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    Sacred by Design

    We’re diving deep into topics like desire, sexual integrity, relational healing, and so much more. Get ready for honest, safe conversations with women, about women. Together let's do the important work of connecting your sexual struggle to your story to God. Your sexuality is, in fact, Sacred by Design

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    Episodes (44)

    Breaking Free: Unmasking the Myth of Willpower

    Breaking Free: Unmasking the Myth of Willpower

    Do you feel that stubborn willpower should be sufficient to overcome pornography addiction, masturbation or casual hookups? 

    We're here to help dispel that myth, sharing how this mentality often leads to self-blame and failure, creating a cycle of despair. The truth, which may surprise you, is that it's in these challenging times that we should invite divine intervention. We're not meant to go through this alone; God is ready to help and guide us towards a life of greater freedom. 

    *This is an excerpt from a recent seminar with our Sacred by design team.  Join us as we explore the science behind pornography addiction, discussing how it hijacks the brain's reward system, leading to responses that are difficult to overcome on your own. We also emphasize the importance of being kind to oneself during recovery. 

    Hear the inspiring story of Julie, a young woman who battled pornography and masturbation.  How she overcame the isolation she felt due to her same-sex attraction, and how seeking help allowed her to shift her perspective, realizing that she couldn't win this fight on her own.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Sacred by Design
    en-usDecember 05, 2023

    The Intersection of CrossFit and Theology on the Path to Wholeness and Sexual Integrity

    The Intersection of CrossFit and Theology on the Path to Wholeness and Sexual Integrity

    Ever wondered how a CrossFit gym can teach you about spiritual growth? 

    Through my personal journey, I've uncovered how physical well-being intertwines with our spiritual transformation, especially on the path toward sexual wholeness. 

    This episode is a deep dive into the lessons learned from my CrossFit experience, emphasizing the need to warm up our hearts, minds, and bodies with gratitude, and the importance of embracing the tension of our past and future selves. Discover how these physical disciplines can help build belief in the dignity and worthiness of who God calls us to be.

    In the second half, the conversation continues further down the path of physical and spiritual well-being. Recounting a powerful encounter with my CrossFit coach Patty, I share insight into overcoming mental barriers and the role of physical empowerment in our spiritual metamorphosis. 

    This is not just about doing the heavy lifting spiritually, but also physically. You are invited to consider the critical role of post-workout cooling down and restoration in our spiritual journey, reflecting the importance of balance in our pursuit of a wholesome, transformative life. 

    So, ready to flex those spiritual muscles? Let's get started!

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Sacred by Design
    en-usNovember 14, 2023

    The Power of Perception: Opting for Belovedness Over Brokenness

    The Power of Perception: Opting for Belovedness Over Brokenness

    Think back to when you were a child and remember how your vision of the world was reshaped the first time you put on a pair of glasses. 

    That's how I felt when I got my first pair at 12 - suddenly, everything was crystal clear, and not only in a physical sense. The glasses were not just tools for better vision; they became a metaphor for the lens through which I viewed my life. 

    This episode is all about those lenses of perception - are we seeing ourselves through a lens of brokenness or belovedness? Our outlook can dramatically change our decisions and our sense of self-worth.

    The second part of our discussion takes us deeper into understanding the impact of these lenses on our lives. We’re caught in a tug of war between brokenness, laden with guilt, shame, and loneliness, and belovedness, filled with curiosity, honor, honesty, and compassion. But what if we consciously choose to view ourselves through the lens of belovedness? 

    Tune in as we navigate this transformative journey of self-discovery, healing, and acceptance, inspired by the promises of Habakkuk and Jeremiah. Remember, God has a plan for us all, and by changing our lens, we can change our lives. 

    So, are you ready to see yourself in a new light?

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    An Invitation to Oasis

    An Invitation to Oasis

    Are you tired of feeling alone in your struggle with porn and masturbation? We're here to share some seriously good news; you're not alone, and freedom is absolutely possible. 

    We've designed the 'Oasis' program specifically for you, an eight-week journey  on November 9th brimming with video teachings, enlightening questions, bonus content, and so much more. The lessons in Oasis are inspired by women who've shared your struggle and found respite in their journey, tackling robust topics such as surrender, warfare, temptation, and recovery.

    We're also offering a 21-day prayer journal, filled to the brim with prayers, practical tips, spiritual practices, and so much more. 

    Mark your calendars, as on November 9th, at 7 p.m., our friends Kyle and Rebecca from Sacred by Design will be hosting a free webinar on Oasis. This webinar will offer inspiration, stories of women who've found freedom, and the opportunity for you to kickstart your journey to break free from unwanted sexual behavior. 

    We believe in you, and we believe Oasis could be your next big step. You are warmly invited to join us in this journey, to connect your struggle to your story, and your story to God. 
    Through Oasis, we pray that you will hear Jesus calling you to refreshment, restoration, and regeneration.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Sacred by Design
    en-usOctober 31, 2023

    Taming Your Affect: How Naming and Regulating Emotions Lead to Wholeness

    Taming Your Affect: How Naming and Regulating Emotions Lead to Wholeness

    Ever feel overwhelmed by triggers or difficult people? 

    We've got the tools to help! Our latest episode offers a deep dive into the powerful phrase "name it to tame it" and demonstrates how this technique can help us deal with life's challenges. 

    We put 'affect' under the microscope and explain how you can measure it on a scale of 1 to 10. By using the fascinating example of a baby zebra imprinting on his mother, we'll draw parallels to our own life experiences and reveal how we can find our way back to our grounding figures in moments of chaos.

    As we venture further, we shine a light on the role of imprinting and connection with Jesus. This episode unveils practical strategies to connect with Jesus in our everyday lives - even in the most mundane tasks like commuting or waiting at an appointment. 

    You'll discover the transformative power of a prayer from Ephesians 1:17-19 and the soothing influence of a breath prayer when the world seems too much to handle. You're not alone. 

    You are deeply loved by a God who is always with us, and His plans for us are good. Join us on this journey, and let's navigate through life's trials together.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Discovering Jesus in the midst of Suffering

    Discovering Jesus in the midst of Suffering

    Ever had a journey of pain that led you to a journey of faith?

    This episode is for you. We sit down with an extraordinary guest who has been through physical and emotional pain due to numerous surgeries and chronic illness.

    She shares how her pain, instead of pushing her away, actually brought her closer to her faith and revealed a brand new perspective on scriptures. 

    Feeling isolated during her recovery, she turned to journaling which became her intimate conversation with God. You'll hear a raw and unfiltered narrative of how her pain transformed into spiritual growth and deepened her connection with God.

    We also delve into how her journey through pain has brought the Bible to life for her, offering a unique perspective often overlooked.

    This episode is a testament to resilience and provides a fresh outlook on embracing pain in our healing journey, not as a roadblock, but as a path leading us to spiritual growth and deeper faith.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    From Quitting to Thriving: A Roadmap to Sexual Integrity and Deep Connection

    From Quitting to Thriving: A Roadmap to Sexual Integrity and Deep Connection

    Ever wondered why you're caught in a cycle of repeating habits?

    We're about to share some insights that might just change your perception of sexual integrity. We're investigating the reasons behind our desires for care, comfort, connection, and community, and how these are fundamentally tied to God's design for our sexuality.

    We're not just talking about breaking habits here, but an invitation to a wholesome life filled with freedom and deeper connections.

    We're also throwing light on our unique Oasis curriculum, which is an eight-week course designed to guide you on this enlightening journey. 

    In the latter half, we're turning the pages of the scripture to Psalm 119.

    This isn't your typical bible study, but a way to harness the power of the Psalm's action words in your personal growth.

    We're talking about trusting in God's word, adhering to His instructions, and the joy of walking in open spaces without the burden of guilt.

    If you're on the brink of giving up, our discussion is aimed to inspire you to trust in God's judgments and continue the journey.

    Get ready to deepen your faith, broaden your understanding of sexual integrity, and experience a personal growth like never before.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    A Special Oasis Awaits in the Fight Against Porn and Masturbation

    A Special Oasis Awaits in the Fight Against Porn and Masturbation

    Embarking on a transformative journey can be challenging, especially when it involves breaking away from deeply ingrained habits like porn and masturbation addiction.

    But what if there was a roadmap to guide you through this journey—a way to prepare your heart, mind, and body for the transformation ahead?

    We're not just talking about theoretical concepts here.

    We're talking real, practical tools that you can start using today.

    This episode is packed with insights and tips, gleaned from our clients' experiences, on what you need to pack for this unique journey.

    We discuss everything from the importance of a good night's sleep to the power of physical fitness in aiding your recovery.

    Plus, we introduce a special resource we've been working on—a 21-day prayer journal designed specifically for women on this journey.

    It's a practical, hands-on tool that aims to inspire and encourage you each day.

    So if you're ready to embark on this journey towards sexual wholeness, then buckle up and let's walk towards freedom together.

    Get the 21 Day Prayer Journal for Women here.


    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Fighting a Sexual Addiction? Embrace the Exhaustion and the Encouragement

    Fighting a Sexual Addiction? Embrace the Exhaustion and the Encouragement

    Imagine embarking on a marathon, not only strapped with your running gear but also with the weight of guilt, shame, and frustration.

    Can you picture yourself crossing the finish line? This episode is your cheerleading squad, equipping you with the support and encouragement necessary for a spiritual race of such magnitude.

    We draw parallels from the biblical narrative of the prodigal son, reflecting on our own episodes of faltering faith and the feelings those periods stir.

    We implore you to reach out in prayer, lean on your spiritual community, and embrace the love of a Father who is always ready to welcome you home.

    As we continue on this journey, we analyze Hebrews 12 and its application to our pursuit of sexual wholeness.

    We discuss the powerful image of “a great cloud of witnesses”, likening it to a stadium filled with cheerleaders urging us on. This discourse is a clarion call to invite others into our lives, not only for community but also as constant reminders of our commitment to wholeness. 

    It's a challenging journey, no doubt, but as we keep our gaze on Jesus, we find solace in the assurance that the Father cares, and is there to strengthen and support us.

    So come along, and allow us to be your cheerleaders in this spiritual marathon.

    You're not too far gone, and the Father's loving embrace awaits you.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Break through: What lies are keeping you from healing?

    Break through: What lies are keeping you from healing?

    Have you ever felt bound in lies and shame, just like the bleeding woman in Mark 5? 

    Embark on a personal journey where I share my own experiences of healing and transformation that took me over 40 years, revealing how Jesus is committed to healing us, providing care, comfort, and connection. 

    In the second part of the journey, we also look into how the bleeding woman’s physical healing led to her spiritual liberation. Drawing parallels with our own struggles, let's take a moment to reflect on how our beliefs could be holding us back.

    Allow me, to offer you some approaches to present these beliefs to Jesus and find true liberation. And if you need additional support, our spiritual coaches are here to guide you through.

    Be prepared for an intriguing episode that confronts the deepest parts of our existence, and find the courage to open up to the transformative healing power of Jesus.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Overcoming Stuckness: Navigating the Journey to Sexual Integrity

    Overcoming Stuckness: Navigating the Journey to Sexual Integrity

    Ever felt like you've hit a wall in your journey towards sexual integrity?

    It's a common situation, but not a dead end. In our discussion today, we shed light on the causes of this 'stuckness', such as fear, perfectionism, and a culture obsessed with instant gratification.

    We also explore how Scripture, particularly Psalm 84:5-7, can empower us to move forward. Remember, Jesus doesn't want us to remain stuck. Realizing that we are stuck is the first step to freedom.

    As we continue, we delve into the transformative role of prayer in this journey. Prayer is not just a religious activity, it's a path to self-understanding, a tool for staying present, and most importantly, a comforting reminder that we are not alone in our struggles.

    We discuss how prayer can provide discernment and guidance to navigate our challenges. So, whether you're grappling with feelings of stuckness or seeking a deeper connection through prayer, we invite you to join us.

    Take solace in the truth that even in struggle, we're never alone because Jesus is with us.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Sacred by Design
    en-usSeptember 12, 2023

    Finding Rest - a story, a practice & an invitation

    Finding Rest - a story, a practice & an invitation

    It's time we remind ourselves that resting isn't just permissible - it's necessary.

    This episode draws inspiration from the story of Elijah in One Kings 19, demonstrating how even in the midst of exhaustion and pressure, taking a break to rest is vital.

    We share relatable anecdotes and discuss grounding techniques that engage all your senses, bringing you back to the present moment, just like it did for Elijah.

    We take a deep, rejuvenating breath and journey into the teachings of Matthew 11, exploring the transformative power of intentional rest and refreshment.

    Let us guide you in the art of grounding, encouraging you to disconnect from the chaos and carve out space for rest.

    Immerse yourself in the liberating realization that taking a pause allows us to learn the unforced rhythms of grace, enabling us to live freely and lightly.

    Tune in to this soul enriching episode and start embracing refreshment as part of your journey.

    Key Lessons:

    1. The journey towards sexual wholeness requires significant effort and can be exhausting.
    2. Rest and slowing down are not signs of losing momentum but rather opportunities for refreshment.
    3. God empathizes with our weariness and wants to be part of our journey.
    4. Grounding exercises using the five senses can help bring awareness and peace in challenging moments.
    5. Embracing rest and leaning into God's unforced rhythms of grace can lead to regeneration and freedom.

    Next Steps:

    • Learn more about the practice of grounding and its benefits by visiting Regen.
    • Reflect on Matthew 11:28-30, and consider how you can embrace Jesus' invitation to find rest and live freely and lightly.


    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Sacred by Design
    en-usSeptember 05, 2023

    Sacred Grief- saying goodbye to your addiction

    Sacred Grief- saying goodbye to your addiction

    What if we told you that it's okay, even necessary, to grieve the loss of your addiction? 

    It's a bold idea, but bear with us. In this thought-provoking episode, we open up about the often overlooked but essential part of recovery: grief.

    We delve into the sense of loss that can accompany walking away from past habits like pornography or casual sex. While these served as a comforting escape, releasing them is crucial for healing, even if guilt attempts to sneak in.

    During the second half of the episode, we further explore how embracing grief, sans guilt, can lead us to a profound connection with the divine.

    Drawing inspiration from Dan Allender's wisdom, we ponder how our hearts are most open to God's kindness and presence when we are in the throes of grief. As we guide you through this healing journey, we'll share practical ways to healthily express your grief—be it through journaling, prayer, or seeking solace in scripture.

    This episode is a heartfelt exploration of grief as a vital component of recovery and the transformative power of naming and honoring your feelings.

    It's a journey towards sexual wholeness, one where grief is not a foe, but a friend.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Tackling Temptation: Boundaries, Struggles, & Sin.

    Tackling Temptation: Boundaries, Struggles, & Sin.

    Ever wondered how to counter the lure of temptation? Let's explore the complex nature of temptation and how it intersects with our boundaries and struggles with sin. 

    This episode is your guide, leading you through the entangled maze of solitude and temptation, connecting you back to the Garden of Eden and tracing the thread right up to the temptation of Jesus in the desert.

    Explore the intricate equation of temptation and isolation, and discover how it is intended to mislead us from our authentic destiny.

    Let's arm ourselves and head into battle with the shield of faith!

    Drawing insights from Priscilla Scheyer's study on the Armor of God, this episode emphasizes the significance of community in combating temptation.

    Uncover the power of the 'turtle formation' and how it symbolizes collective strength against the fiery darts of the evil one.

    Remember, Jesus stands ready to meet us in our moments of temptation. Join the ranks of the mighty men and women of God as we navigate through these trials with Jesus, scripture, and a supportive community at our side.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    The Healing Power of Noticing: Slowing Down to Connect with Our Hearts and Bodies

    The Healing Power of Noticing: Slowing Down to Connect with Our Hearts and Bodies

    Let's unravel the negatives of a non-stop, overcommitted life, and the detrimental impact of not pausing to process and connect with our feelings.

    Ready for a revelation that will transform your life's pace and awareness?

    We'll also get candid about how faith may sometimes present as a hurdle to slowing down.

    Yet, the power of noticing our emotions and strengths can pave the way to a life rich with meaning and connection. Unplug from the bustle and plug into self-awareness with us.

    Wondering about the potency of taking a moment to notice?

    This segment is your eye-opener. Bathe in the awe-inspiring moments that can catalyze us towards a fulfilling life brimming with purpose and connection.

    Drawing wisdom from the book of Ruth, we'll illuminate how God's observant nature spurs us to do the same. Embrace the practice of self-awareness and harmonize with your body to decipher your feelings.

    We wrap up with an enchanting reading from "To Bless the Space Between Us", underscoring the splendor and strength of the act of noticing.

    Get ready to change your perspective and find more meaning in your life.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Stepping into Purpose: From Barbie to self discovery

    Stepping into Purpose: From Barbie to self discovery

    As a woman, what does God, the creator, say about your purpose, about your identity? About your power? Sit with that. Ask him that. Listen for the answers. Journal through it.

    We promise that this episode is not just about Barbie, but rather a broader exploration of the female journey towards self-discovery and the quest for identity.

    We will take you on a metaphorical trip, using scenes from Barbie's movie to shed light on the powerful emotions that many of us experience in our personal struggles. It's about grappling with life's challenges, the detours we make, including issues such as pornography and masturbation, in our quest for meaning.

    We want to remind you that your worth is not determined by external standards; you are more than a plastic doll. You are a unique creation, with a unique purpose, and we invite you to present your questions and uncertainties to your Creator.

    Ever felt trapped by the structures around you?

    This episode also discusses the roadblocks set up by systems we've been part of, and highlights God's call to identify and overcome these obstacles.

    We borrow the profound wisdom from Jeremiah 6 to emphasize the importance of standing, looking, asking, and moving towards the path that leads to rest. It's about moving forward, breaking barriers, and striding towards the masterpiece that God envisions for each of us.

    So, tune in and get ready to be encouraged, inspired and to take a step closer towards the unique purpose that's been crafted just for you.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
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    Choosing to Stand: Finding Strength in God's Promises for Our Children's Sexuality

    Choosing to Stand: Finding Strength in God's Promises for Our Children's Sexuality

    What if we told you that navigating your teenager's struggles, particularly with sexuality, doesn't have to be as overwhelming as it seems?

    That's right, we're here to equip you with practical tools and strategies to not just withstand but also guide your child through this tricky phase.

    We base our discussion on deep insights from the book 'Praying Circles Around Your Children' by Mark Batterson, aiming to support you, be it a mom, dad, guardian, or someone who deeply cares for a child.

    This episode is more than just a conversation about teens and their struggles; it's a testament to the strength we can find in our faith. We talk about the pressures that our children face from society's expectations and how to find hope, renewal, and safety in our faith.

    Learn how to trust God with every person and situation in your lives and renew your strength in Him. Remember, you're not alone in your struggles and, with faith, you have the power to navigate through this journey.

    So tune in, because this conversation serves as a beacon of hope, offering you an encouraging and uplifting perspective on parenting.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
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    Before and After: The Transformative Power of Jesus compassion

    Before and After: The Transformative Power of Jesus compassion

    Ever wondered how to honor your past without letting shame dictate your journey

    Imagine being able to replace shame with a more empowering word, acknowledging its role in your life, and recognizing that the story has changed. We've crafted an episode that brings light to this transformative process.

    Drawing inspiration from biblical stories such as Jesus and the new wine and the old wineskin, the Prodigal Son, Martha and Mary, as well as insights from Aundi Kolber 's "Try Softer", we reflect on how to practice compassion and safety in our journey towards sexual wholeness. 

    Step onto the path of self-discovery as we delve into the power of tapping and speaking truths over ourselves to integrate our belovedness further.

    Scripture, like Psalm 23, serves as our guide in this transformational exercise. We unwrap the profound significance of Jesus' death and how it continues to manifest in our bodies.

    The conversation culminates with a heartfelt prayer, seeking restoration and regeneration of thoughts with more love, less criticism, and more grace. This episode is more than just chatter; it's a toolkit for honoring your journey from where you've been to where you're going.

    So, tune in and give your past its rightful place - a stepping stone to a brighter future.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
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    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

    Conquering Habits, Addictions, and Triggers Through Jesus's Love

    Conquering Habits, Addictions, and Triggers Through Jesus's Love

    Are your habits and addictions holding you back?

    Join me, Andrea, as we boldly navigate the challenging terrain of triggers in Sacred by Design.

    We'll unveil the power of naming and understanding your triggers, the important second step towards breaking the cycle of addiction.

    Together, we'll journey through the profound wisdom of the Bible, revealing how Jesus is aware of our struggles and invites us towards wholeness.

    The second half of our conversation takes us deeper into the realm of freedom from our sexual brokenness through Jesus's love and understanding.

    We'll challenge ourselves to identify and control our triggers before they control us.

    Remember, Jesus is here to offer us power and freedom from these triggers.

    As we wrap up, consider exploring more by visiting our website and connecting with one of our spiritual coaches.

    Listen in, as we illuminate the pathway to overcome the power of triggers and step into the liberty of Jesus's love.

    Episode Resources:
    More on the Cycle of Addiction can be found here.
    Read more of John 18 here.
    Find the great work of Curt Thompson here.

    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
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    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

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    Pathways to Victory: Overcoming Addiction Through Faith

    Pathways to Victory: Overcoming Addiction Through Faith

    What if the key to breaking free from unwanted sexual behavior lies in the power of your thoughts?

    Let's journey together through this thought-provoking conversation as we explore the often overlooked significance of our mental pathways and how they can lead us to experiences of shame, isolation, and disappointment.

    Yet, there's hope. There's a promise - and not just any promise, but one from Jesus, who is ready to guide us in creating new neural paths filled with freedom, victory, and community.

    We'll tackle the challenging topic of overcoming addiction by understanding the 'why' behind our behaviors.

    We'll grapple with the discomfort of change and resistance but also discover the liberation that comes with redirecting our thoughts towards truth, honor, purity, and love.

    We'll discuss practical ways to utilize tools like the pause app to build our mental strength, catching and transforming negative thoughts. Join us as we blaze a new path with Jesus, turning our minds and hearts towards the ultimate freedom He offers.

    Let's remember, we are not alone in this journey, and with Jesus, we can achieve more than we ever imagined.

    Episode Resources:
        Regen on YouTube
        What We Do

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    Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame.

    Let's keep the conversation going!
    Are you ready for freedom and redemption? Discover the Oasis
    Have you received our Free 21 day Prayer Journal ?
    Watch Sacred by Design on YouTube!

    Want Andrea to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We would love your feedback on Sacred by Design.

    If you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.