THE SJ CHILDS SHOW

As parents, we all share a common goal of raising well-adjusted, happy children, but how do we navigate the complexities of parenting in today's world? What if there were strategies that could help bridge the communication gap with our children, especially during their adolescent years? In our latest episode, we bring you an insightful conversation with our esteemed guest, Clair Mellenthin, director of child and adolescent services at Wasatch Family Therapy. Together, we explore the profound effects of the pandemic on children's mental health and the rise of school violence, providing you with a wealth of knowledge on community resources tailored to provide support during these trying times.

Redefine your parenting approach as we share effective strategies aimed at fostering greater connection with your children. From leveraging daily moments like car rides and bedtime stories, to the 'peach pit moment,' we unravel tips that encourage openness and facilitate meaningful dialogue. We also tackle the hard subjects, such as dealing with sibling dynamics, the unique needs of boys and girls, and the importance of emotional balance. Rest assured, we leave no stone unturned when it comes to addressing the many facets of parenting in this modern age.

Wrapping it all up, we delve into the realm of setting boundaries and validating children's emotions – a critical aspect of parenting in a world filled with complexity. We discuss the importance of modeling and maintaining healthy boundaries, particularly during emotional confrontations. We also examine the challenges of parenting amidst a constantly changing world, and how to foster a safe space for our children to flourish. Listen in and empower yourself with valuable insights for navigating the parenting journey. You're not alone in this. We're here to help.

Have you ever wondered how someone, diagnosed with autism at a young age, can defy limitations and emerge as an inspirational figure? Meet Christian Armstrong, an advocate for autism awareness, a motivational speaker, and a living testament to the boundless potential of individuals with autism. With his candid discussions on overcoming depression, battling societal comparisons, and finding strength in a supportive community, Christian's story is sure to resonate with many.

Christian's journey has been inspiring in countless ways, from defying the odds in the world of sports to transitioning from acting to motivational speaking. As we navigate through the diverse facets of living with autism, we’ll hear Christian's insights on often-misunderstood dynamics of autism and marriage. He stresses the importance of open communication and understanding, and views autism not as a disability, but as a different way of learning. The dialogue extends to the pressing need for personalized teaching methods that embrace neurodiversity in our education system.

As our conversation draws to a close, we touch upon the shifting societal perceptions of autism. Christian provides us with his perspective on the challenges faced by individuals with autism, while advocating for greater acceptance and inclusion. We also get a sneak peek into an upcoming speaking event where Christian aims to make a profound impact. His story compels us to challenge the status quo and reconsider our perceptions about autism. Tune in for an episode that not only uplifts spirits but also promises to spark a change.

Ever felt like you're wrestling a storm alone when it comes to navigating autism? Let’s introduce you to the wonderful Mia Dawson and Brenda Major, two incredible women who have walked this journey, felt the overwhelm of a diagnosis and experienced the transformation that comes with acceptance. In a heart-to-heart conversation, they share about their children, the struggle for community understanding, and the resilience they built along the way.

We also uncover the inspiring story of Neo, a homeschooled autistic child, whose journey has been supported by his family and a close friend. Neo’s experience reminds us of the vital role a supportive network plays in the well-being of autistic children, shielding them from painful experiences like bullying. The conversation takes an intriguing turn as we discuss the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals, and the pressing need for awareness and funding in schools.

Lastly, we reflect on how our personal journey with autism has not only transformed us but also led us to become authors and hosts of a radio show. Our book series, "Adventures of Neo," promotes understanding of autism and our radio show offers a much-needed reprieve for parents with special needs children. By the end of the conversation, we hope to inspire you to recognize the beauty and potential in individuals with autism and to see challenges as an opportunity to bring out the superpowers in us all. So, tune in for an enlightening dialogue that promises to make you see autism in a different light.

Are you ready to embark on an enlightening journey towards understanding and managing emotions in children? We invite you to join us and our distinguished guest, child behavior specialist Laura, for an episode that is sure to empower and equip you with the tools you need. We delve into Laura’s personal experiences of raising emotionally sensitive children, the significance of emotional connection between parents and children, and the need for a shift towards emotional education. This engaging discussion also shatters outdated stigmas and provides resources for parents who may feel unprepared when dealing with heightened emotions.

Can you imagine the transformative impact of changing negative parenting habits? Laura will guide us through the world of emotional regulation, its role in parenting, and its impact on our nervous system. Learn the three-step plan for building emotional regulation in both parents and children and the importance of teaching them about their brain and their feelings. Laura, as a passionate parenting coach, offers personalized parenting plans and shares her successes and failures in parenting. She even offers a free tool, the ABCs for keeping calm, that you can access by reaching out to her. This episode is a valuable guide for parents navigating the sometimes murky waters of childhood emotional regulation. Tune in and expand your knowledge on this crucial topic!

Ever wondered how an autism diagnosis at 25 could lead someone to become a public speaker, mentor, and sports referee? Get ready for an enlightening conversation with Daniel Durany, a leading voice in autism advocacy from Texas. Daniel's inspiring journey, driven by a late diagnosis, has led him to share his unique experiences and empower others on similar paths. Through his passion for sports, Daniel shares how his role as a referee has helped him build vital skills and personal growth, with his sights set on umpiring at Division I softball games.

We also delve into the pivotal transition to adulthood for individuals on the spectrum, highlighting the need for early intervention, tailored education, and better preparation for the job market. Explore with us as we unravel complex topics like insurance coverage for therapy, teaching financial skills, and job negotiation strategies. The conversation offers invaluable insights for parents, educators, and individuals with autism alike, and underscores the importance of community involvement. Tune in to hear Daniel's incredible stories and advice, and see how he's making a difference in changing perceptions and enhancing the lives of those on the spectrum.

Ready to delve into the complexities of trauma? Our episode today promises to be a profound journey, with Courtney Copeland, a trauma counselor and life coach, guiding us through her personal experiences with trauma. A relative's autism diagnosis has shaped her perspective and approach, offering her firsthand understanding of the challenges and adaptations necessary for those living on the spectrum. As we navigate this journey, we'll unveil how autism has influenced her counseling approach and the importance of mindfulness, individual needs, and creating a safe space.

Ever wondered what it means to balance trauma and personal growth? We'll shed light on this delicate dance, emphasizing that trauma isn't always the result of a major event and can manifest in various forms. Drawing insights from our personal experiences, we’ll explore the importance of finding a balance between pushing someone out of their comfort zone and respecting their limits. Crafting individualized approaches for autism and trauma, we underline the need for understanding, empathy and support.

Parenting, resilience, and processing childhood trauma are also themes we'll engage with. We'll talk about the role of positive reinforcement, the necessity of acknowledging a child's feelings, and fostering self-love. Plus, we've got an enlightening conversation with a trauma specialist on the different ways trauma can show up and the resources available for those seeking help and support. It's a deep dive into the world of autism, trauma, and resilience - we hope you join us for this enlightening discussion.

Welcome to a truly extraordinary conversation on the SJ Childs Show! Today, we're fortunate to have Gena Sims, the visionary founder of the Autism Theater Project, as our distinguished guest. Gena, an unwavering advocate for the autism community, journeys with us through the landscape of theater and self-expression, while illuminating the talents and potential of individuals on the autism spectrum.

With Gena, we explore the fascinating world of "The Voice Inside," a television series that stands as the main project of the Autism Theater Project. This series, designed with a balance of empathy and confidence, serves as a beacon of empowerment for actors on the spectrum. We dive into conversations around self-belief and the thrill of seeing individuals exceed expectations, counteracting societal norms and prejudices. The charisma of Lexa, a performer and sister of an individual with autism, also graces our discussion, offering deeply personal insights into her experiences with the project.

We then cast our gaze on the representation of autism in media and entertainment, and the profound influence of the Autism Theater Project within this realm. Guided by Gena's experiences, we examine the unique teaching methods employed in drama classes for individuals with autism. We also uncover powerful tools for coaching individuals with dyslexia and non-speaking individuals, an area that reveals the potential of hidden genius. We conclude our dialogue with an invigorating talk with Jean, another key figure in the Autism Theater Project, shedding light on the project's impact in the community and opportunities for our listeners to contribute to its inspiring mission. Join us on this compelling journey to understand and celebrate the world of autism through the transformative power of theater.

Picture this - a toddler, still in his blooming cognitive years, meticulously taking apart a watch and putting it back together again, with precision that defies his age. Fascinating, right? We have that child, now Dr. Stephen Mark Shore, an accomplished Autistic Professor of Special Education at Adelphi University, sharing his extraordinary journey from his autism diagnosis to becoming a university professor and an author of several books on autism. 

As you step into this episode, you’ll be privy to Dr. Shore's personal anecdotes, offering a unique glimpse into his childhood, growing up autistic, and how his parents' refusal to institutionalize him led to his successful development and return of speech. What's more? Dr. Shore takes us further into his world, shedding light on his upcoming project with PBS Broadcasting and his insightful views on autism in society today. This episode is not just about understanding autism, it's about celebrating the strengths of every individual and recognizing their potential. Get ready for an episode packed with courage, determination, and a lot of heart.

Are you ready to unlock your full creative potential? Join us on the SJ Childs Show where we engage with a former advertising copywriter, multi-talented singer-songwriter, and seasoned Hollywood writer about the transformative power of awareness and acceptance in your creative pursuit. Expect to unpack strategies to overcome fear and self-doubt as we dissect his latest book 'The Book of Practice', a valuable guide for those seeking to make their mark in the world. We assure you, this is a conversation you wouldn't want to miss!

This episode offers a deep dive into understanding how recognizing your passions can set you on a path to success. We'll share practical strategies on how to manage your time, negotiate with others, and stimulate your creative juices through writing exercises. We'll also discuss the importance of self-love and acceptance and why focusing on the process rather than the outcome could be the game-changer you need in your creative journey. 

Lastly, we tackle the value of appreciation, goodwill, and the power of rewards in your creative journey. We'll share tips on self-motivation and how you can use rewards to drive your creative pursuits. Listen in as we discuss the importance of appreciating others' successes and investing in relationships. This episode is packed with insights and practical tips that can catapult your creative endeavors to the next level. Join us, and take that crucial step towards unlocking your creative potential today!

Ever wonder how much your menstrual cycle influences your daily life? Or how you can foster a healthier relationship with it? Today’s episode is a deep dive into the world of menstrual cycles with our guest, Elizabeth Tidwell, a menstrual cycle coach who is passionate about breaking taboos and providing enlightenment on the subject.

Elizabeth opens up about how her own understanding of her menstrual cycle has transformed her relationship with her husband and daughter. She discusses the days preceding her period, known as the 'void', and the significance self-care holds during this phase. With invaluable insights on hormonal patterns and the impact of sunlight, moonlight, and artificial light, this discussion will reshape your perception of your own cycle. We also touch on the concerning overprescription of birth control, shedding light on a less-discussed side of women’s health.

Closing the episode, Elizabeth emphasizes how comprehending our menstrual cycles can help us not only embrace our individuality, but also improve our relationships with partners and family. With her powerful insights into self-healing and self-care as well as a deep understanding of what our bodies need during our menstrual cycle, this episode is a treasure trove of self-discovery. So whether you're a mother, daughter, or simply a woman keen to understand more about your body, get ready for an enlightening conversation that is sure to leave you feeling empowered!

Unearthing transformative revelations from the LGBTQ community, my conversation with Dr. Joel Davis-Brown promises to reshape your notions of leadership. Learn how embracing unpredictability and self-leadership can redefine success, as we delve into Dr. Davis-Brown’s illuminating book on queer leadership. This is more than just a leadership guide, it's an invitation to amplify marginalized voices and harness their wisdom in our daily lives and decision-making.

Navigating the sensitive topic of supporting LGBTQ youth, we underline the significance of safe spaces and diverse role models during their coming-out phase. Imagine offering a buffet of options, minus the burden of expectations. How can this empower our youth? We share candid stories and offer insights on how education and understanding can cultivate an environment for such explorations. You might find that this fresh perspective not only aids the youth but also broadens our own horizons.

But the discovery doesn't stop here. We discuss the concept of mutual mentoring, fostering environments where LGBTQ youth can comfortably express their identity, and understanding our own expectations and boundaries. We take you on a journey of parenting, learning, and healing and the role we play in building global awareness. And to leave you with a hint of anticipation, Dr. Davis-Brown provides a sneak peek into his upcoming audiobook and his continued work in supporting LGBTQ youth and promoting queer leadership. Join us on this transformative journey, and let's change the world, one conversation at a time.

Do you ever wonder the secret to nurturing healthier relationships and building a stronger family? We got you covered. We were thrilled to host the dynamic duo, Dr Ray & Jean Kadkhodaian, co-founders of a renowned counseling clinic in Chicago, underscored the pivotal role parents play in molding resilience and self-confidence in their children. They introduced us to their revolutionary Couple Synergy Method which, coupled with the changing societal norms, offers a fresh perspective on the impact on couples, families, and the increasing isolation among children. 

As we navigated through the conversation, we touched on their tremendous Family Synergy Therapy model. Designed to foster a unified family front, this model also nurtures a secure environment for each child. We uncovered the importance of emotional intelligence, spiritual development, and the subtle art of effective communication within a family. Imagine a world where children are taught the golden rule, understand the difference between self-love and narcissistic tendencies, and are guided to take responsibility for their actions from a young age. Sounds utopian, right? 

The final leg of our conversation took an introspective turn as we discussed the concept of 'shadow self' and the need for a safe space, free from judgment. We encouraged parents to foster an environment where children can reveal their vulnerable sides. Our guests shared compelling insights on the significance of healthy expectations in relationships and the dangers of control versus healing. As we wrapped up, we pondered over the rigid structure of our education system, suggesting a need to explore beyond conventional teachings. The program ended on a high note, leaving us all with invaluable insights for nurturing healthier relationships and stronger families. If you've been seeking ways to improve your personal relationships and family dynamics, this episode promises to deliver.

Welcome to a heart-stirring episode of the SJ Childs Show, where we journey deep into the world of autism with our special guest, Katheryn Bermann. Katheryn, a fervent behavior therapist for special needs children, takes us on a tour of her personal and professional journey, amplifying the critical role of advocacy for future generations. So, ready to deepen your understanding of autism?

We shed light on the essentials of team-like atmospheres in educating neurodiverse individuals, as Katheryn candidly shares the trials and triumphs of homeschooling gifted children. From the power of pairing to the significance of social validity in shaping interventions, we traverse a wide spectrum of autism understanding. Katheryn exposes the underdiagnosed autism in females and breaks down the barriers of labels in accessing services. Tune in for a thought-provoking dialogue that heralds the strength and individuality of every neurodiverse child.

Ever wondered how dyslexia and dysgraphia could shape an individual's life? Join me as I have an engaging conversation with Michaell, a resilient spirit from Vienna, Austria who had to navigate the world with these learning disorders. We take you on a journey of his childhood, his struggles to fit into the societal norms, and his relentless spirit to overcome difficulties that dyslexia posed in his academic life. Michaell believes in embracing individual uniqueness and underscores the importance of acknowledging this inherent difference.

We dive into an enlightening discussion about the power of human dialogue and creativity. Michaell and I explore how the strength of human connection and openness can broaden our perspectives, fuel personal growth, and deepen understanding of ourselves and others. We touch upon the importance of embracing different situations and the role it plays in fostering understanding and creating a strong support network. We shed light on how personal experiences aid in self-discovery and how they can be a treasure trove of support for others.

In the later part of our conversation, we discuss the transformative power of awareness and the creative prowess of art. We contemplate the role of awareness in fostering understanding and connection, and how art can be a catalyst to open minds to new possibilities. Michael229l gives us a glimpse into his 30-second podcast and its role in brewing ideas. We wrap up our conversation discussing how knowledge can morph fear into understanding and how this comprehension can lay the foundation for a promising future for our children. Immerse yourself in this stimulating conversation and discover the profound wisdom hidden in nature and the world of art.

Ever navigated the intricate maze of single parenthood? Join us as we venture into the world of Mark Jacob Halberg, a devoted single father who shares his journey, his struggles, and his triumphs. He discusses the unique relationship he has built with his son, balancing fatherhood with a demanding career, and maintaining amicable co-parenting relationships.

One of the significant highlights of this episode is Mark’s candid talk about co-parenting. It's not a walk in the park, with communication challenges and the need to make joint decisions about their son's upbringing. Mark also reveals how he navigated the tough choice of choosing a good school for his son while juggling work demands and the potential need to relocate for better job opportunities. 

Lastly, Mark emphasizes the importance of self-care for parents. He shares his own experiences, encouraging parents to take time for themselves and the need to balance that with the attention that the child needs. His inspiring story offers valuable insights, advice, and hope to all single parents who are navigating similar challenges. Tune in for a conversation that will leave you empowered and inspired.

Imagine walking into a classroom where every child is learning in a way that suits them best. Would you want to know how to create such an environment? Join us as we sit down with Betsy Hill, a seasoned educator with a deep passion for neuroscience and education. We'll uncover the concept of neuroaffirming learning environments - designed to cater to different learning styles and foster resilience in children. Betsy shares her enlightening journey of being trained under the tutelage of Dr. Patricia Wolff, a pioneer in merging neuroscience and education. She brings to light the vital understanding that learning isn't just an intellectual process, but a biological one too.

Are you baffled by a child who struggles with reading or mathematics despite their best efforts? Before you dismiss it as laziness or inattentiveness, consider this - it might be down to their working memory. In the second part of our chat, we delve into the crucial role of working memory in a child's learning journey. Betsy offers invaluable insights into how it can affect a child's ability to learn and comprehend. But there's hope. She explains how parents and educators can help children strengthen this key cognitive skill, leading to improved academic performance. Through this episode, we aim to empower you with neuroscience-backed strategies to better support the young learners in your life.

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Have you ever wondered how it feels to navigate the world with a neurodiverse brain? In our latest podcast episode, we journey with Lauren, a resilient teacher living with autism, ADHD, and chronic PTSD. She takes us through her compelling journey, shedding light on how she unpacks her unique diagnosis while transitioning from an evangelical upbringing, all while working in an education system that is often ill-equipped to understand and support neurodiverse individuals.

Our conversation with Lauren is an eye-opening look at the realities of the education system. From her unique perspective, we delve into the escalating mental health crisis among youth and the particular challenges faced by minority populations. We emphasize the urgent need for more supportive environments for students with special needs, inspired by Lauren's approach of openness, honesty, and respect. Yet our discussion also makes it clear that the lack of resources and support doesn't just affect the students - it puts a significant strain on teachers too.

But beyond the challenges, Lauren's story is also about the power of connection and community. She shares how social media platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and Book have been instrumental in her journey of identity discovery, offering her a space to connect with others navigating similar experiences. So tune in, whether you're an educator, a parent, or someone exploring their own neurodiversity, there's a sense of community and understanding waiting for you in this episode.

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Ever wondered how a radiant star like Rachel Barcelona, diagnosed with autism at age three, found her passion in theatre and pageantry? Join me as I imbibe wisdom from a remarkable woman who chose not to be defined by societal norms but embraced her individuality, thus inspiring many. Rachel takes us through her journey, her experiences, and the challenges she faced that never deterred her from preserving her childlike spirit. Beyond her diagnosis and into the world of performing arts, she takes a stand for the unique and diverse, encouraging us to do the same. 

Get to know more about Rachel's upcoming events like Miss Rodeo and River Ranch or Rodeo, her incredible work in the children’s book with Archie Comics, and the recognition she received for her powerful performance in the movie, Mandy's Voice. Hear her discuss her advocacy for children with disabilities and how she uses social media to create a global impact. Rachel's story of resilience and determination is not just about her struggle and triumph. It’s about every child, every individual fighting their own battles, and coming out stronger. Now, isn't that a story worth listening to? Don't miss out on this enlightening and inspiring conversation. Follow along and let’s celebrate the beauty of individuality together with Rachel.

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Are you ready to turn your family vacations into unforgettable adventures, even when you're traveling with an autistic loved one? This episode might just be your golden ticket. We're chatting with the inspiring Dina Farmer, founder of Lillie and Magnolia travel, a unique agency that's dedicated to helping families with autistic members experience the magic of travel in a tailored and stress-free way. Dina opens up about her personal journey into the travel industry, sparked by her own experience as a parent of an autistic child. She shares how she transformed her business to meet the needs of families like hers, guiding them through the planning process for wildly popular destinations like cruises and theme parks.

Let's take a journey as we navigate through the world of Instagram where Dina utilizes her platform to share practical tips and advice, making traveling with an autistic family member not just possible, but enjoyable. This episode promises to shed light on the conversations that need to be had, from dietary requirements to coping mechanisms for airplane rides. Discover the most accommodating cruise ships and travel services that cater to families with special needs, turning a seemingly daunting task into a thrilling family adventure. Buckle up as we take a trip towards dispelling common misconceptions about traveling with autistic individuals and equipping you with the resources you need to plan your next family adventure. 

[Note: This is a mock-up podcast summary and the mentioned guest, Dina Farmer, is a fictional character. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.]

Imagine juggling college, a full-time job, and caring for three loved ones - your mother, your nephew, and your son. Now, imagine that your son is diagnosed with autism, and you dive headfirst into a world of unknowns, armed with determination and love. That's Danielle's story that we explore in today's episode. Danielle, a devoted mom and psychology student, shares her and her son Nicholas' journey, from the moment he was diagnosed with autism in 2001. Despite the hardships, she found resources, support, and a unique intelligence in Nicholas that she embraced and nurtured.

Nicholas, despite his autism diagnosis, showcases remarkable intellectual abilities. We delve into his achievements, like acing the Wexler adult intelligence scale at a young age, and how Danielle's approach to managing his deficits led her to the transformative effects of energy healing. Danielle's story underlines the power of resilience, innovation, and love in facing life's toughest challenges. 

Our discussion doesn’t end there. Danielle opens up about her experiences with innovative supplements and healing techniques that have positively impacted Nicholas' symptoms. We explore the world of Emotion code, body code, quantum clearings, and Root Wellness supplements. These methods not only helped balance Nicholas' serotonin levels but also became an essential part of their family's health regimen. We wrap up with Danielle's inspiring journey of balancing the gut-brain connection and managing sensory issues in her son. Tune in to this motivational and informative episode - a testament to a mother's love and strength.