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    The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast

    The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health. Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you. After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge. So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy. Topics covered: Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity Navigating emotions and vulnerability Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health Coping strategies for stress and anxiety Managing work-life balance and burnout Relationships and communication skills Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting Body image and Self-esteem Dealing with depression and mood disorders Masculinity and Identity Addiction and substance abuse Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions Suicide prevention and awareness Coping with grief and loss Anger management and emotional regulation Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks The Impact of social media on Men's mental health Men's mental health and physical fitness Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep Financial stress and mental well-being Coping with unemployment and career transitions Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength Addressing loneliness and social isolation Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors) Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges Men's mental health during and after divorce Breaking the cycle of generational trauma Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions Men's mental health and the justice system Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health Men's mental health and body dysmorphia Coping with chronic illness and disability Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health
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    Not Feeling Motivated? That's Because Your Purpose Sucks (But We Can Fix That)

    Not Feeling Motivated? That's Because Your Purpose Sucks (But We Can Fix That)

    Feeling stuck and unmotivated to make positive changes in your life? Learn how to build sustainable momentum instead of relying on fleeting motivation.

    Without the right mindset and approach, it’s easy to get derailed when trying to form new habits and achieve your goals.

    Our guest host, Joe Villegas shares simple frameworks for establishing routines, unlocking your purpose, and incrementally improving each day.

    Listen today to pick up practical strategies that you can start applying right away to make progress.

    Takeaways

    • Motivation is fleeting, while inspiration and purpose are more sustainable.
    • Discipline and daily rituals are key to maintaining motivation.
    • Setting realistic goals and tying them to a greater purpose can provide long-term motivation.
    • Small, incremental improvements can lead to significant progress over time.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction and Background
    01:10 - The Importance of Motivation
    03:04 - The Difference Between Motivation and Inspiration
    04:18 - The Power of Inspiration
    05:02 - Motivation vs. Purpose
    05:53 - The Role of Discipline
    06:07 - Setting Realistic Goals
    07:08 - Tying Goals to a Greater Purpose
    08:04 - Prioritizing Goals
    09:03 - The Power of Example
    09:27 - The Importance of Inspiration
    10:05 - The Concept of 1% Improvement
    14:27 - The Importance of Daily Rituals
    15:02 - Quantifying Small Improvements
    19:17 - Significant Emotional Events and Conditioning
    20:43 - The Power of Simplicity
    22:12 - Choosing the Right Discomfort
    23:09 - Building Momentum
    24:21 - Conclusion and Where to Learn More

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    How to Find the Right Balance Between Conventional and Alternative Medicine Without Shitting Your Pants

    How to Find the Right Balance Between Conventional and Alternative Medicine Without Shitting Your Pants

    Summary:

    In this episode, Jeremy and Zach discuss Zach's prolonged illness and his decision to finally take antibiotics. Zach explains his reservations about antibiotics, including the potential for antibiotic resistance and the negative impact on the gut microbiome. He also shares his struggles with being unable to pursue his usual activities and the importance of gratitude and self-compassion during this time.
     
    The conversation touches on the use of medication for various conditions and the need for caution and informed decision-making. The episode concludes with a humorous discussion about the potential side effects of antibiotics at Disney World.
     
    Takeaways:
    • Antibiotics should be used judiciously and only when necessary to avoid contributing to antibiotic resistance.
    • Antibiotics can have negative effects on the gut microbiome and may cause disruptions in the digestive system.
    • Gratitude and self-compassion are important during times of illness and can help maintain a positive mindset.
    • It is essential to consider the potential side effects and risks of medication before deciding to take it.
    Chapters
    • 00:00 - Introduction and Zach's Illness
    • 02:04 - Zach's Beef with Antibiotics
    • 03:19 - The Side Effects of Antibiotics
    • 04:01 - Zach's Struggles with Being Sick
    • 05:24 - Gratitude and Self-Compassion
    • 06:14 - Finding Good in the Bad
    • 09:20 - Zach's Experience in Seattle
    • 12:12 - Zach's Thoughts on Medication
    • 13:31 - The Usefulness and Limitations of Antibiotics
    • 14:59 - The Side Effects of Antibiotics

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    How to Stop Feeling Anxious, Overwhelmed, and Burned Out

    How to Stop Feeling Anxious, Overwhelmed, and Burned Out

    Summary

    Do you feel overwhelmed and extremely stressed at your job, desperately gasping for air at the end of each chaotic workday?

    If so, you can benefit from learning research-backed tools to establish healthier work habits, take back control of your schedule, and give your mind and body the breaks they desperately need.

    In this episode, we share our best practices for managing work stress, including re-prioritizing your to-do list, scheduling necessary breathers, and establishing reasonable communication expectations.

    Listen now to discover simple yet highly effective ways to tame work anxiety, prevent burnout, and transform your office experience.

    Takeaways

    • Prioritizing tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix
    • Taking regular breath breaks to stimulate your nervous system
    • Establishing healthy communication rhythms and boundaries
    • Using alarms and timers to enforce work/life balance
    • The importance of movement and exercise during the workday
    • Learning to manage unrealistic internal pressures and expectations

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    How To Overcome Past Conditioning and Believe In Your Potential, with Jared Ganem

    How To Overcome Past Conditioning and Believe In Your Potential, with Jared Ganem

    Summary

    Many men struggle with finding their true purpose and living up to their full potential due to past trauma, limiting beliefs, and unhealthy conditioning. Jared Ganem hit rock bottom after his dream of becoming a pro wrestler was crushed, sending him into a downward spiral of unhealthy relationships, and deep debt.

    Jared shares his incredible comeback story and the personal development work he did to rewire his mindset, heal from past trauma, and regain his sense of purpose. He mapped out the 7 levels of self-mastery to help men unleash their true potential.

    If you want to stop just going through the motions and finally create the life of purpose you desire, don't miss Jared's wisdom on this episode.

    Takeaways
    • Personal growth is the rate at which you can accept something different about yourself.
    • Purpose should come from within and be tied to your values, not external factors.
    • Changing your identity and rewiring conditioning and beliefs are crucial for personal transformation.
    • Men's issues are not exclusive to men; everyone faces challenges and can benefit from self-mastery.
    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction and Background
    03:10 - Hitting Rock Bottom
    06:04 - Discovering True Purpose
    08:47 - Losing Identity and Purpose
    10:14 - Clawing Out of Rock Bottom
    14:04 - The Power of Changing Identity
    18:21 - Rewiring Conditioning and Beliefs
    20:42 - The Seven Levels of Self-Mastery
    25:22 - Men's Issues and Toxic Masculinity
    34:25 - Conclusion and How to Connect

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    How to Change Your Entire Life by Changing 5% of Your Day

    How to Change Your Entire Life by Changing 5% of Your Day
    Summary

    In this episode, Jeremy and Zach discuss the importance of taking care of yourself and how making small changes can have a significant impact on one's life. They emphasize the power of changing just 5% of your day and how it can lead to positive transformations. They also highlight the value of finding one hour each day to dedicate to self-care and personal development. The conversation explores the snowball effect of habits and the need to find a balance between pushing oneself and being compassionate. They stress the importance of being present in the moment and letting go of worries about the past and future.
     
    Takeaways
    • Making small changes can have a big impact on your life.
    • Finding one hour each day for self-care can lead to positive transformations.
    • The snowball effect of habits can either lead to positive or negative outcomes.
    • Finding a balance between pushing oneself and being compassionate is crucial.
    • Being present in the moment and letting go of worries about the past and future is empowering.
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    The Full Body Workout You Can Do At Home In Just 20 Minutes, with Bruce Smith

    The Full Body Workout You Can Do At Home In Just 20 Minutes, with Bruce Smith

    Summary

    Have you ever longed for that blissful feeling of gliding across a misty lake at dawn, immersed in nature’s peace?

    Like many, you may lack the hardcore dedication real rowing demands yet crave the full-body joy and mental clarity it unlocks for devotees.

    Today US National Team rowing coach, Bruce Smith shares his innovative solution for casually accessing rowing’s many benefits in your own living room.

    Intrigued and ready to elevate your workouts? Listen to hear this game-changing fitness hack granting water’s magic healing effects without the 4am wake-up call.

    Takeaways

    • Rowing engages multiple muscle groups and provides a full-body workout.
    • Hydrow's rowing machine simulates the feeling of being on the water, providing an immersive experience.
    • Personalization and motivation are key factors in maintaining a consistent exercise routine.
    • Hydrow offers a variety of fitness programs, including yoga and strength training, to cater to different needs and preferences.
    • The mind-body connection and the experience of nature are important for mental health and overall well-being.

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    Try This Journaling Method To Prove You Are Who You Say You Are

    Try This Journaling Method To Prove You Are Who You Say You Are

    Summary

    Are you tired of trying to hype yourself up with affirmations but still feeling self-doubt creep back in?

    Struggling to believe you can actually become the person you want to be? Jeremy explains how to bridge the confidence gap by accumulating proof of progress through a simple journaling method.

    Listeners will understand how to track tiny gains towards goals, hold themselves accountable when they stumble, and actively build motivation by celebrating small wins.

    If you're ready to do the work of intentional personal growth rather than just visualize it, don't miss Jeremy's insights on confidence built on evidence, not perception.

    Takeaways
    • Building confidence requires a stack of undeniable proof of one's capabilities and accomplishments.
    • Journaling can be a valuable tool for personal growth and accountability.
    • Tracking both hard things overcome and areas where one falls short can provide valuable insights and motivation.
    • Practicing gratitude throughout the day can help shift focus towards the positive.

    How To Stop Believing the Lies You Tell Yourself, with Andrea Vallely

    How To Stop Believing the Lies You Tell Yourself, with Andrea Vallely

    Summary


    Are you struggling to tap into real happiness and instead find temporary relief in unhealthy habits?

    Many of us cope with negative emotions in damaging ways, but true happiness already lies within us.

    In this episode, you'll learn to stop chasing external quick fixes, take responsibility for your experience, and unlock sustainable inner peace.

    Listen to this conversation with Andrea Vallely from Shift Happens, to understand the root of suffering and how to process discomfort in healthy ways.

    Topics Discussed:

    • The illusion that happiness and peace come from external things
    • How the world mirrors our inner state
    • Techniques to calm the mind and body
    • Taking 100% responsibility for your experience
    • Suffering comes from believing external factors determine your peace
    • "Decreating" old stories and beliefs that no longer serve you

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    How to Take the First Step Back into Healthy Habits

    How to Take the First Step Back into Healthy Habits
    Summary
     

    Are you struggling to get back into a workout routine after falling off track over the holidays?

    Many people lose motivation and discipline around health goals during busy holiday seasons. This can negatively impact both physical fitness and mental wellbeing.

    In this episode, you'll hear Zach and Jeremy openly discuss their own struggles to maintain consistent workout habits and the downward spiral effect it's had.

    Listen today to gain motivation, accountability tips, and a community of support to get back on track with your health in the new year.

     
    Takeaways
    • Maintaining a consistent routine, including regular exercise, is crucial for mental health and overall well-being.
    • Doing hard things and pushing through discomfort leads to personal growth and improved resilience.
    • Start small and gradually increase the intensity or frequency of workouts to avoid overwhelming yourself.
    • Seeking help and accountability from others can be beneficial in staying on track and overcoming challenges.
    Chapters
     
    00:00 Struggling and Rock Bottom
     
    03:19 Unraveling and Lack of Routine
     
    06:47 The Importance of Working Out
     
    09:43 Overcoming the Struggle
     
    16:31 The Power of Doing Hard Things
     
    17:21 Committing to Growth
     
    19:35 Knowing Your Limits
     
    21:28 Changing the Tune of the Podcast
     
    22:59 Accountability and Help
     
    23:28 Getting Back on Track After the Holidays
     
    24:16 The Beginning of an Incredible Comeback Story

    How to Stop Worrying About Your Goals So You Can Make Real Progress

    How to Stop Worrying About Your Goals So You Can Make Real Progress

    Have you ever chased rapid transformation only to burn out and give up just days later?

    Our tendency to seek drastic overnight changes sets us up for disappointment and failure. Sustainable growth comes from daily incremental improvements over time.

    Learn a simple mindset shift that makes positive change enjoyable and attainable. Discover how to turn self-improvement into a fun game you want to play. Understand why you should focus on evolution rather than transformation.

    Listen to this episode to begin your journey of conscious evolution through tiny daily upgrades.

    Topics Discussed:

    • The common mistake of chasing rapid transformation
    • Embracing evolution through small, daily improvements
    • Making change fun by gamifying personal growth
    • Overcoming beliefs that hold you back
    • Building motivation through a growth mindset
    • Creating sustainable habits with atomic steps

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    How To Finally Start Achieving Your Health Goals with Joe Villegas

    How To Finally Start Achieving Your Health Goals  with Joe Villegas

    Do you ever feel overwhelmed trying to get in shape and don't know where to start?

    Many people struggle to build sustainable exercise habits and nutrition plans that lead to transformational results.

    This episode will provide you with a practical framework for lifestyle change, insights on the mindset shifts required for fitness goals, and tangible tips to hold yourself accountable.

    Listen to this conversation to discover small adjustments you can make today to unlock massive growth in your health and wellness journey.

    Topics Discussed:

    • Getting started on a fitness plan
    • Finding enjoyable workout routines
    • Building healthy habits over time
    • Working with personal coaches
    • Optimizing sleep quality
    • Creating accountability for goals
    • Gym motivation strategies
    • Goal setting frameworks
    • Online resources for guidance
    • Developing a growth identity

    Note: This episode was originally published on February 7th, 2023

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    How to Unlock Your Creative Potential By Stealing Like An Artist, with Austin Kleon

    How to Unlock Your Creative Potential By Stealing Like An Artist, with Austin Kleon

    Do you wish you were more creative but feel like you just don't have that natural talent?

    This common belief holds many people back from developing valuable creative skills over time. In this podcast episode, author Austin Kleon shares why creativity is a learnable skill available to anyone willing to put in consistent practice.

    You'll understand why creativity relies on making new combinations of existing ideas, how to push past imposter syndrome to take creative risks, and how developing small creative habits creates momentum.

    Listen to this interview to expand your perspective on human creativity.

    Topics discussed:

    • Defining creativity
    • Overcoming creative blocks
    • Building creative skills over time
    • Pushing past imposter syndrome
    • Developing a creative process
    • Finding inspiration in others' work
    • Building an audience for your work
    • Balancing creativity and daily life

    Note: This episode was originally published on Aprinl 19th, 2022.

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    How To Read More Books And Apply The Lessons You Learn, With Nick Hutchison

    How To Read More Books And Apply The Lessons You Learn, With Nick Hutchison

    Struggling to make reading a daily priority or apply what you've read?

    The fix could be simpler than you think for those constantly acquiring new knowledge but failing to implement it.

    In this episode, Nick Hutchison, Founder of BookThinkers, discusses the importance of reading and how it can condense decades of lived experience into days. 

    This conversation addresses a common challenge for readers: struggling to retain or apply book lessons.

    In this episode, you will discover:

    • How to cement book learning through real-world travel applications.

    • Which books provide fundamental principles for unlocking growth.

    • The underrated reciprocal relationship between sharing knowledge and gaining wisdom.

    • How reading allows you to condense decades of lived experience into days of reading.

    • How to read with intention and set goals for each book to maximize its impact.

    • Why developing focus and reading skills takes time and practice.

    • Implementing takeaways from books can lead to behavior change and significant results.

    If you're ready to start retaining and acting on all those book smarts, press play now for actionable techniques.

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    How To Overcome Failure and Find Real Success, with James Fell

    How To Overcome Failure and Find Real Success, with James Fell
    In this episode, bestselling author James Fell discusses his career journey from writing self-help and fitness books to unexpectedly finding viral success posting profanity-filled daily historical facts on social media during the pandemic, which led to a popular Substack newsletter which eventually turned into the book, On This Day In History, Shit Went Down.
     
    He discusses the challenges of managing ADHD, anxiety, and obsession while pursuing a creative career. James also shares his concerns for the future and offers advice for success as a creative person.
     
    Takeaways
    • Self-help books often over-promise and lack a real plan for change.
    • Transitioning from advising to telling stories can lead to greater success.
    • Managing ADHD, anxiety, and obsession is crucial for a creative career.
    • Financial motivation and flexibility in pursuing passions are key to success.
    • Shameless promotion and creative marketing can help sell books and gain readership.
    Chapters
     
    00:00 The Disconnect with Self-Help Books
    02:39 The Difficulty of Change
    04:33 The Disappointment of Book Sales
    06:30 Transition to Sweary Historian
    08:02 Challenges During the Pandemic
    09:28 The Birth of Swery History Stories
    13:28 Recognizing Life-Changing Epiphanies
    15:15 The Motivation of Reader Appreciation and Financial Success
    17:07 The Link Between ADHD and Creativity
    19:23 Managing Anxiety and Obsession
    22:57 Financial Motivation and the Potential of Success
    27:29 Concerns for the Future
    30:19 Gun Laws and Anxiety
    32:19 Rules for Success as a Creative Person
    35:13 The Importance of Shameless Promotion
    36:04 Closing Remarks
     
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    How to Overcome Depression And Find True Happiness, with Dannie De Novo

    How to Overcome Depression And Find True Happiness, with Dannie De Novo

    Depression is a common and often debilitating mental health condition that can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. It can cause a range of symptoms, including persistent sadness, low energy, difficulty concentrating, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, and a loss of interest in once enjoyable activities.

    Sound familiar?

    In today's episode, we’ll talk with Dannie De Novo. She is a mental health advocate and survivor of depression, and she will share their journey of overcoming depression and the tools and strategies she uses to find happiness and build a fulfilling life…so you can do the same

    In this episode, we discuss:

    • Seeking help and support is crucial for managing depression and finding happiness. This could mean talking to a trusted friend or family member, seeking support from a mental health professional, or joining a support group.
    • Practicing self-care is essential for managing depression. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and finding ways to relax and de-stress.
    • Focusing on small, positive things can bring joy and happiness into your life, even when you're feeling down.
    • Setting goals and working towards them can give you a sense of purpose and meaning, which can help boost your mood.
    • If your depression is severe or persistent, it may be necessary to seek professional treatment. This could include therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

    Remember, overcoming depression is not easy, and it may take time and effort. But with the right support and strategies, it is possible to find happiness and build a fulfilling life. Don't be afraid to reach out for help – it's a sign of strength, not weakness.

    (Note: This episode was originally published on Dec 26, 2022)

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    Finding Calm in the Holiday Chaos: 5 Stress Relief Hacks for the Most Wonderful Time of Year

    Finding Calm in the Holiday Chaos: 5 Stress Relief Hacks for the Most Wonderful Time of Year

    Does the pressure to shop perfectly, party nonstop, stay cheerful, and produce picture-perfect holidays leave you drained and stressed? You're not alone! This week on The Fit Mess podcast, Zach and Jeremy share their best tactics for maintaining sanity amidst seasonal chaos. Tune in to hear them offer reasonable, realistic solutions to minimize holiday havoc so you can truly delight in the magic of this special time of year. From mindset shifts to self-care strategies, these guys are bringing practical advice to help you protect your peace of mind instead of just white-knuckling through the next few weeks. Ready to stop dreading the holidays and actually enjoy the most wonderful time of year? Don't miss this episode!

    Topics Discussed:

    • Recent work trips and holiday gatherings
    • Managing gift expectations
    • Taking time for sleep and self-care
    • Not overcommitting to too many parties/events
    • Staying healthy amid holiday indulgences
    • Seeking support when feeling overwhelmed
    • Setting goals and resolutions

    How to Rewire Your Brain to Stop Craving Junk Food Dopamine Hits, with Dr. Glenn Livingston

    How to Rewire Your Brain to Stop Craving Junk Food Dopamine Hits, with Dr. Glenn Livingston

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    In this conversation with psychologist Glenn Livingston, he shares how cravings can actually be a sign of a healthy brain rather than a sickness. He provides practical strategies for defeating cravings through specific food rules, redirecting fantasy about junk foods, and focusing on non-scale victories like freedom from obsession. Glenn emphasizes self-acceptance while still pursuing a healthy weight, starting with one simple change instead of dramatic overhauls. He advises not letting shame drive weight loss efforts.

    Topics Discussed:

    • Understanding cravings as a sign of a "healthy" brain
    • The food industry manipulating cravings
    • Making specific personalized food rules
    • Redirecting fantasies about junk food
    • Focusing on non-scale victories
    • Self-acceptance while pursuing healthy weight
    • Starting with one simple change
    • Not letting shame drive weight loss
    • Responding skillfully to emotional eating triggers
    • Building self-mastery and mindful habits

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    How To Relax Your Nervous System and Reduce Anxiety Through Better Sleep with Dr. Peter Martone

    How To Relax Your Nervous System and Reduce Anxiety Through Better Sleep with Dr. Peter Martone

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    In this episode, leading chiropractor Dr. Peter Martone shares his expertise on improving sleep for better health. He explains common mistakes people make with their sleep posture, like side sleeping, and how these strained positions lead to chronic neck, shoulder, and back pain over time. Dr. Martone stresses the role quality sleep plays in balancing hormones, reducing anxiety, and optimizing health. Listen to learn easy fixes that will upgrade your energy, recovery, and well-being.

    Topics Discussed:

    • Common mistakes people make with sleep posture
    • How sleep position affects neck and back pain
    • Supporting the neck and spine improperly while sleeping
    • Sleeping on your back without a pillow under your head
    • Creating a sleep environment that feels safe
    • Reducing anxiety and balancing hormones through quality sleep
    • The importance of sleep position and consistent nighttime routine
    • Using the Neck Nest device to improve neck posture
    • Tracking HRV to monitor nervous system balance
    • Tips for better sleep like keeping hands and feet outside the covers

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    226. How to Find Your Passion at Any Age with Brian Ondrako

    226. How to Find Your Passion at Any Age with Brian Ondrako

    Do you have goals you want to accomplish that you have been putting off? Sometimes, you need to just get started. How do you do that? Well, we decided to ask Just Get Started podcast host, Brian Ondrako.

    Today, we speak to Brian about how he helps inspire people on the cusp of getting started on their path toward happiness. According to Brian, happiness is the result of making consistent decisions that align with your vision for your life, not attaining any specific goal.

    Unless you have a clear idea of which way to go, seeking happiness is almost irrelevant, which is why Brian recommends finding your North Star and taking incremental steps toward it. He also highlights the value of welcoming discomfort, staying curious, and embracing vulnerability along the way, which you’ll learn more about in this episode.

    Ultimately, it's not about reaching your North Star. It's about keeping the compass pointed in the right direction. If you want to find out how to stop wishing for change and start making it happen, tune in today!

    Topics discussed in this episode:

    • We get vulnerable about where we are in our own journeys
    • How Brian got started on his mission to help others
    • Why you have to discover yourself to discover happiness
    • The joy that can come from putting action in motion
    • Why taking incremental steps toward your North Star is key
    • Understanding the value of sharing your setbacks with others
    • Overcoming fear and complacency with curiosity
    • How you can benefit from embracing discomfort
    • Advice for taking that first step by looking back at childhood
    • How Brian encourages people to pursue their North Star
    • A reminder that it’s your choice to change your behavior
    • Tips for finding the simplest path forward

    (Note: This episode was originally published October 24th, 2022)

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    225. How to Transform Your Subconscious Programming with Breathwork and Meditative Practices with Carson Finkle

    225. How to Transform Your Subconscious Programming with Breathwork and Meditative Practices with Carson Finkle

    The power of the mind and breath is so potent, that when tapped into, it can change your entire world for the better. Your heart and mind speak to each other, and we can change the way they communicate by releasing trauma stored in our subconscious and body, by using mindfulness techniques and breathwork.

    Breathwork has been life-changing for our host Jeremy Grater, so he wanted to share this healing tool with you all by bringing on his breathwork facilitator, Carson Finkle, on today’s episode to share his knowledge and insight on the benefits of breathwork, as well as the unique way he conducts his sessions. 

    Carson Finkle is the founder of Create Meditation, which is a combination of breathwork, personalized music, and mindfulness practices, creating a profound experience to reprogram the subconscious to bring in healing. 

    In today’s episode, you will hear how Create Meditation works, the benefits of breathwork and mindfulness, what happens to your mind and body after doing breathwork, and simple techniques you can do yourself to start your mindfulness journey.

    Tune in to hear how you can create more peace in your life, one breath at a time.

    Topics discussed in this episode:

    • What is breathwork and how Carson got into it
    • 3 pillars of Breathwork
    • Is the breathwork experience different in person vs. Zoom?
    • Are there dangers in not having a practitioner present when doing breathwork?
    • Why Carson uses music in his breathwork practice
    • The therapeutic aspect of the primal release of yelling
    • Why Carson’s voice sticks with you in times of struggle
    • The five words used to rewire the subconscious
    • Why we start to have visions of a future self that didn’t seem possible before breathwork
    • Is the world shifting toward spirituality?
    • Bringing knowledge to breathwork can enrich the experience and practice
    • Simple steps for beginners to start practicing mindfulness

    (Note: This episode was originally published Oct 11, 2022)

    Resources:

    Guest Website: createmeditation.com - Use Promo Code FITMESS for $100 off

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