declarations

Overthinking In Child Custody - Episode 281 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you are an overthinker like me, then you probably analyze everything your co-parent does or says. And you’re always trying to figure out their agenda. Overthinking would seem to give you a logical advantage but in reality, it often results in an emotional disadvantage. So, why do we do it? And can we stop? To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Narcissists vs. Empaths - Episode 280 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. It is very common for a person that is an empath to end up in a relationship with someone with narcissistic qualities. The two people have often experienced similar childhood traumas but the effects of the trauma manifest in completely opposite ways. This is why the push and pull of the relationship tends to continue into coparenting relationships. The only way to break the pattern is to find healing and then begins with awareness. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

The power of hearing God's voice and declaring it over our lives is our declaration topic in Episode 20.

Through powerful declarations rooted in scripture, you'll learn how to recognize God's guidance in every aspect of your life. Join us as we explore the privilege of hearing our Father's voice and the immense impact it can have on our faith, decisions, and well-being.

Tune in for inspiring insights and practical steps toward experiencing the transformative truth of God's word. Keep declaring, keep believing, and keep walking in the way that He leads.

DECLARATION:

My father desires to speak to me even more than I desire to hear from him.

As a child of God, it is my privilege and birthright to hear my father's voice.

It is easy for me to hear the voice of God.

Whatever God says to do is the most loving, most fruitful, and most exciting thing I can do.

I am constantly hearing God's voice through scripture, my thoughts, other people, and nature.

Even when my mind cannot comprehend, God is speaking to my spirit.

When God speaks direction to me, he also provides the grace to do what he has said.

As I renew my mind, God will reveal his good, pleasing, and perfect will to me.

Hearing God's voice and obeying in faith is worth any risk of failure.

As I attach faith to what I am hearing, he will do exceedingly more than I could ever hope or imagine.

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Nesting in Child Custody - Episode 279 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Nesting is a parenting arrangement where the children remain in the home and the parents rotate in and out. This is an uncommon arrangement and is rarely used by the Court. However, it can be necessary for financial arrangements or when you have an ill or special needs child. In any case, there are things you can do to improve your chance of success and many of the same strategies can be effective in regular parenting schedules that do not involve nesting. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

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What Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common - Episode 278 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many of the behaviors we experience with our toddlers are reflected in similar behaviors from narcissists. And while we expect bad behavior from our toddler, it’s not so cute once a person reaches adulthood. The good news is that we can learn effective strategies for dealing with a narcissist by looking at parenting techniques we use to handle our toddlers. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

In today's powerful Declaration Edition, Martha focuses on 'I am power statements' rooted in the word of God.

We declare blessings, favor, strength, and abundance. Remember, the words we speak shape our beliefs, so commit to declaring these truths.

Challenge yourself to repeat these affirmations three times a day for a week and watch the transformation unfold.

Embrace the life-giving, positive mindset. Join me on this journey, and let's declare the abundance and blessings that God has in store for us. 

DECLARATION:

I am blessed and highly favored.

People feel love, joy, energy, and peace when they are around me.

 I am a force for good.

I defy the odds.

I set new standards.

I am the head and not the tail.

I am above and not beneath.

I am blessed in the city and blessed in the country.

I am the lender and not the borrower.

Money comes to me always and in all ways.

I am loved by God.

I am chosen by God.

I am protected by God.

No weapon formed against me shall prosper.

It's my season, it's my turn.

I'm healthy, I'm happy. I'm humble. I'm wealthy. I'm strong.

I am more than a conqueror.

I am a champion, and I expect to win.

I will live life to the fullest and all that God has for me.

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Why Narcissists Win In Court - Episode 277 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Court can be a scary process when we are afraid that our ex will be able to charm and manipulate to get their way. And the Court does have limited time and resources to try and figure out what is going on in your case.  But, there are things you can do to make it easier for the Court to see your ex’s true colors. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Have I Screwed Up My Case - Episode 276 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We are all human. And when you’re going through a divorce or child custody case, you are a human under immense amount of stress. Unfortunately, we sometimes make mistakes that us feel like we’ve screwed up the entire situation and that we will never recover. But the good news is that people love a good redemption story. So, you can totally recover from the situation eventually if you are using the correct strategies moving forward. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

The Calm Before the Child Custody Storm - Episode 275 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, we often see cyclical patterns of behavior and emotions. So, when things are really calm or quiet, we are sometimes waiting for the other shoe to drop, so to speak. There are things we can do in the calm that will help prevent the storm, delay the storm, or at the very least, help us successfully weather the storm. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Breaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody - Episode 274 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We usually think of toxic patterns in the context of romantic relationships. When a relationship ends and there are children involved, we often see the toxic patterns of behavior continue through the co-parenting. If you weren’t able to break those patterns during the relationship, how can you break them now that trust is at an all-time low? To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Weathering the Seasons of Child Custody - Episode 273 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are struggling in our child custody and co-parenting situation, it often feels like the struggle will go on forever. But the only thing in life that is constant is change. And, like everything else, your child custody and co-parenting is a constantly evolving situation. Want to know what to expect? To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Breaking Up With Narcissism - Episode 272 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are in a relationship with a Narcissist, we actually become addicted to this type of toxic relationship. Our body goes through chemical changes that are similar to addicts. In this episode, I’ll talk about how to stop the addictive cycle and break up with narcissism once and for all. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Does Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work? - Episode 271 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. “Grey Rock” is a common technique for handling a narcissist. This technique has a lot of useful points such as disengaging, minimizing contact, and not reacting. However, the Court wants you to cooperate and support the other parent. So, how do you manage both? How do you have good boundaries that insulate you from narcissistic behaviors while also making your Judge happy? To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Presenting Evidence in Child Custody Court - Episode 270 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the most effective ways to present your evidence in Court is by telling the “story” of your case. Most people mistake this for lots of details and background but as they say, less is more. You have a handful of tools and limited time to help the Judge understand your situation well enough to make a decision. How you choose to use those resources will determine your custody outcome. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Declaration Episode 11 explores empowering declarations for a life of freedom and purpose.

Martha encourages us to declare our dedication to loving God with all of our being and to break free from any bondage in our lives.

She reminds us that we can embrace total freedom and love for ourselves and others, referencing the biblical truth that "whom the sun sets free is free indeed." Join us as we embark on a journey of declaration, freedom, and love.

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3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court - Episode 269 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost everyone is nervous when speaking in Court, even attorneys. Whether you’re representing yourself or you have an attorney, it’s important to take steps to help you feel comfortable in the courtroom and successfully present your information to the Judge. Tune in as I share 3 time-tested strategies anyone can use to help them present confidently in Court. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

What Is Your Biggest Failure? - Episode 268 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Failures in life happen to everyone and they can teach us some of our greatest life lessons. If you feel like you failed in your relationship, in your co-parenting, or even in your parenting, this episode is for you. Learning to take your failures and turn them to lessons can help you create a greater vision and purpose for your life. Failure is a stepping stone to victory, even in custody. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Narcissists Never Change – Episode 267 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we deal with high-conflict personalities, we frequently think that if we choose the right words or the right logic to deal with them that it will change their behavior. Or, we hope that as they mature and learn lessons throughout life that they will become easier to deal with. However, the chances of narcissistic behaviors changing is practically nil and yet we continue to hold on to hope. Join me as I help you find solutions to this never-ending problem. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Reducing Conflict With A Narcissist – Episode 266 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Reducing conflict is difficult to do with a co-parent but it becomes even more difficult when you are dealing with someone who has a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. In this episode, I’m going to share 5 tips that will help you to reduce conflict and increase peace with your narcissistic co-parent. This wisdom came from some writing Thomas had done and I felt compelled to share his wisdom with you. To find out how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!