Process
    Books/Authors We're Currently Reading
    Good Books with Bad Summaries
    It's Ok To Be A Little Judgey
    Marty's Nutrition of Analysing
    Don't Follow Her Advice, Follow Mine

    Apologies for how utterly terribly Kate's audio is, she keeps messing with her mic settings and has not learned to stop.

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    REPOST: You Always Remember Your First

    REPOST: You Always Remember Your First

    Enjoy this repost:

    They're back! In this episode, Kate and Marty discuss the age-old advice of "throwing out" the first book you write. They talk about their first attempts at writing books: everything that makes them want to forget that first manuscript, and all the things keeping it on the shelf. And about a dozen tangents in between.

    Get Marty's debut novella Truth or Daire.

    Get Love, Laugh, Lich, Kate Prior's novella.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get You and Me in Quarantine for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usAugust 29, 2023

    65: You're Not My Real Writer Rules!

    65: You're Not My Real Writer Rules!

    Kate and Marty chat about writing rules; and why there are no laws while using loosely accurate examples and saying the wrong term. Enjoy their new use for the semi-colon; and the revival of an olden-times dialogue tag. (IYKYK)

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    64: Bummed Out About Burnout

    64: Bummed Out About Burnout

    If the girls sound a little low energy, it's because we're talking about Burnout.

    We talk about:

    The Sims and Melting Computers
    Taking Time Away from A Project
    Feeling Off Balance After A Project
    Forgetting Your Characters' Names
    A Milkshake as the Ultimate Romantic Gesture
    Marty's Love of Emily Henry
    Actionable Items for Your Bitching
    Gaslighting Your Readers Is Always An Option
    Sequels Are Hard Part 2
    Peaking Young Is Bad
    Manually Lowering The Bar for Yourself

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    63: On Characters Climaxing after the Story's Climax

    63: On Characters Climaxing after the Story's Climax

    We Discuss:
    Checking the Pulse of Your Book
    Titling your Book AND your Fictional Towns
    Kate Struggles against the Idea of Fictional National Parks Bone Town and its Many Mile Markers
    Reading Only the First and Last Sentences of Paragraphs
    One-Sentence Emails
    It's Weird to Have an Epilogue, It's Also Weird When You Don't
    Kate Rambles about Tessa Dare Books Intermittently
    Being Expirianced In Reading Endings

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    62: Interview with Darcy Monroe

    62: Interview with Darcy Monroe

    Marty talks about twists with Darcy Monroe. As well as being the nerdiest little nerds in their hometown, their love of cinnamon roll heroes, and reading "steamy" romance at a young age.

    Find Darcy at https://darcymonroewriter.wordpress.com/ or her book The Hall of Art and Pleasure

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    Romance Writer's Therapy
    en-usAugust 01, 2023

    61: Blast from the Past

    61: Blast from the Past

    Hey listeners, this week, Kate dug this episode from the back of the fridge, under the bed, behind the dishwasher, and some forgotten corner of her hard drive to bring you this mystery meet of an episode from JANUARY. Hopefully this year.

    Have fun, who knows what this one is about.

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.

    60: Marty and Kate Talk Book Release Budgets without Ever Using Numbers

    60: Marty and Kate Talk Book Release Budgets without Ever Using Numbers

    This episode, Marty and Kate tell you they're on a time crunch. Don't believe their lies-- buckle in for an hour and a half of them talking about the nitty gritty of Things You Could Theoretically Spend Money on, as An Author, mostly in terms of planning your release. Real technical stuff, y'know.

    The Orc from the Office is Kate Prior's latest novella. Or check out her website at www.kate-prior.com.

    Get Marty's latest novel Just Fake Married.

    Sign up for Marty's newsletter at her website to get "You and Me in Quarantine" for free!

    You can find Kate on Twitter @bykateprior, and Instagram @bykateprior, and Tiktok @bykateprior. Marty can be found on TikTok @martyveeauthor and Instagram @martyveeauthor and Twitter @martyveeauthor.

    Please subscribe and rate our podcast, it helps us reach new listeners.