boyswillbeboys

I have a great guest coming on next week, but for now, I have some things I want to get off of my chest. Big concerns that I have in this world that I think it’s our responsibility to be not only aware of, but begin to do something about. If we don’t stand up for ourselves and begin to come together, more and more of our freedom will be taken away from us, it’s already starting to happen.

Here is a link to that Heineken commercial I talked about in this weeks episode: https://youtu.be/etIqln7vT4w

#boyswillbeboys features Fionn Ferreira, a youth that has figured out how to remove microplastics from the ocean and is actually doing something about it. https://www.fionnferreira.com/about

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0:14- Welcome back episode 81
1:16- This weeks special guest Ronald
2:05- Ronald is an electrician, hit him up
3:23- Introduce what’s on the table
4:42- Cheers everyone
4:55- Did you watch the VS with JaRule?
15:40- What about a holographic VS with Biggie and Tupac?!
18:50- Do you remember the time?
28:45- Let’s call Rafy
29:41- Intermission
33:26- Have you taken a shit in the woods?!
37:20- Let’s call Rafy again!
51:33- Support yalls friends go get ya hair cut by Rafy
53:40- Ronald thank you for coming by
54:00- Episode 81 we out

Fellow Men’s Headspace member and Actor friend Aaron J. Owen joins me in this episode to talk about making the conscious choice to have SINGLE as a relationship status. He isn’t part of the MGTOW movement, not a RED PILL guy, he just made a choice after realizing that he has other things that are more important than having a relationship to get after right now, and he is generating his own success and happiness as a result of it. Listen to his story to see if this is a conclusion that you can come to yourself if you are having trouble in your dating life.

#boyswillbeboys features Donnie Wiseman who jumped into an alligator tank to save a woman it tried to drag into the water. https://www.thedailybeast.com/bystander-leaps-into-tank-to-wrestle-alligator-during-attack-on-utah-zoo-worker

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Taking ownership of your life means being accountable to yourself. If you don’t take the time to look at what it is that you truly want to accomplish and then formulate a plan and get someone to hold you accountable, the odd of you getting that thing done is slim to none. Accountability is next of kin to self respect. You have to have the will and desire to see things through so you can be proud of yourself. I talk about my own shortcomings as a man and a father and how I went about turning that around so that I come out on top. Hopefully this will help you out too.

#boyswillbeboys features Deputy J. Holt of Virginia single-handedly lifting a car to save a woman. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/video-captures-jon-holt-single-handedly-lift-overturned-car/

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I have been very busy leading up to the start of summer. This episode is about what is coming up in my summertime series, guests that I’m getting locked in and a rundown about things I’m looking for you all to send me for my next mailbag episode. Send your questions to orionwaymailbag@gmail.com and I’ll be sure to get to them in an upcoming episode. Sorry I sound so tired, it’s what happens when you really push yourself and that is what I’ve been doing, but it’s all for a good cause.

#boyswillbeboys featuresTani Adewumi who at 10 years old, became the U.S. Chess Champion! https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/tanitoluwa-adewumi-refugee-chess-champion-national-master/

Inspirational speaker, author and life coach, Paul Gotel is back to talk about self love. Self love is to replace your self imposed ideals with self acceptance. This idealization leads to triggers getting set off and then you fail to realize that you actually ARE love yourself. This is a great interview and totally worth listening to. You might want to take notes listening to this one to find personal acceptance and realize you are a bright loving being.

Paul joins me from Hawaii, so the signal goes in and out from time to time, but I didn’t want to miss anything.

You can get his book, The Big U on Amazon, or Audible or go to his website http://www.paulgotel.com or follow him on instagram @paulgotel to get his quick vids and fantastic quotes.

#boyswillbeboys features a good Samaritan who risks his life to save a toddler. https://www.cnn.com/2021/05/03/us/maryland-good-samaritan-infant-rescue-trnd/index.html

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Dawni is back! This time with more insight into how to apply your core values in your life and relationships. My fiance and I had a session with her to discuss what our 3 main core values are and how that has had such a positive impact on us going forward. There is a deeper dive into how these core values define us and what lens we see the world through. What incentivises us and gets us to do what we need or want is our core values.

At midway we talk about the value of knowing your kids core values and how that can seriously impact your relationship with them for good.

At the 53:15 mark Dawni goes through her list of the most common core values that she reads off for you to find out what your core values really are.  

Go to www.dawniangel.com for more info.

#boyswillbeboys features a couple of unlikely strangers sharing a meal and a chat together. The photo from this article went viral. https://wgntv.com/news/photo-of-meal-shared-between-strangers-at-mississippi-restaurant-goes-viral/

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Zack is an entrepreneur who started two companies, rainmakr.io and driskomedia.com where he helps companies do digital marketing in a catchier way. He is also a freelance writer and I highly recommend you check out his articles on his Drisko Media site. He joins me today to talk about masculinity in the workplace and balancing the home/work lifestyle.

#boyswillbeboys features Anthony Fitzgerald doing a walrus impression on live television. https://www.indy100.com/news/walrus-impression-ireland-rte-b1817730

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My big little brother is the CEO of fintech company SOON. It’s a startup that is fresh off of the TechCrunch Pitch-Off and has raised over a million dollars in startup capital to get this business off the ground. Why? Because 54% of millennials have invested less than $5,000 in their lifetime. Something needs to be done to help them invest in real assets while still having access to their money in the here and now. That’s where SOON comes in. If you have bitcoin, gold, stocks and would like to use that as an asset like you use your debit card, you have to give this podcast a listen.

Chris is offering a free calculator to estimate how much you could have saved by getting an account with SOON. Go here to see for yourself: https://soon.app/

#boyswillbeboys features 8-year old Jaxon Dempsey who saved his baby sister from choking with the help of John Cena. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/john-cena-video-jaxson-dempsey/

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I’m not a religious person, but if I was, I would have to say, my religion is love. I talk about the human need for love and even some of the origins of it. What is the difference between feeling a gong and a thud, and what it means to truly understand your feelings and gut and to see how that can guide you going forward. I also talk about why I do this podcast and what impact I want to make on masculinity in the world today to make this world a better place for everyone.

#boyswillbeboys features software exec, Billy Adams of D.C. who is doing his part in the world. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/software-exec-walks-12-miles-daily-to-pick-up-trash-in-dc/

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My guest is author and divorce attorney, Jill L. Coil. She just wrote her first book titled “No One Dies From Divorce” out in May along with a Docuseries that will be on Amazon Prime in May, starring me as The Husband. Jill is an advocate in helping dads get the custody rights they deserve in a divorce and what to think about if you know that you’re going to have a tough fight ahead of you in the process of divorce. 

Find her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jillcoil/

#boyswillbeboys features Naoto Matsumura and Sakae Kato who are taking care of all the animals left behind in Fukushima. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/two-men-live-in-fukushima-taking-care-of-animals-naoto-matsumura/

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The best way to succeed is to get outside of your comfort zone but a lot of people don’t really know how exactly. In this episode I’ll break down the simple steps of what you need to do to move just outside of your own comfort and build momentum.

#boyswillbeboys features Kentucky coal miner John Burke who saved a woman from a car before it went up in flames. 

https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/coal-miner-plucks-mercedes-boggs-from-car-kentucky-fire/

At 8:00 I talk about making decisions and how this is a masculine trait but also vital to get out of your CZ.  At 16:00 I talk about Integrity and what that even means. At 18:45 I get into Honesty. At 19:37 I mention assiduity. At 23:35 I bring up phrases that motivate. At 28:10 I talk about responsibility in relationships and reaching out to friends.

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With Valentine’s Day coming up, a lot of people are feeling some sort of pain of not being in a relationship. The holiday season is a harsh reminder if you’ve been single for a long time. I break down why single people are still single and what you can do to make the necessary changes to turn the tide towards changing your status to “in a relationship”.

#boyswillbeboys features 10 Year Old Christian Stone who helped clean snow off of front line COVID-19 workers at hospital after a big storm. https://www.cnn.com/2021/02/05/us/snow-hospital-good-deed-trnd/index.html#:~:text=Wildfire%20Tracker-,A%2010%2Dyear%2Dold%20boy%20and%20family%20friend%20cleaned%20snow,hospital%20workers'%20cars%20during%20storm&text=Ten%2Dyear%2Dold%20Christian%20Stone,Just%20call%20them%20snow%20angels.

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In order to be as healthy and happy as you can be, it would make sense that you need to do things that put your body in the best alignment for that. Dr. Suzanne has been my Chiropractor for 9 years, Dr. Scott is fairly new to the same office I go to and they have radically helped make my life better. I got them to come on and talk about the differences that they notice with men and women who come into their office and why.

#boyswillbeboys features 61-year-old British artist Simon Beck who makes incredible patterns in the snow with his snowshoes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=raSK2-bvO98

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My mom stopped by to join me on the podcast to talk about her generation and all sorts of things that could be very beneficial to The Fellowship. I learned a lot from my mother, and who better to have on than one of the most down to earth, nice, beautiful and caring souls in the universe, My mom.

#boyswillbeboys features two boys Ayaan and Mickey Naqvi invented the Ornament Anchor and then donate 10% of all profits to local animal shelters.

https://www.cnn.com/2020/12/19/us/christmas-ornaments-trnd/index.html 

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If you are thinking about getting a divorce, or have recently been through one, this is probably a good place to start. Dave Musselman is an Arbitrator and Mediator who has personally overseen and negotiated for 27 years and over 8000 cases.  After dealing with over 34 divorces a month, Dave has seen it all and knows what men go through in divorces. I am so grateful for him to drop in and give his advice to men on how to handle this situation.

#boyswillbeboys features retired music teacher, Grover Wilhelmsen who thanks his angels who helped him during his recovery from COVID-19 with his violin because he couldn’t talk. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/covid-patient-who-couldnt-talk-thanked-hospital-with-violin/

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It’s been a busy week. I’ve been doing so much acting that I didn’t get a guest or topic lined up and then I realized that my show A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens IS a story and a lesson all thrown into a podcast. I share why I have done this show for 11 years in a row and will probably continue doing this show until I can no longer perform. Live your life in the past, present and the future for just one night in your mind's eye and see what happens to the way you look at the world. 

#boyswillbeboys features Canadian Ranger Gary Bath who drives a stranded American family 1,000 miles to Alaska. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/canadian-man-drives-stranded-american-family-1000-miles-to-alaska/

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“How to actually make and keep America Great!” This is a lecture/class that Captain Josh Curtis has given to his students at the Utah Military Academy where Josh teaches in a Military Prep School. I reached out to him to be a guest because he is so awesome with words, and he’s a fun guy to be around. So bring your notebook, secure your headphones and listen up class as Captain Curtis gives us this rare and special treat.

#boyswillbeboys features Gordon Wayne who walked more than 500 miles on foot to raise money for the homeless.https://abcnews.go.com/US/homeless-college-student-walks-500-miles-raise-awareness/story?id=73797950

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More often than not, we think that we are right. That’s not a bad thing however we do have blind spots that we think are not a problem when really, it’s not a problem we can see but everyone else can. I used to think there was nothing wrong with me. I was a nice guy and everybody liked me, but when I really took the time to reflect on myself and notice my flaws, I suddenly realized that I was pretty messed up. This is a topic that I think many men feel like they are just fine the way they are and if we took some real accountability, we’d find that we could definitely improve ourselves.

#boyswillbeboys features Gregory Tino, a non-verbal autistic man who learns how to communicate through writing and now has his own blog and published a book called “Autistic Mind Finally Speaks.” Get the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Autistic-Mind-Finally-Speaks-Letterboard/dp/B08LJN18BY/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=gregory+tino&qid=1604530575&sr=8-1 and his Blog ishere https://inautism.wordpress.com/

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It’s so easy to compare your life to others with Social Media these days. In fact, the curated life that people portray on their profiles often tends to make those that compare very depressed and give feelings of inadequacy.

We offer a better solution than comparison to others. Hopefully it will guide you through your life to make it more powerful and positive going forward.

#boyswillbeboys features Fidel Ybarra, a convict on work release who helped an injured woman finish the race. https://www.ksl.com/article/50029432/woman-finishes-68th-marathon-with-the-help-of-prison-inmate-on-work-release

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