Crisis will make or break us. I was evacuated from the inferno of the California wildfires. When the evacuation order sounded, I froze.  This time having learned from that experience, and since then,  trained rigorously for high level mental performance, I did NOT freeze. I was ready!

However, I had no REAL idea how ready I was, until I was faced with the IRL ordeal. 

Night and day difference of how I was able to deal with this mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially. Everything lined up better than I could have ever foreseen. The more I trusted the process and overrid my fears, the more confident and resilient I felt. The more miraculously the evacuation process flowed with ease and synchronicity. 

Another test of my inner fortitude. This was yet again, another necessary wake up call that put my whole life into a far greater perspective. What I got out of this experience is beyond priceless....

#KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #WhatReallyMatters #MindOverMatter #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #LessonsLearned #NoTrauma #NoDrama 

Over "Doing" is a cover up and mask for underlying emotional pain, predominantly UNconscious fear of feeling insecure and not good enough.  

My client, Kris and I talk about why this happens and how to stop it!  Human beings are automatically taught to DO more than feel in order to survive through life.

Simply put, we are taught to do more to have more to be happy and fulfilled.

This is completely wrong! Actually, counterproductive. I lived this way, and it NEVER worked, nor was it ever close to sustainable.

It's counter intuitive, and I've learned by experience that the fastest, freest funest way to live the life of our DREAMS is to feel happy and fulfilled first. This makes do-ing feel virtually effortless and materializing the results becomes inevitable. 

#EmpoweringYouThroughUs #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU 

Wrapping up this episode takes us down more roads of wisdom into the Counter-Intuitive ways of getting what we want in the year ahead. Achieving goals. Forward projections. Future intentions. Progress. Results. Desires. Dreams.

The direct streamline route is living in the Right Here Right NOW. Being in the present moment based on our powerful perceptions that fuel our emotions that drive our actions!!!!!!!!!!

Are you functioning from REaction or PROaction? Big difference. 

Managing your emotions or are they managing YOU? 

Are you forcing growth or growing freely? Working harder or smarter? 

Ease and effortlessness is sourced from the inner-workings of the brain, heart and mind. Collaboratiing, NOT conflicting!

Happy New YOU! Happy NEW Life! 

Whoopsy :-O So sorry, we dropped off because I didn't plug in my computer ~ LOL! I quickly recap with the benefits of deeply understanding our Sense of Self.  

Kris had to go, but he'll be back for Part 3.

A NEW year requires a new YOU by mentally and emotionally creating new perceptions. A fresh, mostly contradictory, perspective is the key living a transformative life! I'm referring to radically changing form, nature and character to an unrecognizable state.  Simply put, a caterpillar becoming a butterfly. 

As a recovering over-achiever, a new year brings stress and overwhelm in my thoughts of what's next? What am I doing? Where am I going? Now what? Then I get triggered into, "I can't stand the 'same old same old'" So, while others are gearing up to celebrate, I'm energetically bogged down by my grim outlook. 

My incredible client and guest, Kris and I delve into this for greater insights, empowerment and inspiration.  The most profoundly passionate way to grow your future is to grow your PRESENT.... truly an invaluable GIFT. True wealth is having what you desire most in all areas of life! 

Eternal thanks Kris for joining me to help ring in a New Year of MIRACUOUS health, success and DREAMs come true!!!!

"To each his (your) own," as the saying goes! Sharing my expereinces and thoughts on the pros & cons of my personal experience with conventional therapy. And, how it has directly and indirectly influenced not only my coahing methods, but my life. 

Every human being can benefit from "Therapy." I highly recomment it! And then, there is taking Self-Development to a whole NEW level, and the coaching I practice, teach and preach "Blew My MInd." It connected me to mySELF, and to all Human Beings in ways I never thought possible! 

This may sound weird, but since early childhood, I could never understand the meaning of life, and was not a fan of being human, nor liking other human beings ~ LOL!! True story. 

All I can say, is that I woke up and now "Get it," because I get ME. This transformed my whole world in the realm of what it is to BE human, and the value of "Getting" all other humans for all that we are, and more importanly, for all that we are NOT. With no judgement. Just acceptance.

Happy Humans Happy World

My deepest thanks to Kris K for joining me for this episode. His remarkably radical growth, progress and results speak for themselves. The evidence doesn't lie ;-) I'm truly honored to be his coach, and teach through not only knowledge, but by experience, which makes the REAL difference! Kris, thanks for being A BRILLIANT LIGHT.

Our brain tricks us to think and believe that when we have NO money or NOT enough money, then we are at the effect of our circumstances. This causes a downward spiral of disempowerment, and we now create a "Poor Mindset." This becomes a hidden perceptive filter that blindly gets in the way of every aspect of life. From how we feel about our Inner-SELF, to how we feel about everyone and everything to some degree or another.

Bottom line: There is no room for CONSCIOUS growth, enlightenment and wisdom. Therefore, there is NO room for Self-Trust, Self-Belief, Self-LOVE or Self-Worth. We then UNconsciously stop ourselves from growing money. And, most importantly, a happy, healthy, wealthy dream-filled life!

Best wake up call ever!!!! F.E.A.R. = Face Everything And Rise

Confront having little to no money, and start seeking inward, NOT outward, if you desire Sustainable Internal & External Riches!

Tired of having to do things, rather than wanting to do things? If you are human then you can relate to this! It's all about the choices and decisions you make consciously and UNCONSCIOUSLY. Case & Point: Marilyn admits that she doesn't want to spend time and care for her husband, who is suffering from dementia, after decades of marriage. WTF?

It's NOT about her husband or her marriage, it's about subconscious REBELLION stemming from early childhood causing emotional blindspots. This undetectible resentment causes Marilyn to unintentionally avoid and escape the uneasiness hidden by, what I call, "almost justifiable excuses." IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT FEELING FREE FROM MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL IMPRISONMENT.

It's never obvious, and only shows up as irritability, frustration, anxienty, distraction, anger, short-temperedness, indifference, inability to commit and effectively meet obligations, lack of joy, happiness and gratitude. The list is just too long, but simply put, it hinders, blocks and stops us from faithfully being, doing and getting what we truly WANT.

"I hate it when you're right, Karen," Marilyn blurts out when I call her out on what she is unwilling to confront, only because she can't see the real saboteur, "HerSELF."

If she truly wants to be happy, healthy and harmoniously married while continuing to build her dreams in life, then she must learn how to recognize the negative symptoms and reconnect to the positive aspects of taking responsiblity for the life she wishes to create. And, most importantly, emotionally connect to the fun, freedom, benefits and fulfilling rewards of stopping the cycle of SELF-SABOTAGE.

Immediately following our podcast recording, with beaming energy, Marilyn texts, "I got a lot! And, you are brilliant as always." Her paradigm shift was exponentially obvious.

Topics:

• Digging Deep to Get to the Core Root Problem
• Stop Avoiding & Escaping the REAL Issue
• Overridding Should & Have To Create What You Want & Desire
• Recommintting to Your Responsibilty of Marriage (Romantic Relationship)
• How to Turn Obligation Back Into Passion!

#KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #ThePowerOfSelfEvolution #ConsciousnessEvolution #SelfFreedom #MentalEmotionalFREEDOM #LoveYourDreamLife

All humans, whether consciously or UNconsciously possess an inherent need to be "Significant." However, significance is subjective and means so many different things to each and everyone of us. It's illusive, simple because it's a matter of perspective and opinion. So, it really comes down to feeling a "Sense of Significance," from within. 

This stems from early childhood. #ChildhoodMatters 

My client, Kris K and I dig deeper into this topic to help others start to understand why we FEAR being INSIGNIFICANT. And how to tackle this fear to gain an empowering perspective that creates a sensation of SIGNIFICANCE, without the material world.

Regardless of circumstances and negative thoughts and emotions, you and your life matter. You don't need to prove anything to anyone, including yourself. You just need to learn and practice how to love, trust, and accept yourself for who YOU truly are, without a shadow of doubt.

#EmpoweringYouThroughUs

*Note: So sorry, I messed up! Somehow I didn't record Kris's audio, so you can only hear me, and was just made aware of this by the brilliant Kris, himself!! #LessonLearned with my production skills, which clearly need improvement. #GameOn

When it comes to progress the human brain fears the lack thereof. The last thing we want to do is scale back in order to scale up. Who in their right mind wants to go backwards, especially when huge progress has been made.  By nature we do not want to feel like we are losing momentum and progression. We fear feeling stuck, especially feeling like we're losing traction. 

Kris opens up about having to go through this as he steps into greater endeavors as an entrepreneur. #StepByStep

A SuperHuman mindset requires being willing to go back to the fundamentals. Almost in essence, feeling like we're starting over. We must also be willing to let go of all expectations. This is so counter-intuitive simple because it feels counter-productive. 

However, it's not. Once we understand what's really going on underneath the fears. The key is to comprehend how our brain tricks us to believe we are losing, when in actuality we end up resetting in preparation to win---bigger, better, brighter!!!!! #MindOverMatter

I offer more in depth wisdom on this topic because the human mind tricks us into believing that getting more, making more, having more, more, more means we are MORE. More important, more worthy, more popular, more valuable, more respected, etc. This is an insidious lie that when taken too far becomes our greatest weakness, which feeds right back into perpetuating a volatile cycle of SELF-Sabotage. Learn how to stop it through the power of your mind & heart!

"Watch out for what you wish for!" It's one thing to want something. It's another whole thing to get it, and then have to deal with the the things you didn't EXPECT?!! With great success comes even greater responsibilities, and more obligations. The illusion is that once we actually get what we want, life will be easier and all of our problems will be solved.  So, NOT true!

"Without darkness, there is no light." There is good & bad, positive & negative to every situation.  Pick the side of more pros than cons. #MajorityRules 

Your conscious mind makes up a wish. This is the easy part. Unfortunately, the sub conscious, but mostly the UNconscious mind UNknowingly sabotages that wish from materializing because of the "BLIND Siding Effect." This is the phenomenon where UNcosncious fear stemming back from past experiences of failure unknowingly get in our way when we venture out into new and UNfamiliar territory. Like starting a new business from scratch!   

Warren Buffett's Best Investment Advice: YOU are Your BEST Asset ~ #BankOnYOU

Kris and I discuss how to build and maintain belief and trust in yourSELF when you don't see or have any evidence of results, money, profits, etc. #InvestInYOU 

This requires looking backwards into your past to look for the proof to prove yourself WRONG. Meaning, there is actually real evidence from past successful experiences that reminds you of those times that instilling FAITH paid off big time!

My definition of #BlindFaith is not only believing with NO evidence, but BELIEVING when the evidence stacks against you and what you're trying to achieve. Kris shares the perfect example of real estate deals falling out the day of closing..... #BelieveBeforeSeeing

The human mind can be a bit devious, simply because of the subconscious mind's ability to imagine the worst case scenario, not the best!!!! Transformative Consciousness counteracts this.

Happy healthy money follows who you ARE, not what you Do!

Kris, "Right now it seems like I can spit into the wind and it turns to gold!" 

Tracking thoughts, perspectives, moods, attitudes, emotions that cause breakdown to breakthrough performance and results! 

MONEY mysteriously triggers the most mythical belief systems that cause UNconsious self-deficits that unknowingly perpetuate a cycle of self-sabotage mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, relationally, romanically and financially. Therefore, it's impossible to live a sustainably happy, healthy, wealthy DREAM-filled life. It's time to start solving these mysteries of the mind and begin to court a brand new relationship with and to MONEY, honey!!!!!!! #KarenLoveLee

Death, whether metaphorically or physically, is inevitable. A very poignant subject as my father just past away last month. Yet, death comes in all different forms, from the end of a season, to a relationship breaking up, to losing a beloved pet, to losing a championship, to losing my favorite car in a near-fatal accident.... #NecessaryLosses

My client co-host, Kris and I discuss the powerful enlightment and wisdom to be gained by digging deeper and understanding what lies beneath the surface of loss. There are always  blessings in disguise on the otherside, as long as we stay open to believing in them as we allow ourselves to honor our feelings.

Too many commitments? Great intentions, yet overwhelmed? Problem saying, "No Thanks"? Not willing to let go of something or someone, to make room for a new opportunity or new relationship? 

Kris brings up this great topic because ambitious humans have ambitious commitments to abide by, necessary to excel! Following through and fulfilling upon commitments in a powerfully happy and healthy manner require high levels of conscious awareness.

Meaning, when we take on more than we can actually keep up with---stop and examine our inner-motivation, or lack thereof. Better yet, look for the un/subconscious fear-drivers that cause self-sabotaging cycles that we could not see otherwise! #ConsciousnessMatters 

Case and point, "If commitments are broken this is a clear indicator that the underlying self-motivation was driven more by pain than pleasure." ~ #KarenLoveLee

Just letting ya'll in on where I've been and why I'm back, baby!!!! Also, if you could get just one "Do Over" in your life, what would it BE?

Thoughts/Perceptions=Emotions/Feelings=ProAction/NoAction

We can only heal what we feel! But, what if "I don't KNOW what I feel?" My EXTRAordinary, long term client, Kris and I talk about the "F" word, "FEELINGS"!!!! And, why they matter more than anything else when it comes to a radically FULFILLING, FUN, FREE, Financially prosperous life.

Bottom line, "Mastering your ability to honor and respect your deeply-rooted feelings, produces the Fastest results with the least eFFort." ~ #KarenLoveLee

Integrating the #BrainMindConnection sets us straight into a forward trajectory to our highest potential and endeavors. Listen, as I help my long term client, Kris #CourseCorrect out of a poor mindset right back into a rich, highly productive one. And, it’s NOT what you think!!!!

Kris is UNconsciously caught up in the lie that his results define and validate his worth. His material world, especially MONEY dictates his moods and self-image. In short, his external conditions are the only way he has known to have a false Sense of Self. Logically this makes absolutely no sense, simply because he is reinforcing that he is only as good or bad as his next dollar. This is a trap based on his mind playing tricks on him. 

I know because I lived this way most of my life and it nearly killed me. Basic brain function ruled by invisible fear works against us, when we want to go beyond just survival to achieve greater, more meaningful objectives and DREAMS. I was living life unconsciously by default, which was not only wickedly UNsustainable, but severely pointless. Training to reverse engineer this, is and always will be the PINNACLE #GameChanger - #BarNone

Kris is blindly basing what he values and what’s important to him on his past subconscious limited belief systems. Why? Because he can’t see the root cause of his subjective perceptions. By understanding how our brain computes information and distorts our reality, we can exponentially elevate our Mindset to achieve more with less effort, all the while feeling free and happy!  

#KarenLoveLee #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #KarenLovLeeEmpowersYOU