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    Ultimate Issues is dedicated to wrestling with the major issues, challenges, dilemmas, and philosophical quandaries people face. From big, societal, macro issues like morality, to smaller, personal, micro issues such as honest; the Ultimate Issues podcast is here to engage in meaningful and thought provoking talk. Ultimate Issues is also here to encourage and inspire while fully engaging in the truth. Listen as Ultimate Issues' host, Dr. Roman Footnick, mindfully and strategically works through the major issues in life.
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    UI 077: Visions of the Anointed: Dehumanization & Globalization

    UI 077: Visions of the Anointed: Dehumanization & Globalization

    eye-491625_1280We are approaching a tipping point in our world.   A very patient and tireless crowd (ie. the "elites") has influenced the masses into being lulled to believe what the media reports is truth, what the experts say is irrefutable, and what celebrities say is significant and important.  While our society maybe very literate compared to our recent past, it makes no difference because they lack the ability to gain wisdom, knowledge, and understanding.  Many read what they are told to think.  How many people are waiting to form an opinion until after someone else does?  This is why the "polls" are so important.  Not because they influence policy, but because they influence the masses into believing the policies are just and/or necessary.

    Human beings have free will.  And part of that will is found in our ability to think for ourselves, and make our own logical decisions based on evidence and wisdom.  But the anointed ones have been doing a good job of destroying that ability.

    Human beings are to be judge by their behavior.  Their behavior is largely influenced by their values and beliefs.  But the anointed ones want us to believe otherwise.

    Human beings are neither intrinsically good, nor evil.  In general we are intermediaries battling between our inclinations to do good or evil (this goes back to free will.)  Conversely the anointed ones are convinced people are basically good, and no person is evil (rather they are "sick", "crazy", "deranged", "disenfranchised").  Actually to make matters worse, they have doubled down on their efforts to convince us that people are "good", and "evil" ones don't really exist.  The anointed ones preach moral relativism.  Nothing is intrinsically good or bad, its all just a construct from our opinions and paradigms.  Who are you to judge?  One man's terrorist is another man's freedom fighter, right?

    Human beings are to be free to choose the lifestyle and culture that they feel is best, and live with the consequences of their actions.  Their are significant differences in cultures and lifestyles, but not in race.  The anointed ones have determined the opposite.  Gender is mutable, race is not.  Sexuality is fluid, ethnicity is not.

    Human being are free to decide whether or not they are a victim.  We are free to decide whether or not we take offense.  But the anointed ones peddle victimization and offensiveness to suit their agendas.

    And this leads us to the anointed ones desire to have us submit to their rule and live strictly by their opinions.  In Dennis Prager's book "Still the Best Hope", he lays out that there are three competing ideologies for world domination.  One is Leftism. Another is Islamism.  And the third is Americanism.

    Of these three choices only Americanism relinquishes power to the people... allowing them to be full human beings.

    Leftism necessary demands a LARGE secular government, which necessarily means smaller citizens subject to the rule of the few anointed ones, and is by all means dehumanizing.

    Islamism also necessarily demands a LARGE religious government, where all are subject to Sharia law and again individuality and liberty are destroyed and people are dehumanized.

    Americanism (Liberty, "In God We Trust", and "E Pluribus Unum") is still the best for mankind.  It is the only option that allows us to remain liberated humans and free to rule ourselves.

    Leftism and Islamism dehumanizes the individual into race, class, or creed.  But Americanism leaves us to be judges solely on the merits of our behavior.

    Leftism and Islamism seek to erase borders so we become live under a one world governance (global totalitarianism).  On the other hand Americanism values holds that each should govern themselves, and we will help to liberate a people but not dominate or rule them.  Each state and country becomes its own social experiment free to do as they wish (so long as its ethical), and each shall reap what they sow.

    That Leftism is so dominant amongst American youth is mind boggling.  The university system has done an amazing job creating useful idiots.

    And Islamists have done a fantastic job of instilling fear and terror so that people submit or at least remain silent as they further destroy the middle east and currently infiltrate Western Europe.

    We must stand and fight and not be silent.

    Silence is agreement.

    There is no savior in the form of a politician.

    Think for yourself.

    Don't believe the hype and hysteria regarding prophetic crises, and their prophetic solutions.

    More often than not neither the problems nor their solutions are not as complex as the anointed make them out to be.

    Use your common sense and wisdom gained from past experiences to make intelligent decisions.

    Own your decisions and don't rely on anyone to fix your problems.

     

     

     

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    enOctober 02, 2015

    UI 076: God and His 13 Attributes

    UI 076: God and His 13 Attributes

    art-painting-285919_1280This week is a podcast featuring a class I recently taught on the book of Exodus.  In this particular class we focused on Exodus 33:21 -34:7.

    Exodus 33 (NIV)

    21Then the Lord said, “There is a place near me where you may stand on a rock. 22When my glory passes by, I will put you in a cleft in the rock and cover you with my hand until I have passed by. 23Then I will remove my hand and you will see my back; but my face must not be seen.”

    Exodus 34

    1The Lord said to Moses, “Chisel out two stone tablets like the first ones, and I will write on them the words that were on the first tablets, which you broke. 2Be ready in the morning, and then come up on Mount Sinai. Present yourself to me there on top of the mountain. 3No one is to come with you or be seen anywhere on the mountain; not even the flocks and herds may graze in front of the mountain.”

    4So Moses chiseled out two stone tablets like the first ones and went up Mount Sinai early in the morning, as theLord had commanded him; and he carried the two stone tablets in his hands. 5Then the Lord came down in the cloud and stood there with him and proclaimed his name, the Lord6And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, “The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness,7maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation.”

    In these short verses many important issues were raised:

    • Anthropomorphism of God
      • God's "face/faces"- panim
      • God's hand
    • Life, Death, and Not living
    • Miracles
    • Behavior/Actions VS. Feelings/Intent
    • Creation of the second set of Tablets
    • Is God good?
      • How do we know?
      • What does it mean?
    • How does God describe Himself?
      • 13 Attributes
    • Compassion VS. Truth
    • Must children suffer the sins of their parents?
      • Macro
      • Micro
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    enSeptember 09, 2015

    UI 075: Get your life straight. Reprioritizing and Refocusing to Reach Your Desired Destination

    UI 075: Get your life straight.  Reprioritizing and Refocusing to Reach Your Desired Destination

    road-564492_1280Have you ever had to take a step back from your life and look at where you are and where you are going?

    I've been going through some of that, and so I decided to share that with you on this week's podcast.

    Sometimes we discover we are not where we'd like to be, or who we'd like to be, or perhaps how we'd like to be.  We take an honest look out ourselves and are displeased with the current outcome and impending consequences should we not change.

    I've been critiquing my life and behaviors, and have had to reprioritize several key areas of my life.  One has been doing the podcasting.  It was put on the back burner, while more important things were put on the front burners.  And that is what needs to happen in life.

    It is a good thing for a person to step back and look at where they are in their road map of life.  But knowing where you are is not enough.  You also need to know the direction you are heading.  But that is not enough either.  What is really important is knowing the destination that direction will eventually lead you to.  Do you want to go there?  Or are you just going with the flow?  Or maybe you just don't know where you'd like to land?

    All of us have boarded the plane of life, but how many are consciously determining our destinations and arrival times.  We do it when we plan vacations, so why don't more people do it for their everyday life... Thinking and planning 1 year, 3 years, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, 50 years ahead?

    Well, for me I realized I need to make some course corrections or else I would be heading towards a destination (aka destiny) I did not want.

    So, I've had to shift my focus and reprioritize my life.  I've changed many small, daily life details, so that over time my big life's goals will be accomplished.  I've made a course correction, and my hope is that this podcast will help you do the same should you realize that there are things in your life that you need to change as well.

    Unfortunately, there is much of life which is not in our control.  But fortunately,  there are three things about ourselves we can learn to control... Our Thoughts, Speech, and Actions.  These three things are the rudders for our ship, and can help us change course despite what life throws at us.  Utilize them as best you can, and they will steer you toward your better life.

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    enMarch 10, 2015

    UI 074: 3 Lessons For Starting Over

    UI 074: 3 Lessons For Starting Over

    street-368719_640Sometimes I talk about ultimate issues in the big, global, macro arena and other times it's a small, personal, micro subject.  This week's topic, while a big deal, is more of a micro, personal subject.

    The Issue is about  Starting Over...

    Too often people quit before they ever start... and that is definitely a problem (you can check out my very first podcast for more on that subject.)

    This time lets look at what happens when we start a project or hobby or some life experience, then for whatever reason we stop, and then we realize we need to start again.

    I've done this more times than I care to admit.  Part of my challenge is that I find so many things fascinating and I get super motivated by the obstacles they present.  But then over time, bloom is off that rose and I might get bored or might just find something new to tackle.

    Here's a short list of some things I've started but haven't fully followed through on:

    - Numerous ".com" businesses

    - Herbal line of products

    - Patented exercise equipment

    - iPhone App

    - Training videos

    Really the list goes on and on.

    But believe it, or not, the one thing that I most regret stopping after I had started was bodybuilding.

    I had been bodybuilding since I was a tiny 13 year old.  I was short, skinny, and weak.  I figured that since I could change my height, I should focus only on changing what I can... my physique and strength.  So I started seriously training around 12 or 13 years old. I was not even 5 feet tall or more than 100 pounds at the time.  I was the stereotypical puny kid.

    Then I grew.  By the time I was 18 years old I had won the Texas Teenage title for bodybuilding and was successfully competing in powerlifting as well.  For six years I had been working out daily, eating 5 - 6 meals a day, and abstaining from a lot of the partying other kids were into.

    After competing nationally, moving to Venice, CA, and fully embibing the bodybuilding professional world I became disenchanted.  Nothing was as it seems.  Very few people were making any money.  Because of that, there was a dark side to bodybuilding that I was unaware of, and I'm not just talking about the drugs.

    So at the ripe old age of 21, I quit bodybuilding and focused my life on martial arts alone.  Obviously I martial arts helped my stay fit and disciplined.  But in time, I was itching to start lifting again.  So I tried to make a comeback.  After I married my first wife I started training hard again, and was looking to get big and strong again.  I was done with bodybuilding, but I thought I could just focus on powerlifting.

    And here is lesson one:

    You can never step in the same river twice.

    Training when I was 16 was nothing like training at 26.  I had already accumulated injuries and now some of the abuse was coming back to haunt me.  My body and my ability to recover were not as great as they used to be.  Also, my life was filled with adult obligations I just didn't have when I was so young.  When you are young it is rather easy to be selfish.  I don't advise that when you get older, and definitely not once you are married.  The truth is that there is a degree of selfishness that is required if you want to be a competitive athlete in general.

    So this come back led to what others had predicted... a bad injury.  First, I tore my hamstring pretty bad. But I kept training.  Then, not to long after I recovered from that injury... I tore my pec, and that was really bad.  Having no insurance at the time, I did not even attempt to get it looked at for surgery.  Instead, I just stopped training seriously.  I would resolve myself to martial arts and body weight exercises.

    Now I'm around 40 and realizing my body and my health are no longer in maintenance mode.  No, instead my body has been feeling aged, and I had fat around my mid-section I had never experienced before.  Even worse... everything hurts.   I have been feeling like I was  physically falling apart.  Even though I am getting older, I don't believe that necessarily means my body must degrade and wither away.

    So, I'm fighting back and starting over.

    But this time I am trying to go at it in a much wiser manner than ever before.

    Lesson two:

    Kill your ego. Nobody else cares anyway.

    When I tried to comeback last time, my ego was driving the bus.  And my ego drove me right into a wall.  Now, I know I need to do this is in a very different way.  NO EGO.  Just improvement.  Just discipline.  Just persistence.  I am not special, and I don't need to be the biggest or strongest guy in the gym.  Besides nobody else cared about all that anyway.  Now it's simple.  I just love training, and hate feeling like hammered crap.  The better I train the better I feel.  The less I train the worse I feel.

    Lesson three:

    Learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them.

    For me this means no powerlifting. It also means no lifting heavy in general.  Those two things were the source of most of my injuries.  So for me, they are out.  I have changed my perspective to understand I am not a "weightlifter".  The benefits I am looking for are not going to be found in moving more pounds up and down.  No, I need to concentrate on my body and muscles working properly in any given exercise and getting the most from myself everyday.  Again it's simple.  Train correctly and wisely so the body will benefit.  Nothing else matters.

    Bonus lesson:

    When starting over, get back to the basics and keep it simple.

    I've learned a lot since I initially started this journey nearly 30 years ago.  I have gained experience and education in health, fitness, physiology, and philosophy.  But here's the thing... All I need to do is what I first was taught by Vince Gironda back when I was just a 13 year old at Vince's Gym.  Vince taught me pure bodybuilding.  It was based on hard work, incredible form, consistent training, and tenacious dieting.  That's it in a nutshell.  All the fads and new tech stuff or supplements aren't that important.  What is important is your work ethic, discipline, and tenacity.  

    Photograph of Vince Gironda (November 9, 1917 - October 18,1997)
    Photograph of Vince Gironda (November 9, 1917 - October 18,1997)

    In working with all the incredible people I've trained (from pro athletes to celebrities to housewives to senior citizens) there is one thing in particular that I have realized:

    What People are Capable of Doing is Amazing.  It's What They Are WILLING To Do that Makes the Difference.

    Have you quit something you'd like to get back to?

    Are you willing to start over?

    Have you already started over?

    What have you learned?

    How is it different this time?

    I'm sincerely curious.  Let me know...

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    enOctober 30, 2014

    UI 073: Why Be Happy?

    UI 073: Why Be Happy?

    happy-465293_640Since we are celebrating Sukkot, and Sukkot (Feast of Tabernacles or Festival of Booths) is supposed to be JOYOUS.  I figure I should do a show on happiness.  After all, God commands us to be happy for Sukkot so it must be an ultimate issue. But first, some questions.

    Why should we be happy?  Should we be happy?  What does it really mean to "be happy"?

    If you truly are happy, GREAT!  Seriously, good for you.  For the rest of us who have good times and bad, good moods and bad, and don't walk around everyday of our life feeling happy... we should still act happy.

    Regardless of how you feel, or what your inner being feels, or what life has thrown at you - In general we should ACT happy around others.  As Dennis Prager says we have a "moral obligation to act happy."

    Why?  Well rather than trying to explain myself, I'll let Dennis speak for Dennis.

     

    And now let's go over some obstacles to happiness

    First... Expectations.

    I believe expectations are the key to unlocking life's disappointments.    I learned from Buddhism about the 4 noble truths and the 8 fold path.  These deal with suffering and how to end suffering.  After studying the Buddhist philosophy I came away with one thing in particular: Have no expectations.

    You can have standards and rules for yourself and others, but expectations is where things go array and are the source of tremendous displeasure and suffering.  Letting go of expectations requires a change in thinking and life philosophy that may be difficult for many.  But I think it is necessary for a happier life.

    Thankfully, I had very few expectations anyway so ridding myself of expectations in general was not that big of a deal.  But still, it helped me relax and enjoy life in a way I could not have imagined before.

    Take a look at your own expectations and how they have either served you or not, and examine the expectations of others and how that effect them and their level of happiness.  When you find yourself developing an expectation, it may help to remind yourself that ultimately you have little to no control over what happens in much your life.  The main thing you can control is how you deal with life.

    Second... Stop Comparing.

    A lot of people get caught up in comparing their lot in life with someone else's.  This is a terribly destructive habit.  It's bad for you and it's bad for the person you are comparing yourself with.  First of all, you have no idea about what is really going on in someones life or in their head.  You only see what is apparent to you, and you see solely from your own perspective.  You are missing sooooooo much.

    That person who seems to have a great marriage, with great kids, and a great income might be miserable because of some inner "demons" that torment him constantly.  Growing up in Hollywood I found it amazing how often some talent who was just mentioned as having it so great by someone else,  committed suicide.  You never know what is really going on in someone else's life.  Do NOT assume the grass is greener for his life than yours.

    Third... Missing Tile Syndrome

    Another Prager U video:

    I have a lot more to say on happiness, and how important it is for us to cultivate in our own lives.  I hope to revisit this topic again soon.  As Prager titled his book, Happiness is a Serious Problem, and we have a moral obligation to act happy.  Why?

    Because happy people make the world better and unhappy people make the world worse.

    Sukkot Sameach!

    Happy Sukkot!

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    enOctober 17, 2014

    UI 072: A Real Tragic Combination on Real Time

    UI 072: A Real Tragic Combination on Real Time

    man-156786_640In a rare moment on television something actually intellectually interesting happened.  It was on the recent Bill Maher show "Real Time" and it involved a debate between Maher, Sam Harris (author), Ben Affleck (actor), Nicholas Kristof (columnist for NY Times), and Micheal Steele (former Republican National Committee Chairman).

    Below is a link to the video I play and discuss on the podcast.

    Bill Maher's Real Time Debate with Ben Affleck and Sam Harris

    Due to short week and my very limited work time (it's more Jewish holiday stuff), I am writing a very short show notes post.

    The ultimate issues today are about how arrogance, naiveté, idiocy, denial, and wishful thinking can be fused together into a tragic and destructive force.  In the 10 minute segment linked above, is evidence of how these things can combine in someone's thinking, rhetoric, and behavior.  Because their arguments are horribly flawed (relying on emotion and wishful thinking rather than fact), they only make ad hominem attacks on those with whom they disagree.

    Unfortunately Ben Affleck is the prime example of someone almost solely utilizing several of the S.I.X.H.I.R.B. arguments (ad hominem attacks that primarily based on calling their opponent "sexist", "intolerant", "xenophobic", "islamophobic", "racist", and/or "bigoted."  Dennis Prager came up with acronym which accurately describes the typical arguments coming from the left.)

    While I do not agree with Bill Maher's presumptions that equality, freedom of speech, and freedom of religion are "liberal beliefs" (they are also conservative beliefs, and American beliefs... We just may not agree on what those terms really mean.  Just as an example, historically it was the Republican party that fought to abolish slavery, and years later it was primarily the Republicans fighting for civil rights.)  But for now let's put that incorrect implication aside, this video is really stunning because of the level of arrogance, naiveté, idiocy, denial, and wishful thinking employed by Affleck and Kristof specifically.

    To their credit, Bill Maher and Sam Harris (two men I typically do not agree with) stayed on point and argued the ideas and did their best to defang the feeble ad hominem attacks and logical fallacies offered by Affleck and Kristoff.

    That an actor would say such irrational dribble is not remarkable, but when New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof remarks:

    “The great divide is not between Islam and the rest. It’s rather between the fundamentalists and the moderates in each faith.”

    WOW!  What color is the sky in his world?  I suppose a more intellectually dishonest statement could be made... I just can't think of something right now.  Maybe, "There is no difference between walking, riding a horse, driving a car, or flying in a spaceship.  They are just faster and slower forms of transportation."  No... Kristof still wins.

    Really Mr. Kristof? The great divide is NOT between Islam and the rest?  Do they (100's of millions of fundamentalist Muslims) know this?  What Christian, Hindu, Buddhist, or Jewish fundamentalist promotes beheading people who don't believe exactly as they believe?  Does Mr. Kristof believe all (or most, or many) fundamentalists, regardless of religion, approve of murdering apostates (those who leave the faith)?  Or maybe one religion in particular has a particular problem with beheading the opposition, murdering girls for going to school, and capital punishment for apostasy.  Which could it be?

    It is painful contemplate the lack of clarity and/or cognitive dissonance these men (Affleck and Kristof) must experience.

    This reminds of a quote from Einstein.

    “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.”~ Albert Einstein

     Click here for the Washington Post article with the poll results mentioned.

    Or click here for Pew research

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    UI 071: Forgiveness and Atonement

    UI 071: Forgiveness and Atonement
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    Jakub Weinles "On the Eve of Yom Kippur"[Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

    Since there seems to be a theme that's developed over the last few podcasts, I figured why not continue the series.

    So where are we now?

    Now, we are coming up on Yom Kippur the "Day of Atonement."

    This is a very special and holy day.   This is the day were we stand before God and atone for what we've done, and He listens.  Now before you tune out, just bear with me.  Once again, regardless of your faith or no faith this ultimate issue can impact your life as well.

    The issue or issues are: Forgiveness and Atonement.

    Here is an interesting thing I've discovered: Many people don't recognize a difference between forgiveness and atonement.  Many people think Yom Kippur is the day of forgiveness because they think it's synonymous with atonement.  But they are not the same.

    I would argue that in talking with folks forgiveness is terribly misunderstood and becoming a lost art for many people.

    Even worse, atonement is nearly extinct in our modern American society.

    Think about it.

    How many people have asked for your forgiveness for a specific wrong they have done?

    Have you asked forgiveness and been specific about what you did?

    What about atonement?

    Do you know anyone who is atoning for the wrongs they have done?

    The language of forgiveness and atonement is foreign today, and the meanings of these terms are uncertain for many people.  It's a sad loss for our society.

    So I'm going to try to offer you some explanations and help so as to promote the lost arts of forgiveness and atonement.

    First lets get a better understanding of forgiveness.  Below is the video of the audio I played on the podcast.

    Excerpts from UCLA psychiatrist Dr. Stephen Marmer's course on PragerU.com

    Forgiveness actually embodies three different things, each of which applies to different situations and provides different results. 

    The three types of forgiveness are:

    • Exoneration
    • Forbearance
    • Release

    Exoneration is the closest to what we usually think of when we say "forgiveness". Exoneration is wiping the slate entirely clean and restoring a relationship to the full state of innocence it had before the harmful actions took place. There are three common situations in which exoneration applies.

    1. You realize that the harmful action was a genuine accident for which no fault can be assigned. 

    2. When the offender is a child or someone else who, for whatever reason, simply didn't understand the hurt they were inflicting, and toward whom you have loving feelings. 

    3. When the person who hurt you is:
    • Truly sorry, 
    • Takes full responsibility (without excuses) for what they did, 
    • Asks forgiveness, 
    • And gives you confidence that they will not knowingly repeat their bad action in the future.

    In all such situations it is essential to accept their apology and offer them the complete forgiveness of exoneration. You'll feel better and so will the person who hurt you. In fact, not to offer forgiveness in these circumstances would be harmful to your own well-being. It might even suggest that there is something more wrong with you than with the person who caused you pain. 

    The second type of forgiveness I call "forbearance."

    Forbearance applies when the offender makes a partial apology or mingles their expression of sorrow with blame that you somehow caused them to behave badly. 

    (Your forbearance would be) similar to "forgive but not forget" or "trust but verify." By using forbearance you are able to maintain ties to people who, while far from perfect, are still important to you.

    But what do you do when the person who hurt you doesn't even acknowledge that they've done anything wrong or gives an obviously insincere apology, making no reparations whatsoever?... Still, even here there still is a solution. I call it "release" - the third type of forgiveness.

    Release does not exonerate the offender. Nor does it require forbearance. It doesn't even demand that you continue the relationship. But it does ask that you, instead of continuing to define much of your life in terms of the hurt done, allows you to release bad feelings and your preoccupation with the negative things that may have happened to you. Release does something that is critically important: it allows you to let go of the burden, the "silent tax" that is weighing you down and eating away at your chance for happiness.

    So what about atonement?  As I learned from Chabad:

    Contrary to popular misconception, atonement and forgiveness are not the same thing.  Yom Kippur is not only about being forgiven by G-dForgiveness you can get all year round; Yom Kippur is primarily about atonement. Big difference. Forgiveness - as in the form of exonerations - means that after I make my apology, you forgive me, and I'm free.  Atonement means that I am engaged in hard work to restore the relationship to its original or even better state.

    The word for atonement in Hebrew is kaparah, which also means "wiping up." If I spill my grape juice on your carpet, I can say sorry and be forgiven. But the stain is still there. Atonement only comes when I get the carpet cleaners to come clean your carpet.

    And this is exactly what is done in the Ninth Step.  Just like in the last podcast, this is more of the wisdom that people get in a good religion and/or a good 12 step program.  Amends are not apologies. Making amends means trying to remove the stain, making things right again, and eventually... Restoring the relationship to how it originally was or making it even better. If an apology will make the person feel better, then we should include an apology in the amends. But the main thing is that we make it up to the person in a way that is significant to them.  This is where it's good to know the Five Love Languages.

    Our amends to God are not our apologies, but rather a sincere attempt to restore the relationship on His terms -- the way He likes it. Of course, if you just come to the synagogue on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, then that's not really an amend either. The making of amends is a long-term project where we show the one we have harmed that we have honestly changed and changed permanently. When we behave differently all year round as a result of our Yom Kippur amends, then we are proving that we really atoned.

    When we make amends to our friends, family, and others we must work relentlessly to earn their trust and restore the relationship.  Yes it take effort.  Yes it take humility.  Yes it can be painful.  But what is your choice?  You can either dismiss your behavior and how it affects others, or you can take responsibility and do your best to repair the damage you have done.

    Were our modern American society to rediscover the lost art of forgiveness and atonement, we would begin modeling heaven on earth.

    G'mar Chatimah Tovah

    May you be finally sealed for a good year by God.

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    enOctober 02, 2014

    UI 070: Brutally Honest Introspections, Criticisms, and Change

    UI 070: Brutally Honest Introspections, Criticisms, and Change

    breakthrough-460889_640Are you brutally honest with yourself?

    Do you maybe sugar coat your short comings or down play some of your transgressions?

    If you are a little like me then you too are a master at deceit and misdirection.

    What do I mean by that?

    It's coming up on what are referred to as the "High Holy Days.  Rosh Hashanah (New Year), Yom Kippur (Day of Atonement), and Sukkot (Festival of Tabernacles... longer explanation needed I'm sure.)  During this time, it is customary for religious Jews to get very introspective and do all they can to repent and return to a holy life.  Hence the impetus for my questions and statement.

    For me, this is the hardest time of year.  Not because of missed work and income.  Not because of the time spent in synagogue.  No it's the time spent in my head.

    It is like I get by every year for 9 months fooling myself that I'm doing pretty good and I should feel okay about my life.  And then this time hits.

    Every year now at this time I tend to get extremely depressed.

    Why?  Because it become abundantly clear to me how I have disappointed God.

    Some may think one can't disappoint God.  I don't hold that belief at all.  And there is nothing in the Torah that implies anything otherwise.  Over and over again God is frustrated and annoyed by His people.  Even the story of the very first human family was a disappointment.  As the creation with freewill, we alone have the opportunity to either behave in accordance with God's will or not.  It is totally on us.

    And for me, when I look at my life I can find many faults and transgressions.  During the other nine months of the year I defend myself or rationalize my transgressions.  But now, I just feel guilty and unworthy of His forgiveness.

    So what do I do about it?

    Well obviously one of the things I do is get real with myself and try to express in some way... usually I write.  You get to share in my catharsis as well this year.

    The other thing I am learning to do came from Reb Nachman of Bretslov.  Here are some of Reb Nachman's essential teaching's on repentance and returning to God from Azamra.com (translated by Rabbi Avraham Greenbaum):

    TESHUVAH
    RETURNING TO GOD

    There is a way that everything can be turned into good.

    Alim LiTerufah 113

    * * *

    God's greatness is unfathomable: that is why Teshuvah has such power. No matter how far you may have fallen - be it to the lowest depths - never despair, because you can always return to God. With just a little effort you can turn even your worst sins into merits. No matter where in the world you fall, you can easily come back to God. This is because of His unfathomable greatness. Nothing is beyond His power. Just never give up! Keep crying out, praying and pleading to God at all times.

    Sichot Haran #3

    * * *

    Sometimes a sin can make a person so bitter that he repents completely.

    Likutey Halachot, Birkat HaReiach 4:2

    * * *

    Stop then and there!

    You may be in some place when suddenly you have a thought of Teshuvah and a deep longing for God. Stop then and there in that very place and take a moment to focus on the thought and the feeling of longing. Turn them into a prayer. Put your longing into words straight from your heart. Don't wait or move on, even if you are not in your usual place of prayer and study - even if you are going on your way - because if you move on, it could interrupt your train of thought.

    Likutey Moharan II, 124

    * * *

    The Path of Teshuvah

    Every person must minimize his own glory and maximize God's glory. For one who pursues glory attains not God's glory but only the glory of kings, of which it is said: "The glory of kings is subject to investigation" (Proverbs 25:2) . For then everyone investigates who he really is, asking: "Who is he and what is he to be given such honor?" People challenge him, saying he is not fit for this honor.

    But when a person flees from honor, minimizing his own honor and maximizing the glory of God, he attains the glory of God. No-one then investigates to see if he deserves it, for "The glory of God is to hide the matter" ( ibid. ) - it is forbidden to question his honor.

    The only way to attain God's glory is through repentance. And the true sign of a person who has returned to God is the ability to hear himself insulted and remain silent. He endures even the most murderous abuse with patience, thereby reducing the blood in the left side of his heart (seat of the animal soul) and annihilating his evil inclination. Such a person is worthy of a share in God's glory.

    Before a person returns to God, he has no being. It is as if he has not yet been created, because it would have been better for him not to have been created at all. But when he purifies himself in order to return to God, he puts himself in order and prepares to become a being. This element of preparation for becoming - coming into being, as it were - explains why the Divine Name associated with repentance is Ehyeh , "I shall be".

    When a person wants to purify himself and return to God, they tell him "Wait!" ( Yoma 38b-39a) . It is true that he should hurry to free his soul and escape the darkness. But he should not allow himself to become discouraged and dejected if he sees that he is far from true prayer and other holy devotions. Waiting patiently is a necessary part of the process. In the end he will be worthy of making amends completely and everything will be rectified.

    Repentance never comes to an end: it must be continuous. Even at the very moment that a person is confessing , it is impossible for him to say the words , "I have sinned, I have transgressed, I have rebelled." with perfect sincerity free of all extraneous motives. Thus he must repent for his earlier repentance and for the flaw in his previous confession.

    Even when a person knows that he has repented completely, he must still make amends for his earlier repentance. For what he achieved then was good only in proportion to his perception of Godliness at the time. Now, after his repentance, his perception has undoubtedly been heightened. Compared with his present perception, his earlier perception turns out to have been grossly materialistic. He must therefore repent for his earlier levels - because he degraded the true exaltedness of the Creator to the level of the material. Happy is the man who achieves true Teshuvah.

    Teshuvah has three aspects: seeing with the eyes, hearing with the ears and understanding in the heart (cf. Isaiah 6:10 ) . A person must use his eyes to look towards the ultimate goal and purpose of this world. He must concentrate on this goal with all his heart, resolving to travel there and nowhere else. And he must use his ears to listen carefully to everything that our holy sages said. Then he will be able to return to God.

    Teshuvah essentially depends on humility. One must make oneself into nothing, like a wasteland over which people trample: one must pay no attention whatsoever to opposition or abuse from others. One should train oneself to be silent and hear oneself insulted without answering back. Such a person is worthy of the name "wise" and will attain perfect Teshuvah, the "Crown" and summit of the Sefirot. This is the way to true and enduring glory - the glory of God.

    Likutey Moharan I , 6

    * * *

    Humility

    Be totally honest when you speak to God. Accustom yourself to talking so honestly that your heart is aroused and the words start pouring forth with fire and passion.

    As you draw closer to God you will see your own smallness and insignificance in comparison with His greatness, and you will be filled with humility. Until now you cast your sins behind your back and ignored them. But as you start to acknowledge them frankly, you will feel deep shame at having rebelled against the Master and Ruler of the Universe, Source of all the worlds.

    At first this humility will not actually be discernible on your face, because sin weakens a person's mental powers, preventing them from radiating on the face. Before repenting , his mind is so weakened that he has no conception of the true gravity of sin and the greatness of the One he sinned against. But as he returns to God and puts aside his folly, gaining wisdom and understanding, his shame becomes increasingly visible on his face.

    The Tefilin are the sign of humility and attachment to God. The light of the Tefilin is a ray of the light of God's inner countenance. When a person achieves this humility, all his sins are forgiven and he becomes attached to the Tree of Life.

    Likutey Moharan I, 38

    * * *

    The Power of Psalms

    Everybody wants to revere God's Name but not everyone is able to repent. Sometimes a person feels no arousal whatever. Even one who is aroused to repent may not reach his unique gate of Teshuvah, and even if he does, it could be that the gate is closed. This is why not everyone attains repentance.

    But through reciting Psalms, even one who feels no arousal can be inspired to repent. The Psalms can take him to his unique gate and open it up, thereby bringing him to Teshuvah.

    For this reason King David called himself "the man who raised the yoke... the sweet singer of Israel " ( II Samuel 23:1) . Our sages explain that David called himself "the man who raised the yoke" because he elevated the yoke of repentance through his own Teshuvah. David was a great Tzaddik and should not have sinned, but God caused him to sin in order to teach everyone the way of Teshuvah. King David was the prime exemplar of Teshuvah and his pathway is set forth in the Psalms, which he wrote with such a spirit of holiness that everyone can find himself in them and thereby return to God.

    Likutey Moharan II, 73

    * * *

    God hides in the obstacle

    When after a life devoted to worldliness a person feels an arousal to God, the attribute of Judgment rises to accuse him and does not permit him to follow God's ways. It does this by confronting him with an obstacle. But God loves kindness and hides Himself within the very obstacle itself. One who lacks good sense sees the obstacle and retreats at once. But one who possesses good sense examines the obstacle and discovers God within it.

    Likutey Moharan I, 115

    * * *

    Revisiting the past

    To come to complete Teshuvah you must pass through all the places where you were prior to your Teshuvah. When you encounter exactly the same temptations as you experienced before, you must avert your eyes and control your impulses in order not to repeat what you did earlier. This is the essence of perfect Teshuvah: there is no other way.

    Likutey Moharan II, 49

    * * *

    Be a new creation

    If you want to return to God you must make yourself into a new creation. You can do this with a sigh!

    Man never stops breathing - releasing the stale air and drawing in fresh air. Our very lives depend on this. The physical air we breathe has its root above. There is the good air of the Tzaddik and the evil air of the sinner. The Tzaddik constantly draws air from the holy, the sinner draws air from impurity.

    Therefore, when a person wants to repent, he must make sure to stop the bad air from coming into him. The way to do this is with a sigh, which is a long, deep breath in and out. The sigh begins when you draw in extra air. This is similar to what happens just before a person dies: he draws in extra air and then the spirit leaves him. Every exhalation is the death of the moment that has passed, in preparation for the birth of the new moment. Thus when you take a deep sigh, you release yourself from the bad air of the sinner and bind yourself to the pure air of the Tzaddik in order to receive new vitality.

    This is Teshuvah, returning from impurity to holiness in order to gain new life. The very body is renewed, because "Sighing breaks a person's whole body" ( Berachot 58b) , and therefore the body is remade.

    Chayey Moharan #37

    * * *

    How precious is a sigh!

    How precious is the sigh of a Jew! The very sigh brings fulfillment of his needs.

    For the world was created through the breath, which is the life spirit: " . and through the breath of His mouth all their hosts" (Psalms 33:6) . The renewal of the world will also be through the breath: "You send Your spirit, they are created, and You renew the face of the earth" (Psalms 104:30) . The breath is also man's vitality since his life depends on breathing. "And He breathed in his nostrils the spirit of life" (Genesis 2:7) .

    The essential vitality of all things thus depends on the breath. Whenever something is lacking, the main lack is in that thing's vitality, which is the life-spirit keeping it alive. A sigh is a long breath - the long breath of patience. Therefore when a person is patient and sighs over what he lacks, he draws life spirit to that which is lacking, because the main lack is the absence of the life spirit.

    But from where does one receive the life spirit? Know that we receive the essential life spirit from the Tzaddik and leader of the generation. This is because the main life spirit is in the Torah, for "the spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters" (Genesis 1:2) and the "waters" are the Torah. Since the Tzaddkim are attached to the Torah, therefore the main life spirit is with them.

    When one who is attached to the Tzaddik and leader of the generation takes a long, deep sigh, he draws life spirit from the Tzaddik, who is attached to the Torah, where the spirit resides. Thus the Tzaddik is called "the man who has the spirit in him" ( Numbers 27:18) - because he knows how to relate to each and everyone according to his spirit.

    Likutey Moharan I, 8

    * * *

    Providence and nature

    God shows us great kindness by governing the world with individual providence and through the laws of nature. When people are good, God deals with them providentially, in a way that goes beyond nature. However if God were to oversee the life of an undeserving person in accordance with His providence, no good could ever reach him. Nevertheless out of kindness, God leaves this person to the laws of nature, and as a result , through the law of averages, things may then go well for him.

    If God's only way of running the world were through providence, rewarding good deeds and punishing sin, this could lead to a total breakdown of providence. For if God were to see someone acting im­properly and dealt with him in anger, He might cast him out completely. Instead, God abandons him to nature, and when he improves his ways, He deals with him providentially.

    But in actual fact we are quite unable to understand what is "nature" and what is "providence", because the truth is that even the laws of nature are really God's providence. However, the human mind is unable to grasp the paradox that what appears to be the law of nature is really God's providence.

    Likutey Moharan II, 17

    * * *

    I have strayed like a lost sheep

    "I have strayed like a lost sheep: seek out Your servant" (Psalms 119:176) .

    When a person sins, it makes a big difference if he comes to his senses at once and repents, in which case it is easy for him to return to his place because he has not yet strayed too far from the good path. For when a person sins, he turns from the straight path and enters a different, twisting pathway. A multitude of wrong turns branch off into ever deeper error and corruption. The person may stray so far and become so entangled that it is very hard for him to turn back and get off the wrong track.

    God's way is to call a person the moment He sees him straying from the path of good sense, asking him to turn back. He calls each person in the way most suited to him. To some He beckons with a hint. To others the summons is literally a cry. Some people kick, and He must strike them in order to call them. For "the Torah cries out before them: 'Fools! How long will you love foolishness?'" (Proverbs 1:22, Zohar Shemini 36a) . The Torah is God's voice calling and begging those who sin to return to Him.

    As long as a person has not strayed too far from the right path, it is easy for him to return because he still recognizes the voice. This is because only a short time has passed since he was close to God and heeded His voice, the voice of the Torah. He has not yet forgotten it or strayed too far along those other devious paths. Similarly, when a sheep strays from the path and the shepherd immediately calls it, as long as the sheep has not yet strayed too far, it still recognizes the shepherd's voice and immediately responds.

    But once the sheep strays far from the path, it forgets the shepherd's voice and no longer recognizes his call. The shepherd also gives up searching because the sheep has been lost for such a long time . Similarly, when a person has been going in the wrong direction for a long time , having strayed far from the true path into all those corrupt, devious and confusing pathways, it is hard for him to repent.

    But know that sometimes a person journeys so far along those corrupt and devious paths that his very wandering brings him close to his original place and it only needs an easy test to bring him back to his starting point . But when God calls him and arranges the test, the person does not recognize the voice and feels no need to return. That is the difference between young and old people. One who is still young and has not grown old in his sins can return more easily, because he is still closer and has not forgotten the voice that calls.

    This is the meaning of the verse, "I have strayed like a lost sheep: seek out Your servant" (Psalms 119, 176) . "I have strayed like a lost sheep": I have strayed from the good path like a lost sheep that has strayed from the road. This is why I beg of You: ".seek out Your servant, because I have not forgotten Your commandments". Hurry and search for me as long as I still remember the voice of the Torah and mitzvot. Hurry and search for me immediately, because I have not yet forgotten Your mitzvot: I still recognize the call of the mitzvot of the Torah. That is why I beg You to take pity on me and search me out quickly, as long as "I have not forgotten Your mitzvot" and still recognize the voice of the call of the Torah and the mitzvot.

    For when a person grows old in his sins, it is very hard to seek him out as he has already forgotten and no longer recognizes the voice of the Torah and the mitzvot. We must therefore beg God to hurry and bring us back to Him before we completely forget the call of the Torah and mitzvot. This was King David's prayer: "Search out Your servant, for I have not forgotten Your mitzvot."

    Likutey Moharan I, 206

    * * *

    And here are the original Twelve Steps I mentioned:

    1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.
    2. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
    3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
    4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
    5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
    6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
    7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
    8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
    9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
    10. Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
    11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
    12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

    It is important to appreciate what Rosh Hashanah is all about:  It is about God giving us an opportunity to CHANGE!  We need to truly own that the biggest problems in our lives comes from ourselves.  When G.K. Chesterton was asked "What's wrong with the world", he answered "ME."   Rosh Hashanah (head of the year) is an opportune time to Rosh Shinui  (change the head) (Shinui same root as Shanah "year" and Rosh means "Head".)  It works if you work it.

    Here's a link to a video you might like.

    L'Shanah Tovah

     

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    enSeptember 30, 2014

    UI 069: What is Your Primary Question?

    UI 069:  What is Your Primary Question?

    panda-303949_640The questions we ask ourselves determine not only what we think about, but also how we think.   And our thoughts impact or decisions.  And our decision impact our behavior.  Over the course of our lives our behaviors impact our destiny.  So way back along our journey we started with questions.

    Today, you still ask yourself fundamental questions that have tremendous influence over you and your life.  Do you know what they are?

    When I first started thinking about this stuff (i.e. studying Tony Robbins and Buddhism) I had a hard time confronting my primary questions.  I understood the concept and certainly agreed with the premise - but application was an issue.

    Ideas from Buddha:

    • The mind is everything. What you think you become.

    • We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think.

    • We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.

    Tony Robbins:

    • Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.

    To be clear I am not saying Tony Robbins and Buddha are comparable characters in the theatre of world history... just pointing out ideas they expressed that stuck with me.  To be sure, there have been Rabbi's, priests, ministers, and secular philosophers who have also come to this conclusion:

    I am what I think.

    I prefer this to Descartes' "Cogito Ergo Sum"

    I think therefore I am (exist)

    Admittedly, Descartes was addressing a different context.

    It works out to be a basic truth for all humanity.  What and how we think determines our quality of life.  Sure, it may not change the circumstances but it will determine how we deal with them and this is much more important in our life.

    Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
    ~ Viktor Frankl

     


    So if you are in trapped in North Korea and life is a nightmare, your life circumstances won't necessarily get better because you change your thoughts, BUT your attitude could change and therefore you could shift the horrific circumstances by infusing them with meaning.  Remember Viktor Frankl wrote his work "Man Search For Meaning" after surviving and examining the lives and psychologies of his fellows in the concentration camps of Nazi Germany.  The ones who asked great question and found meaning behind the tragedy had a better existence and greater chance of survival than those who did not.

    Hopefully no one reading this is experiencing the horrors like those in the concentration camps or North Korea.  And let's face it, if you are in America or a part of the world that has electricity, running water, and a drainage system - you are starting out much better off the billions of people today and all of humanity until just 150 years ago.  We are blessed and forget it all the time.

    So what about this primary question?

    To give an example based on what I mentioned above: One prisoner in a Nazi camp could be primarily asking "Why is this happening to me?".  Now here is the thing with primary questions... we always find answers.  Right or wrong we make up answers to satisfy our questions.  How could someone answer "Why is this (bad thing) happening to me?"  Possible answer:  "Remember when you cheated on your final exam and you didn't get caught so you lied about how hard you studied and your dad said how proud he was and bought you that nice gift.  That's why this bad thing is happening to you."

    So we need to be super-aware and hyper-sensitive about the questions we ask ourselves.  Your brain will find an answer, and that answer will shape your personality, behavior, and destiny.  It is what we do naturally, so we need to not let ourselves naturally fall into a rut, or make our lives more difficult than they actually are.

    And remember that most of our thoughts are really just a series of questions and answers.  So all I am suggesting is that you get more aware of your questions (thoughts), and understand how your answers (more thoughts) have brought you to where you are today.  Everyone has a primary question. Interestingly many people have similar questions.  But also interesting is the variegated answers people come up with to solve their questions.

    So what is a primary question and...

    How do you determine your primary question?

    In general, your primary question is typically that question that keeps coming up or "naturally" being answered when you find yourself in a stressful situation.  Or if not stressful perhaps unpleasant situation... as I know plenty of people who enjoy stress.  But when they find themselves in an environment they are uncomfortable with and unsure of how to handle it... that is when they will be asking their primary question.

    Since I don't know what that stress or discomfort might be for you, I'll give you some personal examples.

    Many years ago when I was in my teenage and early adult years, and I found myself in a bad situation I would typically ask "What is the point of all this?"  Now this is not necessarily a defeating question.  If I was in a good mood, I might come up with good reasons.  But if I was in a bad mood, you could not convince me there was any point.  So how did this play out?

    There were many things in my youth that I ended up just not caring about because I determined there was no point to it.  I had a huge problem with authority and doing what I was told... especially if I did not see any point to it.  There were many great opportunities I missed out on, because my bad attitude at that moment only offered me bad answers.

    This primary question stuck with me for quite a while, but sometimes it would get replaced by another question.  Broadly speaking this was a question of "Am I Enough?"  So I would get caught up in tough situation asking myself "Am I good enough?" , "Am I smart enough?", or "Am I strong enough?".  All those kinds of self doubting questions that are usually answered with a resounding "NO!"

    Again, this too caused me to miss plenty of opportunities and quit things before I even began them.  As much as I have done and tried to accomplish there was even more I wanted to do... But I convinced myself I wasn't enough.

    When your primary question gets answered... it really gets answered.   I didn't just ask "Am I enough?" and say "No, probably not."  It was more like "Am I enough?" and I would answer "Are you kidding? No.  And everybody knows it.  Here's why..."  When we answer our primary question, we usually follow up our thoughts with conformational questions which reinforce our decisions and behaviors.

    So take some time and really think about what your question or questions are.  You may have several questions that pop up depending on the situation.  Learn what they are.  They have been there the whole time.  In fact you are probably asking one of them right now!  These are the questions that have shaped your life up to this point and created most of your outcomes.

    By the way, you might find some conflict between yourself and your questions.  In other words, you might realize your questions presuppose things that right now you know are not true, nor any good for you.  GREAT!  Now you know.  You know your questions and you know that you don't always think rationally (remember your mind will always find answer to your question -even if its an irrational question.)  For instance, a fairly common one I hear is "What if I fail?"  Well this presupposes you could fail.  But what if you truly believed that even when you don't hit your target perfectly, and yet you still gained in practice, understanding, experience, or something... Then it's not a failure.  Plus, how is not even starting and trying any better than doing your best and not perfectly accomplishing the task?  It makes no sense.  Regardless, that's the question and the made up answer is surely going to convince you to quit before you start.

    The primary question is simply part of our human nature...

    But you can use this part of your human nature to help your life rather than hinder it.

    How?  

    Ask Better Questions!

    Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers. ~ Tony Robbins

    Once you figure out your questions, ask yourself how you can improve them.  Don't get stuck in analysis paralysis trying to concoct the perfect question.  Just work with you nature and make your questions better.  Now that you know them you can keep reflecting on them, and then you can constantly and continually improve your questions as you develop and mature.

    So for example, my old question "What's the point?", became "What good will this do?"  For me this question, does a couple things.  One, simply replacing the word 'point' with 'good' triggers my mind to be in a different state.  Two, it makes me really try to find something good in all situations.  And three, if there really is no good and instead there is something bad or evil that could arise from my actions then I know to avoid it.  Before I could have still seen the point in behaving badly (i.e. excitement, fun, thrill, etc.) but I know that there is no goodness that comes from it.   I cannot express in words how that question "What good will this do?" transformed my life in extraordinary ways.

    My other old question, "Am I enough?" has been a tougher one for me.  Initially, I battled it and lost every time because I was trying to either ignore the question or convince myself I somehow am enough.

    Thank God for the Torah and Moses.

    In the first parsha of Exodus "Shmot" we read about were Moses meets with God at the burning bush.  Paraphrasing: God tells Moses, "You are going to go to Eqypt and free the slaves" and Moses basically says "What? Who am I to do such a thing?" God answers back, "Okay, I'll be with you and will do all the heavy lifting."  Of course Moses is still not convinced and so God proves Himself and His power... but Moses' doubts remain.  So Moses complains "Look, I can't even speak well enough to go and argue with Pharaoh and convince people to come with me."  "Fine" God says "I'll speak for you."  Finally, Moses just pleads with God and says "I'm not the guy.  Send someone else."  So now God is incensed with Moses and basically says, "You're going.  Your brother is going to help.  And I will be with you both. Now go."

    So upon reading this the 341st time I finally realized that Moses is not all that different from me... and I'm not different from him.  Moses was also probably vexed by the "Am I enough?" question.  But God doesn't care.   Just go and do His will and what is right and good, and just don't quit.  I have no idea if I'm enough, and I don't really care any more.  All I know is that I have a moral obligation to God to do my best with every opportunity He gives me.  That's it.  So my new question is "Will this glorify God?"  It is a completely different question and keeps me out of the "enough" quagmire.  Everything is from Him and my role is to do what is good and right in His eyes.   He knew Moses was capable of more than what Moses himself believed.  I'm sure the same is true for me... and YOU!

    What people are capable of doing is extraordinary.  It is what they are willing to do that so often disappointing. ~ Tony Robbins

    It is not incumbent upon you to complete the work, but neither are you at liberty to desist from it ~Rabbi Tarfon (Avot 2:21)

    So now I simply try to focus on doing His will and as much good as possible, and that's about it.  I figure if I can do some good in the world and make it more holy... I did well.

     

     

     

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    enSeptember 19, 2014

    UI 068: Losing America... How Did We Get Here?

    UI 068: Losing America... How Did We Get Here?

    This week we explore an ultimate issue raised during a conversation I was having with a friend who is my elder, and thus has greater wisdom and life experience than I.  I am still of the opinion that respect for elders is a good and necessary thing for society... though that is unfortunately not the current trend.

    In an interesting discussion this man offered his theory about why America is in the current cultural downward spiral it is in (We had already established in our discussion that in many significant ways America's culture was worse today than 20 years ago, and 20 years ago it was worse than 20 years before that - though we were careful to not romanticize the past nor demonize the present.)  So when I asked him to explain his theory became more and more curious.

    His theory about our cultural decline is that it is due to "political correctness."

    While at first I did not agree, I did not interrupt and asked him to further elaborate his thoughts.  He did.  And though I couldn't disagree with anything he said, I also couldn't agree with everything he said.

    So after our visit I started reading the history of political correctness... and I was shocked by what I found.  Shocked because I had no idea how deliberate and intentional the programming was, and shocked because I had never learned or inferred it before in all my other readings.  

    Rather than trying to rewrite everything, I am sharing with you some things that I found that are well written in their brevity and clarity.

    Take what you like and leave the rest.

    Trust but verify.

    Fight the Good Fight.

    Carry on...

     

    NOTE: This column from WND.com and features an excerpt from Dr. Ted Baehr and Pat Boone’s new book “The Culture-wise Family: Upholding Christian Values in a Mass Media World.” In the book, entertainment expert Dr. Ted Baehr and legendary musician Pat Boone urge people to make wise choices for themselves and their families so they can protect their children from toxic messages in the culture.

    The following is Chapter 10, written by historian Williams S. Lind.

     

    Sometime during the last half-century, someone stole our culture. Just 50 years ago, in the 1950s, America was a great place. It was safe. It was decent. Children got good educations in the public schools. Even blue-collar fathers brought home middle-class incomes, so moms could stay home with the kids. Television shows reflected sound, traditional values.

    Where did it all go? How did that America become the sleazy, decadent place we live in today – so different that those who grew up prior to the ’60s feel like it’s a foreign country? Did it just “happen”?

    It didn’t just “happen.” In fact, a deliberate agenda was followed to steal our culture and leave a new and very different one in its place. The story of how and why is one of the most important parts of our nation’s history – and it is a story almost no one knows. The people behind it wanted it that way.

    What happened, in short, is that America’s traditional culture, which had grown up over generations from our Western, Judeo-Christian roots, was swept aside by an ideology. We know that ideology best as “political correctness” or “multi-culturalism.” It really is cultural Marxism, Marxism translated from economic into cultural terms in an effort that goes back not to the 1960s, but to World War I. Incredible as it may seem, just as the old economic Marxism of the Soviet Union has faded away, a new cultural Marxism has become the ruling ideology of America’s elites. The No. 1 goal of that cultural Marxism, since its creation, has been the destruction of Western culture and the Christian religion.

    To understand anything, we have to know its history. To understand who stole our culture, we need to take a look at the history of “political correctness.”

    Early Marxist theory

    Before World War I, Marxist theory said that if Europe ever erupted in war, the working classes in every European country would rise in revolt, overthrow their governments and create a new Communist Europe. But when war broke out in the summer of 1914, that didn’t happen. Instead, the workers in every European country lined up by the millions to fight their country’s enemies. Finally, in 1917, a Communist revolution did occur, in Russia. But attempts to spread that revolution to other countries failed because the workers did not support it.

    After World War I ended in 1918, Marxist theorists had to ask themselves the question: What went wrong? As good Marxists, they could not admit Marxist theory had been incorrect. Instead, two leading Marxist intellectuals, Antonio Gramsci in Italy and Georg Lukacs in Hungary (Lukacs was considered the most brilliant Marxist thinker since Marx himself) independently came up with the same answer. They said that Western culture and the Christian religion had so blinded the working class to its true, Marxist class interests, that a Communist revolution was impossible in the West, until both could be destroyed. That objective, established as cultural Marxism’s goal right at the beginning, has never changed.

    A new strategy

    Gramsci famously laid out a strategy for destroying Christianity and Western culture, one that has proven all too successful. Instead of calling for a Communist revolution up front, as in Russia, he said Marxists in the West should take political power last, after a “long march through the institutions” – the schools, the media, even the churches, every institution that could influence the culture. That “long march through the institutions” is what America has experienced, especially since the 1960s. Fortunately, Mussolini recognized the danger Gramsci posed and jailed him. His influence remained small until the 1960s, when his works, especially the “Prison Notebooks,” were rediscovered.

    Georg Lukacs proved more influential. In 1918, he became deputy commissar for culture in the short-lived Bela Kun Bolshevik regime in Hungary. There, asking, “Who will save us from Western civilization?” he instituted what he called “cultural terrorism.” One of its main components was introducing sex education into Hungarian schools. Lukacs realized that if he could destroy the country’s traditional sexual morals, he would have taken a giant step toward destroying its traditional culture and Christian faith.

    Far from rallying to Lukacs’ “cultural terrorism,” the Hungarian working class was so outraged by it that when Romania invaded Hungary, the workers would not fight for the Bela Kun government, and it fell. Lukacs disappeared, but not for long. In 1923, he turned up at a “Marxist Study Week” in Germany, a program sponsored by a young Marxist named Felix Weil who had inherited millions. Weil and the others who attended that study week were fascinated by Lukacs’ cultural perspective on Marxism.

    The Frankfurt School

    Weil responded by using some of his money to set up a new think tank at Frankfurt University in Frankfurt, Germany. Originally it was to be called the “Institute for Marxism.” But the cultural Marxists realized they could be far more effective if they concealed their real nature and objectives. They convinced Weil to give the new institute a neutral-sounding name, the “Institute for Social Research.” Soon known simply as the “Frankfurt School,” the Institute for Social Research would become the place where political correctness, as we now know it, was developed. The basic answer to the question “Who stole our culture?” is the cultural Marxists of the Frankfurt School.

    At first, the Institute worked mainly on conventional Marxist issues such as the labor movement. But in 1930, that changed dramatically. That year, the Institute was taken over by a new director, a brilliant young Marxist intellectual named Max Horkheimer. Horkheimer had been strongly influenced by Georg Lukacs. He immediately set to work to turn the Frankfurt School into the place where Lukacs’ pioneering work on cultural Marxism could be developed further into a full-blown ideology.

    To that end, he brought some new members into the Frankfurt School. Perhaps the most important was Theodor Adorno, who would become Horkheimer’s most creative collaborator. Other new members included two psychologists, Eric Fromm and Wilhelm Reich, who were noted promoters of feminism and matriarchy, and a young graduate student named Herbert Marcuse.

    Advances in cultural Marxism

    With the help of this new blood, Horkheimer made three major advances in the development of cultural Marxism. First, he broke with Marx’s view that culture was merely part of society’s “superstructure,” which was determined by economic factors. He said that on the contrary, culture was an independent and very important factor in shaping a society.

    Second, again contrary to Marx, he announced that in the future, the working class would not be the agent of revolution. He left open the question of who would play that role – a question Marcuse answered in the 1950s.

    Third, Horkheimer and the other Frankfurt School members decided that the key to destroying Western culture was to cross Marx with Freud. They argued that just as workers were oppressed under capitalism, so under Western culture, everyone lived in a constant state of psychological repression. “Liberating” everyone from that repression became one of cultural Marxism’s main goals. Even more important, they realized that psychology offered them a far more powerful tool than philosophy for destroying Western culture: psychological conditioning.

    Today, when Hollywood’s cultural Marxists want to “normalize” something like homosexuality (thus “liberating” us from “repression”), they put on television show after television show where the only normal-seeming white male is a homosexual. That is how psychological conditioning works; people absorb the lessons the cultural Marxists want them to learn without even knowing they are being taught.

    The Frankfurt School was well on the way to creating political correctness. Then suddenly, fate intervened. In 1933, Adolf Hitler and the Nazi Party came to power in Germany, where the Frankfurt School was located. Since the Frankfurt School was Marxist, and the Nazis hated Marxism, and since almost all its members were Jewish, it decided to leave Germany. In 1934, the Frankfurt School, including its leading members from Germany, was re-established in New York City with help from Columbia University. Soon, its focus shifted from destroying traditional Western culture in Germany to doing so in the United States. It would prove all too successful.

    New developments

    Taking advantage of American hospitality, the Frankfurt School soon resumed its intellectual work to create cultural Marxism. To its earlier achievements in Germany, it added these new developments.

    Critical Theory

    To serve its purpose of “negating” Western culture, the Frankfurt School developed a powerful tool it called “Critical Theory.” What was the theory? The theory was to criticize. By subjecting every traditional institution, starting with family, to endless, unremitting criticism (the Frankfurt School was careful never to define what it was for, only what it was against), it hoped to bring them down. Critical Theory is the basis for the “studies” departments that now inhabit American colleges and universities. Not surprisingly, those departments are the home turf of academic political correctness.

    Studies in prejudice

    The Frankfurt School sought to define traditional attitudes on every issue as “prejudice” in a series of academic studies that culminated in Adorno’s immensely influential book, “The Authoritarian Personality,” published in 1950. They invented a bogus “F-scale” that purported to tie traditional beliefs on sexual morals, relations between men and women and questions touching on the family to support for fascism. Today, the favorite term the politically correct use for anyone who disagrees with them is “fascist.”

    Domination

    The Frankfurt School again departed from orthodox Marxism, which argued that all of history was determined by who owned the means of production. Instead, they said history was determined by which groups, defined as men, women, races, religions, etc., had power or “dominance” over other groups. Certain groups, especially white males, were labeled “oppressors,” while other groups were defined as “victims.” Victims were automatically good, oppressors bad, just by what group they came from, regardless of individual behavior.

    Though Marxists, the members of the Frankfurt School also drew from Nietzsche (someone else they admired for his defiance of traditional morals was the Marquis de Sade). They incorporated into their cultural Marxism what Nietzsche called the “transvaluation of all values.” What that means, in plain English, is that all the old sins become virtues, and all the old virtues become sins. Homosexuality is a fine and good thing, but anyone who thinks men and women should have different social roles is an evil “fascist.” That is what political correctness now teaches children in public schools all across America. (The Frankfurt School wrote about American public education. It said it did not matter if school children learned any skills or any facts. All that mattered was that they graduate from the schools with the right “attitudes” on certain questions.)

    Media and entertainment

    Led by Adorno, the Frankfurt School initially opposed the culture industry, which they thought “commodified” culture. Then, they started to listen to Walter Benjamin, a close friend of Horkheimer and Adorno, who argued that cultural Marxism could make powerful use of tools like radio, film and later television to psychologically condition the public. Benjamin’s view prevailed, and Horkheimer and Adorno spent the World War II years in Hollywood. It is no accident that the entertainment industry is now cultural Marxism’s most powerful weapon.

    The growth of Marxism in the United States

    After World War II and the defeat of the Nazis, Horkheimer, Adorno and most of the other members of the Frankfurt School returned to Germany, where the Institute re-established itself in Frankfurt with the help of the American occupation authorities. Cultural Marxism in time became the unofficial but all-pervasive ideology of the Federal Republic of Germany.

    But hell had not forgotten the United States. Herbert Marcuse remained here, and he set about translating the very difficult academic writings of other members of the Frankfurt School into simpler terms Americans could easily grasp. His book “Eros and Civilization” used the Frankfurt School’s crossing of Marx with Freud to argue that if we would only “liberate non-procreative eros” through “polymorphous perversity,” we could create a new paradise where there would be only play and no work. “Eros and Civilization” became one of the main texts of the New Left in the 1960s.

    Marcuse also widened the Frankfurt School’s intellectual work. In the early 1930s, Horkheimer had left open the question of who would replace the working class as the agent of Marxist revolution. In the 1950s, Marcuse answered the question, saying it would be a coalition of students, blacks, feminist women and homosexuals – the core of the student rebellion of the 1960s, and the sacred “victims groups” of political correctness today. Marcuse further took one of political correctness’s favorite words, “tolerance,” and gave it a new meaning. He defined “liberating tolerance” as tolerance for all ideas and movements coming from the left, and intolerance for all ideas and movements coming from the right. When you hear the cultural Marxists today call for “tolerance,” they mean Marcuse’s “liberating tolerance” (just as when they call for “diversity,” they mean uniformity of belief in their ideology).

    The student rebellion of the 1960s, driven largely by opposition to the draft for the Vietnam War, gave Marcuse a historic opportunity. As perhaps its most famous “guru,” he injected the Frankfurt School’s cultural Marxism into the baby boom generation. Of course, they did not understand what it really was. As was true from the Institute’s beginning, Marcuse and the few other people “in the know” did not advertise that political correctness and multi-culturalism were a form of Marxism. But the effect was devastating: a whole generation of Americans, especially the university-educated elite, absorbed cultural Marxism as their own, accepting a poisonous ideology that sought to destroy America’s traditional culture and Christian faith. That generation, which runs every elite institution in America, now wages a ceaseless war on all traditional beliefs and institutions. They have largely won that war. Most of America’s traditional culture lies in ruins.

    A counter-strategy

    Now you know who stole our culture. The question is, what are we, as Christians and as cultural conservatives, going to do about it?

    We can choose between two strategies. The first is to try to retake the existing institutions – the public schools, the universities, the media, the entertainment industry and most of the mainline churches – from the cultural Marxists. They expect us to try to do that, they are ready for it, and we would find ourselves, with but small voice and few resources compared to theirs, making a frontal assault against prepared defensive positions. Any soldier can tell you what that almost always leads to: defeat.

    There is another, more promising strategy. We can separate ourselves and our families from the institutions the cultural Marxists control and build new institutions for ourselves, institutions that reflect and will help us recover our traditional Western culture.

    Several years ago, my colleague Paul Weyrich wrote an open letter to the conservative movement suggesting this strategy. While most other conservative (really Republican) leaders demurred, his letter resonated powerfully with grass-roots conservatives. Many of them are already part of a movement to secede from the corrupt, dominant culture and create parallel institutions: the homeschooling movement. Similar movements are beginning to offer sound alternatives in other aspects of life, including movements to promote small, often organic family farms and to develop community markets for those farms’ products. If Brave New World’s motto is “Think globally, act locally,” ours should be “Think locally, act locally.”

    Thus, our strategy for undoing what cultural Marxism has done to America has a certain parallel to its own strategy, as Gramsci laid it out so long ago. Gramsci called for Marxists to undertake a “long march through the institutions.” Our counter-strategy would be a long march to create our own institutions. It will not happen quickly, or easily. It will be the work of generations – as was theirs. They were patient, because they knew the “inevitable forces of history” were on their side. Can we not be equally patient, and persevering, knowing that the Maker of history is on ours?

     

    From Wikipedia:

    Yuri Alexandrovich Bezmenov (Russian: Юрий Безменов, also known as Tomas David Schuman; 1939 – 1993) was a journalist for RIA Novosti and a former PGU KGB informant from the Yuri BezmenovSoviet Union who defected to Canada.

    After being assigned to a station in India, Bezmenov eventually grew to love the people and the culture of India, but at the same time, he began to resent the KGB-sanctioned oppression of intellectuals who dissented from Moscow’s policies. He decided to defect to the West. Bezmenov is best remembered for his pro-American, anticommunist lectures and books from the 1980s.

     

    The Four Stages of Dismantling a Nation/Culture: The KGB way

    Stage One: Demoralization – Elimination of American Exceptionalism, fundamental change of national identity, structural deconstruction of foundational principles, elimination of religion. Embedding a new societal design upon the psyche of generations through ideological academia. Peer pressure by elites upon academics and society to convince that prior values were inherently flawed, racist, prejudiced etc. National identity is diluted with aspersions toward historical references. National history is re-written, re-defined, and molded to fit the new intended behavioral model and create the new values.

    Stage Two: Crisis – Creation of economic, financial, and national security crisis. Also includes social crisis and breakdown of previous self-evident restrictions on moral behavior. Cloward Piven approach to overloading the system, ie more takers than producers. The crisis produces benevolent leaders who will promise to deliver “things” (Hope and Change) to meet people’s needs through Social and Economic Justice. False illusions that the situation is under control if certain strategic directions are followed (Bailouts, Stimulus, Jobs Bills, Regulations of industry, Unconstitutional Power Grabs, Dismissal of Historical Laws, Changes in legislative processes, Changes in checks and balances of power etc).

    Stage Three: Normalization – The uncomfortable feelings of change including losses of freedom are absorbed and accepted. Lost national identity becomes accepted as the norm within the new societal model. A period of national rebranding transition where people are so overwhelmed by the change they become numb and begin to accept a ‘new normal’. This period of normalization lasts indefinitely as the progression is continually advanced and acceptance takes place in small controlled doses. (New limits on behavior, Regulations, TSA Patdowns, Intrusions into privacy, Controls into daily life) These things begin to be accepted as “just the way it is now”..

    Stage Four: Destabilization – Unlike the period of “Crisis” the people who helped orchestrate the change are now no longer needed. The new overarching centralized governmental model begins to take control. Leftist usurpers who initially thought they were going to be part of the new power structure begin to realize they were used and manipulated and they themselves become the new enemy. Because they have first hand knowledge of the agenda they are the primary target for elimination. They may simply be disregarded, obfuscated, thrown out, or they may be collected, imprisoned, or worse killed. There is no longer room for dissention. Dissent is only possible within the free system that has now been deconstructed. Therefore the leftist purpose is served once the destabilization is complete.



    From InfoWars.com: 

    19 SHOCKING EXAMPLES OF HOW POLITICAL CORRECTNESS IS DESTROYING AMERICA

    #1 The Missouri State Fair has permanently banned a rodeo clown from performing just because he wore an Obama mask, and now all of the other rodeo clowns are being required to take “sensitivity training“…

    But the state commission went further, saying it will require that before the Rodeo Cowboy Association can take part in any future state fair, “they must provide evidence to the director of the Missouri State Fair that they have proof that all officials and subcontractors of the MRCA have successfully participated in sensitivity training.”

    #2 Government workers in Seattle have been told that they should no longer use the words “citizen” and “brown bag” because they are potentially offensive.

    #3 A Florida police officer recently lost his job for calling Trayvon Martin a “thug” on Facebook.

    #4 “Climate change deniers” are definitely not wanted at the U.S. Department of the Interior.  Interior Secretary Sally Jewell was recently quoted as making the following statement: “I hope there are no climate-change deniers in the Department of Interior”.

    #5 A professor at Ball State University was recently banned from even mentioning the concept of intelligent design because it would supposedly “violate the academic integrity” of the course that he was teaching.

    #6 The mayor of Washington D.C. recently asked singer Donnie McClurkin not to attend his own concert because of his views on homosexuality.

    #7 U.S. Senator Chuck Schumer is calling on athletes marching in the opening ceremonies at the Winter Olympics in Sochi next year to “embarrass” Russian President Vladimir Putin by protesting for gay rights.

    #8 Chaplains in the U.S. military are being forced to perform gay marriages, even if it goes against their personal religious beliefs.  The few chaplains that have refused to follow orders know that it means the end of their careers.

    #9 The governor of California has signed a bill into law which will allow transgendered students to use whatever bathrooms and gym facilities that they would like…

    Transgendered students in California will now have the right to use whichever bathrooms they prefer and join either the boys’ or girls’ sports teams, thanks to landmark legislation signed by Democratic Gov. Jerry Brown on Monday.

    The law amends the state’s education code, and stipulates that each student will have access to facilities, sports teams, and programs that are “consistent with his or her gender identity,” rather than the student’s actual biological composition. A male student who self-identifies as female could therefore use the girls’ bathroom, even if he is anatomically male.

    #10 In San Francisco, authorities have installed small plastic “privacy screens” on library computers so that perverts can continue to exercise their “right” to watch pornography at the library without children being directly exposed to it.

    #11 In America today, there are many groups that are absolutely obsessed with eradicating every mention of God out of the public sphere.  For example, an elementary school in North Carolina ordered a little six-year-old girl to remove the word “God” from a poem that she wrote to honor her two grandfathers that had served in the Vietnam War.

    #12 A high school track team was disqualified earlier this year because one of the runners “made a gesture thanking God” once he had crossed the finish line.

    #13 Earlier this year, a Florida Atlantic University student that refused to stomp on the name of Jesus was banned from class.

    #14 A student at Sonoma State University was ordered to take off a cross that she was wearing because someone “could be offended“.

    #15 A teacher in New Jersey was fired for giving his own Bible to a student that did not own one.

    #16 Volunteer chaplains for the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Department have been banned from using the name of Jesus on government property.

    #17 According to a new Army manual, U.S. soldiers will now be instructed to avoid “any criticism of pedophilia” and to avoid criticizing “anything related to Islam”.  The following is from a Judicial Watch article

    The draft leaked to the newspaper offers a list of “taboo conversation topics” that soldiers should avoid, including “making derogatory comments about the Taliban,” “advocating women’s rights,” “any criticism of pedophilia,” “directing any criticism towards Afghans,” “mentioning homosexuality and homosexual conduct” or “anything related to Islam.”

    #18 The Obama administration has banned all U.S. government agencies from producing any training materials that link Islam with terrorism.  In fact, the FBI has gone back and purged references to Islam and terrorism from hundreds of old documents.

    #19 According to the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, it is illegal for employers to discriminate against criminals because it has a “disproportionate” impact on minorities.

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    enSeptember 12, 2014

    UI 067: DIET... What Your Doctor Doesn't Know and Your Trainer Won't Tell You.

    UI 067: DIET... What Your Doctor Doesn't Know and Your Trainer Won't Tell You.

    hunger-413685_640Amazingly I actually got to catch a snippet of the Dennis Prager show live today (Tuesday Sep. 2, 2014)  I only got to catch a call that really annoyed me, but it inspired this podcast.

    Call is played on UI  podcast.

    Dennis had been discussing that there has been another study coming out declaring doctors and scientist are clueless about dieting (eating habits or whatever you prefer to call it.)  The New York Times just published:

    A Call for a Low-Carb Diet

    From the article: (click the link above to read in its entirety - or listen to the podcast as I read more than I'm typing out here)

    People who avoid carbohydrates and eat more fat, even saturated fatlose more body fat and have fewer cardiovascular risks than people who follow the low-fat diet that health authorities have favored for decades, a major new study shows.

    So basically once again we have a study debunking a study that said low-fat was better for you which debunked the study that low-carb was better for you... on and on.

    The truth is that these studies are typically flawed and really of no great significance.  Typically these studies are flawed, because they are  not done in an objective scientific manner with varied control and experimental groups.  We never read about the baseline (i.e. their previous diet) nor genetic factors (i.e. West African or Eastern European) and not even familial factors (i.e. parents and siblings).  Considering a person's past diet is usually a huge factor in regards to their health and fitness, and their genetics play an even bigger role - you'd think they factor that into their "studies."  Then there are the problems regarding the short durations and inadequate samplings for many of these studies.  Plus, how often do they record detailed activity levels of the participants?  Does movement or any activity make a difference at all?  I have yet to see "research" that satisfied these basics...

    And like I said, these studies are insignificant because in general people don't really care about the results of diet research.  Most of the public is cynical about the whole thing, because they know scientists and doctors can't seem to get it right.  Plus, a great many folks just want a pill or some kind of easy fix so they can have the body and health they desire.  But that pill or easy fix always ends up looking like a lot of self-discipline, common sense, and work.  I have found that even more people have an allergy to these things (especially when considering it for the long term.)

    If you want to know what works use common sense and think about what works for those who developed physiques and fitness levels over time.

    The common sense part of weightloss is simple:

    Eat Less and Do More.  And mainly EAT LESS.

    In general, American's eat too much.  While plenty claim to eat healthful foods, they still eat to much of them.  If someone managed to eat 10,000 calories worth of green vegetables everyday, it's still likely they'd end up overweight.  Yes, you can have too much of a good thing.  Portion control is a fancy politically correct way of saying take half of what you are served, and put it in a to-go bag for tomorrow or for the homeless guy on your way from the restaurant.

    Besides the divide and conquer method, here are some more simple tricks to eat less:

    • Drink water before you eat.  And lots of it.  And if you want... drink some more while you eat.
    • Throw out your giant plates and bowls and silverware.  Only use smaller dishes and utensils.  It will help your eyes deceive your stomach.
    • Only eat if you are actually hungry.  Sounds too simple right?  Think about all the times you eat when you are bored or being social.  It's not like your body knows that that food didn't really matter to you.  They are calories regardless of your emotions, thoughts, or mindfulness.
    • Satisfy your taste receptors not stretch receptors.   Basically two things make you feel satiated ("full"):  1. fat receptors and 2. stretch receptors.  Stretch receptors respond to the volume of contents in your belly.  If you are craving some calorie dense sugary food, then first drink some water and have some real, nutritious food and then allow yourself to have a taste of what you were craving.  Your tastebuds can't tell the difference between a lot of ice cream and a little ice cream.
    • Rethink food.  Yes, this involves a lot of mental work, and it's not easy for many Americans.  The main point is to dehypnotize yourself from your old (unhealthy) patterns regarding food, and rehypnotize yourself for new healthful associations with food.  For instance, if you are a sugar addict and diabetic ( a very bad combination) you know you need to stop consuming sugar, so you MUST train your mind to think of sugar as so bad for you, you would never have do it.  How?  Would you ever do heroin?  Or would you, yourself, literally eat your foot off your leg?  NO!  Why?  It's too painful, too scary, too gross, too horrific...  Yes all those reasons.  Now realize that doing sugar (think of it like a drug - stop saying "eating") is for you like doing heroin - it will not work out well.  For many diabetics, it may mean having their feet amputated.   But rather than thinking of it in a sterile surgical way, realize that you are eating your feet off when you do sugar.  Make it graphic and painful.  Make the pain override the pleasure.  The more painful, the more horrendous, the more disgusting - THE BETTER!

    Some time ago I wrote a book that was never published titled "What Your Doctor Doesn't Know and Your Trainer Won't Tell You... And Vice Versa."  I'm going to look into publishing that again.  But for now, let's just talk about the basic premise behind that book.

    Odds are your doctor doesn't know nutrition.  Keep in mind, obesity is a new medical problem relative to human history.  He or she received little (if any) education regarding diet for all their hours of medical school.  What they did learn is often antiquated information and not even applicable to many people today.  For one thing, today's American population is sedentary and eats prepared and processed food in ways never imagined before.   What I was taught in my medical training was basically from the 1950's (I was in college from the early to late 90's).  Remember these are the same intellectual giants whose medical training led them to believe exercise was bad, and weightlifting makes a person "muscle-bound."  Also, remember these are modern concerns.  Only 100 years ago many Americans were concerned about having enough food... not too much.

    Unfortunately, getting diet and nutrition advice from your doctor is about as reliable as getting medical advice from the engineer who designed his stethoscope.   He may have learned something along the way, but it's unlikely he's actually has experience and expertise regarding the subject.

    So what about your personal trainer?

    Doesn't he/she do this for a living and therefore have experience and expertise?  Besides, aren't trainers extremely well built... They must know a lot about how to lose weight and look great.  Right? Wrong, not necessarily.

    On the one hand, we are fortunate to have an unregulated fitness industry.  Almost anyone can be a trainer.  Almost anyone can claim to be a nutritionist.  Yes, I know there are those who actually have degrees in nutrition and dietetics from accredited universities (i.e. Registered Dietitian Nutritionist "RND".)  Most of these folks are either doing research or working for hospitals doing specialized medicinal diets.  The dreadlocked girl at Whole Foods whose tag reads "Nutritionist" is probably not one of those people.

    And trainers?
    I've been professionally training people since I was 16 years old (like I said, it's an unregulated industry - anyone can do it.)  So now I have more that 23 years of experience (plus undergraduate and graduate degrees in health related fields) and let me tell you what your trainer probably won't.

    Training and exercise is at most a 10% determining factor in how you look.

    First, we are 100% beholden to our genetics.  Some folks were born to be thin, others not so much.  But thankfully, we can do a lot to influence our appearance beyond genetics.

    Another factor that is a huge determinant are our hormones.  Unfortunately, they still have not figured out a truly healthful way of manipulating these for our benefit either... There are always repercussions.

    Since we can't easily manipulate our DNA or hormones, and exercise is at most 10% of why we look the way we look... What are we to do?

    The next most important factor which we can actually have an affect on is our diet.  The food you consume is probably around 80% of the determining factor regarding your appearance.  Everything from body shape to muscle tone to even skin and hair issues are deeply affected by your diet.

    Your trainer will probably not make this abundantly clear because it makes him less necessary.  The truth is he is not necessary as a "fitness expert" or "exercise physiologist".  The trainers primary function is to make sure you show up and don't get hurt.  That's about it.  Hopefully, he will educate you and teach you knew human tricks and help you get stronger.  But really, trainers are there as leverage to make sure you get off your butt and do some kind of activity.

    By the way, just because exercise is only 10% of your looks (at most), that doesn't mean it is not extremely important.  IT IS!  Just not for weightloss or looks.  Exercise is important for cardio-pulmonary reasons and psycho-emotional reasons, beyond the obvious musculo-skeletal reasons.

    And if you're curious... I leave the remaining factor of 10% to account for lifestyle (i.e. stress, work, family, sleep, partying, etc.)

    ***Don't try to add DNA, hormones, exercise, diet, and lifestyle to understand a total.  Just focus on what you can control: Diet is 80%, Exercise is 10%, and Lifestyle is 10% regarding change in your body's shape.

    So there you have the big secrets revealed!

    Trainers are largely unnecessary (regarding training you to change your body), and doctors are basically uninformed on diet and nutrition (again, especially regarding weightloss.)

    If you really want to change your body:

    • Figure out what is realistic for you.  If you are a short, curvy, overweight woman, you will not look like Gisele.  You will look like you only smaller.  Set realistic, measurable, and time bound goals.
    • Focus on improvements.  Just like small incremental growth in your retirement funds will make you wealthy eventually, so too with weightloss.  Slow, steady and methodical weightless is the way towards creating a better body and life.  The fast approach pretty much always back fires (again just like "fast money.")
    • Eat with your mind and not your emotions.  Ask "Am I really hungry?"  If not, then just don't eat.  Don't worry you can still watch TV or converse with people.  You can even go to a restaurant, just make sure that they bring you a to-go box so you won't feel guilty about "wasting" the food you didn't eat.  You can taste without devouring.  And you can be satisfied without getting "full."
    • Focus on eating nutrient dense foods.  I am not big on telling people what to eat and what to avoid.  Except I do have some basics.
      • It should actually be food.  Not some food like product, that tastes good.  (ex. cookies, cheetos, candy)
      • Develop a hatred of sugar.  I hate drugs.  I would never do drugs.  I think of sugar like a drug... because it is a drug.  It wreaks havoc on your mind.  It wreaks havoc on your insulin levels.  Therefore it wreaks havoc on your cardiovascular system (more on this some other time).  And perhaps worse than all this, Sugar makes you want more sugar.   It is addictive.  And it is destructive.
      • Focus on eating protein and fats at every meal, while avoiding carbs.  Ah, yes.  The truth comes out.  I am low-carb guy myself.  How could it be?  Experience and education.  Before there was Atkins there was Vince.  Vince Gironda owned the first gym in the west coast, aptly named "Vince's Gym".  I started training there the summer I turned 13.  Vince and Nick really taught me more about diet and nutrition than I ever learned in college.  Vince was the one who convinced me that diet is 80% of how we look.  He is also the one who understood carbohydrates were not necessary for the human body, and actually made people fat.  And here's the thing about Vince and Nick... they were pretty much always right!  It would take science more than 50 years to confirm what they had already understood.  Regardless, these guys knew there stuff without university research.  Why?  Because they had to.  They did not use drugs.  They did not have great genetics.  So when they wanted to improve their physique they had to do the hard way... through work and discipline.  They had truth, curiosity, and intelligence on their side.  Vince was always trying to figure things out to see if it really worked.  Plus, there was the element of necessity.  Vince and Nick trained so many of the old Hollywood talent it was mind blowing.  They had to know how to get fat people thin, and thin guys muscular.  And they had to do it all without drugs.  Did people use drugs who trained there? Sure.  Joe Weider sent a young and promising (though chubby) Arnold Schwarzenegger to Vince to lose his "baby fat", basically as soon as he arrived from Austria. Why? Because Vince really knew what he was talking about and told you what to do regarding both diet and exercise.
      • Don't talk yourself into it.  How many times do people talk themselves into eating poorly because it tastes good, or just for tonight, or what ever rationalization people come up with.   If you can talk yourself into, then you can talk yourself out of it.  But you need to be prepared to argue.  Write out all the excuses (a.k.a. "reasons") you eat
    • ONLY Do what you can and will do for a lifetime.   Unfortunately many people do temporary diets, and then expect to go back to their old ways and be fine.  That never works out well.  Start small and adjust progressively.  Own the idea that you are changing your lifestyle and it's something that must be done.  Make it a must.  Celebrate your incremental triumphs.  And develop joy from your new will and discipline.

    Know that all the infomercials for exercise equipment or DVDs all include a DIET PLAN!

    Know that excess caloric input compared to caloric output (energy in vs. energy out) makes you fat!  Think of fat as stored energy.  You want to set up your body chemically to use fat for energy.  Which leads to my next point:

    Know that carbohydrates and particularly high glycemic carbs (i.e. Sugars in all its forms: sucrose, fructose, syrup, etc.) are the other major factor in your diet that make you fat.  So long as you are not starving yourself, your body does not need carbohydrates.

    Know that most doctors did not get adequate training or education regarding diet and weightloss.

    Know that most trainers will not tell you how vital a proper diet is for your weightloss.  It is not in their interest, and many really don't understand the mechanisms for losing body fat.

    Know that of all the factors that determine your body's shape, the one thing you have the most control over will also have the greatest impact on your body's shape...  That is your DIET.

     

    Link to understanding carbohydrates and why they are not necessary - click here.

    ultimateissues's podcast
    enSeptember 05, 2014

    UI 066: Would the World be Better Without Religion?

    UI 066:  Would the World be Better Without Religion?
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    While having discussions among friends I've hearing a recurring theme.

    "Religion is the cause of much of the evil in our world."

    When I ask them to elaborate and give examples, they come up with the most obvious first:

    Radical Islam:  ISIS, HAMAS, Hezbollah, Fatah, Iran, Al-Qaeda, on and on.

    Okay, so lets move beyond the low hanging fruit.

    Any non-Muslim examples?

    Answer: "Sure.  Hateful ban on gay marriage.  Pro-life is anti-woman.  Anti-science creationism. "  Basically, it comes down to the notion that the Religious Right are fascist totalitarians conspiring to take away freedoms, rights, and intelligence.

    These are pretty typical answers from those who are self identified as secular, non-religious people, of which I myself was for much of my life.  But, though I was an atheist, I did not believe religion, nor money, nor greed, nor anything like that was the root of evil.  It seemed like evil was a choice, and man can choose to act evil or not... regardless of their religion (or lack of), money (or lack of), or any other factor.  Ultimately it came down to values.  Regardless of my insistence that values was the determining factor and not religion (nor class, race, sex, etc.) my fellow secularist held fast to their beliefs.

    In high school and college I debated these issues regularly with a variety of people, and I would frame different arguments and debate either side.   Typically the  thoughtful "believers" had better arguments, than the thoughtful agnostics and atheists.  At times it seemed permissible to allow other people to use the "religion is evil" argument when it served me in a public debate, but privately we would discuss why I found their premise wrong and detrimental.

    My spiel went something like this:

    "Look, you should not try to argue that religion is evil or the root of evil, because it is too easy to refute.  Are there religious people who commit evil? Yes.  Are there nonreligious people who commit evil? Yes.  Are there acts of evil that have no connection with any religion what-so-ever?  Yes.  Do you really believe that man did not begin to act evil until religion?  Of course not.  Do you really think that were we to have some kind of cosmic white-out that erased religion from all aspects of human history there would be no evil... or even less evil? No.  So, let's just drop that cliche as an argument against God or religion."

    Now keep in mind, those were my thoughts from my high school and college years as a struggling atheist.   Why?  It has nothing to do with me being intelligent or special... I'm average at best.  No the main thing is I strive for intellectual honesty and I welcome challenging ideas.  I did not only read atheist philosophers.  I read C.S. Lewis and Maimonides as well.  I listened to people like Dennis Prager who had intellectually sound discussions regarding God and religion.  And I valued truth over my beliefs or agenda.

    Most of the people I knew then and know today who are outspoken atheists live in an intellectual bubble.  They only read Bertrand Russel, Sam Harris, Dawkins, Hitchens, or the like.  While they like to think of themselves as contrarians they don't engage the myriad brilliant authors who hold the opposing view.  It is painful.   "Why won't you read just one theist for every 5 atheists?"  I would ask.  The typical answer, "Because there is nothing intelligent coming from believers."

    It is the same answer I heard from liberals in college who would never even consider reading a conservative essay or book.  They completely dismiss the other side as "unintelligent."  How open minded is that?  Do liberals really think Thomas Sowell or George Gilder are not intelligent?  Do atheists really believe Maimonides or Abraham Joshua Heschel were not intelligent?  I don't know what they really believe, but whatever it is - their default setting is "If you don't agree with me, my university, or research studies, then you are unintelligent and are to be dismissed."  It's just sad and painful.

    So, let's try to take an objective look at the alternative.  What would the world be like without any religion?

    First lets get clear on what "religion" is.

    While religion is difficult to define, one standard model of religion, used in religious studies courses, was proposed by Clifford Geertz, who simply called it a "cultural system" (Clifford Geertz, Religion as a Cultural System, 1973). 

    ~ Source Wikipedia 

    So broadly speaking,

    religion is an organized collection of beliefscultural systems, and world views that relate humanity to an order of existence. 

    ~ (ibid)

    Since religion is simply an organized system of ideas relating the human experience to some kind of organized system of existence, then a world void completely of religion would necessarily be chaos.

    In other words, no religion of any sort means no structure, no organized system, and no standards or rules of behavior or consequences.  It would be the truest form of anarchy.

    This is actually how Genesis describes the creation of the world.

    Gen. 1:2  Now the earth was formless and empty...

    והארץ היתה תהו ובהו וחשך על־פני תהום ורוח אלהים מרחפת על־פני המים׃

    tohu vavohu:  Everything was without form and void.

    You could understand this as "without any organization and empty of value"... a world without religion.

    Ironically, people talk about the far right extremist and the religious right totalitarianism, but they don't understand that the further right a person goes, the less government power they desire.  Hence the extreme right is anarchy (a world without religion or government), and the extremely left is totalitarianism (as the further left one moves on the political spectrum - more government power is desired.)  Interestingly both extremes must hold a fundamental belief to justify their politics: Man is basically good.  The right wing anarchist believes that man can rule himself and needs no outside influence, and the left wing totalitarian believes that man can rule man in a benevolent and upright manner.  I suppose either could also have no care regarding human goodness, and just rely on the strongest surviving.  So it could be argued that both the anarchist and the totalitarian have a similar religion where man is god and determines the system (either for himself alone or for everyone else.)

    Now if you think the world would be a better place were it to be in total chaos and anarchy, then we are clear on where we differ.  But if you don't think anarchy is a good thing, then maybe we can agree that the world is better off with religion... but we may still not agree on which religion.

    Maybe you like the religion of the Left.  As Dennis Prager has stated "Leftism is the most dynamic religion."  What does he mean by that?  Well, Leftism is a religion, as stated above, but not one that we can easily define or clarify.  The religiosity of Leftism is constantly changing and morphing to fit its agenda and keep people interested.  Hence the manipulation of language and name changes though out the years.

    But there are some fundamentals of Leftism: It believes in government power (i.e. More government influence and power is good.)  It believes in rule of law (i.e. Since the other religions are hogwash, man is to regulated by a strict rule of law to ensure politically correct behavior.) It believes in limited freedoms (i.e. Criticisms of Leftist ideology means you are a "hater" and perhaps your free speech is criminal in nature.) .  Actually, there are many beliefs (dogmas) one must hold in order to be a devout Leftist.   The main one though is that your values and standards come from Leftist ideology and not any other religion.  This is why we find so many "Jews" on the left, and so much influence of the Left on religions in general.

    People in general are inherently religious, but especially Jews.  We Jews need a religion like a fish needs water.  But unfortunately many Jews don't choose Judaism as there religion.  Rather they choose Leftism or some other "ism" (environmentalism, feminism, Marxism, etc.)  All these "ism"s are modern pseudo-religions.  They give people a structure of beliefs and a like-minded culture based on those beliefs with lifestyle standards built in.  Understanding that, we can easily understand why so many Jews are on the Left even though many of the ideologies are directly opposed to Judaism (and even the state of Israel.)

    So getting back to the original question: Would the world be better of without religion?

    Since I think anarchy would be disastrous and lead humanity into a descent beyond my imagination. No! The world would not be better if it had no religion.

    And if you are of the opinion that Left wing ideology, secularism, humanism, or any other modern form of religion would be a better alternative to the classical notion of Ethical Monotheistic religion (One God created everything and demands we act ethically towards one another), then please explain your hypothesis (you can do so in the comment area below.)

    Bear in mind that every attempt man has made thus far to rid society of God based morality has led to a nightmarish existence.  Whether it be Mao and his torturous slaughter of the Chinese, or Hitler and the Holocaust... Every time man tries to rules as if he were a god tremendous tragedy ensues.

    Below is from the HuffPo article I read from:

    In his hilarious analysis of The 10 Commandments, George Carlin said to loud applause, "More people have been killed in the name of God than for any other reason," and many take this idea as an historical fact. When I hear someone state that religion has caused most wars, though, I will often and ask the person to name these wars. The response is typically, "Come on! The Crusades, The Inquisition, Northern Ireland, the Middle East, 9/11. Need I name more?"

    Well, yes, we do need to name more, because while clearly there were wars that had religion as the prime cause, an objective look at history reveals that those killed in the name of religion have, in fact, been a tiny fraction in the bloody history of human conflict. In their recently published book, "Encyclopedia of Wars," authors Charles Phillips and Alan Axelrod document the history of recorded warfare, and from their list of 1763 wars only 123 have been classified to involve a religious cause, accounting for less than 7 percent of all wars and less than 2 percent of all people killed in warfare. While, for example, it is estimated that approximately one to three million people were tragically killed in the Crusades, and perhaps 3,000 in the Inquisition, nearly 35 million soldiers and civilians died in the senseless, and secular, slaughter of World War 1 alone.

    History simply does not support the hypothesis that religion is the major cause of conflict. The wars of the ancient world were rarely, if ever, based on religion. These wars were for territorial conquest, to control borders, secure trade routes, or respond to an internal challenge to political authority. In fact, the ancient conquerors, whether Egyptian, Babylonian, Persian, Greek, or Roman, openly welcomed the religious beliefs of those they conquered, and often added the new gods to their own pantheon.

    Medieval and Renaissance wars were also typically about control and wealth as city-states vied for power, often with the support, but rarely instigation, of the Church. And the Mongol Asian rampage, which is thought to have killed nearly 30 million people, had no religious component whatsoever.wars-pie-chart

     

    And how does all this compare to "non-religious warfare":

    Most modern wars, including the Napoleonic Campaign, the American Revolution, the French Revolution, the American Civil War, World War I, the Russia Revolution, World War II, and the conflicts in Korea and Vietnam, were not religious in nature or cause. While religious groups have been specifically targeted (most notably in World War II), to claim that religion was the cause is to blame the victim and to misunderstand the perpetrators' motives, which were nationalistic and ethnic, not religious.

    Similarly, the vast numbers of genocides (those killed in ethic cleanses, purges, etc. that are not connected to a declared war) are not based on religion. It's estimated that over 160 million civilians were killed in genocides in the 20th century alone, with nearly 100 million killed by the Communist states of USSR and China. While some claim that Communism itself is a "state religion" -- because it has an absolute dictator whose word is law and a "holy book" of unchallenged rules -- such a claim simply equates "religion" with the human desire for power, conformance, and control, making any distinctions with other human institutions meaningless.

    (source:  Huffington Post)

    So in the final analysis, when we set aside our agendas, misinformation, and preconceived notions we find that:

    • Man is a religious creature.  One way or another we will formulate a system to rule and explain our existence.
    • A human world void of religion would be anarchy and chaos, and cease to have any semblance of morality.
    • There are good religions which promote good values and ethical behavior, as well as try to prevent destructive values and immoral behavior.
    • There are bad religions which promote bad values and evil behavior, and go against any opposition.
      • When these collide we see a religious war.  But most wars are far more about power, land, money, and materiality than spirituality.
    • Religion does not guarantee anything.  Neither does being without religion.
      • There are good people who are nonreligious.  There are bad people who are religious.  And vice versa.
    • Ultimately it comes down to a choice on what you choose to believe:
      • A) People are basically good
      • B) People are basically flawed (both good and evil)
        • If you believe A) then you're religion will tend to either be based in Leftism or Libertarianism.
        • If you believe B) then you're religion will tend to be based on the traditional religious notion based on Ethical Monotheism.

     

     

    ultimateissues's podcast
    enAugust 29, 2014

    UI 065: Violence

    UI 065:  Violence

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    ***WARNING***

    This Podcast is about violence and so I used some graphic language in describing violence, and some of that has been transcribed in this blog.

     

    What do you think about violence?

    Let me paint a picture for you and you can think about it.

    Imagine a young single mother has just put her child down for an afternoon nap.  She makes a snack and sits to relax and watch some television.  As she is sitting on her couch in her apartment, her door is kicked open and a strange man comes in and begins beating her senselessly.  As she screams for her life, the man shoves a screw driver into her throat.

    At this point the story gets worse because now the man hears the crying child and heads towards her room.  But I can't go there without getting physically ill.

    This story makes you sick as well right?

    It's a gruesome and disturbing scenario.

    (NOTE: If that does not disturb you... then you should really seek some professional help. Seriously.)

    But why does this make us sick?  Is it the violence?

    Let's see.

    Now I want you to imagine the same young mother doing the same daily things. And the same man busting into her apartment.  But this time she throws her entire bodyweight into kicking the man in his testicles, causing one to rupture.  As he buckles in pain, she scrapes her thumbs across the man's nose plunging her her thumbs into his eye sockets.  As he screams and attempts to break her grip, our young mom sees the screw driver she had just used to fix her daughter's toy.  She picks it up and repeatedly drives it into the man's neck and eye until he stops.  She and her daughter are safe, and the cops are dealing with what's left of the criminal.

    How does that make you feel?

    I don't know about you, but I'm cheering for this young single mom in the second scenario and glad the criminal was thoroughly defeated.

    Why?

    Similar violence occurred, if not worse in the second scenario.

    So it's not the violence that bothers us.

    It is EVIL.  Evil, asocial violence, makes us cringe.  Sociopaths, rapists, dictators, murders, kidnappers, all the evil behaviors that people do that cause us to worry about our own safety or the safety of our loved ones disturbs us.

    And the only way to stop EVIL is to fight it, relentlessly.

    One way to do so is through violence.

    Violence is just a tool.

    Yes, a tool... just like a hammer.

    A hammer is a tool and can be used to build magnificent structures when wielded by someone who is intent to build with it, or it can be a destructive tool when a demolition crew is intent on destroying.  The hammer is neither good nor bad... it is just an instrument - a tool.

    But maybe you argue I'm over simplifying it.  You argue, violence is more complicated and esoteric. It's not a simple material tool like a hammer.  Okay then let's compare it to the act of sexual intercourse.  Done in one scenario sex is "love making" and commendable.  But done in a totally different scenario it is "rape" and detestable.   Same basic action with very different results.

    Violence done to stop evil is good, courageous, and commendable.
    Violence done with mal intent is evil, cowardly, and must be stopped.

    CONTEXT MATTERS!  The context of the violence makes all the difference.

    Trust me, how you think about violence will make all the difference if you were to unfortunately find yourself attacked.  Most people will not get violent even when threatened with death, let alone pain or fear.  Why because while they may try to defend themselves, they won't allow themselves to get brutally violent like the mom I described.

    Am I promoting violence?  Yes BUT only when it is absolutely necessary.

    I hate seeing the bumper sticker "War is not the answer."  No, if the question is "what is 2+2?" or "What do you when you're driving and someone cuts you off?".. Then war is not the answer.  But when war is the answer - IT IS THE ONLY ANSWER!  "How do we stop Nazi's from murdering millions?" Answer: Victory through WAR and only WAR!

    Same is true with real violence.  No, violence is not ALWAYS the answer.  But when brutal, overwhelming violence is the answer - it is the ONLY ANSWER!

    That is why this is an ultimate issue.

    I am passionate about people understanding violence.  We need to understand that it can be done to any of us, and any of us can have a fighting chance if we do violence back.  The more targeted and overwhelming our violence is the better our chances of survival.

    Seriously folks, with what is going on the world I want to do what I can to at least break the trance many people are in and help them understand the necessary usefulness of violence for your own survival.

    Don't let violence just happen to you and overwhelm you.  Get prepared and train yourself to be the one who will overwhelm your attacker with devastating violence.

    I am not saying you need to go sign up for martial arts or Krav Maga.  Believe me, I've been fighting and doing martial arts since I was a kid.  In a truly violent situation martial arts will often get you killed.

    Why?

    One they train in a social setting, using antisocial violent scenarios, and using non-injurious or life threatening techniques.

    Sticking your thumb through a man's eye and digging it out is not a technique you will find in 99.9% of dojos or training halls.

    Why?

    Well, first of all if you are training at a dojo or dedicated training space they need to make rent and pay themselves.   Training folks how to dismember and cause serious injury due to grotesque actions is not good for business.  That's why people like me train people privately or due seminars.  (You can keep reading as I have no seminar to plug and I am not accepting any new clients... this is not an advertisement!)

    No, if you want to have fun, learn some super cool techniques, earn a belt, or fight in a cage...  MMA or whatever you do is great... BUT it will leave you terribly prepared for real violence or worse...  It will cause you to engage in a situation you have no business being in.

    I have seen this more often than I'd like to say.

    Example:

    Some college guys are out having some drinks in Austin, TX.  After shooting some pool they are ready to go home, but one guy is chatting up a girl.   Of course, the girl's boyfriend catches this and heads over.  Now our college friend and his buddies all train in MMA (shoot fighting specifically - this was in the late '90's).  Plus, they are all very well built and pretty big guys in general.  The boyfriend however is a short, slight hispanic.

    After a very brief exchange of obscenities, the guy hustling up the girlfriend takes a swing and hits the little Mexican.  Then all hell breaks loose.

    The boyfriend who was just hit was a coke dealer and a gang member.  Some of his gang friends were there as well.  As you can guess, they all joined in for a game they are familiar with but our young college boys had never played.

    I'm not going to go into graphic detail but knives, pool balls, and bottles were used on one side while the other tried to fight the only way they could imagine - fair.

    Smash cut to the end.  Police arrive, but the gang members had already left.  Our college guys survived, but were severely injured and taken to the hospital.  I don't know anything more than that.

    My point?

    1. Martial Arts training gives many people a false sense of power and security.
    2. The violent attacker doesn't need any training to be highly effective against a trained combatant.
    3. Most people don't really understand how fast violence can escalate and become lethal.

    With the high tension I am seeing in people, I wanted to issue a warning and get folks thinking a second time regarding violence.

    Whether or not you are trained does not matter.   Your physical size does not matter.  Your abilities do not matter.

    Not to sound corny, but what really matters is your MIND.  Your mind matters because that is the one thing that will determine whether or not you will act with such terrifying force that you throw your entire being into a man's eyeball.  Our minds truly are our most powerful weapons.  They can come up with all kinds of violence.

    Criminals and terrorists do it all the time.  If you want to have a fighting chance you need to allow your mind to get violent as well.  Done in the right context, violence is the key to survival.  Remember, violence is just a tool.  And used properly it can save your life and the lives of other good people.

    If you think, "I could never shove my finger into the eye of another man and dig it out as he screams in terror and pain."  Then, my question is "What if you knew that guy had a gun and was intent on shooting you and then raping your wife and daughter as you lay there bleeding out on the floor, helpless to do anything for them?"  Sadly and tragically, that is how certain evil animals disguised as humans act in our world.

    Again, to be clear!

    I am only speaking of using violence when it is absolutely necessary.  And when violence is necessary it is the only solution.

    Before you write and ask "How will I know?"  Let me relate something I learned from Tim Larkin and Chris Ranck-Buhr.  They had the best answer I've heard when asked about this.  Here are two example scenarios to practice:

    1. “The drunk just flipped me off and told me to F*** myself, so then I took my thumb and I dug his eyeball right out of his skull.”
    2. “As I turned, the gangbanger stabbed me, cutting me in the ribs, so then I took my thumb and I dug his eyeball right out of his skull.” 

    Seems simple and obvious, correct?  Use some common sense and know that most situations are antisocial situations where people are being rude, discourteous, and/or narcissistic.  On the tragically unfortunate and hopefully rare occurrence there are asocial situations where a violent criminal has no care for social norms, standards, rules, or any regard for your life or welfare.

    Most violent situations were antisocial violence and originate with words or posturing.  They are AVOIDABLE, and should be avoided.  Just use what ever social tools you have to avoid it, swallow your pride, and walk away (though stay ready.)  Antisocial violence is usually loud, dramatic, and draws a crowd.  School yard fights are anti-social violence.  School yard shootings however are A-social violence.

    In asocial violence, the violence is unavoidable.  You have no vote whether or not violence is going to occur... It's going to occur regardless.  There is no negotiating.  Talking your way out of a asocial violence will be as effective as talking your way out of moving bullet heading for your brain matter.

    Quote from the podcast:

    Negotiating with a serial killer is like arguing with a bullet: if it’s coming your way, words are not going to deflect it. If someone has decided to stab you to death, capitulation only makes their work easier.

    ~ Tim Larkin, Chris Ranck-Buhr

    I assume if you listen to a podcast like Ultimate Issues or read these show notes and transcripts then you are probably not the kind of person who thinks violently.  But when it's necessary you must.  You have a choice of whether you will simply allow violence to be done to you, or you can be the one doing the violence to your opponent.  It is a choice you can make and an ultimate issue you should think about.

    As I said in the podcast I have more opinions and information regarding the issue of violence so this is just part one for now.   If you have more interest, I am including some links to help further articulate the message.

    Some links from mentions in Podcast:

    5 Second Survival Free Membership

    Defining Violence

    Target Focus Training

    TFT Book  (if nothing else... start by reading this)
    Warning: Graphic Video of what violence looks like:

    And Here is an example of someone good using violence.

     

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    UI 064: Why Hysteria and the 6 Human Needs (pt. 2)

    UI 064: Why Hysteria and the 6 Human Needs (pt. 2)

    earth-237956_640In the last episode I discussed various hysterias (if that is the plural form... is there a plural for hysteria?), and why they are an ultimate issue (a main point being they distract from real evil and high risk threats). So, I figured in this episode I should tackle WHY people choose hysteria as a mode of operation.

    I suppose I should first admit my assumption.  Yes, I think hysteria is typically a choice.  More importantly the thinking and behavior associated with hysteria is definitely a choice.  I'll use a current hysteria, Ebola, as an example.  The press has done there job in creating a big dramatic story out of a local tragedy.  Ebola is awful and tragic for Africans and anyone who happened to have contracted it and died from Ebola.  But as I said last week, the press is silent on Malaria or Tuberculosis or diarrhea in Africa - though any of those could kill more Africans in a day compared to the 4 month list of casualties due to Ebola.  So the press decided to report Ebola as a scary predator disease that will spread like wildfire... and there's nothing we can do about it.  AND the people reading or hearing the news also decided to not think for themselves, and question the validity of the news story.   People choose what they believe and who they trust.   Admittedly, some are more thoughtful and discerning than others, but to have so many people willfully give up their common sense, ability to reason, and think beyond stage one is rather disheartening.

    Whether the hysteria be Ebola, global warming, or racism in America - the root issue boils down to the same principle, Human psychology.  Human psychology is rather simple and easy to predict and manipulate if you just know the rules of the game.

    First of all humans are human and not Vulcan.  The fictional Vulcans of Star Trek are hyper rational and logic based race.  While they have emotions, they are trained to not be guided by them.  There is even a Vulcan system of Kolinahr which basically purges one of emotions and allows them to become a purely logical being.  But alas, this is not the ways of humans.  We are emotional and logical creatures.   However, similar to Vulcans we too get to decide which will dominate and guide our behavior - reason or emotions.

    Let's face it, Ebola, Global Warming, and New World Order conspiracies are highly charged with emotions.  They are "shark bite" stories.  Graphic images and tragic scenarios lure your eyes and heart into a trance, and the next thing you know... BOOM! You are caught up in the hysteria.  The hysteria that people needless fall into are at best much ado about nothing or much ado about very little.  Yet, they consume many finite resources, time, and brain power trying to "fix" problems that are not that big.  For instance, we have American leadership who believe the greatest threat to America is Global Warming.  Not terrorism, not the national debt, not Russia, not Iran, not open borders, not a failing educational system, not asocial violence... No, global warming is what's going to get us.  Maybe not this year or next... but in 500 years watch out!  They'll be screaming "I told ya so!"  And because they are so hysterical and convinced this is a real threat, the Federal government is spending their limited time and money (and intelligence) coming up with new legislation to regulate citizens as well as industries (which just further hurts the economy), rather than focusing on balancing the budget and just stopping the massive hemorrhaging of money.  Or perhaps they could secure the borders.  How about immigration reform?  I typically don't want to government to do much, but if they are going to do something it better result in a good outcome (rather than just feeling good.)

    Emotions are powerful and can't be denied (nor should they be.)  Emotions should be understood, and only in certain personal circumstances should they be your guide.

    So lets try to understand why we do what we do... even when it is detrimental.  One of my beliefs is that nearly everyone's negative behavior is rooted in positive intent.  Of course, intent only gets you so far.  But it's important to understand most folks are not evil, rather they may be naive or misguided.

    So when I reference the press or a politician, and the hysteria they defend... I am not saying they are evil or doing it to cause harm.  Actually, I assume their actions are rooted in positive intent.

    Another belief I have is in regards to Human Needs Psychology.

    Everyone, from every culture, from every generation operates off six basic psychological needs.

    As taught by Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes they are:

    1. Certainty: The need to feel safe, secure, or certain about things
    2. Variety: The need to feel change, uncertain, or challenged
    3. Significance: The need to feel important, special, or needed.
    4. Love/Connection: The need to feel a part of a community, family, or bond to another.
    5. Growth: The need to feel development emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, or physically.
    6. Contribution: The need to feel we have or are more than enough and have something to offer others.

    Once you really understand how these six needs play out in your life, you will also be able to see how others are also driven by them.  In general, all human behavior and beliefs can be linked directly to one or more of these six needs.  And it doesn't matter if the behavior is "good" or "bad", people act because of these needs.

    So how does hysteria work within the framework of Human Needs Psychology.

    Let's start with the most obvious, VARIETY.  Remember that if you have too much certainty you will get bored and seek out some excitement and surprises.  You need to add some variety  to your unvaried, extremely certain life.  Hysteria is an easy way to do so.  Suddenly you don't know if your Big Mac is contaminated with Mad Cow disease.  Or did that mosquito have West Nile?  As odd as it may sound to some of you, people actually enjoy the uncertainty hysterias bring.  Hysteria can shift a boring life into a challenging and exciting  life - never knowing when disaster will strike.  Hysteria creates uncertainty in an otherwise certain and routine life.

    Does hysteria fulfill any other needs? You bet.

    Everyone needs to feel significant or special.  I find it fascinating how what start out as dietary restrictions become fads.  The most current one is "Gluten Free."  While I have family members who actually have been diagnosed with gluten allergies and have severe reactions when they consume gluten (so to be clear I am not dismissing gluten allergies/intolerances), I am also very wary of all  the people who now claim to need a gluten free diet.  Really?  You were just eating subways and pizza last year, and had no digestive or health problems... But this year you became allergic and can only eat gluten free?  Look I don't really care one way or the other (actually I'm grateful because the popularity has made it much easier for us to buy groceries - a few years ago it was rough.)  My point is that people who latch on to diet fads and hysterias feel significant and/or special.  When they go eat at restaurant they have to ask if this or that on the menu has gluten... and then explain the can't have gluten.  Or if they are going to a friends for a party, they need to make sure they request gluten free choices... again, because they are significant and special (but not so much so that they could just eat prior to going.) The reason I am on the diet fad thing, is because that is really where I see the hysteria - significance game played most often.  My theory is its due to the social aspect of eating, so its an easy way to show how special you are every time you eat which occurs every day and several times a day.

    Another scenario is in regards to the Global Warming hysteria.  How does some get significance through buying into anthropocentric climate catastrophe?  Cars.  While someone can claim they are buying a hybrid because it saves them money on gas... the math just doesn't add up.  First of all there are great cars (some I have owned) that get 40+ mpg on petrol.  I've had several GMC_Yukon_Hybrid_--_04-20-2010Volkswagen diesels (TDI) that got over 40 mpg, and known were more than $5000 used cars.  Even new they are typically much cheaper than hybrids.  Or I could use my old Toyota ECHO as an example.  That car got just over 40 mpg and was not a hybrid.  The first Prius (hybrid) was basically an ECHO with a hybrid motor... and it cost about $15,000 more.  But it only got about 5 t0 10 more miles per gallon (the biggest difference being city driving).  Well sales apparently not so hot with the first generation Prius, so Toyota got smart and made a new one that looked nothing like the ECHO.  And that is still the Prius you basically see today.  Oh, and they got rid of the ECHO.  My point is that having a noticeably hybrid or electric vehicle is a way for folks to feel significant and special.  If car manufactures were to make hybrids or electric cars without any insignia or special designs... sales would likely fall as they would no longer be an overt status symbol.

    Are there any other needs fulfilled via hysteria?  Actually I can show example after example of how each psychological need could be met via hysteria.  For instance, Love/Connection: The hysteria over the environment creates a connected community of like minded individuals.  It has grown to the point that they love one another, and should you differ with them then you are a "denier" (akin to a holocause denier  I suppose.)  You really saw this with the Occupy Movement.  We all witnessed victim hysteria and the love/connection they satisfied as they culminated together to fight their conspiritorial "oppressors".    When pressed on what their purpose was, or even in hind-sight what they accomplished... once again we see the hysteria was much ado about nothing.  We also see they power of social proofing and confirmation bias.  Love and connection is a powerful need that cannot be underestimated.

    Growth is simple to see.  Look at the lives of many trust fund kids or super wealthy celebrities.  They're psychological need for growth is stymied by the lack of need to produce, so they try to achieve growth through their "awareness" of whatever hysteria is the current fad.  Ever notice how celebrities with little background or education in science become experts about disease, climate, or diet?

    By the way this is also an example of how hysteria fulfills the need for contribution.  The attention given to hysterias is staggering considering all the real and significant threats to peoples' existence.  People are giving time and money to fight Ebola, but not malaria or tuberculosis.  Why?  Because Ebola is a big, scary monster and a person can feel their contribution to fight Ebola is more significant than one for something as boring as malaria (even though Ebola has claimed probably around 1000 lives over the last five months versus the more than 500,000 African children every year who die of malaria.)

    What about Certainty?

    One of the weird parts of hysteria that I have noticed is that it lulls many people into a false sense of security.  For instance, people think that since they recycle and drive a hybrid, they are helping save the planet and are good people.  Maybe they are, maybe they are not... Look if someone irresponsibly abuses and trashes the environment or animals that person is a problem, but just because you care for the environment and love animals doesn't mean you are a good person.  The Nazi's were extremely eco-conscience and "green" building parks and animal sanctuaries when not engaged in slaughtering Jews.  Plus, Nazi's were against animal cruelty even banning vivisection on animals, though they performed vivisection (and worse) to Jews.  Just because you recycle, ride a bicycle, or drive a hybrid, don't be so certain it reflects your upright moral character.

    Also don't be so certain you are making any impact.  Even if we all reduced our "carbon footprint" to nearly zero, that would meaning nothing to our climate.  A volcano could erupt and blanket our skies for years, or any number of naturally occurring phenomena could occur and be disastrous at any moment.  Hurricanes, tornados, fires, earthquakes, and asteroids will continue to threaten our Earth despite your reduction in carbon emissions.  But regardless, for some environmentalists, that emotional need for certainty is fulfilled every time they plug in their car.

    I am NOT saying that hysteria fulfills all human needs for all people.  But I am saying that for some people, buying into hysteria fulfills one or more psychological needs.  The more needs a hysteria fulfills, the greater a person latches onto and commits themselves to the hysteria.  Also it become more difficult to convince them otherwise, as this would mean filling those needs through some other unknown means.

    Regardless, we must think with our minds and not be led astray by our eyes or hearts.  We must be diligent and guard how we go about satisfying our six psychological needs.  Ultimately, these needs should be fulfilled through worthwhile means... Doing the most good for ourselves as well as others.  While the intent maybe good, the outcome is more important.

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    UI 063: Why are We Cucoo for Cocoa Puffs? (Hysteria pt. 1)

    UI 063: Why are We Cucoo for Cocoa Puffs? (Hysteria pt. 1)

    3289544734_5b7ac8493c_zEvery week or month there is a new hysteria, and people love it.  Why?

    Why do people seem to actually enjoy and thrive on hysterical claims, conspiracy theories, and the like?

    And why does it seem like most if not almost all hysteria are based on false prophecy?

    Since I was a child, I have not only not been caught up hysterics... I actually have an aversion to hype and hysteria.  When people or the press go gaga for whatever the hysteria du jour is, I just assume they are making much to do about very little or much to do about nothing.

    The latest hysteria is Ebola.

    I hear about it everyday now, where as just a week or two ago it was a blip on the news radar.  Now that there have been over 800 deaths out of over 1500 cases in Africa... the media is treating this like a global pandemic waiting to wipe out humanity.  Why?

    While the 800 deaths are each individually tragic and should not be dismissed... To be clear, as I stated in the podcast, I am NOT dismissing in any way the tragedy of each individual death and any family's loss.  I am however dismissive of the hype and hysteria from the press and so many people.  Why hasn't the media been concerned about the other diseases that are more devastating in Africa which are on going?

    Here are some of the articles I mentioned:

    Michael Fumento's article from 2001 can be read here:

    "There is a crisis brewing in the world that we ignore at our peril. The Ebola virus is back, and it’s spreading." So declared the opening line of a December Business Week article: "Ebola Could Soon Be the West’s Problem, Too."

    Soon? Ebola fever is already sweeping the West. But this pathogen is hysteria. And clearly initial infection confers no immunity, because we’ve been through all this before.

    Five years ago, after an African epidemic in the Congo, the disease spawned the hit movie Outbreak, with an Ebola-like virus threatening to wipe out the United States, and a TV movie, Virus, starring Ebola itself. CNN gave us a special report, "The Apocalypse Bug," while Newsweek’s cover blared: "Killer Virus."

     

    And this is from Michael Fumento's latest article in the NY Post:

    Here’s a rule of thumb about diseases: The rarer and less likely they are to kill you, the more hype they get. The New York Times ran more than 2,000 articles on SARS, which ultimately killed zero Americans.

    This is only the deadliest outbreak of Ebola Virus Disease because past ones were so tiny. At this writing, there have been 1,603 reported cases in Africa and 887 deaths.

    That’s too many. But every day about 600 sub-Saharan Africans die of tuberculosis, and contagious diarrhea claims the lives of 2,195 children, the vast majority of them in sub-Saharan Africa.

    Malaria, syphilis, AIDS and probably dozens of other diseases each year kill Africans at higher rates than Ebola is killing right now.

    And, should Ebola come to America, it’s vanishingly unlikely to “break out.”

    Read the full article here.

    Here's a review of some of the hysterias many Americans have engaged in...

    • Ebola
    • Swine Flu
    • Avian Flu
    • Silicone Breast Implants
    • DDT
    • Second Hand Smoke
    • Bullying
    • Anorexia
    • Fat Free Diet
    • Carb Free Diet
    • Gluten Free Diet
    • Hunger in America
    • Homelessness in America
    • Marijuana Kills
    • Global Cooling
    • Global Warming
    • Next Ice Age
    • Climate Change
    • Illuminati
    • Elders Of Zion
    • New World Order
    • American Colonialism
    • American Government Conspiracies in general
    • etcetera...

    Generally speaking all of these hysterias have been much ado about very little or much ado about nothing!

    We need to get our heads screwed on right and start using some common sense.  Think rationally rather than emotionally.

    Yes!  There are real threats and real risks and real evils which could do great harm and even kill you and your loved ones.  That stuff I just listed above is not likely one of them if you live in America!

    In our own country we could focus on:

    • Drunk Driving
    • Fatherless Homes
    • Out of Wedlock Birth
    • High School Graduation Rates
    • Heart Disease
    • Addiction
    • Asocial Violence

    If you want to help Africa, then start killing mosquitos.  Bring back DDT!  Send mosquito nets.  Use your money and brain power for actually doing good.

    You can go to 3rd world nations and provide wells for potable water.

    You can fight totalitarian governments who starve their people.

    There is so much good we can do, but instead the masses of people end up burning calories worrying about nonsense like a global pandemic of Ebola.

    Get it together.  Tuberculosis is far more virulent and rampant and NEAR!  But TB is boring so no one focuses on it.

    Focus on what DOES good rather than what FEELS good, and maybe we can start to significantly help people and save lives.

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    UI 062: Why Do We Hate for No Reason? And What Can We Do About It?

    UI 062: Why Do We Hate for No Reason? And What Can We Do About It?

     

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    Francesco Hayez [Public domain or Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons.  The destruction of the Temple of Jerusalem.

    Is the world catching fire or is it simply back to normal?  For most of human history mankind has narrowly survived.  Sure some individuals thrived as rulers, but the general populations suffered for their benefit.  Whether it was us killing each other, or disease, or the environment... It seems like mankind survived by some miracle or chance opportunity.  Then, there were brief moments of promise which seems to have culminated in the rise of the idea that is America.

    Suddenly with America, man had the most liberty ever in history.  Yes, America was/is imperfect but it is still the best hope for the world.  It is not about the land, or the people, but rather the ideas which have made and can continue to make America exceptionally good (i.e. Declaration of Independence, a constitutionally limited government, and the American Trinity "Liberty, E Pluribus Unum, and IN GOD WE TRUST").

    The freedoms of America allowed innovation and production by diverse people with an incredible range of knowledge and abilities.  Yes, there have been primitive cultures who were technologically advanced... but 1) primarily the elite benefited from the technology, and there was rarely an opportunity of the workers to benefit 2) many cultures were specialized in their technology and lacked the variety 3) most cultures were solely focused on material advancement, while America has been focused on material and immaterial advancement (i.e. abolition of slavery, equal rights, voting rights, etc.) and  4) other advanced cultures simply wanted to conquer less advantaged cultures, while America has used its advancement to benefit others.

    America not only advanced technologically, but morally as well.  America was once a force fighting for goodness and liberty.  America was not going to be an isolationist or colonialist empire, rather America was going to be a liberating force for good beyond her own land.  Europe, Japan, and South Korea all ultimately benefited from America's victories in their wars.  Now things seem to be going back to normal.

    Another World War, epidemic disease, economic collapse, and even Biblical prophesy are actual news topics today.  In looking for a movie to watch the other night, my wife and I previewed a bunch of trailers and it seemed like 80% were either apocalyptic or post-apocalyptic based stories.  I am not sure if this current Zeitgeist has always been lurking in the deep waters of our culture, or if it is returning after a brief hiatus.   Either way, many people are fearful, faithless, and totally uncertain.  And all of that is very understandable. It is very easy to lose perspective about our own lives, our own futures, and our own state of minds.  Worse, people are more divided amongst themselves than they have been in many years.  And even more tragic, is what this division brings with it.

    And I think this divisiveness is a root to many of our problems.

    Why do people fight?

    Why do people hurt one another?

    When I read stories of terror or listen to the horrors of a Holocaust survivor I question "How can someone act that evil?  Why did they do that?"

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    James Tissot [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons Artist vision of the 2nd Temple before destruction

    In thinking about Tisha B'Av (9th of Av,which this year begins the evening of Aug 4, 2014 - On that day throughout Jewish history: 12 scouts calumny about the land of Israel, 1st Temple destroyed, 2nd Temple destroyed, destruction of Betar, and further destruction of Temple site... And then there have been more post Biblical tragedies associated with this day: Initiation of first crusade, Jews expelled from England, Jews expelled from France, Jews expelled from Spain, WW1 began, approval of "Final Solution" in Nazi Germany, mass deportation of Warsaw ghetto began, and as recently as 1994 there was the bombing at a Jewish Community Center in Buenos Aires), I am reminded of what the rabbis of the Talmud famously said regarding the destruction of the Second Temple on the 9th of Av 70 CE. The Temple was destroyed because of “sinat chinam.” literally "free hatred", or hatred for no reason.

    What do they mean by "sinat chinam"?  Literally it can mean "free hatred", but it is commonly understood as "baseless hatred" or "hatred for no reason."  Fascinating that the Sages would point to that as the reason for destruction.  By the way, the hatred was in reference to each other... Jew hating Jew.  What happened?  Why would that cause our destruction?  Haven't we always argued and quarreled as a nation?

    Well I think there is tremendous insight into the Sinat Chinam theory.  First of all, if there is "hatred for no reason", then there should also be in contrast "hatred for good reason" ("sinat sachar").  There are way to many baseless reasons people hate someone (i.e. skin color, religion, finance, etc.), but what are legitimate reasons to hate?

    The primary reason one person could legitimately hate another is due to evil actions.  Now how one person defines evil and another defines evil will be subjective (as not everyone recognizes the one objective morality from the one God who is the author of morality... which I have discussed at length in previous podcasts.)  Regardless, the only hatred for good reason would be due to evil acts.  The good person should hate the evil actions of another person.  And to the extent that one person is categorized as "good" due to their behavioral account, so to someone else may be labeled "evil" due to their behavior account.

    If you don't think a person should ever be labeled as "evil" due to their behavior, then you should be consistent and hold that no other person is "good" due to their behavior.  By that rationale, Hitler was as good or evil as Mother Theresa.  Or, the wife and mother who takes care of her dying husband and autistic child while keeping a smile on her face is morally equivalent to the the mother who drowns her children and accuses her husband.

    So assuming some people are evil and we are justified in our hatred of them, then how do rationalize our baseless hatred.

    Just because the Rabbis speak of baseless hatred 2000 years ago does not mean it no longer exists.  It still exists within the Jewish nation, and seemingly every other nation as well.  Not only within a people, but more the baseless hatred is directed outside their own.

    Why?

    Why does a person do this?  Why does a nation do this?

    In studying "Heichaltzu" (a maamar from 'Rashab', which as of the podcast and this transcript I have yet to complete and fully understand) I began to grasp a better understanding of why we do this.

    The simple and short answer is the term "yeshus."

    From Chabad.org, an excerpt from The Second Ladder Up:

    The Hebrew word “yeshus” is a concept in Torah difficult to define and translate. The word connotes a perverse sense of self, an over-embellished focus on one’s needs to the exclusion of those of others, feelings of inflated centrality. The word describes an exaggerated sense of ego and heightened self importance.

    This ego and self important attitude is a chief reason why baseless hatred occurs.

    If one person can't stand another person for no real reason, it is because their ego sees their Self as better, superior, or more significant than the other person.  Not only that, their ego is directing their mind to find all the differences between their Self and every other self that exists.

    Divisiveness becomes the mode of operation for the person whose mind is driven by "yeshus".  Every person who is not themselves or within their own venn diagram of life is the "other."  Their ego only sees the differences between their Self and every other person.

    Understanding that state of mind you can see how some one can easily go from view another person as not only "different", but worse inferior, or even worse non-human.  Once that happens, evil actions are inevitably going to occur.

    So whether it was tribes in Africa who saw each other as the "other", or the Nazi's against the Jews, or North Korea versus South Korea, all one needs to understand is that once a person, or people see themselves as inherently different from another, then the hostilities and warring can began.

    And of course, this happens within a people as well.  The Jews hated each other for no real reason at the end of the Second Temple, and today many American's hate one another because of politics.  America is more divided today, than any other time in my lifetime and perhaps my parents lifetime.  Thankfully, the hatred is confined to words and emotions.  But we are in a Cold Civil War nonetheless.  We should learn from history and understand that baseless hatred does not end well for anyone.

    So what is the solution?

    If baseless hatred is caused by the self-important ego's intellectual determination that "I" am different from "you", then we must find the antidote.  The antidote is based on the same poison... the intellect.  Yes, the intellect is correct in determining one person is in many ways different from another person, but the intellect can be used further to realize that in other ways one person is exactly like another.

    How we are different is self evident, but how are we exactly the same?

    The simple spiritual answer is we are all created in the Lord's image.  Every person is a spark of the Divine.  Every person comes from the same exact Divine origin.  Spiritually speaking we are all connected and entwined leading back to the same exact Source.

    Imagine someone upsets your ego (e.g. they cut you off in traffic).  Your ego could get you irate enough to act hateful towards that person, or  humility could take over and help your mind further realize that person was made by the same Creator as you.  Would that cause you to think and act different?

    Maybe you are not spiritual, as I was not for many years.  So how else are exactly the same?

    Life.  We are both trying to get through this human life and all the problems associated with it.  Do you realize that your life and problems are not unique to you in essence?  Yes you have specific people, job, or circumstances to your problems, but everyone has problems to one degree or another.  Our problems are not the same, but we are all the same in that our lives have myriad problems.

    What if you were to imagine what problems that driver who cut you off may be facing?  Would that change your behavior?

    Utilizing our intellect to think beyond how we are different from one another and realizing how similar we all are is a key to unlocking the chains of baseless hatred in human civilization.

    This is why so many great teachers such as Rabbi Akiva or the Dalai Lama site the idea expressed by God in the Torah "to love the stranger like yourself, I am the Lord."

    One way many people read that is that we should feel love for other just like we love our own Self.  That is not wrong, but another understanding (very literal to the Hebrew) is to "love the stranger, who is like you!"

    God made us and knows our ego's tendency to divide our Self from other selves.  So, God commands us to think beyond our ego's limits and humbly understand that "the stranger is just like me."  He has wants, desires, pains, and memories just like I do.  He is human, just like me. He is made of Divine sparks, just like me (or star dust if you don't prefer the spiritual stuff.)

    This is more than just a good idea, we have a moral obligation to act lovingly towards the "other" with the understanding that the "other" is like myself.

    If we cultivate this attitude in ourselves then we may begin to act in baseless love "ahavat chinam" towards each other.  This is doable.  It just takes humility, patience, and understanding.  If a person or culture can go one direction, then why not the other.

    Does all this mean that we should be pacifist and never fight? NO.  As I said, if there is illegitimate hatred, then therefore there is legitimate hatred.  We need to be very clear and careful how we understand and combat real evil in this world, but combat evil we must!

    For the most part though, many people act hateful towards another for no real reason.  The ego of one person simply fights the ego of another.  Were they to act with humility towards one another an entirely different scenario would play out.

    This is the essence of the entire Torah.  We need to utilize our gift of intellect to think past division and into unification.

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    The Visionary Ezekiel Temple plan drawn by the 19th century French architect and Bible scholar Charles Chipiez [Public domain or Public domain], from Wikimedia Commons

    As the famous story goes Rabbi Hillel was approached by visitor who mockingly asked the great Rabbi to teach him the Torah while standing on one foot.  Rather than becoming upset with the request, Rabbi Hillel simply answered,

    What is hateful to you, do not do to others.  That is the entire Torah.  The rest is commentary.  Now go study

    And so impressed was the visitor by Hillel's answer that he actually did take up the study of Torah.

    There is much we can learn from teachers like Hillel.  Humility, kindness, and baseless love are a good start.  And all of this is framed in behavior which does not allow us act toward others in ways we would not desire for ourselves.

    Here are 7 suggestions for cultivating Ahavat Chinam "Baseless Love":

    1. Begin each morning affirming your moral obligation to act lovingly towards others, and understand they are like you
    2. Follow Hillel’s golden rule: “If you would NOT like it done to you, do NOT do it to someone else.”
    3. Avoid evil speech and gossip. Speak only good about others. Don’t even listen to a bad word, unless some real benefit will come through your conversation.
    4. Care for other's property and possessions as you care for your own.
    5. Always be on the lookout for opportunities to do someone else favor.
    6. Bring people together. Tear down the false barriers of age, affiliation, and "race".
    7. Study God's word and invite others to study as well.  The Torah is available to all who seek it.

    UI 061: Whom Do You Blame?

    UI 061:  Whom Do You Blame?

    index-315754_640When you see evil, whom do you blame?

    If you see a seemingly innocent person murdered whom do you blame?  The murderer or the person.  Or perhaps society.  Maybe you just blame God.

    How you determine culpability says a lot about you.

    Primarily it may determine whether or not your moral compass is broken or not.

    And what exactly is a moral compass?  Just as a navigational compass helps you determine the cardinal directions (North, South, East, and West) your moral compass helps you determine moral behavior (i.e. Good, Evil, Justice, and Compassion).

    If your navigational compass is broken then it will be telling you the wrong direction nearly all the time.  You are looking to head North, and your compass says "North", but since it is broken you eventually realize you were heading Southwest the whole time.  A broken navigational compass is frustrating and problematic, but a broke moral compass is tragic.

    A broken moral compass confuses whom you vilify and whom you glorify.  A broken moral compass can lead you to act compassionate to the cruel, and cruel to the compassionate.  Unfortunately, because you are being navigated by a broken moral compass you will have not only no idea your behavior is morally wrong, it will cause you to actually think you are morally correct and so you continue the immoral behavior.  Tragic.

    I'm sure some are saying, "Okay, but a compass has a North and South pole to work with - objective markers magnetic or otherwise which can be used a reference for the compass.  If the navigational compass is broken you can compare it with other indicators (i.e. GPS, constellations, Sun position, other compasses, etc.) to be sure your compass is broken or not.  But what about the 'moral compass'?  How do you determine what is good or bad?  Who says?  And is it an objective truth for everyone?"

    Great questions, and I had them myself.  The simple answer is God.  God is the giver of morality.  The God of the Torah teaches us how we are to behave in a moral and just way.  God also indicates what is universally immoral and unjust behavior.  If you do not have God as the basis of morality, then you have no objective morality... And therefore your moral compass is less likely function properly at all times.  Hopefully it will function properly enough so that you yourself don't act evil in the world, obviously.  But it has been my experience that with rare exception, those who do not base their morality on the Judeo based concept of Ethical Monotheism, their ability to morally judge others behavior is tragically skewed.  To be clear, I am not implicitly making an argument that all who do see God as the giver of morality act moral and judge morally.  No doubt, people can use their freedom of choice to take things out of context, make incorrect inferences, and/or simply be mistaken regardless of their belief in Ethical Monotheism.  That said, eliminating God as the sole giver of morality makes it far more difficult for a person to make correct moral judgements.

    If my hypothesis is correct, why would that be?  Well most people who reject God based objective reality site several reasons and answers to the question... What is moral?  Typically the answers range from moral relativism (e.g. What is moral for John is his morality , and what is moral for Mike is his morality.  It is all relative, and no one should judge).  In the final analysis, moral relativism breaks down to there is no morality. If you were to try this logic in other areas of life it would prove just as problematic.  Just because I believe 6=7 and you believe 6=6 doesn't matter, there is no objective truth on what the number 6 really represents.  6 is 7 for me and 6 is 6 for you, and maybe 6 is 0 for someone else... it is all relative.  So in this scenario numerical values do not really exist in any objectively defined or universal manner.  So what's the point?  That is how moral relativism works out... Morals are pointless constructs.

    What are the other options?

    Some claim their "heart" or conscience is their determiner of morality.  But ultimately this theory boils down to moral relativism.  Your "heart" tells you A is moral and B is immoral, but my "heart" holds just the opposite view.  Who are you to say your "heart" is morally correct, while mine is not?  Of course, the other problem is that our "hearts" can easily be swayed.  Fear, pain, selfishness, guilt, and other reactions to life's complexities can cause your "heart" to shift it's morals quite rapidly.  Sure, in time of peace and tranquility you say you would safe guard Jews were you in Nazi Germany, but when reality hits and you know that you and your own family will be massacred for hiding Jews how long before you have a "change of heart."  Besides this example, your "heart" may simply be wrong.

    An example from Dennis Prager illustrates this profoundly.  "If you saw your dog, your beloved pet, drowning and a stranger who was also drowning; and you knew you could only save one or the other - Who would you save?"  A surprisingly high percentage of people answer their dog.

    Why?

    Because they love their dog, and they don't even know the stranger (Some try to add to the scenario in their mind, and think the stranger could be a bad guy.  But he's a stranger... you know nothing about him... he is just another human being.)  Ethical Monotheistically based morality clearly makes the case that one should save the stranger.

    Why?

    Because Man alone is made in the image of God, and is of infinite value.  The dog, loved and valued as he may be, is just a dog, just an animal.  A creature of God to be respected, but nowhere near the value of a human being.

    Now something I find amazing, is that today's religions have become so afraid of teaching objective morality or so influenced by moral relativism that many religious kids would also answer they would save their dog.  God based morality must be actively taught, and reinforced by society's behavior.  Otherwise, it will decay. And that leads me to another point.

    Many people think that people are basically good, and therefore (sense people are basically good) all we have to do is avoid evil.  They may criticize religion for having so much intolerance, or make the false claim that "religion is responsible for all the wars, or all the deaths of innocents..."  Besides the problem of them denying the facts that the 20th century, the least religious century of historical record, far greater and more tragic wars have been fought for non-religious reasons.  Also, in the 20th century we saw tremendous horrors and mass genocide in times of peace from non-religious/anti-religious movements (i.e. Mao and Stalin.)  The numbers of casualties are astoundingly more than that of historic religious wars, and the atrocities committed are even more horrific. So besides being factually inaccurate, they are basing their assumption on a parasitic existence.

    They witness people basically acting good because they have a religious based morality at the root of their civilization.  If you completely cut off the religious soil which fosters a moral society, you will eventually end up with an immoral society.  This is what Will Herberg called "Cut Flower Culture" in his book Judaism and the Modern Man.

    The attempt made in recent decades by secularist thinkers to disengage the moral principles of western civilization from their scripturally based religious context, in the assurance that they could live a life of their own as "humanistic" ethics, has resulted in our "cut flower culture." Cut flowers retain their original beauty and fragrance, but only so long as they retain the vitality that they have drawn from their now-severed roots; after that is exhausted, they wither and die. So with freedom, brotherhood, justice, and personal dignity — the values that form the moral foundation of our civilization. Without the life-giving power of the faith out of which they have sprung, they possess neither meaning nor vitality.

    Unfortunately, history has proven his theory correct.  As Christianity lost its power in Germany, Nazism flourished.  As Mao destroyed the religions in China, his terror grew.  And while some may think goodness is a natural human tendency, reality seems to differ.  Rather, people are naturally selfish, narcissistic, ungrateful, and not courageous in the face of evil.  Good religion helps foster and cultivate courage, empathy, gratitude, and moral behavior.  Humanism encourages survival of the fittest, which is amoral at best.

    So how does this work out in your life?

    When you witness something morally troubling like someone harming an innocent person, how do you determine who was right and who was wrong?

    You may think this is easy... the person doing the harm is wrong, correct? But what if the innocent starts fighting back?  Does it change things?

    What if the innocent person starts overtaking and defeating the one who was doing harm initially?  Is he wrong in continuing to fight since he seems to be winning?  Or should he stop?

    What if the attacker continues to provoke and throw punches at the now dominating victim?

    What if all the attacker's efforts seemed ineffective?  Is the victim morally wrong to continue his own assault on his assailant?

    By now I'm sure some of you know why I am using this scenario and what I think it is analogous to.

    Israel, though not innocent and certainly not perfect, has been repeatedly and incessantly attacked by multiple assailants.  Miraculously, Israel continues to defeat and thwart all but one of her enemies numerous attacks.    While Israel is successfully combating many of the military and terrorist attacks, they are failing at the media attacks.  The one attack that Israel is not winning the battle for public opinion.

    The media has effectively swayed the "hearts" of many, if not most, of the world's opinion against Israel.  One of the most efficient ways they do this is by shifting blame.

    Rather than Hamas being blamed for dead Gazans, Israel is blamed. Hamas orders the civilians of Gaza to remain there, and they are not allowed build or utilize bunkers.  Why?  Because the Hamas officials know that loss of civilian lives  pulls the "heart" strings of the world.  Here is an actual order from the Interior of Hamas ordering to claim that any and all Gazan casualties be reported as "Gaza/Palestinian civilians" or "Gaza/Palestinian citizens".

    So when I hear from people that I know that they blame Israel because Israel is killing so many Palestinian civilians, I just shake my head in disbelief.  I don't know whether my friends are ignorant, naive, or operating with a broken moral compass.

    I have been questioning myself as well.  Am I biased because I am a Jew?  Perhaps I am.  It would be intellectually dishonest for me to claim otherwise.  Yes I could show more evidence proving why I am right (like the letter from Hamas Interior or any number of videos and articles from MEMRI.org) but I may simply be engaging in confirmation bias.

    So lets objectify the whole thing and make it unemotional.

    And while I had developed my own analogy... Dennis Prager just wrote this article doing a better job than I.

    The Jewish State in a Morally Sick World

    "Let’s drop the names “Hamas” and “Israel” and make a list of the characteristics of two imaginary warring entities. We’ll call them Entity A and Entity B.

    Entity A:

    • Declares that its raison d’etre is to annihilate Entity B.
    • Sends missiles to explode in the most populated parts of Entity B in order to kill as many civilians as possible.
    • Uses families and individual civilians as human shields to protect its own leaders from attack.
    • Tortures and kills domestic political opponents.
    • Has no political or religious freedom and has no freedom of speech, press, or assembly, and no independent judiciary.
    • Is a theocracy.
    • Violently oppresses gays.
    • Saturates its education and airwaves with a demonic hatred of Entity B.
    • Rated a “6″ by Freedom House in its 2013 report on freedom in the world. Seven is the worst possible rating. Entity A ranks 6 in freedom, 6 in civil liberties and 6 political rights.

     

    Entity B:

    • Recognizes the right of Entity A to an independent existence.
    • Has never begun a war with Entity A.
    • Has never targeted civilians in Entity A. In fact, it has sacrificed soldiers in order to avoid killing Entity A civilians.
    • Domestic political opponents — including even supporters of Entity A — not only have freedom of assembly, press and expression; they have political parties with representatives in Entity B’s parliament.
    • Has freedom of the press, assembly, religion, and a completely independent judiciary.
    • Allows gays full civil rights.
    • Has innumerable human rights groups dedicated to the welfare of people belonging to Entity A.
    • Has no education or broadcasts comparable to the daily hate in Entity A.
    • Freedom House rating for 2014 is 1.5 in freedom (“1″ is best possible); 2 in civil liberties; 1 in political liberties.

    So, then, with which entity does nearly every government in the world side? Entity A.

    And what is the primary concern of the United Nations, nearly all the world’s media, and nearly all the world’s intellectuals? That Entity B, while hundreds of missiles are launched at its most populated cities, not kill any of the civilians among whom Entity A’s leaders hide."  Read the entire article here.

    The one other reason he does not explicitly state is that due to the secularization of the Western world, the Islamization of the Eastern world, and sheepish mentality of the masses in general... Israel categorically demonic because the world's moral compasses are reading "Evil" when it should read "Good" and vice versa.Biazrro_world

    Somehow Earth has been transformed into "Htrae" and we are all living in Bizarro World.  Unfortunately only a minority of us know, and worse... only a minority who are self aware are willing to speak out and battle real evil.

    And battle we must!  Goodness is not come naturally.  Goodness is in a constant battle against evil.

    As Edmund Burke said and JFK quoted:

    The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.

    And in regards to creating a more morally upright, just, and wise society:

    Psalm 111:10

    ראשית חכמה ׀ יראת יהוה שכל טוב לכל־עשיהם תהלתו עמדת לעד׃

    The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To Him belongs eternal praise.

     

    UI 060: "The 14 Habits of Highly Miserable People & How to succeed at self-sabotage."

    UI 060: "The 14 Habits of Highly Miserable People & How to succeed at self-sabotage."

    sad-girl-236769_640So this week's podcast was based on an essay I recently read by a woman who has taught me a tremendous amount, Cloe Madanes.  

    Here is her bio in case you don't know of her: Cloé Madanes, HDL, LIC is a world-renowned innovator and teacher of family and strategic therapy and one of the originators of the strategic approach to family therapy. She has authored seven books that are classics in the field: Strategic Family Therapy; Behind the One-Way Mirror; Sex, Love and Violence; The Violence of Men; The Secret Meaning of Money; The Therapist as Humanist, Social Activist and Systemic Thinker; and Relationship Breakthrough.

    She has presented her work at professional conferences all over the world and has given keynote addresses for the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, the National Association of Social Workers, the Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference, the Erickson Foundation, the California Psychological Association, and many other national and international organizations.

    Madanes has won several awards for distinguished contribution to psychology and has counseled outstanding individuals from all walks of life. She has been featured in Newsweek, the Washington Post, and the Boston Globe. Her books have been translated to more than twenty languages. (source: www.CloeMadanes.com)

    The essay is titled:

    The 14 Habits of Highly Miserable People

    How to succeed at self-sabotage.

    and you can click here or above to read the full essay.

    The premise is simple enough.  
     
    Sure, people say they want happiness and fulfilled lives, but they act contrary to those words.  The reality is that many, if not most, people behave as though they really, truly desire misery rather than joy.  To be clear, I am referring to the vast majority who actually have tremendous amounts of free choice and free will.  I am not referring to those with brain trauma or organic (ie. congenital, biological, chemical) pathologies.  
     
    The truth is that most of us have the freedom to determine our state of mind and our behavior.  But unfortunately, in general people live their lives as if they have no ability to determine or direct their reactions to life.  They are simply helpless subjects guided by the environment.  They claim a desired destination, but do little if anything effective to get them to where they say they want to go.  Actually, they do a lot to make sure they are no where near where they say they want to go. 
     
    Sounds odd perhaps, but once you take an objective view of how people behave in contradistinction to their words, and make your decision based on their actions rather than rhetoric... it will all make sense.
     
    So maybe what they really want is a miserable life and not a happy one.  If someone said "I want to be wealthy" but did none of the things required to earn wealth (basics like: graduate high school, get a job, work tenaciously, get married before having kids, etc.) and instead did the antithesis... Wouldn't you assume what they really want is a life a poverty?
     
    If based on their actions, what people really desire is misery, then what is the best way to go about?  And why?  Why would someone (even yourself perhaps) actually want to be miserable?  There must be some benefit right?
     
    Well of course there are many benefits to acting miserable such as:
    • Attention and Care: People feel sorry for you.  They might actually feel guilty because somehow they are at fault.  If so, you may have hit a jackpot, and now you can manipulate that person to do all kinds of things for you.
    • NO Hopes, NO Desires, NO Cares, NO Disappointment: When you and your world are all worthless and meaningless then there is nothing to gain or lose.  You are NUMB.  Misery can be a powerful anesthetic allowing you to disconnect and check out from the world.  And the more disconnected you are... the more miserable you can act.
    • You are brooding and intelligent: People will assume you are a profoundly deep thinking intellectual.  The shallow, happy people could never understand or appreciate the burden of your insight and existential wisdom and understanding of the world.  If you are not miserable, then you are not paying attention...

    So if you really want to perfect the art of misery, then lets learn how to do it effectively.

    The 14 Habits of Highly Miserable People

    (List from Cloe Madanes.  Edited by me for brevity.  For my full commentary please listen to the podcast, and you can read her comments by clicking here.)

     
    "1. Be afraid, be very afraid, of economic loss. The art of messing up your life consists of indulging these fears, even when there’s little risk that you’ll actually suffer such losses. Concentrate on this fear, make it a priority in your life...
    Fearing economic loss has several advantages. First, it’ll keep you working forever at a job you hate. Second, it balances nicely with greed, an obsession with money, and a selfishness that even Ebenezer Scrooge would envy. Third, not only will you alienate your friends and family, but you’ll likely become even more anxious, depressed, and possibly even ill from your money worries. Good job!

    2. Practice sustained boredom. Cultivate the feeling that everything is predictable, that life holds no excitement, no possibility for adventure, that an inherently fascinating person like yourself has been deposited into a completely tedious and pointless life through no fault of your own. Complain a lot about how bored you are. Make it the main subject of conversation with everyone you know so they’ll get the distinct feeling that you think they’re boring. Consider provoking a crisis to relieve your boredom.

    A side benefit of being bored is that you inevitably become boring. Friends and relatives will avoid you. You won’t be invited anywhere; nobody will want to call you, much less actually see you. As this happens, you’ll feel lonely and even more bored and miserable.

    3. Give yourself a negative identity. Allow a perceived emotional problem to absorb all other aspects of your self-identification. If you feel depressed, become a Depressed Person; if you suffer from social anxiety or a phobia, assume the identity of a Phobic Person or a Person with Anxiety Disorder. Make your condition the focus of your life. Talk about it to everybody, and make sure to read up on the symptoms so you can speak about them knowledgeably and endlessly. 

    4. Pick fights. This is an excellent way of ruining a relationship with a romantic partner. Once in a while, unpredictably, pick a fight or have a crying spell over something trivial and make unwarranted accusations. The interaction should last for at least 15 minutes and ideally occur in public. During the tantrum, expect your partner to be kind and sympathetic, but should he or she mention it later, insist that you never did such a thing and that he or she must have misunderstood what you were trying to say. Act injured and hurt that your partner somehow implied you weren’t behaving well.

    Another way of doing this is to say unexpectedly, “We need to talk,” and then to barrage your partner with statements about how disappointed you are with the relationship. 

    5. Attribute bad intentions. Whenever you can, attribute the worst possible intentions to your partner, friends, and coworkers. Take any innocent remark and turn it into an insult or attempt to humiliate you. ...The idea is to always expect the worst from people.

    (...And if a) person asks what’s wrong, don’t say a word: let him or her suffer.

    6. Whatever you do, do it only for personal gain. Sometimes you’ll be tempted to help someone, contribute to a charity, or participate in a community activity. Don’t do it, unless there’s something in it for you, like the opportunity to seem like a good person or to get to know somebody you can borrow money from some day. Never fall into the trap of doing something purely because you want to help people. Remember that your primary goal is to take care of Numero Uno, even though you hate yourself.

    7. Avoid gratitude. Research shows that people who express gratitude are happier than those who don’t, so never express gratitude. Counting your blessings is for idiots. What blessings? Life is suffering, and then you die. What’s there to be thankful for?

    8. Always be alert and in a state of anxiety. Optimism about the future leads only to disappointment. Therefore, you have to do your best to believe that your marriage will flounder, your children won’t love you, your business will fail, and nothing good will ever work out for you.

    9. Blame your parents. Blaming your parents for your defects, shortcomings, and failures is among the most important steps you can take. After all, your parents made you who you are today; you had nothing to do with it. If you happen to have any good qualities or successes, don’t give your parents credit. Those are flukes.

    10. Don’t enjoy life’s pleasures. Taking pleasure in things like food, wine, music, and beauty is for flighty, shallow people. Tell yourself that. If you inadvertently find yourself enjoying some flavor, song, or work of art, remind yourself immediately that these are transitory pleasures, which can’t compensate for the miserable state of the world. The same applies to nature. If you accidentally find yourself enjoying a beautiful view, a walk on the beach, or a stroll through a forest, stop! Remind yourself that the world is full of poverty, illness, and devastation. The beauty of nature is a deception.

    11. Ruminate. Spend a great deal of time focused on yourself. Worry constantly about the causes of your behavior, analyze your defects, and chew on your problems. This will help you foster a pessimistic view of your life. Don’t allow yourself to become distracted by any positive experience or influence. The point is to ensure that even minor upsets and difficulties appear huge and portentous.

    You can ruminate on the problems of others or the world, but make them about you. ...By ruminating not only on your own problems but also those of others, you’ll come across as a deep, sensitive thinker who holds the weight of the world on your shoulders.

    12. Glorify or vilify the past. Glorifying the past is telling yourself how good, happy, fortunate, and worthwhile life was when you were a child, a young person, or a newly married person—and regretting how it’s all been downhill ever since.

    ... Focus on what you could’ve and should’ve done, instead of what you did. This will surely make you miserable.

    Vilifying the past is easy, too. You were born in the wrong place at the wrong time, you never got what you needed, you felt you were discriminated against, you never got to go to summer camp. How can you possibly be happy when you had such a lousy background? It’s important to think that bad memories, serious mistakes, and traumatic events were much more influential in forming you and your future than good memories, successes, and happy events. Focus on bad times. Obsess about them. Treasure them. This will ensure that, no matter what’s happening in the present, you won’t be happy.

    13. Find a romantic partner to reform. Make sure that you fall in love with someone with a major defect (cat hoarder, gambler, alcoholic, womanizer, sociopath), and set out to reform him or her, regardless of whether he or she wants to be reformed. Believe firmly that you can reform this person, and ignore all evidence to the contrary.

    14. Be critical. Make sure to have an endless list of dislikes and voice them often, whether or not your opinion is solicited. For example, don’t hesitate to say, “That’s what you chose to wear this morning?” or “Why is your voice so shrill?” If someone is eating eggs, tell them you don’t like eggs. Your negativity can be applied to almost anything.

    It helps if the things you criticize are well liked by most people so that your dislike of them sets you apart. Disliking traffic and mosquitos isn’t creative enough: everyone knows what it’s like to find these things annoying, and they won’t pay much attention if you find them annoying, too. But disliking the new movie that all your friends are praising? You’ll find plenty of opportunities to counter your friends’ glowing reviews with your contrarian opinion."

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    So these are just 14 habits, there are many more.  But the truth is you can succeed in being miserable with just few of the habits done on a consistent basis.

    On the other hand, if you do NOT want to be miserable then you should evaluate your life and see if you perhaps practice any of these misery habits.  Maybe you have your own particular method of developing misery and destroying your chances of happiness.  Write it down and decide if that is something you'd like to continue... or not.

    It is up to you. 

    In the final analysis, in general people have the ability to determine their mindset and behavior, they simply may not be aware or willing to put in the effort.  And yes, it does take effort.

    I learned at a very young age that anyone can be a jerk.  It takes no effort to be angry or miserable.  However, it takes tremendous effort to act happy despite circumstances.

    As Dennis Prager says "Life is Relentless", and it can feel overwhelming.

    Life keeps happening to us and there is no pause button allowing us to regroup or catch up.  And there definitely is no rewind button to fix our past transgressions.  

    But what we have been given is the gift of the present day, and the freedom to determine how we will live it.  We have little control over how life unfolds, but we have tremendous control over how we deal with it.  

    I argue that should you become keenly aware of avoiding these 14 habits of misery and instead do the opposite, then you will find the faith and happiness God has always intended for you.

    Determine if you have any of these habits.  See how they have served you.  Decide if they are worth it to you.  And if not, how can you transform them into habits of happiness.

    Just like you can change your habits to go from being an overweight and/or unhealthy person to a fit and healthy one, so to can you change your habits for misery into happiness.

    Become as focused on improving your character as you may have been in improving other aspects of your life (appearances, money, etc.).

    Start now.

     

     

    UI 059: Israel (part two): What Should Israel Do?

    UI 059: Israel (part two): What Should Israel Do?
    By http://www.flickr.com/people/45644610@N03 (http://www.flickr.com/photos/idfonline/8194572552/) [CC-BY-SA-3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
    By http://www.flickr.com/people/45644610@N03 (http://www.flickr.com/photos/idfonline/8194572552/) [CC-BY-SA-3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons -------------------------   This is part of Israel's remarkable "Iron Dome"

     

    There is so much I want to talk about.  We just celebrated July 4th, Independence Day, and while I am overjoyed and grateful for being an American, I am also saddened and dismayed by the lack of meaning the 4th of July now has for many young adults.   As Dennis Prager recently cited on his show, there is a sharp decline in young adult Americans (up to age 35) who feel a sense of "patriotism" for America.  Many are more focused on being citizens of the world, on America's faults, or other European values rather than American values (e.g. equality of result vs. liberty).

    I have a lot to say about this, and have some solutions in mind.  Yesterday I had the rare opportunity to listen to Dennis live when he raised this subject again, and so I called in.  Maybe I will do another show just on this, and play for you our exchange.  I think American patriotism is vitally important and must be fostered. 

    Right now, I feel a sense of obligation to follow up on my last podcast, UI 58: Israel - An Ultimate Issue.  Sense I aired that much more has  transpired regarding Israel.  They seem to be on the brink of another war.  And everyone in the media seems to have an opinion regarding this mess.

    Let's start out by understanding what is happening.

    To a large extent these most recent engagements are a direct result of the kidnapping and murder of 3 Israeli teenagers.  No doubt, Israel was angered and there was a heightened level of hostility towards its enemies (Hamas in particular as they appear to be the ones responsible.)  Unfortunately, there was a horrific retaliation from supposedly 6 Israeli citizens who murdered a Palestinian teen, Muhammad Abu Khdeir (16).  In relation to this story, here is an article for the New York Times which provides more info (and was read on the podcast.)

    (on the podcast I also play what Prime Minister Netanyahu had to say in his own words)

    Now to be clear about this.  In general, Jews around the world are horrified and shamed by the murder of that Palestinian boy.  Not because it could mean more war in Israel, but because the Jewish culture believes the murder of anyone by anyone as among the most evil, terrible, horrific, nightmarish, shameful, and destructive actions.  Again, the Defense Minister of Israel said those Israeli's acted as terrorists!  And all of Israel and the Jewish nation in diaspora explicitly condemn the murder of Muhammad Abu Khdeir.

    Now contrast this with the Palestinian and Hamas reaction to the kidnap and murder of the three Israeli teens.

    The media is so focused on featuring the acts of violence between Israel and its enemies, that they lose focus of what matters even more... How do the cultures differ in the reaction to violence?

    How can we judge a culture or society?

    If we do it through whether or not evil is done in or by that society, then all cultures and societies are awful.  Unfortunately, there will always be people in every society who will do evil.

    So then how are we to judge?

    It is not by whether or not evil exists in it.  It is how the society or culture in general REACTS to evil.

    In the Palestinian culture murderers of Israeli youths are honored and celebrated.  Streets, plazas, and squares are named after them.  The Palestinian society reacts with pride when they learn that Israeli's or Jews have been killed by them.

    Contrast their reactions (and many other Anti-Jew cultures in the middle east and elsewhere) with that of the Israeli's and Jews around the world.  For a people who are rarely unified, we find unity in condemning the Israeli terrorists who murdered Abu Kheider.  There is no justification for their actions, no forgiveness, and no atonement for the murderers.  The Jewish and Israel culture think murder is horrific regardless of who is murdered or who the murderer is.

    A major Orthodox rabbi, Rabbi Elyakim Levanon: head of the Elon Moreh yeshiva, said that the murderers of Muhammed Abu Khdeir should be given the death penalty. “Unfortunately, it appears that Jews were involved in this matter..." and “Jewish law has no mercy for the perpetrators of crimes like murder, whether of Arab or Jew, whether by Arab or Jew.”

    Chief Ashkenazi Rabbi David Lau said “Individuals do not have the right to take revenge for the death of the innocent. Revenge is not a license given to the hot-blooded for ‘action.’ Revenge is a strong, destructive weapon, and if there is such a concept in the world, it does not belong to humans.” Meaning only God could avenge the murder of the three Israeli teens who were recently murdered (Eyal Yifrach, Naftali Frenkel and Gilad Shaar.)

    So if what I say is true, then how should you judge the cultures?  The Islamist, Anti-Israel, and Palestinian culture reacts with indifference at best and celebratory pride at worst when it learns of the murders of Israeli teens by a Palestinian.  While in contrast the Israeli and Jewish culture at large reacts with nearly unanimous disgust, shame, and remorse for the murder of the Palestinian teen by Israelis.

    Assuming you judge the Israeli or Jewish culture to be on a higher moral plain than the Palestinian or Islamist culture, then what should Israel do when they are under attack?

    According to a recent interview with former Ambassador Micheal Oren there have been more than 400 rockets launched at Israel in the last two weeks alone.   Hamas openly states their desire to annihilate Israel and the Jews.  But whenever Israel engages militarily against Hamas they are condemned by the world's press.

    So Israel has to fight two battles.  One they have to fight those who wish her liquidated, and the second is that Israel has to fight the media.   Hamas knows this.  Hamas uses not only military strategy in fighting Israel, but also media strategy.  How quick was everyone to learn of the Palestinian who was horrifically murdered?  Within a day, I had people at work asking me about it.  But when the Israeli boys were kidnapped there was virtual silence in the mainstream media.  Even after they were found murdered... silence.  When I mentioned it to friends (as I was going to show support at a synagogue) they did not even know what I was talking about.  It had been over two weeks at that point.

    Then there is the video of Abu Khdeir's American-Palestinian cousin being beaten by the IDF.  The teen claims he was just watching protests... but of course the officials say he was one of the many masked protesters attacking the IDF.  All that is shown on the video is the end of the violence, not the beginning.  The context matters.  But all that the video is used for is Anti-Israel imagery and rhetoric.

    Another question I have is why has our American government decided it will now recognize Hamas and Fatah as governments?  Read the article from Breitbart.

    OBAMA RECOGNIZES TERRORIST GROUP HAMAS AS LEGITIMATE PALESTINIAN GOVERNING PARTNER

    "The White House announcement that it would break with existing US policy and work with a new Palestinian government which includes the terrorist organization Hamas has stunned and outraged Israelis and emboldened radicals in the Arab and Muslim world.

     Defending the controversial decision Wednesday in Beirut, US Secretary of State John Kerry claimed the decision to keep funding the Palestinian Authority, now jointly run by Hamas terrorists, does not violate US prohibitions against supporting, funding, or recognizing terrorist groups because no senior Hamas officials have formal cabinet posts."~ by THOMAS ROSE 6 Jun 2014

    So I want you to imagine that you state is surrounded by other states who think it has no right to exist and must be annihilated.  How would you want your state to act?

    If your state fights back and does so effectively, but is condemned by world opinion for disproportionate violence... How would you want your state to act?

    These are the dilemmas Israel and Israelis face.  They have to fight terrorists, the media, and much of the world's opinion.

    So what should Israel do?

    No doubt, Israeli citizens should do as they have done and outright condemn any murderers and terrorists.  And they also must do a sincere moral inventory to understand if those murderers were an aberration of current Israeli society or an underlying unspoken spirit (God forbid.)  If there is any truth to the latter, then there must be a return to the Jewish values that have made Israel upright with its moral clarity and stance.  My guess is that the outrage, shame, and embarrassment felt by every Jew will help ensure such evil does not become the norm within Israel.  Israel must not lose its moral high ground.

    Also, in listening to the Israeli defense and Michael Oren it would appear that continued strategic airstrikes done with surgical precision are the best course of action.  I know that the world will still condemn Israel because of the effectiveness of the strikes.  But so what?

    Again, it is that "disproportionate force" argument.  If the capabilities were reversed, Israel would have already been annihilated.  Israel's "Iron Dome" is 90% effective in reducing massive damage from Hamas rockets.  But that doesn't mean Israel isn't affected by the attacks.

    The only way to restrain Israel's enemies is through force.  I wish peace agreement worked.  Israel wishes peace agreements worked.  They gave up the entire Sinai Peninsula (rich with oil and strategic positioning) to Egypt for a sheet of paper that promised peace.  But once there was a regime change in Egypt... the peace ended... and of course Egypt still has the Sinai Peninsula.

    Making peace would be great if both sides would agree, but since only one side wants peace it is a naive sentiment.

    So with all that said...

    What Should Israel Do?

    Source Articles:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/07/world/middleeast/israel-palestinians-muhammad-abu-khdeir.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&version=LedeSum&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news

    http://www.breitbart.com/Big-Peace/2014/06/05/Obama-Recognize-Terrorist-Group-Hamas-As-Legitimate-Palestinian-Governing-Partner-First-World-Leader-to-do-so

    http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/05/world/middleeast/israel.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news&_r=0

    http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/09/world/middleeast/by-phone-and-leaflet-israeli-attackers-warn-gazans.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&version=HpSumSmallMedia&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news

    http://online.wsj.com/articles/the-next-gaza-war-1404863155

    http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/09/world/middleeast/israel-steps-up-offensive-against-hamas-in-gaza.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&version=LedeSum&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news

    ***Update*** Related Article from Dennis Prager in the Jewish Journal "When Jews Murder"

     

     

    from Biblegateway.com

    Psalm 59 New International Version (NIV)

    Psalm 59[a]

    For the director of music. To the tune of “Do Not Destroy.” Of David. A miktam.[b] When Saul had sent men to watch David’s house in order to kill him.

    Deliver me from my enemies, O God;
        be my fortress against those who are attacking me.
    Deliver me from evildoers
        and save me from those who are after my blood.

    See how they lie in wait for me!
        Fierce men conspire against me
        for no offense or sin of mine, Lord.
    I have done no wrong, yet they are ready to attack me.
        Arise to help me; look on my plight!
    You, Lord God Almighty,
        you who are the God of Israel,
    rouse yourself to punish all the nations;
        show no mercy to wicked traitors.[c]

    They return at evening,
        snarling like dogs,
        and prowl about the city.
    See what they spew from their mouths—
        the words from their lips are sharp as swords,
        and they think, “Who can hear us?”
    But you laugh at them, Lord;
        you scoff at all those nations.

    You are my strength, I watch for you;
        you, God, are my fortress,
    10     my God on whom I can rely.

    God will go before me
        and will let me gloat over those who slander me.
    11 But do not kill them, Lord our shield,[d]
        or my people will forget.
    In your might uproot them
        and bring them down.
    12 For the sins of their mouths,
        for the words of their lips,
        let them be caught in their pride.
    For the curses and lies they utter,
    13     consume them in your wrath,
        consume them till they are no more.
    Then it will be known to the ends of the earth
        that God rules over Jacob.

    14 They return at evening,
        snarling like dogs,
        and prowl about the city.
    15 They wander about for food
        and howl if not satisfied.
    16 But I will sing of your strength,
        in the morning I will sing of your love;
    for you are my fortress,
        my refuge in times of trouble.

    17 You are my strength, I sing praise to you;
        you, God, are my fortress,
        my God on whom I can rely.

    Footnotes:

    1. Psalm 59:1 In Hebrew texts 59:1-17 is numbered 59:2-18.
    2. Psalm 59:1 Title: Probably a literary or musical term
    3. Psalm 59:5 The Hebrew has Selah (a word of uncertain meaning) here and at the end of verse 13.
    4. Psalm 59:11 Or sovereign

     

     

     

    UI 058: ISRAEL... An Ultimate Issue

    UI 058: ISRAEL... An Ultimate Issue

    What you think about Israel is it a litmus test for what think regarding many issues in life.  Many people would rather not think about Israel, and therefore have no opinion on the matter.  And my guess is those people are probably that way on many other controversial issues in life.  But what is it about the tiny Jewish state of Israel that makes it so controversial?  How could a country the size of New Jersey with a population smaller than the state of Virginia or NY City be the center of so much controversy and debate?  If I said "Spain, France, El Salvador, Guam, Zimbabwe, or any other nation (other than Israel and the United States of America) was an Ultimate Issue", no one would have a clue what I was talking about.  So why is the smallest, freest, and most democratic state in the Middle East supposedly the cause of so much of the world's problems?  Why are Israeli citizens (not military)  regularly targeted as the enemy and terminated or captured as if they were soldiers?

    Just recently we learned of the tragic fate of three Israeli teenage students who were kidnapped, murdered, and their bodies dumped in the desert.  Hamas, while not claiming responsibility, cheered the news. Who does that?  What kind of thinking conduces a person, let alone a people, to cheer upon hearing the news of the murder of three teenage students?   My best guess is those who are filled with hate and disgust towards certain people.  Actually that is not even enough, they have to believe the Jews are not human, or subhuman, or perhaps a demonic form that only appears human.

    ***Just Released***

    Below is the final phone call to the police from one of the boys phone.  You can hear the murderers speaking in Arabic, praising Allah, as well as cheering, singing, and rejoicing over their victims fate:

     

    Everyone knows there is "tension in the Middle East", but few people want to say why.  Everyone knows the Middle East problem is complicated, and requires a complicated solution.  But perhaps, once again everyone is wrong.   The masses of minds do little critical thinking, and even less inquiry into facts or history.

    So rather than discussing the Middle East problem in my own words, please allow me to let Dennis Prager do it far better than I could:


    So if the problem is so easy to understand, then why do people, seemingly much of the world - not just Arabs or Muslims, primarily hold Israel accountable.  Why is there a strong movement for "BDS Israel" (boycott, divest, sanction) in American universities where many Jews proudly send their children?  Why does the news constantly and consistently report Israel as morally equal or morally guilty of terrorism or apartheid?

    As I have learned from Dennis Prager and further from George Gilder: A huge dilemma Israel faces is in regards to how the media and much of the world does NOT divide reckoning based on  GOOD vs. EVIL.  In fact, when leaders like Reagan or George W. Bush used the term "evil" they were panned and ridiculed by the press and university professors.  No, the media and much of the intelligentsia divide the world based on:

    • Rich vs. Poor
    • White vs. Black
    • Oppressor vs. Underdog

    Once you realize this mindset is what dominates much of the determinations of those who voice their opinions then it all becomes clear.  By the way, this formulation for judgement of the world holds true for Marxism and Leftism in general.  So if you are a Marxist or simply a Leftist, then you should have no issue with the current bias or my allegation.  Rather, you should agree that that is a better determinate than some immaterial "values" system based on some preferred religion over another.

    Again, to be more clear what I mean by all this let me play another course from Prager U, and lets see if you "pass" the "Israel Test":

    Unfortunately our news sources and politicians have horrifically failed the Israel test.  For those of you who are only recently becoming aware of the Israel vs. World issue, understand that this has been going on since the current Israel's founding just over 60 years ago.  And it transcends the State of Israel... it holds true for Jews outside the land as well.

    There are so many false reports and allegations about Israel it is mind boggling.  For instance a more recent incident (probably within lifetime for most of you listening) was the "Jenin Massacre" of 2002.  Basically the press made headlines claiming a "Horrific massacre beyond belief" occurred when the Israelis attacked Jenin and supposedly slaughtered all the innocent people living there to one degree or another.  Even the UN (not known for being an allied with Israel) claimed that in fact there was NO MASSACRE in Jenin.  But of course the correct story was rarely, if ever, reported.

    Or the Muhammed Al-Durrah video that turned out to be a fraud.  This was the famous video of a boy and his father shown hiding on the streets and mercilessly gunned down by the IDF.  The whole thing was a hoax.  Philippe Karsonty completely exposed the faked video.  How much press did that get?

    Events that happen here in the United States have a similar fate.  In 1991 a religious Jew was driving a car in a motorcade and was involved in a car wreck which resulted in the death of a seven year old black boy, Gavin Cato.  Rather than labeling this tragic incident as an "accident" or "negligence", the people and the media begin painting a scenario of events based on racism.  For instance, the New York Times reported it as a "race war".  And people who are supposedly black leaders like Al Sharpton spurred on the malicious allegations against the large Chasidic Jewish community in Crown Heights.  The result of these slanderous reports and rhetoric included the murders of: Yosef Rosenbaum - for being a Jew, and Anthony Graziosi - for being mistaken as a a Jew (as he also had a long beard and wore a black suit.)  According to wikipedia: "Twenty years after the riots, Sharpton regretted some aspects of his involvement. He insisted that his marches were peaceful, although his language and tone 'sometimes exacerbated tensions'."

    Once again, actions, and not intentions, are what matter most.  Sure, there are people who say they like Jewish people, and they like Jewish food, or they like Jewish humor, but they don't think Israel should exist as a Jewish nation.  How do you explain this?  Well, this is still a form of what is called Anti-Zionist, but that term is a bit misleading in most cases.  Most people who are against the Jewish State of Israel are in fact anti-Jew (Typically mislabeled as anti-Semitic as Arabs are usually also of Semitic ancestry, and they are not "anti-semitic". Many are however anti-Jew.) Why would I say they are anti-Jew?

    Prager makes a great point about this.  "If you say you love Italians, or Italian food, or Italian operas but you don't think Italians have the right to their own sovereign Italian nation, then wouldn't you think that ultimately that person is anti-Italian?"

    It is a simple question, DOES THE JEWISH STATE OF ISRAEL HAVE THEIR RIGHT TO EXIST?

    In the Middle East there are 22 Arab nations, and 1 Jewish nation the size of the state of New Jersey... And the Jewish nation is the one whose existence is threatened.  It is the Jewish state whose founding is constantly questioned.  Tell me... why do they question the legitimacy of Israel and not Pakistan?  There are many parallels between the two nations in terms of when they were founded, and that they were both for religious reasons.  But the world is silent regarding the horrendous treatment of the Muslim Pakistani forces against the Pakistani Hindus throughout the years.  There is nothing analogous between the genocide and ethnic cleansing done in Pakistan and the reality of the freedom enjoying Arab-Muslim living in Israel, or those who live in Judea -Sumaria (West Bank) or Gaza.

    Here is another course from Prager University discussing exactly this issue and why Europe in particular has a problem with Israel:

    As rabbi Daniel Gordis makes clear, much of Europe and many Europeans fail the Israel test, but what about our American government? How are they currently responding to the Middle East problem and Israel?

    A recent article in the Daily Beast by Josh Rogin clues us in on one issue America's leader seem to have with Israel.  Below is an excerpt:

    (Secretary of State John Kerry's statement to the Trilateral Commisssion) “A two-state solution will be clearly underscored as the only real alternative. Because a unitary state winds up either being an apartheid state with second-class citizens—or it ends up being a state that destroys the capacity of Israel to be a Jewish state,” Kerry told the group of senior officials and experts from the U.S., Western Europe, Russia, and Japan. “Once you put that frame in your mind, that reality, which is the bottom line, you understand how imperative it is to get to the two-state solution, which both leaders, even yesterday, said they remain deeply committed to.”

    According to the 1998 Rome Statute, the “crime of apartheid” is defined as “inhumane acts… committed in the context of an institutionalized regime of systematic oppression and domination by one racial group over any other racial group or groups and committed with the intention of maintaining that regime.” The term is most often used in reference to the system of racial segregation and oppression that governed South Africa from 1948 until 1994.

    Former president Jimmy Carter came under fire in 2007 for titling his book on Middle East peace Palestine: Peace or Apartheid. Carter has said publicly that his views on Israeli treatment of the Palestinians are a main cause of his poor relationship with President Obama and his lack of current communication with the White House. But Carter explained after publishing the book that he was referring to apartheid-type policies in the West Bank, not Israel proper, and he was not accusing Israel of institutionalized racism.

    “Apartheid is a word that is an accurate description of what has been going on in the West Bank, and it’s based on the desire or avarice of a minority of Israelis for Palestinian land,” Carter said.

    So is Israel an apartheid state?

    Once again let's take a course from Prager University and decide for ourselves:

    And if that wasn't enough and you need more convincing here is Kenneth Meshoe a black South African who survived apartheid and is not a member of the South African parliament.  He too taught a course regarding Israel and apartheid for Prager U.

    I know that if you scan the internet you will find all kinds of videos and posts trying to debunk the facts I've presented here.  For instance, if you go on youtube you will find all kinds of propaganda akin to Nazi Germany's which demonizes Israel, Jews, and/or proves there is a global conspiracy where the Jews are supposedly plotting a demonic world take over.  So here is the deal, look for facts.  Cold. Hard. Facts.  Not emotional arguments.  Not graphic  imagery.  Not brooding music.  Strip them of their theatrics and then... strip them of their adjectives.  Look only for the objective truths and not subjective opinions or passionate desires.  I think that once people think with their minds regarding Israel (rather than being lead astray by their hearts or eyes), they will finally begin thinking clearly about this ultimate issue, and stand on the side of the only free, democratic nation who happens to be Jewish, and wants the right to exist as a nation.

    In the final analysis, if you are still on the fence or know someone who does not think clearly about Israel, ask this: Do you really think that if the Jews left Israel and created their own little paradise in Antarctica would there:  (A) Be Peace in the Middle East, (B) Be Peace regarding the land of Israel or Jerusalem, and (C) Be no more desire from certain Arab nations, Muslim sects, or other anti-Jew groups to destroy the Jews?  

    Really,  do you think if the Jews left Israel completely... then all would be peaceful and fine in the Middle East and no one would ever bother the Jews again?  Really?