The Power of the Pivot: Leading with Discernment

If you ever have the opportunity to love or condemn, always choose love. Why? Condemnation makes us operate at a deficit. We are not in the business of condemning others. We were meant to love and be loved. Don't get distracted by agendas that promote hate and robs you of your peace of mind. Protect your mind, body and soul by keeping it as positive as you can. Will there be bad times? Of course! But we have the power to choose. And when you find yourself in a position where you can either condemn or love, choose love. It will never let you down.

Having a set routine is luring, isn't it? On some level, we need a good routine that keeps us in check and on track. But sometimes a routine holds us back. Let's not get stuck in a comfort zone where nothing happens but the passing of time. Today is a good time to check on ourselves to see where we are going. Let's see if these routines we implemented are yielding the right results. Routines only work when we analyze why we've decided to stick with them. Have you analyzed your routine or have you been lured into a routine that doesn't serve you very well? It's time to find out so that we can pivot as needed.

Do you really know how great you are? It's about time you do. It doesn't matter how many times you say you're great, if you do not believe it, you will never realize all the wonderful things that make up who you are. Not only should you step into your greatness, it's time to be Great! Affirmations are one thing, owning your Greatness is a whole different story. It's time to relish in Your Greatness and You.

When we evaluate what we're doing in life, we need to look at all aspects of our life, including the people we allow in our lives. Have you ever asked yourself why a particular person is in your life? Perhaps it's time you did. Knowing when to embrace, celebrate and be thankful for the people in your life is equally as important as knowing when to let go of relationships that are unhealthy, stressful and perhaps detrimental to you. Let's really think about the people in our lives and ask that hard question: Why Are You in My Life?

Are you happy? If not, the question is: why? What or who is making you unhappy? Life is too short to live in misery. Pinpoint the root of your unhappiness so you can do something about it. It’s time to figure out what’s really eating you.

Wanting to change and the act of changing are two separate things. We want to go from the thought of changing to actually making a change. To do this, we must understand that change is a process. Change first requires an acknowledgement that change must take place. From there you need to formulate a plan to implement change. So let's take a look at how we actually go about making a change instead of consistently talking about it. It's time to be about it. Let's effectuate change today!

Are you having trouble making certain changes in life? Have you tried extremely hard but can't seem to execute lasting change in areas that desperately need changing? Well, take heart in knowing that some changes may be more difficult for you due to certain issues you may be predisposed to from your family. What does that mean? Well, did you know that cells have memory? That means some things were passed down to you without your input. That's why some of us have heart disease and other issues that run in our families. This is not an excuse for you to not change, but it is an identification of where certain dispositions come from. This means that some of us may need to work harder at making certain changes. That's ok, we are still unique beings who are designed to overcome and succeed. So let's understand the source of some of our issues so we know how to handle them going forward. It's important to know that cells have memory and how cells play a role in what we do in life.

We understand that certain things in life are either 'right' or 'wrong'. As a society, we need to have laws, rules and regulations to curtail certain behavior. However, when it comes to our personal relationships, how do we conduct ourselves when we interact with others? Do we have to be 'right' in our point of view all the time and does everyone else have to be 'wrong'? Living in the extreme state of being 'right' or 'wrong' is stressful for you and the ones you love. It's time to take a hard look at how we carry ourselves and realize that being 'right' at all costs is not necessary the prize we are looking for out of life. Focus on building relationships and alleviating mental and physical stress on yourself and others. It's time to understand what it means when we commit ourselves and our actions to living in the extreme of 'right' vs. 'wrong'.

We know that change is necessary, yet we dread change. In fact, often times we run from it. Change doesn't have to be scary, it all depends on how we look at it. Sometimes we can make small changes that will alleviate stress and keep us moving forward positively. Change can also provide us with the healing we've been looking for all this time. Let's look at change differently so we can see clearly and understand what we need to do moving forward. Remember, the time is always right for change.

A new season tends to bring about change, anxiety, goals, fear, and a whole host of feelings and emotions that affect our lives. A new season can mean weather, a new life event or milestone. As you move forward with all that a new season brings, good and bad, don't forget to factor in the best for yourself. Let go of the negative, think positive, breathe, and don't forget to heal. Heal your mind, body, and soul by making conscious decisions to take care of you. Healing encompases everything including forgiveness, self-care, love, empowerment and also accountability for what you do. Healing takes into consideration all that is needed to keep you focused on moving forward successfully. So just remember, with all that you've got going on this season, don't forget to heal.

We are all unique beings, yet we spend so much of our time copying others. Our uniqueness requires that we create by using our own abilities, character, talents and everything we possess that makes us unique. Yes, we can and should be inspired by others, but there is a difference between inspiration and duplication. When you are duplicating something or someone you are not creating. However, when you are inspired by someone or something, that inspiration sparks you to create and start living your life authentically with focus and purpose. Know the difference between duplication and inspiration and start creating today. You were meant to display your uniqueness, not resolve yourself to a life of copying someone else's life and work. You are worth more than that. You were meant to create, not copy.

Are you an optimistic person? Did you know that optimism leads to options? Having an optimistic outlook on life is not about creating unrealistic expectations. On the contrary, having an optimistic disposition allows you to explore possibilities and see a plethora of opportunities that can be used to create options for yourself. Optimism is about hope. It is also about you having enough confidence in yourself to know that you can be the change you want to see in the world. Let's talk about optimism and how it is a catalyst for creating options that will improve the quality of your life immensely.

True change doesn't happen overnight. It takes time for you to see the results you are looking for once you make a decision to change. More importantly, change requires you to set the right chain of events in motion in order for the change to be lasting and meaningful. Take each day one step at a time and you will get there. Make a plan, be consistent, be realistic, hold yourself accountable and be happy as you go through the process. If you follow this strategy, you will witness positive results that are measurable. No need to wait for the New Year. Start now and stay the course. Remember, you can do it; just take one step at a time.

Establishing boundaries is necessary for all relationships, including the ones you cherish the most. Boundaries should not be looked upon as a negative, but as a positive instead. Learn the value of establishing boundaries and you will learn the value of self-respect. We all need boundaries, and we all need to learn how to respect each others' boundaries. Join our discussion to understand what boundaries are really all about.

Worrying accomplishes nothing. As the Holiday Season is upon us, it is common for us to worry ourselves into a frenzy. Worrying tends to reach an all-time high during this time. Let's understand what worrying really means and how it robs you of precious moments in life. Learn to put worrying in its place and focus your attention on what's important. Stop worrying and get on with your life. The world needs you.

Who is directing your steps each day? Shouldn't that be you? Take some time to find out who or what is directing your life and how you can change direction if necessary. From your multi-tasking to any unrealistic goals, find out who's sitting in the director's chair of your life and make a commitment to fill that seat yourself.

There are times when you need to get over some things and times when you need to get through some things. Do you know the difference? Who is to say what you get over and what you get through? It's time for you to understand when you need to leave a situation behind and when you need to take the bulk of the situation with you in the form of lessons learned. Join me as we tackle this important topic to settle this debate once and for all.

When was the last time you told yourself you are beautiful? What about telling yourself how strong you are? Sometimes we forget the positive attributes about ourselves because we are so busy tending to everyone else's needs. It's time to break that habit. The first person who should know how wonderful you are is YOU! So go ahead, tell yourself how fearless and unbreakable you are. Know that you are wonderful, valuable, made to love and made to receive love. It's time for you to change or affirm your outlook on yourself because you are worthy. Let's talk about the value of positive affirmations.

We should all be happy about approaching new beginnings. New beginnings does not just refer to a new year or material items. New beginnings mean that each day you can breathe and start anew; start fresh. Broaden your definition of new beginnings and expand your mind. Approach each day as a new day and realize how to improve your mental health. Make new beginnings a regular phrase in your vocabulary and understand that new beginnings include the intangible as well as the tangible things in life. You'll be glad you did.

The start of a new season always comes with emotional attachments and mixed feelings. Let's look at the beginning of Fall with a different eye by taking a step back to 'Just Breathe'. There is value in learning how to breathe properly when our stress levels are on the rise. So before we tackle all that comes with the season of Fall and the upcoming Holiday Season, let us learn to 'Just Breathe' and approach our responsibilities with a clear head and a calm demeanor. By doing so, we allow ourselves to move forward more productively.