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    The Femme Domme Mystique Podcast

    Follow the journey of Mistress Simone, a Professional Dominatrix, on The Femme Domme Mystique. This is a show about the female dominant , their lifestyle, desires, pet peeves and quandaries. All topics concerning this aspect of our lifestyle may be securely and comfortably discussed. Focused on female led, mistress /submissive relationships and the unique energy involved in such connections. To submit a question or topic to the Mistress, please email her at chicagomistress@gmail.com
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    Episodes (27)

    Homage to Ariana Chevalier

    Homage to Ariana Chevalier

    Mistress Simone reveals a side of herself with this homage to her  friend and fellow Legend , Queen Ariana Chevalier who just announced the closing of her  NYC Rubber Studio after 17 years.

    This announcement has devastated the Prodomme community , leaving a key region without a established, safe, welcoming sacred space for practicing our art

    I have had the pleasure of interviewing Queen Ariana for this podcast, sharing our mutual opinions on the path of our industry . Waltzing down memory lane with my fellow legend on 20 + years gives great insight for upcoming Mistresses as well as making fellow veterans chuckle. Listen to our episode via the podcast page. But now to saw farewell to NYC Rubber Studio. 

    Friendship continues , a new journey begins... I lift a glass of Prosecco to you!

     

     

     

     

    Simone and Ariana

    Please feel free to send me a personal email via to share your comments on this short but powerful episode.

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    FDM024 Mistress Ava Zhang Interview

    FDM024 Mistress Ava Zhang Interview

    Your Hostess, Mistress Simone sits down with one of New York City's most elusive Dominatrices,  Miss Ava Zhang

    An enigma among fellow Professionals, Miss Ava Zhang , she sits down with Mistress Simone to share some of her secrets, interests and desires. The 2 Mistresses discuss their mutual love of ritual, protocol and sissification.

    As Miss Ava Zhang states on her site: "The perfect slave is a consummate gentlemen or lady, well-mannered to a fault"

    Listeners can apply to serve her via:

    Miss Ava Zhang

     

    and of course, for more on your podcast mistress :

    Mistress Simone

     

    FDM023 -Mistress Interview

    FDM023 -Mistress Interview

    The first Mistress interview of 2019 is in the bag! Your hostess, Mistress Simone sits down for a chat with one of the most creative BDSM clip producers on the market today : Alice In Bondageland.

    Alice develops unusual scenarios using pop culture, movies, popular icons and unusual topics. Unlike many clips producers, hers feature realism, laughter and a wide variety of people. These are true kinksters, not paid models. Instead of providing us with a  unattainable fantasy based on impossible to meet societal expectations, we are treated to positive role models, good energy and creative play.

    And laughter, lets not forget laughter!

     

    To discover more about Alice, visit here:

    Alice in Bondageland

     

    and learn more about your hostess, visit her site:

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    FDM 022 Femme Domme Mystique - Rant 1 2019 - Online protocol

    FDM 022 Femme Domme Mystique - Rant 1 2019 - Online protocol

    Mistress Simone starts off 2019 with a rant suggested by an online encounter one of her collared slave had with an unknown wank Domme via Facebook.

    Social media presents our lifestyle with unique challenges for engagement with others.While many people tend to hide behind their online personas, those engaged in real time relationships and encounters may have difficulty navigating this field. Translating one's manners and protocol should be the key factor in regards to engaging with unknowns online. Just because they re rude does not mean a slave or Mistress should stoop to their level, and toss out consideration. Boundaries should be maintained as established off keys.

    Mistress Simone lets her feelings be known about those who approach her owned slaves.

     

    To learn more about your Hostess and suggest a podcast topic , visit her website :

    Chicago Mistress

    FDM021-Sadism Defined

    FDM021-Sadism Defined

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    Mistress Simone attempts to enlighten her listeners on sadism and what it could mean within the bdsm context. A difficult concept to pin down or clarify, she takes on the daunting task of distinquishing good vs bad interactions, safety protocol,the inner beast that must be watched and goal of one's sadism. Using common definitions and psychological guidelines, she dispells common misguided concepts of what being a sadist means for those of us within the bdsm world.

    This will be the first of a continuing discussion as this topic is multi-faceted and broad concept. Enjoy the beginning of the sadism series. In future episodes ,Mistress Simone will expand into individual activities under the sadism umbrella such as :

    • Needle play
    • Caning
    • Whipping
    • Branding
    • Cock and ball torment
    • Trampling
    • Spanking

    Mistress may be found on social media @chicagomistress or her site:

    http:www.chicago-mistress.com

    FDM019-Community Interview w Shameless Grounds

    FDM019-Community Interview w Shameless Grounds

    www.shamelessgrounds.com Saint Louis's Sex Positive Coffee House is interviewed by Mistress Simone.

     

    In these tumultuous times , we all need a safe space in which to express ourselves , esp in areas such as sexuality and gender. Shameless Grounds is just the place to do so in Saint Louis. A community center/ coffee house/meeting place, the owners strive to provide a comfortable environment for all to meet and discuss such issues. Local groups meet there such as the Littles group and the Submissive munch.

    Plus they have great coffee and baked goods!!!!

     

    Mistress Simone sits down with the owners, Andrew and Michelle , to learn more about them and hear their humble beginnings into a daunting business area : food service.  Coupled with the goal of a safe space, this was a big undertaking. How did they make it successful? What are their future plans?

    Also discussed is their ,kink histories,polyamorous structure and how it works for them.

    Mistress Simone believes that while her podcast focuses on Femme Domme dynamics, we are all in this together and valuable resources and great people are ones that should be shared. Thus is 2018, her podcast interviews may include a wider variety of cast members then other female dominants.

    Your host can be found on http://www.chicago-mistress.com

    or any of her social media @chicagomistress

     

    FDM020-The theft of identity within prodomme industry

    FDM020-The theft of identity within prodomme industry

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    Branding. Prodommes have been engaging in branding ourselves way before it even became a buzz word. Like any good business, marketing and name recognition is paramount. And just like most successful businesses, eventually someone else tries to copy or piggy back on the original. As many say "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery". BS!  Mistress Simone goes off on those who steal from professional dominas to make themselves either look good or a small profit using our hard work.

    Inspired by the recent upsurge of occurrences.

     

    And for those who want to copy my hard work ,you can find me on social media @chicagomistress or my site :

    http://www.chicago-mistress.com

     

    But remember , we are ALL watching!

     

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    FDM018-The Bondage Mistress visits Chicago Mistress

    FDM018-The Bondage Mistress visits Chicago Mistress

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    The famous Bondage Mistress of London comes to Chicago to create havoc with your host, Mistress Simone. In between tying slaves up and ballkicking, these 2 evil sadists find time for a coffee interview.

    Mistress Simone expresses her dungeon envy which if anyone knows her is hard to do. She delves into the whys and favs of Mistress Miranda. Learn what motivates this Mistress to go for more extreme scenes and restriction.

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    FDM017-Femme Domme Mystique Interview series : Alexandra Sadista

    FDM017-Femme Domme Mystique Interview series : Alexandra Sadista

     

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    2 of Chicago's finest sit down and discuss their journeys up to this point. Mistress Simone interviews Mistress Alexandra Sadista. Learn how this talented domme got started on her career path, some of the interesting adventures she has had along the way and how best to serve her. Mutual medical fetishists, these ladies chat over what some of their favorite types of invasive play are. The femme domme interviews are designed to increase the listener's understanding of how diverse the world of female domination can be.

     Dommes Ms Simone and Ms Alexandra

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    FDM016 - NYC Three - Mistresses DeLuca, Megan McCord & Wynter

    FDM016 - NYC Three - Mistresses DeLuca, Megan McCord & Wynter

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    Femme Domme Mystique hostess, Mistress Simone of Chicago interviews three of her favorite professional dominatrixes of New York City: Mistress Wynter, Mistress Elena DeLuca and Mistress Megan McCord. This coffee clutch hour romps through the world of professional domination covering how to approach a prodomme, lifestyle vs professional, social media impact, pet peeves, industry pros and cons and more.

     

    Visit Elena De Luca's site

     

    FDM015 - Sadie Hawkins

    FDM015 - Sadie Hawkins

     

    Learn more about your hostess, Ms Simone ,on her website.

    During Domcon last year, Mistress Simone had the wonderful chance to sit down with Mistress Sadie Hawkins of Arizona. These ladies are both very actuve in the USA leather community and share their knowledge and experiences within this interview. Learn some of the challenges that women in general face within the lifestyle community. Mistress Simone broaches the subject of ethnicity with Goddess Sadie Hawkins and how it has effected her journey. The installment of Femme Domme interviews delves deeper than we have before, probing motivations, prejudices and experiences for each Domina. For those who desire to get their feet wet in the leather community, this is a must listen interview.

     

    To learn more about Goddess Sadie Hawkins visit http://sensuoussovereignties.com/

    FDM014 - Mistress Ariana Chevalier of NYC Rubber Studio

    FDM014 - Mistress Ariana Chevalier of NYC  Rubber Studio

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    This week Mistress Simone sits with Ariana Chevalier of the famous NYC Rubber Studio. Few fellow prodommes have made it to 20 years. Be a fly on the wall when 2 who havr sit and chat about how things have changed, how submissives have changed and what the internet has done to the industry. This interview seems like 2 old friends sitting on the deck reminiscing of the golden days. We both recall SASEs and when our clients had to use them.

    Do not miss this one!

     

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    FDM013 - Genisis Domcon Interview

    FDM013 - Genisis Domcon Interview

     

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    Mistress Simone was lucky enough to corner Mistress Genesis, one of the leading ladies of DomCon, the dominatrix professional industry event held in Los Angeles yearly. Ms Genesis discusses what she enjoys in those her serve her, and what types of play she enjoys. the best section of the interview comes with Genesis sharing her experence coming out to her family, and the self discovery of her kinky nature. For those who may struggle with these topics, this interview will help one understand you are not alone and all struggle at times with mixing the bdsm and vanilla world.

     

     

    FDM012 - Cuntress

    FDM012 - Cuntress

     

     

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    This week, Mistress Simone interviews Cuntress from DomCon! Visiting the US from Australia, this towering, imposing Mistress give a wonderful interview full of laughter and wit. Learn what Mistress Gabrielle values as a female dominant. Where she began and why those who come before are important, especially for a professional domme. A wonderfully fun interview.

     

    Learn more about Mistress Gabrielle on her site

     

    FDM011 - Self care for Mistresses and Dominants

    FDM011 - Self care for Mistresses and Dominants

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    As a professional and life style Dominatrix who loves life and structure control over her slave stable, Mistress Simone knows first hand what happens when burn out hits. Monitoring the day to day  structure of another can make one forget to manage their own. leaving time for self care is vital to all humans but especially those in high intensity D/s relationships. Ms Simone discusses what happens when she feels burnt out, how to recognize it and what to do next.

     

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    FDM010 - Luxury of the Internet

    FDM010 - Luxury of the Internet

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    The internet- what a wonderful thing. But is it good for our profession and lifestyle? How has the way we interact changed due to it? When Mistress Simone began her journey as a leather Mistress, this tool did not exist. Now it runs everything. Without a web presence, prodommes can not gain new clients as well as keep in touch with regulars. Dangerous predators can hid behind online profiles on a wide assortment of hook up sites. Even Fetlife has its pitfalls with such. In this episode Mistress Simone discusses how she feels the internet has affected the business and community.

    FDM008 - Mistress Servalan

    FDM008 - Mistress Servalan

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    This week, Mistress Simone has a chat with Mistress Servalan! One of the world's premiere corporal experts, Mistress Servalan of Australia sits down with her fellow caner, Mistress Simone to discuss the skill and technique of their mutual fetish. Sisterhood among Mistresses is discussed and why it is important. Lots of laughs with these 2 ladies who enjoy similar wit. Come listen in on 2 of the best disciplinarians.

     

     

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    FDM007 - Club FEM

    FDM007 - Club FEM

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    On this episode ofThe Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone shares some great interviews around Club FEM! ClubFEM is the international organization formed to explore the dynamic of female domination and male submission. Mistress Simone is HeadMistress of the oldest branch outside of the original.


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    FDM006 - Tammy Jo Eckhart

    FDM006 - Tammy Jo Eckhart

     

    On this episode ofThe Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks to Tammy Jo Eckhart!  Well known author and lifestyle Mistress living the life with her bdsm household shares her insight.



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