The Authentic Man Podcast with David Chambers

Main Topics: Purpose, Direction, Leadership, Emotions. Father Wound, 4 Masculine Archetypes

Alexander is a Men's Transformational Coach, NCS qualified counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Meditation Teacher and founder of ‘The Unmasked Man’.

He has sat with hundreds of men all over the world helping them to unmask the man within and to shed light on the unconscious boy. He is deeply passionate and dedicated to guiding men to step into their power and fulfil their potential. Leading through embodiment, Alexander has overcome many struggles on his journey, enabling him to hold space from an empathetic and relatable place. He believes that through true authenticity and vulnerability we can compassionately drop into a better relationship with ourselves and our bodies, creating a loving and grounded approach to self-healing and growth.

Leading The Unmasked Man Team, Alexander teaches online and in-person men's trainings, events and retreats throughout the U.K. and Europe.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Balancing The Masculine and Feminine Energy

⭐️ Learning to Feel Our Emotions and The Importance of Releasing Them Regularly

⭐️ How Father Wounds Can Make Us Abdicate Our Leadership 

⭐️ Navigating Your Power By Surrounding Yourself With People Who Challenge You

⭐️ How Integrating Our Shadow Parts Lights The Way to Strong Leadership

⭐️ The Influence of Masculinity Norms on Men’s Emotional Well-being

⭐️ Using The Four Archetypes of Men to Find Direction and Purpose

⭐️ The Negative Impact of Boy Psychology on Men’s Lives

⭐️ Letting Go of the Boy Psychology by Growing Emotional Maturity as A Man

⭐️ The Transformational Effect of Group Work and Having a Community You Can Trust

⭐️ Focusing on Our Purpose in Life Instead of Fearing Other People’s Criticism

⭐️ Connecting to Our Authentic Self by Listening Instead of Reacting 

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Connect with Alexander:

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexander_cottle/ & https://www.instagram.com/the.unmaskedman

https://www.theunmaskedman.co.uk/

Main Topics: Breakup, Dating, Mindset, Relationship, Personal Growth, Self-Improvement, Healing

In this week's Mini Episode, I talk about the topic of breakups and how they can be transformational events in a person's life. 

Henika is the founder of the School of Sensual Arts which invites you to uplift blocks to deeper sensuality and intimacy so that you can experience more connection, aliveness and joy in yourself, your relationships and your life! She does this by creating experiences, community and education based on authentic tantra and yoga philosophy along with a unique blend of art and psychology to offer expression to all the unspoken parts of ourselves which long to be known, heard and accepted. 

Henika is a first generation Indian Woman born in England and grew up in a household abundant in the ancient Indian arts and spirituality, with an ex-monk turned artist father. After studying English and French law and experiencing numbness and depression following a series of losses, she left the corporate world and returned to her roots where she spent several years living and studying tools for deeper connection in Asia, learning from incredible guides in India and the Far East. 

Upon returning to England, she began her studies in arts therapy and clinical psychotherapy for individuals and couples, and now combines tantra and yoga with western therapeutic guidelines to create safe spaces for transforming numbness and turning the body back online through Tantra Yoga, bodywork, embodiment and art. As an indigenous practitioner, she is also a thought leader on the topic of cultural appropriation of tantra and yoga and provides education on driving more cultural appreciation in the wellness world through her workshops, programmes and social media. Her book SENSUAL will be available for preorder from 29th February 2024!

Key topics include: 

⭐  The Origins of Tantra & Why Is Tantra Becoming so Popular

⭐  The Power of Rituals in All Aspects of Our Life 

⭐️  Embodying The Divine Power & Embracing Oneness With The World Around Us

⭐  Cultivating Energy, Healing, Transformation, and Growth Through Our Bodies

⭐️  Unleashing Creativity, Breaking Free from Emotional Blockages 

⭐️  The Link Between Creativity, The Ability To Self Express and Sexual Energy

⭐️  Meditating Through The Five Senses: Bridging The Gap Between Body & World

⭐️  Finding Balance by Unifying The Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Ourselves 

⭐️  The Expectations Society Puts On Men and Their Sexuality

⭐️  The Shame Around The Prostate & The Need for Sexual Liberation for Men

⭐  Mindfulness for Self-Love and Building Intimacy Within

⭐  Releasing Stress, Anxiety and Trapped Emotions Through Sex

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Connect with Henika:

Order a copy of Henika's book SENSUAL: https://schoolofsensualarts.co.uk/sensualbook

Visit School of Sensual Arts: https://schoolofsensualarts.co.uk/

Follow Henika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/henika.x/

Main Topics: Dating, Mindset, Relationship, Values, Emotional Intelligence

In this week's mini-episode, I talk about what a conscious woman is, where to meet them and who you need to be and what you need to work on as a man to meet conscious women.

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Men, Dating, Relationship, Attachment Style, Avoidant, Anxious/Avoidant Trap, Relationship Success

I'm doing a solo episode today inspired by conversations I have in my coaching work on the topic of avoidance in men.

I'm a recovering avoidant, it never completely disappears, it still comes up in my relationship and I still have to learn to be with it, master it, manage it. 

So, in this episode, I will talk about the aspects that have allowed me and the 100's of avoidant men I have worked with to find peace, acceptance, passion and harmony in their relationships.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Resistance and The Fear of Dependence in Romantic Relationships as an Avoidant Man

⭐️ The Desire for Self-Reliance, Hyper-Independence and the Lone Wolf Mentality

⭐️ Dismissing Ours and Our Partner’s Emotions 

⭐️ Self-Sabotaging When Craving Intimacy But Fearing Commitment 

⭐️ Why Avoidance Causes Relationships to Break Down

⭐️ The Lack of Willingness to Lead the Relationship

⭐️ The Difficulty of Receiving Constructive Feedback in a Relationship

⭐️ Feeling Worry, Anxiety, and Anger From the Fear of Losing of Freedom 

⭐️ The Struggle of Avoidant Men to Express Love, Affection, Desire, and Excitement 

⭐️ The Overgeneralization That All Women Are the Same 

⭐️ Noticing the Signs of Our Avoidance Coming Up and Communicating Ourselves

⭐️How The Avoidant Man Can Create Relationship Success

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Relationship, Men, Couple, Communication, Intimacy, Experiences, Support

Many men that I work with come to me because their relationship is on the brink of breakdown; it has already broken down, or the connection and excitement is waning.

So, In this week's mini-episode, I talk about the 15 things you need to do to bring your relationship back on track and to improve it drastically.

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Sex, Tantra, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Erectile Dysfunction, Sexual Confidence, Self-Esteem

Dominique is a registered nurse, trauma-informed master coach, and certified Tantra educator. She believes that by blending science and spirituality, we can better understand our bodies, respect ourselves, and deepen our connections with our partners. She uses a holistic coaching approach to help harness the power of the body to master self-love, leading to the pure bliss of soulful, connected love. 

Dominique delves into the fascinating world of tantra, exploring its impact on intimacy, self-esteem, vulnerability and soulful love making. Her mission is to help embrace pleasure and awareness, and live life fully from a place of magic, love, and abundance.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Sex, Intimacy and Tantra for Men

⭐️ Vulnerability, Shame and the Misconceptions and Conditionings We Have Around Sex

⭐️ Performance Anxiety and How We Can Deal With Premature Ejaculation or Erectile Dysfunction

⭐️ Creating Leadership Outside of The Bedroom So Men Can Build Confidence and Allow Women To Trust Them

⭐ Shifting from Goal-Oriented Sex to Pleasure-Focused Experience Through Tantra. 

⭐️ Mindfulness and Sexual Well-Being: Cultivating Presence and Awareness for Deeper Intimacy

⭐️ The Impact of Unhealed Trauma on the Ability to Receive Pleasure and Create Deeper Emotional Connection. 

⭐️ Building Emotional Self-Esteem to Build Stronger, Healthier Relationships.

⭐️ What it Takes To Be Multi Orgasmic

⭐️ Learning to Connect to Your Body and Let Go of The Things That Are Holding You Back from Experiencing Pleasure

⭐️ Creating a Soulful Relationship Through Soulful Love Making

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Connect with Dominique:

Website - https://yestantra.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/yesdvita/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/YesTantra/a

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/yestantra

Email - hello@yestantra.com

Clubhouse - @YesTantra

Main Topics: Dating apps, Dating, Dating Mindset

In this week's mini-episode, I talk about the group of people who are suing some dating apps and why it's not the dating apps' fault.

The Art of Deep Connection, Saturday, Feb 24, Covent Garden. An in-person, co-ed day of enriching your understanding and capacity to connect deeply with yourself and the opposite sex so that you can experience your intimate relationship on a level deeper than you have experienced before.:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/801271353187?aff=oddtdtcreator

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Men, Boys, Emotions, Vulnerable, Attunement, Intimacy, Trauma

Clementine Morrigan is a writer and public intellectual based in Montréal, Canada. She writes popular and controversial essays about culture, politics, ethics, relationships, sexuality, and trauma. 

This part of her life taught her a deep sense of compassion for all human beings, which is central to the work she does today. In those early days she has seen the deep suffering in and around her, but has also seen during her years in A.A. the real possibility to turn your life around. When people are given the resources, compassion and the opportunity to look at themselves without shame, condemnation and with the reassurance that their humanity is seen, people do well in this environment, and they change.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Compassion for People Who Are Traumatized, In Poverty, and in Addiction

⭐️ The Real Support in A.A. From People Facing Similar Challenges to Yours  

⭐️ Our Society’s Dehumanizing View of People On the Streets 

⭐️ Child Abuse and the Lack of Compassion When People Become Dysfunctional Grown-Ups 

⭐️ The Suppressed Vulnerability in Men and the Inability To Communicate Pain Without Anger 

⭐️ The Emotional Disconnection That Young Boys, In Particular, Are Taught By Our Society

⭐️ The Deep Need of Touch in Men’s Lives Outside The Context of Sex

⭐️ The Overwhelming Nature Of Being A Man Who Is Confident and Takes Action in Sex

⭐️ Consent and The Fear of the ‘No’ in Both Sexes

⭐️ The Threat of Sexual Violence

⭐️ The World of Dating and The Fundamental Skill of Attunement With the Other Person

⭐️ The Importance of Questioning Your Beliefs and The Liberation Coming Out of It

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Connect with Clementine:

Website: https://www.clementinemorrigan.com/

Books: https://shop.clementinemorrigan.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan/?hl=en

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/fucking-cancelled/id1549437914

Max Trombly, a dedicated Embodied Life, Love, and Relationship coach from vibrant New Orleans, Louisiana, is committed to guiding individuals towards a brighter, empowered future. As a devoted husband and the proud father of two, his mission is to elevate our potential and empower us to live with purpose, passion and depth.

Max, a catalyst in transformational coaching, helps clients find clarity and self-leadership, especially during challenging moments. With a track record of success stories, he aids people in discovering purpose, reigniting intimacy, and navigating the complexities of modern dating. 

His expertise stems from a decade of leading a transformational growth organization, uniquely equipping him to facilitate profound self-leadership and transformations. Furthermore, Max's own journey from divorce to deep conscious love positions him as a compassionate guide for those navigating similar challenges. 

His goal is to help individuals cultivate deep love through new beliefs, self-responsibility, a new embodied reality and profound awareness.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Conscious and Intentional Dating 

⭐️ Choosing a Partner That Fits Your Lifestyle and Relationship Goals

⭐️ Foundational Relationship Skills to Show Up For Your Partner

⭐️ The Biggest Misconceptions of Being in a Conscious Relationship 

⭐️ Shallow Thoughts and the Never Ending Search For the Perfect Partner 

⭐️ Choosing a Partner That Will Challenge You Into New Territories

⭐️ The Nourishing Power of the Female Energy - Kindness, Compassion and Support

⭐️ How To Create a Relationship From a Place of Depth

⭐️ The Importance of Breath When Facing The Overwhelming Emotions of Life

⭐️ Working On the Big Traumas To Open Up to All Of Your Emotions As a Man

⭐️ The Value of Forgiving Your Parents And The Freedom That Comes With It

⭐️ Creating Clarity On What You Want In Life

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Connect with Max Trombly:

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/maxtrombly/

Website - https://www.ashiftinbeing.com/

Tik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@maxtrombly

Main Topics: Life Direction, Purpose, Meaning, Relationships, Women, Knowing What You Want, Support, Goals, indecision

In this week's mini-episode, I explore the theme of direction in life. He discusses the natural urge for direction that arises at a certain age for meaning and purpose. I talk about why we feel lost and directionless and what you can do now to create more direction in your life.

The Art of Deep Connection, Saturday, Feb 24, Covent Garden. An in-person, co-ed day of enriching your understanding and capacity to connect deeply with yourself and the opposite sex so that you can experience your intimate relationship on a level deeper than you have experienced before.:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/801271353187?aff=oddtdtcreator

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme "Being An Authentic Masculine Man", AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I'm not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn't tapped into before."

👉🏽 "I found a lot of limiting beliefs I had and changed the story around them."

👉🏽 "It's been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I feel more confident, I feel like I'm in control of myself, my thoughts and that I'm more than capable in curating the life that I desire. I am better equipped to deal with hardships and difficult emotions."

✅ The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Sex, Sexual Energy, Men, Multi Orgasmic, Emotions, Intensity

Taylor is a certified sexologist and full time sex coach for men who is dedicated to helping men create and experience the most amazing sex lives possible. He helps men overcome challenges like premature ejaculation, sexual anxiety and erectile dysfunction, so they can truly thrive in sex and life - and be the lover that blows their partner's mind.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Growing Up Without Healthy Role Models in the Area of Sex

⭐️ The Impact of Porn on Young Men and Women 

⭐️ The Societal Narrative of Men’s Desire for Sex 

⭐️ The Link Between Low Sexual Drive and High Stress Levels

⭐️ What is Sexual Energy

⭐️ Learning To Be Present With Intensity Within the Body

⭐️ Practices to Hold and Increase Capacity for Intense Feelings 

⭐️ Identifying and Addressing Sexual Energy Blocks

⭐️ The Myth of Normal and Experiencing Sexually Related Problems 

⭐️ Experiencing Multi Orgasm As a Man and Separating Orgasm from Ejaculation

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Connect with Taylor Johnson: 

Orgasmic Mastery Course (Starts soon on February 8th): https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson/

Main Topics: Dating, Relationship, Commitment, Fear, Knowing What You Want, Compatibility, Insecurities

In this week's mini-episode, I get into a very personal topic and topic many men I have worked with struggle with, the fear of choosing the wrong woman. I get into what the fear looks like, why it happens and what work you need to do to know what the right woman is.

The Art of Deep Connection, Saturday, Feb 24, Covent Garden. An in-person, co-ed day of enriching your understanding and capacity to connect deeply with yourself and the opposite sex so that you can experience your intimate relationship on a level deeper than you have experienced before.:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/801271353187?aff=oddtdtcreator

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 “ I found a lot of limiting beliefs I had and changed the story around them.”

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽“I feel more confident, I feel like I'm in control of myself, my thoughts and that I'm more than capable in curating the life that I desire. I am better equipped to deal with hardships and difficult emotions.”

✅ The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Parenting, Family, Leadership, Compassion, Relationship

Holiday Phillips is an organisational culture and leadership expert, coach, consultant, speaker and writer. Her work is devoted to understanding and creating the conditions for collective thriving, harmonious living, bridging differences and shifting from conflict to connection. She has spent 15 years working in leadership development, organisational culture, community building, and diversity equity & inclusion, helping major companies like Google, Apple, LinkedIn and Visa as well as startups, public service, charities, and community groups. She currently resides on the magical island of Ibiza with her husband, two children, dog and cat.  

Key topics include: 

⭐️ Starting Your Own Business and Being More Radical

⭐️ Leaving the 9-to-5 Job and Realigning With Your Values

⭐️ The Conscious Response and Expression of Anger After the Murder of George Floyd

⭐️ Compassion As the Base for Real Change and Collective Healing

⭐️ What Is a Conscious Family

⭐️ Uncovering Traumatic Unconscious Patterns and Working With Them

⭐️ Conscious Parenting and Setting Boundaries When Raising Children

⭐️ The Leadership Role Shared Between Both Parents 

⭐️ Commitment to a Relationship and The Strength to Move Through Difficult Times

Connect With Holiday Phillips:

https://www.holidayphillips.com 

http://instagram.com/holidayphillips/ 

https://www.humanwork.life 

https://holiday.substack.com 

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Main Topics: The Gender War, Dating, Relationships, Fears

 In this week's mini-episode, I discuss what I see as one of the biggest issues in modern dating and relationships: the gender war. I highlight the divide between men and women and the anger and frustration that arises from it, and what you can do to heal that divide within yourself to create happy and harmonious relationships and dating lives.

The Art of Deep Connection, Saturday, Feb 24, Covent Garden. An in-person, co-ed day of enriching your understanding and capacity to connect deeply with yourself and the opposite sex so that you can experience your intimate relationship on a level deeper than you have experienced before.:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/801271353187?aff=oddtdtcreator

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 “ I found a lot of limiting beliefs I had and changed the story around them.”

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽“I feel more confident, I feel like I'm in control of myself, my thoughts and that I'm more than capable in curating the life that I desire. I am better equipped to deal with hardships and difficult emotions.”

✅ The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Main Topics: Wealth, Money, Manifestation, Limiting Beliefs

In this week's podcast, I go deep into what it takes to manifest and create your dreams. Well, I say I, but I mean the incredible and inspiring Suzy Ashworth because on this episode, she coaches me!

Suzy Ashworth is a single mum of three children, high school dropout, Hay House author, international keynote speaker, multiple seven-figure success coach, and serial entrepreneur on a mission.

Suzy has worked with 1000’s of impact driven leaders in business to create quantum shifts in their lives and their businesses over the last 10 years and Her vision is to help people receive more of what they want - without sacrificing who they really are or the people that love through the four pillars of Infinite Receiving.

Her work has been featured in Forbes, Grazia, and The BBC.

Key topics include: 

⭐️ The Experience of the Foster World

⭐️ The Stereotypes of What Black People Should Do

⭐️ Manifestation and Creating Your Own Reality

⭐️ Changing Deeply Rooted Ways of Thinking and Behaving

⭐️ Facing Our Negative Limiting Beliefs

⭐️ Setting Goals and Owning to Our Barriers 

⭐️ The Real Work of Deep Transformation

⭐️ Moving Out of The Comfort Zone Beyond The Old Story

⭐️ The Difficulty of Receiving and Where is it Rooted

⭐️ Common Mistakes People Make in Manifesting Their Dreams

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Connect With Suzy Ashworth:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suzy_ashworth/ 

Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Infinite-Receiving-Conscious-Creation-Manifest/dp/1837820414  

Main Topics: Dating, Motivation, Ego, Fear

In this week's mini-episode, I discuss the common desire to wait for motivation before taking action in various areas of life, but especially dating. I explain that motivation may never come if there are underlying patterns of resistance and fear. 

Takeaways

🔥 Waiting for motivation to take action may prevent progress, as motivation may never come.
🔥Our identities and egos often prioritize comfort over growth, even if that comfort is unhappy or unfulfilling.
🔥We unconsciously search for evidence to support our negative beliefs, making it difficult to change them.
🔥Having structure, accountability, and support is crucial for making lasting changes in our lives.

Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

Harvey Laguerre is a 49 year old, stay-at-home dad of 4. The emergence of Covid-19 led to the creation of a relationship podcast, with his wife called Love is Black. The success of that podcast emboldened him to create his own. Men Are The  P.R.I.Z.E. Podcast is the result of years of learning what it means to be a man in the world today.

The definition of masculinity has changed drastically and not for the better. Attributes that were once manly, are now toxic. What has not changed is the lack of safe spaces for men to express their emotions. Being a vulnerable man is not celebrated like it should be. This podcast is that safe space for men to open up and reveal their inner monologue.

After counseling so many men on his podcast, Harvey is now a sought after Men’s life & success coach. Using the same P.R.I.Z.E. MANtra he created for the podcast, Harvey now challenges men to listen to their inner monologue, put themselves at the top of their lists and become the P.R.I.Z.E.

Key topics include: 

⭐️The Role Model and Support Coming from the Father Figure

⭐️ The Impact of Slavery on Fatherhood

⭐️ The Stereotypes of Black Masculinity and Sexuality

⭐️ Inequality & the Assumed Criminality of Black Men

⭐️ The Loneliness Black Men Experience in Everyday Life

⭐️ Being “Black Enough”

⭐️ Recognizing One's Own Worth

⭐ Men’s Fear of Being Seen as Predator on the Dating Scene

⭐ The Changes That Came With the Dating Apps Era

⭐️ The Difference Between Lonely and Alone

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6

Connect With Harvey

Website: https://www.harveylaguerre.com/

Men Are The P.R.I.Z.E. Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/men-are-the-p-r-i-z-e-podcast/id1603331874

Love is Black: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-is-black-podcast/id1508339650 

As Christmas approaches, in the last episode for 2023 I reflect on the common challenge of inaction in the realm of dating. Drawing from my notes and client experiences, I shed light on the causes of inaction, how it hinders progress in dating and go over the spectrum of inaction and its impact on our romantic lives.

If you find the episode helpful, don't miss the opportunity to join the upcoming five-week program, the Men's Dating Accelerator. Set to address issues of inaction, fear, and insecurity. The program aims to guide men through overcoming obstacles and taking meaningful actions that can significantly improve their dating lives.

Tune in for valuable insights into the often-overlooked aspects of inaction and discover how these subtle habits may be affecting your dating journey. 

Key topics include: 

⭐️ The Cost of Inaction

⭐️ The Negative Effects of Not Taking Action

⭐️ Missed Opportunities For Growth

⭐️ Stunted Relationship Skills

⭐️ Self-Sabotage & Living in the Shadows of Our Lives

⭐️ Reinforcing Negative Self Belief 

⭐️ Assumption of No Good People in Dating

⭐️ Causes for Inaction & Fear of Rejection

⭐️ Lack of Self-Awareness

⭐️ The Long Term Impact of Inaction

⭐️ Overcoming Inaction: Awareness, Root Cause Analysis, Taking Small Actions

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator 

✅ I have just opened up registration for the upcoming February 2024 cohort of my 12-week programme “Being An Authentic Masculine Man”, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

🔥What other men said after being on the programme:

👉🏽 "I’m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

👉🏽 “The programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn’t tapped into before”

👉🏽 "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

👉🏽 "It’s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

👉🏽 "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

 The registration link: https://forms.gle/PVfveWhvFFeAg1zL6 

Main Topics: Dating, Avoidant Attachment, Communication, Fear, Rejection, Men

In this week's mini-episode, I talk about the 7 things that helped me stop showing up as avoidant in my dating life and what I see helps my clients.

Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ 

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/ 

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net 

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe 

Men’s Dating Accelerator, 5 Week Mini Training - Jan 22nd to Feb 19th: https://www.theauthenticman.net/store/mens-dating-accelerator