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On this episode, I get to actually see what real life Tinder page looks like, and we discuss LIVE if Anna should swipe right, and why or why not. The ladies tell me some things that are “Vagina repellant” – a term I never knew and could have gone my whole life without hearing… We answer how many pet guinea pigs is too many, how often you should update your profile picture and information and what is your responsibility to somewhat resemble your current picture. How much revenge is too much? 

In this jam-packed episode of ADD – we wonder why the eggplant became the go-to suggestive emoji over the heavily favored banana, compare notes on how to spot an actual hooker, and how  the “ordering process” in a brothel look like. We talk about a few uncomfortable taboo fetishes that Anna has been offered to participate in. What are some deal breakers on you profile, and wonder if etiquette still matters in today’s world of dating – do you dress up a little? Be on time? Open the door? Pick up the check… And why these two ladies do not care about your favorite sports team and probably don’t want to camp in the wild… spoiled? They are also a little mean in my opinion to Bill and a couple other dates of Anna’s...

On this week’s installment of ADD – Adult Dating for Dummies, we meet Anna and scratch the surface of her recent dating history. We hear about “Special K” she only uses his first initial for some semi anonymity. We discuss door opening etiquette, good, safe places to meet on a first face to face or “IRL” that’s what the kids call in real life, date. Spoiler alert, an under-construction house with covered windows and plastic tarps everywhere is not a good idea… but that does not stop Anna! I explain what a Masshole is and why it is not as bad as it sounds. We do a PG-13 introduction to “foot guy.” And basically talk about first dates and how much you should share before hand, expect during, and reveal after. 

So grab a quart of Ben and Jerry’s and a cozy blanket and give us a listen o this week’s episode of ADD! 

Hey folks, for those expecting a scintillating interview episode, this is a brand new project, launched under the Tony on the Mic banner. ADD – Adult dating for Dummies. We talk about the new dating frontier – dating apps and how to meet someone in 2024. I am happily married and so naïve to what is out there, I mostly sit mouth wide open as I hear about the wild wild world on online dating, intimate pics, sliding into DMs, swiping, how to choose a profile pic and more. I also get a disturbing bit of info about the brazen-ness of today’s on-line males and share a now infamous photo of a shirtless me with a cat in my lap, trying to look… sexy? 

Please reach out to the show if you have any horror stories, funny stories, tips or tricks for navigating this crazy new marketplace. It will be an interactive show! In the meantime, tune in, like comment, share and tell your friends. Then get in on the fun! 

On this episode of It Goes Down In The DM, Danny and Michele take you on a trip down memory lane to ashleymadison.com. Danara spent some time with us discussing a flaming hot fatal attraction from Pennsylvania. Greg and Lakeria go head to head with “One Hit Wonders” in this week’s “That’s My Jam”. A man and his siblings struggle to decide who’s kids are more important. And a few unpopular opinions to keep you debating all night long.
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Initially Gerald thought it would be best to go down the safe road & sing a song about James Harden.

In an effort to fight against oppressing comedians, Gerald decides to pause his hack song “The James Harden Blues” & have a very special episode about Andrew Cuomo

Andrew Cuomo

-The James Harden Blues

-“A Very Special Episode”

-We recap the highlights of when everyone loved Cuomo

-discussion on the latest allegations against Andrew Cuomo & a reminder of his nursing home woes

All relationships change over time, but how often do you renegotiate the rules surrounding them? What happens when a long and happy marriage becomes sexless? Do you have options beyond ending the marriage or compromising your needs?

After spending time in therapy with her husband trying to deal with their differing sex drives, Janine came up with a solution. Instead of throwing away her entire marriage over one missing part, she decided to outsource that one aspect to save the rest. Now, she is in a satisfying affair and her marriage is even happier than before.

Join Dr. Marie Murphy in this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me as she sits down with Janine to discuss how having an affair helped save her marriage. Janine explains why she decided to have an affair and how she navigated an agreement with her husband. She also shares what it’s like to seek out a partner using Ashley Madison, the strategies she deploys for managing her emotions, and what she’s learned about relationships and herself along the way. Stay tuned!

Why do people cheat, and how has the COVID-19 pandemic changed infidelity? Is it even possible to have an affair during a pandemic? And, is honesty always the best policy? Perhaps the answer isn’t as straightforward as society likes to presume.

During her time working at Ashley Madison, Isabella Mise has learned that where there’s a will there’s a way. She has gained fascinating insights from conversations with hundreds of members who use the site regularly. As she says, people have affairs for a wide variety of reasons, especially during a pandemic—and these reasons are generally not what we think they are.

In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy sits down with Isabella Mise, the Communications Director at Ashley Madison, to discuss the pandemic’s impact on relationships and affairs. Isabella breaks down some of the common myths and stereotypes about infidelity and shares what the data says about why people cheat. She also explains how people are having affairs in the midst of a pandemic and some of the new infidelity terms to come out of the COVID-19 lockdown. Stay tuned!

David and Tamler try to wrap their heads around Jorge Luis Borges' “The Library of Babel†– a short story about a universe/library that contains every possible book with every possible combination of characters. How many books would this library contain? Would some of the books justify our lives (if we could find them)? Can we know whether a book is deeply meaningful or deeply misleading? Why are the librarians so alone and so consumed with anguish? Wouldn’t we all just end up just looking for the porn books? Plus, we talk about the ethics of doing research on data drawn from the Ashley Madison leak. Life is short, listen to this episode.

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Bugapolocalypse, seductive scarf dancing and humans with lion tails. This is all in just the first 5 minutes of this week’s episode.  Our conversation is an in-depth discussion on the Ashley Madison hack and privacy in the digital age, capped off by a round of “Craigslist Hall of Fame.”

Host Check In (00:23)

The Ashley Madison Hack and Privacy Conversation (06:54)

Craigslist Hall of Fame Segment (53:27)

RELEVANT LINKS

From Our Opening Check In

• Bees sniffing out explosives (YouTube Video)

From Our Conversation on the Ashley Madison Hack and Privacy

• Brief overview of the details of the Ashley Madison Hack (YouTube Video)
• The Visible Man: An FBI Target Puts His Whole Life Online (article)
• Expert: 400 Church Leaders Will Resign This Sunday Because Names Surfaced In Ashley Madison Hack (article)
• I (single gay man from Saudi Arabia) Could be Stoned to Death if Ashley Madison Records Are Leaked (reddit post)
• Two suicides are linked to Ashley Madison Leak (article)
• Hacked Adultery Website Ashley Madison created hundreds of fake female profiles to lure in male customers, claims former employee (article)

From Our Craigslist Hall of Fame Segment

• Mona’s Craigslist Ads
• • Chicken Diapers
  • Satan’s Marionette Puppet
  • Stupid Christmas Plates and Mugs

• Allen’s Craigslist Ads
• • Craigslist Mattress
  • Craigslist Ring

• Jeff’s Craigslist Ads
• • Avocado Car
  • Bad House Guest

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