approaching women

Do you feel tongue-tied when it comes to approaching women or have the desire to master the art of effective social interactions? Get ready for an enlightening conversation as I, your host Joseph W South, sit down with Orleans, a senior instructor with the Vin Di Carlo organization. Together, we'll take you on a journey to explore the unique, drill-based system of Vin Di Carlo that’s transforming the dating scene.

I’ll share my personal stories and those of Orleans as we delve into the nuances of engaging women, whether solo or in groups. Orleans reveals his struggle with what he calls 'protein anxiety' and how the Vin Di Carlo system helped him breakthrough. We’ll help you understand the importance of being genuine and confident, and how to navigate challenging social situations with ease.

In this dynamic discussion, we also pay homage to the wisdom of Tyler Durden, a trailblazer in the seduction community. Orleans shares how Vin Di Carlo's drills-based approach helped him identify his weaknesses and bolster his confidence. By the end of this episode, you'll have gained significant insights into improving your social skills and understanding the psychology of dating. Join us for this engaging dialogue—you won't want to miss it!

The Joseph W. South Show – Volume 1 is packed with even more practical insights and personal stories than what you saw in my last book. Building on the success of Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man, this book provides you with a deeper understanding of female psychology and how to apply it to everyday interactions with women.

Whether you're a new reader or a returning fan you'll find plenty of useful advice in these pages. I bring decades of experience to the table, having made every mistake possible when it comes to the opposite sex. From divorce and child custody battles to wild sex and successful relationships I've seen and done it all!

It's not just men who stand to benefit. Female readers of the original book have raved about how PFP helped them understand their own thinking and the differences between masculine and feminine thought processes.

In a world where dating, sex, and relationships are complex and difficult to manage, I offer practical advice on how to overcome shyness, interact comfortably with the opposite sex, and find sexual partners. I share experiences of meeting and having sex with a lot of women, despite not being super rich, tall, or with model-good looks.

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You may think that seduction gurus want to help you get more women, but in reality a lot of them just want to empty your wallet. While I think some videos can help give you an idea of what to do, others just make your more insecure and nervous.

For every video you watch online, you should be spending 4x as much time approaching women in real life. Don't become a spectator, watching videos all day. Go out and approach and start drawing your own conclusions.

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Do you lose your thoughts when speaking to a beautiful women? Do you find yourself in a trance?

In this episode I go over some ways you can get over a woman's beauty. 

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I coach a lot of guys who limit themselves before they even make an approach. They are trapped in a mind prison of their own creation because they believe they lack certain things that society tells them they need in order to be confident.

In this podcast, I will teach you about some of these limitation and how to stop giving them power. You will also learn the secret to getting better results with women and how to quiet these thoughts over time. 

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In today's podcast, I go over 10 things that will help you right after you make the approach. These are the things you really need to focus on in order to be successful when picking-up women, especially during the daytime.

If you can master these, you will become an unstoppable force and you will never have trouble meeting women again.

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Most guys think that women are these mysterious creatures that are so hard to understand. In today's podcast, I reveal that women are very easy to understand. They are male value detectors and constantly scan men on their value.

The majority of women value the same things in a man. They want a man that is confident, certain, capable, intelligent, resourceful, and strong. But some went prefer certain traits over others. 

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In today's podcast, I'm going to share the SECRET of getting beautiful women. It's simple, but not easy. This one thing has been responsible for me getting over 90% of the beautiful women that I have been with.

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If you can't be happy doing things by yourself, you will always give off a needy energy around women. In order to be really successful with women, you have to be happy being by yourself. You need to be able to enjoy activities alone.

By cultivating this characteristic, you will develop your own standards of what you are willing and unwilling to tolerate from women. The reason most men are unsuccessful with women is partly due to their inability to be alone.

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Today I go over everything you need to know in order to approach women. 98% of guys can't cold approach a woman that they are attracted to. Believe it or not, a lot of it has to do with their own mental hang-ups and how they feel about themselves.

I don't want you to be one of those guys. I want to help you go after the women you want. That's why in today's podcast I break down some of the most important things you need to know about cold approaching.

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In today's podcast, I talk about how far I have come from the nervous wreck of a boy that was deathly afraid of approaching women. No matter how bad you think you have it, chances are that I had it worse than you. I recall being so nervous talking during my first cold approach that my forehead started sweating like Niagara Falls and I felt huge pains in my knotted up stomach. As if those weren't bad enough, my voice also fluctuated like crazy during my initial approach.

Now, I am able to walk into any venue and find at least one girl that wants to have sex with me. The journey was not easy, but it was worth it. No matter what limitation you think is holding you back (short, bald, fat, etc.), I want to tell you that the limitation is all in your mind. You give the limitation power and your mentality is the main reason you are not getting the results you want with women.

Listen to this podcast, I think you will get a lot out of it. And please feel free to share it with your guy friends if you think it will help them.

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In today's podcast, I talk about the proper mindset that you'll need in order to become successful with women. This is the information I wish I had when I first started learning how to pick-up women.

If you listen to this podcast and implement the advice I give, you will drastically improve your dating life.

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In today's podcast, I go over the type of body language you need to succeed with women. I won't overburden your mind with dozens of things to remember. In order to have great body language you only need to focus on ONE thing.

This one thing will fix any body language mistakes you are currently making. It's simple, but not always easy. 

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In today's podcast, I discuss how to dress in order to get attention from women. Wearing nice clothes is especially important for men just starting their journey.

While being well dressed does not in itself cause women to be attracted to you, it does help them to notice you. Any time you can get a women to notice you before you approach her, your chances of seducing her will improve.

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In today's episode I talk about forcing IOIs (Indicators of Interest) from women. What it basically means is that you do things before you approach that make women notice you. By doing this, you turn a cold approach into a somewhat warm approach because she notices you before you come up and talk to her.

Forcing IOIs should not be used as a technique or a crutch, but there are times when it is advantageous to force IOIs.

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It should only take you 3 seconds from the time you notice an attractive woman up until you approach her.

In this podcast, I will cover 4 reasons why the 3 second rule is so important to new guys who are just starting to approach beautiful women.

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Does being rich help you get girls?

If money is the only thing you have going for you, then it won't help you get anything but money hungry gold diggers. However, if you have a little bit of game, money can give you a huge advantage over other guys.

And while money in itself will not attract women, it can help you become more attractive as well as give you access to the hottest women around. It will also help you give women unique experiences that they won't be able to get anywhere else, making you a prize in their eyes.

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A lot of guys want to avoid rejection at all costs. I actually think rejection helps you grow and improves your game overall because after a while you stop fearing rejection because experiencing it so many times will give you thicker skin.

You will learn to accept it as a normal part of game and by accepting it, it will no longer have power over you. Your mind will finally let you "be yourself" without you needing to impress the women around you.

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In today's episode, I talk about why you should start approaching 9s and 10s. These are the super hot girls that most guys are too intimated to even look at, let alone approach. By going up and talking to these girls you will quickly realize that they are not as special as you think and that most are just normal girls.

By talking to them over and over, you will not only improve your game, but you will improve your chances of dating one of these super hotties in the near future. And don't worry if you get rejected by the first few that you approach, each rejection you experience today will prepare you for the hottie you will date in the future.

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Today I will be revealing a big secret that the majority of seduction gurus try to hide from you:

A LARGE PORTION OF YOUR APPROACHES WILL END UP IN *REJECTION!

You see everyone who starts learning game has a pie chart made up of 3 categories of women. The categories are the Yes, No, and Maybe women. Depending on your race, height, looks, physique, age, charisma, and appearance your percentages in each category will either be higher or lower than other guys around you (another secret most seduction gurus will never tell you is that being good looking and tall will improve your odds a bit). 

For the sake of simplicity, let's say you are an average guy all around. Well your percentages would be somewhere around 10% Yes girls, 30% Neutral girls, and 60% No girls (these numbers are a guesstimates based on guys I've taught). 

But this is the pie chart at the BEGINNING of your journey, not at the end. You see, when you are a newbie, you will make all sorts of mistakes. You will approach nervously, your body language will be bad, you will fidget, your voice will crack, you will say dumb things, etc. And all of these factors will lead to you creeping out the girls or them ending their interaction with you. 

Each approach, regardless of how it goes will help you get better. Each approach will help you improve not only your confidence but also how you are coming across - aka your seduction attributes.

After a few thousand approaches, your pie chart will change. The percentage of Yes girls will increase, so will the Neutral girls, and the No girls will decrease. How much will depend on how much your game has improved. 

*Rejection = By rejection, I don't mean that the woman will tell you to "F#&k off" or slap you. That almost never happens. What I mean is that she ignores you, finds some way to end the interaction, refuses to give you her contact info (or gives fake info), or tells you she has a boyfriend.

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