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    The Strenuous Life Podcast with Stephan Kesting

    What is it that allows some people to push themselves beyond their limitations? Why can some people survive situations others do not? On this podcast we try to find out the answers. Stephan Kesting, is a lifelong martial artist, BJJ black belt, career firefighter, and outdoorsman. Join us as he talks to fighters, adventurers, competitors, coaches, firefighters, trainers and other people living the strenuous life. Stephan also runs Grapplearts.com, where he has published many hundreds of martial arts videos, articles and tutorials. His free guide to learning Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, A Roadmap for BJJ, has been downloaded more than 10,000 times and has become a foundational text for the art.
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    Episodes (400)

    340 - Why I'm Getting a Hip Replacement Tomorrow...

    340 - Why I'm Getting a Hip Replacement Tomorrow...

    After 4 decades of training Jiu-jitsu, MMA, Judo, Kajukenbo, Muay Thai, Karate and Kickboxing my right hip is worn out.  Here's how I became aware that it needed replacing, what the surgery is going to look like, and what I've done to prepare for it!

    I'll post updates about my post-surgical recovery on my podcast, my youtube channel and my Instagram.  

    And while I've got your attention, go grab my free PDF checklist of BJJ positions and techniques at https://www.grapplearts.com/book

    See you on the other side!

    Stephan

    339 - The Five Exercises All Grapplers Should Do Every Week

    339 - The Five Exercises All Grapplers Should Do Every Week

    Steph Gaudreau is a strength coach, nutritionist, podcaster, author and BJJ practitioner.  I was thrilled to have her on the podcast today to discuss the overlap between strength training and jiu-jitsu. I think you'll get a lot out of it!

    Check out https://www.stephgaudreau.com/ or follow her on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/steph_gaudreau/

    And while you're reading this... Check out The Grapplearts BJJ Master App for iOS and Android - there's a TON of great content on there that'll directly improve your game. https://www.grapplearts.com/masterapp

    Cheers!

    Stephan Kesting

    337 - Lessons from Competing in 25 Matches in 8 Divisions in 1 Tournament with Jeff Shaw

    337 - Lessons from Competing in 25 Matches in 8 Divisions in 1 Tournament with Jeff Shaw

    Jeff Shaw runs Bellingham BJJ and despite coming to jiu-jitsu late in life fell in love with competition and eventually competed 8 divisions in a single tournament with pretty good results. I particularly love his pre-match psych up routine which you'll learn all about in this episode!

    00:55 - 5 Minute Covid Checkin at Bellingham BJJ
    13:53 - Starting competitive jiu-jitsu at age 35
    17:34 - Should newcomers spar on day one?
    23:17 - Competition strategies and their applicability to self defense
    40:31 - The value of competing under different rulesets
    49:06 - What's a featherweight doing in the absolute division?
    54:23 - Training for jiu-jitsu
    58:05 - Jeff's pre-competition psych up
    1:00:55 - How to contact Jeff and Bellingham BJJ

     

    336 - Why Some People & Groups are More Prone to Conspiracy Theories, with Julian Walker from Conspirituality

    336 - Why Some People & Groups are More Prone to Conspiracy Theories, with Julian Walker from Conspirituality

    Julian Walker has researched, written, and podcasted about cults and gurus, spiritual bypass and quantum woo in New Age circles extensively.  He is also a cohost of the (amazing) Conspirituality Podcast.

    Today's episode is really important, and we discuss why certain groups (like BJJ, MMA and Yoga circles) are more into conspiracy theories (starting roughly at 4:46), the tendency for some people to make connections and see patterns where none exist (17:59), end of the world prophecies in conspiracy theories (48:08), and more.

    If you enjoyed this episode then please check out episode 291 with Derek Beres (https://www.grapplearts.com/cults-conspiracies-yoga-wellness-bjj-communities/), 297 with Mathew Remski (https://www.grapplearts.com/cults-prophecies-and-deprogramming-your-friend-with-matthew-remski/), and 325 with Ami Palmer (https://www.grapplearts.com/trust-propaganda-consipiracies/)

    And, as always, a review of this podcast on iTunes or Spotify would be SUPER appreciated

    Thanks

    Stephan Kesting

    335 - Rescuing People Trapped in Cults, Stephan Kesting with Joseph Szimhart

    335 - Rescuing People Trapped in Cults, Stephan Kesting with Joseph Szimhart

    In episode 335 of The Strenuous Life Podcast Stephan Kesting talks to cult expert, cult survivor and cult deprogrammer Joeseph Szimhart. We go into depth about QAnon, New Age cults, Theosophy, cult recruitment tactics, and people escape them. I think this is a fascinating and very topical conversation.

    Find out more about Joe at https://www.jszimhart.com/

    And if you enjoyed this episode then please, a rating or review within the podcast platform of your choice would be super appreciated!

    Thank you,

    Stephan Kesting

    334 - Ten Guru Warning Signs with Dr Dr Chris Kavanagh

    334 - Ten Guru Warning Signs with Dr Dr Chris Kavanagh

    Dr Dr Chris Kavanagh is an Oxford trained evolutionary & cognitive anthropologist who co-hosts the 'Decoding the Gurus' podcast with Mathew Browne. Together they tackle the secular gurus propagating their ideas, grievances, and conspiracies on the internet.

    In today's episode we look at the 10 factors that go into their 'gurometer', a highly scientific measure that takes the signature characteristics of gurus and uses advanced mathematics (simple addition) to determine how high up the guru scale they actually are.

    From Jordan Peterson, Russell Brand, Tony Robbins, JP Sears, to Brett and Eric Weinstein, we give lots of examples and pull no punches.  

    Here are the 10 characteristics we discuss in considerable detail...

    13:06 - Working definition of "guru"
    18:48 - Gurometer factor 1, Galaxy-brainness
    28:17 - Gurometer factor 2, Cultishness
    35:38 - Gurometer factor 3, Antidisestablishmentarianism
    53:03 - Gurometer factor 4, Grievance-mongering
    1:00:07 - Gurometer factor 5, Narcissism and self-aggrandisement
    1:31:07 - Gurometer factor 6, Cassandra-complex
    1:38:10 - Gurometer factor 7, Revolutionary theories
    1:43:31 - Gurometer factor 8 - Pseudo-profound bullshit
    1:50:43 - Gurometer factor 9 - Conspiracy mongering 
    1:54:15 - Gurometer factor 10 - Grifting or profiteering

    333 - Sometimes to Win the Fight You Have to Move the Fight

    333 - Sometimes to Win the Fight You Have to Move the Fight

    From the cheekiest triangle choke counter I've ever used to Khabib slamming the crap out of his opponents in the UFC, here's a short episode about the times you simply have to move the fight to a new location!  Hope you enjoy this, and if you do then a review or rating on the podcast platform of your choice would be super appreciated!

    Stephan

    332 - Trolling Anti-Vaxx Rallies, with Walter Masterson

    332 - Trolling Anti-Vaxx Rallies, with Walter Masterson

    Walter Masterson trolls anti-vaxx and pro-conspiracy rallies. He's brave, funny and insightful, and I was honored to have him as a guest on episode 332 of The Strenuous Life Podcast.

    Follow Walter on Youtube at https://www.youtube.com/user/waltermasterson

    On TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@waltermasterson

    On Twitter at https://twitter.com/waltermasterson

    On Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/waltermasterson/

    Cheers, Stephan Kesting

    331 - A Gameplan for the Closed Guard with Jon Thomas

    331 - A Gameplan for the Closed Guard with Jon Thomas

    Jon Thomas is a BJJ master strategician with an uncanny ability to connect grips, sweeps, submissions and positions together to create a seamless attack gameplan.  In this episode we do a deep dive into the closed guard position and I think your jiu-jitsu will definitely improve if you implement his training methods and organisational concepts.

    Check out The Closed Guard System in video format at https://www.grapplearts.com/closedguard

    330 - Beating BJJ Instructional Overwhelm, with Sonny Brown

    330 - Beating BJJ Instructional Overwhelm, with Sonny Brown
    How to learn from instructionals, avoid bad seminars, improve BJJ training methods, the Australian MMA scene, trends in grappling, and much more with the eloquent Sonny Brown from the Sonny Brown Breakdown!
     
    And check out the latest Grapplearts instructional on the Closed Guard at https://www.grapplearts.com/closedguard

    329 - How to Break into Stuntwork from Martial Arts with Steve Koepfer

    329 - How to Break into Stuntwork from Martial Arts with Steve Koepfer
    Steve Koepfer is a Master of Sport in Russian Sambo, and has translated his skills on the mat into a busy career as a stuntman appearing in the John Wick movies, Ray Donovan, The Blacklist, The Punisher and more.  In this conversation we go into depth about what doing stuntwork is really like, how fight scenes get choreographed, and Steve's best advice for people wanting to step into the industry.

    Check out Steve's school - NY Sambo - at ussambo.com and/or follow him on Instagram @sambosteve.
     
    Also check out The Strenuous Life Podcast episode 328 to find out more about training Sambo.
     
    Finally, a rating or a review in the podcast platform of your choice is always SUPER appreciated, so thank you if you've already done this!
     
    Cheers,
    Stephan Kesting

    328 - The Russians Are Coming - Combat Sambo, MMA and Jiu-Jitsu with Steve Koepfer

    328 - The Russians Are Coming - Combat Sambo, MMA and Jiu-Jitsu with Steve Koepfer

    Steve Koepfer is a Master of Sport of Russia in Combat Sambo and the head coach of New York Combat Sambo. In episode 328 we talk about the impending wave of combat sambo specialists coming to the UFC and other MMA events, the differences between training in Russia and North America, the prevalence of leglocks, and much more.  I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did!

    327 - A Revelation That's Helped Me Win More Than 10 Streetfights

    327 - A Revelation That's Helped Me Win More Than 10 Streetfights

    Here's a story about the first time I 'won' a streetfight when I realised that the other guy - an older, shabbily dressed, homeless man - was almost certainly mentally ill.

    A good streetfight is one that you walk away from or de-escalate, because even if you KO the other guy you could still lose (as I discussed in detail in this article here: https://selfdefensetutorials.com/death-after-the-knockout/)

    Be compassionate and be strategic my friends,

    Stephan

    P.S. Sign up for my email newsletter for free at https://www.grapplearts.com/newsletter.  I promise you'll get a TON of great training material in your email inbox!

    325 - Wrestling with Trust, Propaganda, and Conspiracies, with Ami Palmer

    325 - Wrestling with Trust, Propaganda, and Conspiracies, with Ami Palmer
    Ami Palmer is a wrestler, judoka, and an adjunct professor of philosophy at Ohio Northern University.  The topics he researches include how widespread conspiracism and science denialism affect democratic policy making. I was thrilled to have him on the podcast and I think it's a very important conversation!
     
    00:51 - Introduction
    02:17 - Wrestling, judo and philosophy
    11:15 - Why the BJJ community is so prone to conspiracy theories
    20:17 - When is it rational to defer to an expert, and how do you know who to defer to?
    32:22 - How do people discern claims from different experts
    34:53 - The Great Barrington declaration
    38:48 - Commonly used propaganda tools and how to recognise them
    48:34 - Brandolini's bullshit asymmetry principle
    57:15 - Conspiracies in social media
    1:03:19 - The university environment post Covid
    11:09:44 - Difference between vaccine refusers and vaccine hesitants
    1:11:28 - Training pods
    1:16:47 - How to get in touch with Ami

    324 - Evolutionary Theory and BJJ, with Brazilian Biologist Marcio Pie

    324 -  Evolutionary Theory and BJJ, with Brazilian Biologist Marcio Pie

    Today's conversation with Marcio Pie was a blend of two of my favorite topics: the science of biology and the science of BJJ.  Marcio is a professor of zoology at UFPR and practices Jiu-Jitsu in Curitiba, Paraná, Brazil

    01:17 - Introduction to evolution
    06:20 - Runaway selection
    09:44 - Jiu-Jitsu strategies
    14:28 - Evolutionary stable strategies
    18:09 - The prisoner's dilemma
    21:41 - Evolution applied in jiu-jitsu
    25:58 - Mathematical approach to the study of memes
    35:10 - How does evolution create complex things 
    38:46 - Religion and evolution
    44:23 - Denialists of fundamental science
    50:36 - Basic body types in jiu-jitsu
    59:30 - How to contact Marcio

    323 - The Limits of Human Endurance with Mike McCastle

    323 - The Limits of Human Endurance with Mike McCastle

    Mike McCastle set a new world record on Jan 23, 2021, immersing himself in ice for 2 hours and 40 minutes and surviving! He joined me on Episode 323 of The Strenuous Life Podcast to talk about this absolutely insane challenge including

    • The physical preparation and mental strength required to it off,
    • The limits of the human body,
    • Tummo (inner fire) breathing and visualisation,
    • How 'normal' people can use his principles to challenge themselves,
    • How his father's struggle with Parkinson's motivates him to persist in his 12 Labors project,
    • And much more!

    I'm SURE you're going to love this episode!

    Follow Mike on Instagram @mikemccastle

    For more Mike McCastle also check out our "Pain is a Universal Language" conversation, episode 240 of The Strenuous Life Podcast, also available on Youtube here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuYR_wHqW9w

    322 - Epidemiology 101, with Colin Furness

    322 - Epidemiology 101, with Colin Furness

    What exactly is herd immunity? How can we be sure that the vaccine companies aren't lying to us?  What is this 'R0' value and why does it matter? What are the proven methods to stop outbreaks?  Are what are the reasons for hope? These are just some of the topics I cover on today's podcast with Colin Furness, PhD, a epidemiologist at the Institute of Health Policy, Management and Evaluation, University of Toronto. 

    Given the amount of deliberate disinformation and malicious misinformation going around please, please, please share this episode with someone who's on the fence about who to believe during the pandemic.

    Follow Colin on Twitter at https://twitter.com/FurnessColin

    321 - Improving on Outdated BJJ Training Methods with Priit Mihkelson

    321 - Improving on Outdated BJJ Training Methods with Priit Mihkelson
    Priit is a renowned BJJ black belt who has taught his style of defensive jiu-jitsu to thousands of people through his classes, seminars and instructionals.  He is known for his unusual approach to teaching jiu-jitsu and is famous for structuring classes in such a way so that people come away from them with the techniques and concepts they can actually use right away.  In addition we covered the topic of false positives in jiu-jitsu, programming a long term curriculum, and much more.
     
    Find out more about Priit on Instagram at@jitsvulcan on his site https://www.defensivebjj.com/
     
    And if you liked this episode then a rating or a review on the podcast platform of your choice would be INSANELY useful!
     
    Thanks so much
    Stephan Kesting
     
    P.S.  On a tangential topic, check out the upcoming Grapplearts instructional "The Arm Drag and 2 on 1 Formula" at https://www.grapplearts.com/armdrag