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The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond “church” to “real change.”  To make sure you don't miss a Check-In or interview episode, make sure you "Stay Connected" by signing up for updates and our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com  

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Dr. Gary Lawrence is considered an expert on the topic of rejection.  He is the founder of Rejection Junkies and author of the book of the same name.

He and his wife Sylvia have spent their lives successfully leading others to identify, isolate, and eliminate the root cause of emotional turmoil in their lives.

After 20 years as the host of his own radio show, (Life Mastery Counseling with Dr. G), Dr. Gary Lawrence has personally met with and coached more than 6 thousand clients and has inspired thousands more on radio, television, and stage.

Married for more than 55 years, Dr. G and Sylvia continue to bring their knowledge, experience, and deep passion to individuals and couples who wish to resolve personal, marital, family, and parenting conflicts.

And we invited him on the Real Men Connect podcast today to talk to us about the damaging effects of rejection and the way in which the trauma of rejection can manifest itself throughout our lives. 

To find out more about Dr. G and to get a copy of his book, you can either visit him at 

https://Rejectionjunkies.com or email him at drg@rejectionjunkies.com 

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Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com 

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The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond “church” to “real change.”  To make sure you don't miss a Check-In or interview episode, make sure you "Stay Connected" by signing up for updates and our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com  

Also, help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God’s glory by leaving us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://tinyurl.com/rmcpodcast and SHARING this podcast with your friends.

Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Twitter: @professormartin

The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond “church” to “real change.”  To make sure you don't miss a Check-In or interview episode, make sure you "Stay Connected" by signing up for updates and our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com  

Also, help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God’s glory by leaving us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://tinyurl.com/rmcpodcast and SHARING this podcast with your friends.

Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Ahmad Muqtasid is the Lead Pastor at Mosaic Church Conway in Conway, Arkansas. Mosaic Conway is a church of unity pursuing to be a multi-ethnic church in Central Arkansas. Ahmad also serves as the Coaching Champion for Arkansas Baptist churches. He served as full-time Associate Pastor of Second Baptist Church in the Greater Little Rock Metro-Area for 5 ½ years.

Ahmad is a graduate of the University of Arkansas at Little Rock, and a graduate of Liberty University’s School of Ministry, and he’s currently in the process of completing a Doctor of Ministry in Expository Preaching and Teaching.

Ahmad is married to his college sweetheart, Tagel Muqtasid, and she has served alongside Ahmad throughout their ministry. They have two beautiful children, one daughter, Abigail, and one son, James.

To reach out to Ahmad or to find out more about Mosaic Church Conway, email him at Ahmad@mosaicconway.net

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Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com 

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

Join the Real Men 300: http://www.RealMen300.com

Facebook Group: http://www.realmenuniversity.com/

YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com

Facebook: @realdrjoemartin

Instagram: @realdrjoemartin

Twitter: @professormartin

The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond “church” to “real change.”  To make sure you don't miss a Check-In or interview episode, make sure you "Stay Connected" by signing up for updates and our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com  

Also, help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God’s glory by leaving us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://tinyurl.com/rmcpodcast and SHARING this podcast with your friends.

Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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John Smithbaker is an author, speaker and founder of Father in the Field. His passion and focus are to help men recapture their divinely assigned roles of Pastor, Provider, and Protector in the home, as well as in the Church. 

As an experienced businessman, ministry leader a gifted communicator, John combines his personal experience and straight-forward style to connect and speak with men held back from becoming the man God designed, who suffers through the brokenness, pain and anger of being left behind. 

            John just released his latest book: Man Enough to Forgive: Healing the Wounds of Fatherhood Abandonment.  If you would like to contact John, you can visit his website at https://manenoughtoforgive.com 

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And make sure you don't miss an interview episode by signing up for our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com, and grab your FREE copy of the Real Men Victory Tracker. 

Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com 

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Twitter: @professormartin

We suffer through back pain, migraine, and Sams’s sarcasm to bring you today’s episode on evangelism in the NT. Who was the first evangelist and to whom and how was the message proclaimed? What does it look like today for our evangelism to be accompanied by signs? The Kingdom of God has broken into world history. There is a new kingdom reality and human dynamic to be experienced in the Lord, even now. How is it displayed in your life? How beautiful are your feet? 

Tim Brown is the founder of REUP Men’s Movement, an organization dedicated to addressing a crucial need (discipling the next generation of men) within the modern church. 

He has written seven Bible studies for men and is the author of the book--God And A Man, How God Can Use ANY Man To Make A Difference. He has been married to his Jesus pursuing wife, Mylinda, for over 38 years and have two sons, two daughter-in-laws and four grandchildren. Tim speaks and reaches at conferences, churches and business settings all over the country.

If you would like to contact Tim, you can visit his website at www.reupmen.com or download his app @ https://reup.impact.app

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Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com 

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Facebook: @realdrjoemartin

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Twitter: @professormartin

The Real Men Check In is a quick way to help you start your week off on the right foot, in the right way - as a husband, father, and leader. Every Monday, Joe Martin shares personal insights, encouragement, and support that will move you beyond “church” to “real change.”  To make sure you don't miss a Check-In or interview episode, make sure you "Stay Connected" by signing up for updates and our Man-to-Man eNewsletter at http://www.RealMenConnect.com  

Also, help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God’s glory by leaving us a helpful REVIEW on iTunes: http://tinyurl.com/rmcpodcast and SHARING this podcast with your friends.

Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Facebook: @realdrjoemartin

YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com

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Twitter: @professormartin

Today, the guys delve into evangelism and its origins for God’s people, starting with the Old Testament. How does God help His people piece together the puzzle to reveal the full picture of His plan for them and their mission to evangelize the nations? Do we have a reference, or are we simply holding onto corner pieces? 

Justin Whitmel Earley is a lawyer, author and speaker from Richmond, VA.  He graduated from the University of Virginia with a degree in English Literature before spending four years in Shanghai, China, as a missionary. Justin got his law degree from the Georgetown University Law Center and he now runs his own business law practice in Richmond, Virginia at Earley Legal Group.

His book, The Common Rule – Habits of Purpose for an Age of Distraction, was published with InterVarsity Press in 2019. He frequently speaks at businesses and legal events on habits, technology and mental health; and at churches and conferences on habits, spiritual formation and parenting. 

His second book, Habits of the Household – Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms, was released in November of 2021.

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Justin also writes fiction and poetry, and is working on a children's book. He is married to Lauren and has four sons – Whit, Asher, Coulter and Shep.

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Are you stuck? Want to go to the next level in your marriage, career, business, or ministry?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. ALL CHAMPIONS have one. Let me coach you to help you strengthen your faith, improve your marriage, spiritually lead your family, achieve more, balance your time, grow your ministry, or even stop an addiction. Click here for details: http://www.RMCfree.com 

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Want to talk to the host? Time slots are limited, but Dr. Joe takes on a few Breakthrough Calls a week to personally help you with your personal life, work, and family challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment:

https://TalkwithDrJoe.com

Also join us on:

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Twitter: @professormartin

Are you being discipled by someone? If not, why not? Are you discipling someone? If not, why not? What is discipleship? What does it mean to make disciples? Interestingly, some of the most effective evangelists are recent converts, but who are they discipled by? Are we disciples of our favorite pop icons? Today, the guys discuss (you guessed it) discipleship, mentoring, and the role of dedicating your life to making disciples as a Christian.

"Yes, I believe in Jesus! What do I do now?" 

Saying "Yes" to Jesus is an amazing moment full of joy, but it can also be a time of confusion, leaving one to wonder, "Where do I go from here?" In today's episode Sam, John, and Ron point to a few habits, best practices, and resources to guide new Christians on their walk. For those of us who have been seeking the Lord long enough to forget what it is like to be new, today's episode serves as a helpful reminder of how we can be intentional about welcoming others into the body of Christ. 

Tune in to hear the discussion on why, and how to truly get connected. 

Complementary Episodes:

Episode 1:28-2:3, Highpoints of the Bible story

Episode 2:4-2:9; 2:28-31, An Introduction to the Gospel

Episode 4:3-22 Introduction to the Bible

External Beginner Resources: Bible Project, Study Bibles such as the NRSV, NIV, etc., ChristianBook.com, A Christian Mentor

Invest in Christian Education – www.glcc.edu

Series of interest:

4:24 - 26 History of Israel

6:27 - 6:44 - God's People and the Use of Violence

www.YourBetrayalGuide.com to download your free Betrayal Guide!

Betrayal sucks. AND it REALLY sucks when it is a close Christian friend who betrays you! Today, on the podcast, I have my great friend Chrysten Ferrell here to share one of her experiences with betrayal. (Believe me, we can all relate to this one!)

Relationships are hurtful. We all want to do the "right" thing, but sometimes it is really confusing to figure out what the "right" thing to do is! Redemption Unveiled is here to help you have confidence that you are taking the right next step! -Haley

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Here is more info on Chrysten!

The healthiest marriages are between two healthy people. This week we’re unpacking why it’s so hard to be spiritually healthy without emotional health. The two are linked because a lack of knowing ourselves will seriously hinder our ability to connect with God and others. It’s a lot simpler, more accessible, and less touchy-feely than it may sound. 

Episode highlights include: 

• The connection between emotional and spiritual health 
• The unintended relational effects of unprocessed emotions
• Tips to grow in emotionally and spiritually health
• Plus this week’s anonymous listener question about an apathetic spouse 

We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage. 

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*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! 

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In this episode of Redemption Unveiled, we're gonna have a wonderful conversation about staying connected to God. Now, as you guys know, this is a huge passion of mine. My deepest desire is to meet busy women where they're at, and equip them, encourage them, and enable them to stay connected to God.

I know that is easier said than done, but I also know that a huge part of this problem is our approach and our mindset with our faith. So today I really want to challenge each and every single one of us to take a different approach with our faith. Let’s dive in. 

Show Links:

• Waitlist for Redemption Unveiled Community 

Show Takeaways: 

• Listen in as I share some of my journey and the life-changing decision I made.
• Discover how to change your life approach to one of living a life where every day you wake up feeling connected to God.
• Learn the three things inside of you that will change your life forever. 

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Have you ever gone through a season of life where you have questioned, “If God is really good, why is this happening?” 

If so,  today’s episode is for you. I have my Mom joining me, she’s always a fan favorite and we are going to dive into the journey of discovering love, particularly with our Father God, and how we can be a good friend to Him. 

Show Links:

• Waitlist for Redemption Unveiled Community www.redemptionunveiledcommunity.com

Show Takeaways: 

• Hear Shelly’s story of the moment she realized she wasn’t being a very good friend to God.
• Discover some ways you can be a good friend to God. 

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Do you ever wake up feeling behind? Do you feel overwhelmed by life? Do you just feel like there is not enough? Not enough time. Not enough energy. Not enough money. Just not enough. If so, then this episode is for you! Enjoy!

Today, I have on my sister and brother-in-law, Hannah and Dustin, and we discuss what they have learned through the years to create a marriage that works for them. This is a wonderful discussion that you will love!