controlling parent

On today's episode we talked about a very core injury to the self--being raised by a narcissistic mother or caregiver. According to the natural flow of things, the child, not the mother should come first. When this order is disrupted, the child becomes the adult in the relationship, and the child's needs are not met. Narcissistic mothers try to divert the discussion away from you to talk about herself, or "top" her feelings with yours. They lack compassion and empathy and in general know to demean, devalue and destroy. In essence, they leave you feeling very "little" and unimportant. Today we Shrunk the Tune: "You're So Vain," by Carly Simon.

Jesus came to reveal God as a loving generous father, who loves us, welcomes us, wants to bless us. For many of us, relationships with authority figures, the opposite sex, marriage partner, and God are severely damaged by unresolved heart issues with our Mother and Father. Bitterness, Judgements, Inner Oath, all open up demonic bondage and consequences, because spiritual laws are broken. We can face these, change our response, and create a new future.

Jesus came to reveal God as a loving generous father, who loves us, welcomes us, wants to bless us. For many of us, relationships with authority figures, the opposite sex, marriage partner, and God are severely damaged by unresolved heart issues with our Mother and Father. Bitterness, Judgements, Inner Oath, all open up demonic bondage and consequences, because spiritual laws are broken. We can face these, change our response, and create a new future.