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    Royally Screwed Podcast

    Greetings Kings, Queens, and Libertines! I am Certified Sex Coach and Dating Coach, Kincaid McMinn! Listen in as I talk with my friends about our personal dating experience, covering Masturbation, Mating, Marriage, and everything in between! As we dig into our personal histories, we hope to provide you with insight that you can you in your own dating journey.
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    Episodes (21)

    Cheat Days and Cheating: Monogamy is HARD with Margaret Brewer

    Cheat Days and Cheating: Monogamy is HARD with Margaret Brewer
    Join me as Margaret Brewer (MSW student) and I discuss the recent swirl of news about famous married men being unfaithful to their wives, and what implications it has for all of us. We talk about the origins of monogamy, the reasons why we stray, what we can do about it, and a surprising amount of baked goods.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

     FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)


    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Hyper-Traditional Hypocrites with Lekeisha Jones, CSC

    Hyper-Traditional Hypocrites with Lekeisha Jones, CSC

    Listen in as certified Sex Coach LeKeisha Jones and I discuss how society tries to convince us to shove others (and ourselves) into restrictive boxes. We share several stories of people trying to do that to us, talk about why the people who push the hardest for "traditional" relationship roles should be approached with caution (and for different reasons than you might think), and begin to tease at ways you can unravel these narratives for yourself.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Survey/Interview link: https://www.royallovecoach.com/survey

     FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)


    You can find LeKeisha here:
    Website: Erotic_ology (erotic-ology.com)
    Instagram: LeKeisha Jones, MS (@erotic_ology)
    Facebook: Eroticology | Facebook


    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Pubes, Pits, and Pedo-staches with Katarzyna Zoltak and Jacee Niblett

    Pubes, Pits, and Pedo-staches with Katarzyna Zoltak and Jacee Niblett

    Join me in our first-ever panel discussion with my friends Katarzyna (Kasia) Zoltak and Jacee Niblett, where we discuss everything we can think of around body hair: where it comes from, what is it good for, the ways we are told that it "should" look whether we want it to or not, and what you can do about it. Along the way, we talk about our own insecurities related to our body hair, share stories from our upbringing, and give a loud "F- YOU" to the boys and girls of our adolescence who made us feel anything less than beautiful for our hair.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Survey/Interview link: https://www.royallovecoach.com/survey

     FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)

    You can find Jacee and Kasia here:
    Jacee Website: Sex | Freedom in Intimacy
    Jacee Instagram: Jacee Niblett (@freedominintimacy)

    Kasia Website: Katarzyna Żółtak on Direct.me
    Kasia Instagram: Katarzyna Zoltak (she/her) (@katarzyna.zoltak)


    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Talk Dirty to Me with Aubrey Moore, CSC

    Talk Dirty to Me with Aubrey Moore, CSC

    Join me as newly certified sex coach Aubrey Moore and I talk about talking about sex. Specifically, why we often have a hard time talking about our bodies or what we want, some of the roots to why that may be, and what you can do to overcome that! We also share anecdotes from our upbringing, and talk about some of our particular dirty words that we still have a hard time with.
    CW: Mention of rape

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Survey/Interview link: https://www.royallovecoach.com/survey

     FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)


    You can find Aubrey here:
    Aubrey's upcoming workshop: Stop Unsatisfying Sex
    Website: Pleasure Roots
    Instagram: Aubrey Rae (@pleasureroots) 



    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    OOOH NO: The Orgasm Gap with Emily Claiborne

    OOOH NO: The Orgasm Gap with Emily Claiborne

    Join my childhood friend Emily Claiborne and me as we discuss our personal experiences with faking orgasms, the societal causes behind why 55% of men but only 4% of women report an orgasm their first time with a new partner, and what you can do to not be just another statistic.

    Rescources mentioned:
    Becoming Cliterate
    Come As You Are
    Anatomy of Pleasure
    OMG Yes

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    I'm Coming Out

    I'm Coming Out
    Happy Pride Month!
    Today, I share with you all my personal journey with slowly discovering my own sexual orientation over time. We start with early childhood experiences, through adolescence, into adulthood, and discuss what coming out further means for me in the future.
    Whoever you are, if you are listening to this, know that you are loved and that you can be free to be your authentic self. This podcast is a safe space.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303



    Exorcising Excess Exercise with Amanda Vee, CSC

    Exorcising Excess Exercise with Amanda Vee, CSC
    Certified Sex Coach, Amanda Vee is back again, this time with more discussion on how to balance the surprisingly tricky mental game of physical activity. We talk about compulsive behaviors, when healthy things become unhealthy, and what you can do to find a happy middle ground.
    CW: Mental Health, Eating Disorders, Pregnancy, Miscarriage

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)


    You can find Amanda here:
    Website: Sex Talks With Amanda
    Instagram: Amanda Vee (@sextalkswithamanda) 

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     

     

    Fitness Dick in Your Mouth with Amanda Vee, CSC

    Fitness Dick in Your Mouth with Amanda Vee, CSC

    Join me, along with certified sex coach Amanda Vee, as we dive into the world of fitness and how that relates to sex and dating. Amanda tells her incredible history as a fitness coach, we talk about reason's that people get in their own way in fitness and in sex, and we discuss some principles to keep in mind as you begin your own fitness journey.
    Stay tuned June 3rd for Part 2, where we dive deeper into the pitfalls of an over-active lifestyle.


    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Survey/Interview link: https://www.royallovecoach.com/survey

     FB: Royal Love Coaching | Facebook
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Instagram: Kincaid McMinn (@royallovecoach)


    You can find Amanda here: 
    Website: Sex Talks With Amanda
    Instagram: Amanda Vee (@sextalkswithamanda) 

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

    Masturbation Month w/ Kristen Thomas, CSC

    Masturbation Month w/ Kristen Thomas, CSC

    Come join in on the self-love as certified sex coach Kristen Thomas and I discuss the joys of self-pleasure to kick off the first week of National Masturbation Month! We discuss the roots of why we can experience shame when we masturbate, what you can do about it, and what Kristen would do with the power of time travel.

    This is part two of a double-feature that Kristen and I did together for National Masturbation Month. Click here to listen to me guest-star on Kristen's Podcast.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Schedule an interview/survey: Survey — Royal Love Coaching

     Support the Show:
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    Paypal.me/royallyscrewed

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    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kincaidmcminn
    Twitter: Kincaid McMinn (@kincaidmcminn)

     

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

    Gender Essentialism vs Dignified Hedonism w/ Sarah Martin, CSC

    Gender Essentialism vs Dignified Hedonism w/ Sarah Martin, CSC

    In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend and colleague, Certified Sex Coach, Sarah Martin.  We talk about personal struggles in our upbringings with not feeling "Enough," I  share my first experience in drag and get WAY too blitzed on spiked coffee.

    You can find Sarah here:
    Website: Dignified Hedonist – To Your Pleasure
    "Keep It Casual" Course: Products – Dignified Hedonist
    Read her Master's Thesis: ABOUT – Dignified Hedonist


    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303
    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

    Sweet, Baby-Makin' Music w/ Aubrey Moore

    Sweet, Baby-Makin' Music w/ Aubrey Moore

    This week, join me and Sex-Coach-In-Training Aubrey Moore as we discuss the link between Boom-boxes and making your bedroom "boom." We cover what songs are on our own personal sexy playlists, just why a thing like "sexy playlists" exist, and what you can do to use sex, music, and dance to improve your sex life.


    So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex:
    Bookshop.org
    Come As You Are:
    Bookshop.org

    You can find Aubrey here:
    Instagram: Aubrey Rae (@pleasureroots)

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com

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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303
    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

    Dating App Disasters w/ Jazmine Correa

    Dating App Disasters w/ Jazmine Correa

    Join me and my former roommate, Jazmine Correa, as we discuss the good, the bad, and the UGLIEST dating apps on the market, based on our own personal experience. We break down the facets, features, and flaws of many of the large dating apps, as well as fantasize about the future of the dating app marketplace/community.

    You can find Jazmine at:
    Jazmine Correa | Facebook
    Jazmine Correa (@jazifay_91) • Instagram
    jazifay_91 (@jazifay_91) TikTok

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com) 

    Support the Show:
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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Jesus was a Power-Bottom w/ Francisco Herrera

    Jesus was a Power-Bottom w/ Francisco Herrera

    Join me for part 2 of my interview with my Uncle Francisco, Ph.D. Student and Pastor, as we talk about the intersection between spirituality and sexuality. Uncle Cisco shares lessons from his own D/S relationships and his own experience as a Dom. We discuss the importance of aftercare, and the appeal to Kink and BDSM for those who are interested, religious or not.

    You can find Uncle Cisco here:
    FB: Francisco Herrera | Facebook
    Twitter:  Francisco Herrera AKA #MamaPancho (@PolyglotEvangel)
    Patreon: Francisco Herrera is creating Jesus-y texts and music, ritual, and a TON of free fundraising | Patreon

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com) 

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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ 

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303 

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Indecent Theology w/ Francisco Herrera

    Indecent Theology w/ Francisco Herrera

    In this episode, I am joined by my Uncle Francisco Herrera, as we discuss almost everything BUT sex and dating (sorry)! Though we originally intend to talk about religion and Kink/BDSM, we get lost in discussions of morality, mindset, and making the benevolent nature of god (if you believe) real here on earth.

    You can find Uncle Cisco here:
    Patron: Francisco Herrera is creating blogs, articles, melodies and lyrics - often Jesus-y
    Twitter: Francisco Herrera AKA #MamaPancho (@PolyglotEvangel)
    FB: Francisco Herrera


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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303
    Artist: http://incompetech.com/



    Authenticity & Animal Masks w/ Angela Locashio, CSC

    Authenticity & Animal Masks w/ Angela Locashio, CSC

    "Roll for Initiative!" as Nerd, Intersectional Life Coach, and Certified Sex Coach Angela Locashio and I talk about how most people struggle with being truly authentic in the dating world, and how you can apply lessons from our favorite furry-friendly Netflix shows to your sex life.

    You can find Angela at the following places:
    Website: Mama Pistachio
    Nervous System Book: When "Just Breathe" Fans the Flames of Stress — Mama Pistachio
    Discord Server: https://discord.gg/8tHx6VwXFt (Live Oct.31!)



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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

     



    Good Ole' Fashioned Purity Culture w/ Jordan Vecchio, CSC

    Good Ole' Fashioned Purity Culture w/ Jordan Vecchio, CSC

    In this episode, Certified Sex Coach Jordan Vecchio and I talk Purity Rings and Southern Things as we discuss our sexual upbringings in the Bible Belt, and what you can do if you find you've drunk the abstinence-only Kool-Aid.

    You can find Jordan here:
    Website: Talk about Intimacy
    Instagram: Jordan (@jordan.vxo)
    Twitter: Jordan (@jordan_vxo)


    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com) 

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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

     

     

     



    Dating App Dilemmas w Conor Chandler

    Dating App Dilemmas w Conor Chandler

    Come be a fly on the wall as History Teacher and my childhood friend Conor Chandler discuss troubling behavior on dating apps. We discuss some of our stories of ghosting and being ghosted, and talk about how to connect outside of the digital world.

    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Support the Show:
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    Twitter: Kincaid McMinn (@kincaidmcminn) / Twitter

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Sucky Sex Education w/ Sarah Carlisle

    Sucky Sex Education w/ Sarah Carlisle

    In this extra lengthy episode, I get nostalgic with Professional Pinup Photographer Sarah Carlisle as we reminisce about the Sex Education we received growing up. We share both the good - and not so good- memories, as well as some laughs, and give direction on how Sex Education could be improved for everyone.

    You can find Sarah at:
    Photography: www.saraphimart.com
    Instagram: (@saraphimart)
    FB: Saraphimart | Facebook
    VIP Group: Saraphim's VIPs | Facebook


    Private Coaching: Royally Screwed Coaching (royallovecoach.com)

    Support the Show:
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    Twitter: Kincaid McMinn (@kincaidmcminn) / Twitter

     

     

    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

     Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

     Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Chronic Pain w/ Angel Rowe, CSC

    Chronic Pain w/ Angel Rowe, CSC

    Angel Rowe of Pain to Pleasure Coaching and I sit down and talk about living with Chronic Pain, how pain affecting one partner affects the relationship, and what you can do about it. He shares his experience with CRPS (Complex Regional Pain Syndrome), and I talk about living with my partner who has Hip Dysplasia.

    You can find Angel at the following locations:
    Pain to Pleasure Coaching: www.albertasexcoach.com
    Harmonious State Dog Services: www.harmoniousstate.ca



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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/

    Discovering Self-Pleasure w/ Natalia Rising

    Discovering Self-Pleasure w/ Natalia Rising

    In this episode, Certified Relationship Coach Natalia Rising and I talk about our personal discovery of Masturbation, and how acceptance of a regular Self-Love and Self-Pleasure practice can revolutionize your Dating Life!

    You can find Natalia at:
    Natalia Rising - Rise Above. Live well. (natalia-rising.com)
    Email: natalia@natalia-rising.com


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    Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ 

    Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303

    Artist: http://incompetech.com/