family reunions

In this episode of Boldly Untitled™, Shawny and Melly Mel reflect on their holiday family traditions, comparing Caribbean and American customs. They delve into the complexities of family dynamics, discussing the challenges of large family gatherings and the nuances of generational traumas and curses.

They candidly share their own experiences with family secrets and the importance of breaking negative cycles for the sake of their children. The hosts also explore the delicate balance of parenting, striving to create open communication with their kids while avoiding the pitfalls they experienced in their own upbringings.

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We took a trip down memory lane, exploring our holiday traditions and how they've evolved over the years. From the vibrant Christmas Eve celebrations in Guyana to the intimate family gatherings that have shaped our lives, we've got stories that'll warm your heart and maybe even spark some of your own holiday nostalgia.

We got real about the impact of generational traumas and curses on our families. It's a topic that's close to our hearts, and we're committed to changing these patterns for our children's sake. Listen in as we share our personal journeys of self-awareness and the steps we're taking to create a healthier future for the next generation.

Parenting is no walk in the park, and we're not afraid to talk about the struggles and the wins. From fostering open communication with our kids to catching ourselves before we repeat the patterns of our parents, we're navigating this wild ride one step at a time. Join us as we discuss the delicate balance of guiding our children while also learning to let them grow.

Change isn't easy, but it's necessary. We're inviting you to commit to your own journey of transformation. Whether it's breaking free from past traumas, reshaping your family dynamics, or simply being a better version of yourself, we're here to support you every step of the way.

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Welcome back for Season 3! We are so excited to be starting off another season with you. In this episode, recorded at the tail end of our annual Bear Lake reunion, we share how we do reunions and talk about the things we love and the challenges we face.

How do you handle reunions in your family? What suggestions do you have for balancing scheduled time vs. free time? We'd love to hear your experiences! Come share with us on Instagram @eyresisters. 

Show Notes:

Shawni's blog post about Grandfather's Secrets and Grammie Camp

Shawni's blog post about Eyrealm Reunion 2023 (this episode of our podcast was recorded at the close of this reunion)

Saren's post: 3 Keys to a Great Family Reunion (from 2018)

 

 

Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas and more with Dr. Marissa and Actor/Author/Broadway Singer Charles Holt serenading listeners, and singing away the Holiday Blues! Dr. Marissa and Charles sing some of her favorite holiday tunes, and admits to her past as a lounge lizard, coming out of retirement to express her love for life and music on the air. Charles shares his journey from what he's supposed to do to what he loves to do...and how he made peace with his father and most of all, himself. Dr. Marissa gets emotional during Her Grown-Up Christmas List, wishing and wanting for more Love, More joy and More peace on our Planet. Mr. Holt www.finding-yourvoice.com agrees with his wish for Peace and everyone to know their unique gift talent and ability, and courage to share themselves freely with life and others. Happiest Holiday greetings from Dr. Marissa and this show that is a gift to herself! Episode sponsored by www.SelfiestationPodcast.com/DrMarissa and www.4Balance.org

Dr. Marissa takes a follow-up call from Tynyetta and smog checks the definition of a good mom/perfect parents and 'puts the moose on the table' about family dysfunction. Tynyetta then asks for advice on implementing her vision of capturing wisdom from her elders at a family reunion, which entails balancing her desire with an understanding that she cannot control people's reactions which leads to a strategic business lesson on implementing ideas. Dr. Marissa also turns her advice to listeners who are going home for Christmas but don't really want to...and how to resolve the anxiety that comes up when we dread the questions that might come about life disappointments and the internalized critic. Caller Robert from Memphis Tennessee gets some ideas from Dr. Marissa, the kinder gentler Dr. Laura, on staying focused on his own happiness when his ailing father won't see things his way to help himself get better. Balancing one's desire to control others and one's desire to help others is much easier to feel better about when acceptance is the answer. The alternative version of the Serenity prayer is the Balance tool: God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to change the people I can, and the wisdom to know that it's me! Episode sponsored by www.Selfiestation.com/DrMarissa and www.4Balance.org