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Interesting Facts About Kevin Phinney:

*He has worked across the strata of media and yet so far remains below your radar.

*Over the course of his various lifetimes, he has been a drama critic, a boyfriend, fiancé, a husband , morning show radio host, an ex-husband, the creator of a gay advice column called "Ask Daddy" that briefly broke the internet and an entertainment reporter whose interviews range from stage and screen stars to musicians, politicians, news celebrities, and sports heroes.

*He's a native of Brooklyn who was raised in El Paso, Texas and graduated from a small college in Austin.

*He's  lived in Los Angeles, New Orleans, Seattle and New York City.

*These days, he divides his time between NYC and his beloved second home of Austin.

*He's currently a resident of Hell's Kitchen, and partnered to Ryan Branom, perhaps the sweetest man on Earth.

*He works part time as a Manhattan tour guide and moonlights as a screenwriter.

*He is an adult survivor of domestic violence and no longer bats an eye to be hypospadic.

*Also being Irish, his favorite drink is the next one.

*He is the only man alive who can honestly claim to have been understudy to Sonny Bono in "The Owl and the Pussycat," and to have bought U2's Bono his first margarita.

Everything else is all lies, rumor and innuendo.

Contact Kevin via Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.phinney.12

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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

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Season 5: Episode Nineteen. Benji and Brad are back after their short summer break with brand new episodes for Season 5! Find out what the boys have been up to over the last couple of weeks including Brad’s big gaycation to New York! Plus, as the Pride season comes to an end in the UK, the boys share the importance on being your true authentic self, especially with homophobia on the rise in the country. Keep spreading the love and be kind to each other x

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Paul Hietter

This is Paul's second visit as a guest on my podcast.  This time we discuss aging as gay men in Palm Springs and a few of life's learned lessons.

Paul is a true renaissance man - having worked in a number of industries, with his favorites of being a caterer and event planner to the stars and a new thought minister.

He is always happiest when he is of service and learning something new.   

Overcoming life’s obstacles seems a good hobby and with hiking, working out, being a Chef and humanitarian, there is never a dull moment. 

Currently single, and a cat daddy of Rumi and Leo,  Paul lives in Palm Springs, CA.

He may be reached at 760-567-5820 or PaulHietter@icloud.com.

Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2023

Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

What if your family wasn't the one you were born into, but the one you chose? Dive into another steamy cup of "Coffee with Gays" as Blaine, Adam, and Ryan are back to spill the beans on the concept of 'Chosen Family' within the LGBTQ+ community. We count ourselves lucky for having supportive families, but we understand that's not everyone's reality. So, we've built our networks of love and support, our 'chosen families', and we want to share our insights with you.

From heartfelt stories (yes, Adam cries) to the hilarious adventures of Blaine trying to navigate getting accepted into the group, we delve into the unique dynamics of chosen families within our community. In the first part of the episode, we discuss various friend groups, their unique roles, and the tradition of Friendsgiving that binds us together.

Have you ever wondered about the secret to making a memorable first impression or winning over the "king and queen" of a new group? We've got you covered. Throughout the episode, we share hilarious anecdotes and essential tips, including the tale of how Blaine met his friend Ryan and managed to blend into his group. We put a spotlight on social cues, intentional planning, and the value of authenticity in building long-lasting connections.

Our conversation offers a humorous, yet insightful look at navigating social dynamics in new friend groups, dating, and handling the pressures of making an impression. Finally, we understand that not all relationships are meant to last, and sometimes we must let go. As we round off our chat, we reflect on the importance of being a good listener, identifying true friends, and the sometimes difficult process of saying goodbye to those who aren't beneficial to us. It's all about striking a balance and knowing when to hold on, and when to let go.

So, grab your favorite mug and let's get into this enlightening and entertaining conversation on Coffee with Gays. ☕💖👨‍❤️‍👨

[00:00:00] Intro: Pouring a fresh cup of 'Chosen Family' chat ☕️🌈.
[00:01:15] Blaine's Beginnings: First sips into the world of chosen families 🌍.
[00:03:45] Adam's Aha Moment: The art of sticking with your main artery in friendships 💡.
[00:06:20] Party Puzzles: Navigating the social scene and the importance of invites 💌🎉.
[00:08:45] Ryan's Revelations: The subtle dance of introductions and connections 💃.
[00:11:10] Drama at the Disco: Epic meltdowns, dance-offs, and party faux pas 🕺🎶.
[00:13:35] Adam's Analogy: Friendships as jobs - the boardroom dynamics 🏢.
[00:16:00] Blaine's Blast from the Past: Meeting Adam and the dynamics of first impressions 📸.
[00:18:25] Adam's Advice: The journey of finding your tribe in Dallas 🌆👯‍♂️.
[00:20:50] Ryan's Reflections: "Friends for a reason, friends for a season" - The art of

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We're challenging the status quo and daring to speak out about the journey of being "woke" in the LGBT community. Hear how our day-to-day lives are shaped by stories of mixed showers, morning routines, and Adam's vibrant revelations. Buckle up, as we serve up a fresh brew of thought-provoking discussions, heartwarming anecdotes, and our own experiences in Episode 4 of our series, Coffee With Gays.

It's time to have those conversations that matter. We uncover the harsh realities of discrimination that gay men face in the corporate world and spark a dialogue about the seismic shift in social dynamics since the Marriage Equality Act. But it's not all doom and gloom. From the evolving symbolism of the pride flag to the controversy surrounding the Bud Light ad, we're demonstrating the power of language and inclusivity. Are we ready to address these controversial topics head-on? Absolutely!

We don't shy away from diving deep into the heart of LGBTQ+ identity and representation. Hear us debate about the complexities of transgender rights and representation, with a particular focus on the Bud Light ad featuring a transgender teenager. We also dissect the controversy around drag shows performed for children and the ever-changing dynamics of our families. Grab your coffee and get ready to be part of the conversation - from the comforts of your own home.

Show Notes: 

00:00 - The boys bicker about who's going to host this episode. Spoiler Alert: Blaine takes the crown! 👑
00:52 - Welcome to Episode 4! We've been working hard on your feedback, and we're excited to dive into today's topic: 'Woke Up' or Hit Snooze? 🛌
01:35 - We're taking a hard, long look at the "woke" world. Buckle up, it's going to be a wild ride! 🎢
04:12 - Icebreaker time! How often do you shower? Adam's answer might surprise you! 🚿
09:51 - We pivot to the main topic: the evolution of woke culture. Blaine shares his first "woke" experience in West Hollywood. 🌈
10:50 - Blaine confronts his career trauma and the shocking reality of his past experiences. 😮
12:20 - We discuss the Supreme Court decision and the Respect for Marriage Act, and how it changed the benefits for our community. ⚖️
16:20 - Cancel culture: is it helping or hurting us? 🚫
21:00 - We discuss the Progress Pride flag and its significance. 🏳️‍🌈
24:00 - What about the intersex flag? We've got that covered too! 🏳️‍⚧️
25:00 - The term "queer" - offensive or empowering? We share our thoughts. 🗣️
29:00 - GenZ is here and they're loud! But is their approach helping or hurting the cause? 📣
30:00 - We discuss the Bud Light controversy with Dylan Mulvaney. 🍺
32:00 - Adam shares his thoughts on transgender sports. 🏅
34:00 - Caitlyn Jenner: love her or hate her, we can't ignore her impact. 🌟

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In this podcast, you will learn how to stop the emotional bleeding related to meeting gay men on hookup apps such as Grindr, Scruff, and others. You will also understand the price you pay for using those services. Additionally, you will learn that there is more you can achieve, but not when you are in a cycle of trauma and fear.

Enjoy the video!

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In this riveting solo episode of "Not Well," Bobby once again takes center stage, single-handedly steering the conversation with his blend of humor, vulnerability, and candid personal stories. While his co-host Jim is on a culinary escapade in Italy, Bobby is back home, sharing his unique perspective on life, all while his oven is busily baking a Chicken Divan.

Bobby embarks on this episode by revisiting his enlightening experience at Camp Buckwood, a nudist camp. While we've heard tales of his time there before, this episode unveils a new dimension to Bobby's journey that left him quite shaken. His visit to Camp Buckwood wasn't just a foray into nudism; it was a path to self-discovery, leading him to uncharted territories of vulnerability and acceptance.

Alongside his revelations from the nudist camp, Bobby delves into various facets of his life, from his fear of death as he approaches his 39th birthday, to his uncanny ability to pick out Scorpios from a crowd. The episode is punctuated with Bobby’s reflections on the gay community, sharing personal information and experiences, and how these interactions have helped shape his worldview.

The narrative takes a detour into Bobby's past, revealing tales of youthful indiscretion, a fight with a friend, and a victorious lawsuit against the city. Bobby also shares his struggle with unemployment following job loss and how this experience has influenced his current job and living situation.

Despite the heavy topics, Bobby ensures a light-hearted atmosphere with his passion for comedy and his aspirations to make people laugh. He navigates through his disappointments, particularly with his hockey team's recent misfortune, and encourages his listeners to embrace their feelings and share their stories on the podcast hotline.

As the episode winds down, Bobby's enthusiasm is palpable as he anticipates meeting his dream podcast guest in Pittsburgh. Eager to make the most of his upcoming Labor Day weekend trip, he asks his audience for travel recommendations and local insights.

Bobby concludes the episode by expressing his heartfelt appreciation for his loyal listeners and his deep love for hosting the podcast. In a touching moment, he acknowledges the impact their support has had on his journey and his drive to continue sharing stories and insights that resonate with others.
As this solo episode of "Not Well" comes to a close, Bobby leaves his audience with a renewed sense of camaraderie and the knowledge that, despite life's trials and tribulations, there's always a silver lining and a new discovery just waiting to be made. 

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Are you worried about inflation?  Are you tired of living alone?  Are you wondering if there is a way to feel connected to other gay men?   Here is an option:  move in with other gay men into a big house and share your lives.  In this video, you will discover how to meet gay men for communal living.

► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships:

Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. When you meet gay men, you go through these six stages to create a commitment. Instead of dating randomly, you want to date with the intent to move from stage to stage and connect to men emotionally and spiritually.  This lays the foundation for long-term relationships that lead to marriage.  

Watch the free video here:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

➜ ➜ You get convenient access to gay men.
➜ ➜ You get the methods to connect with them.
➜ ➜ You get protection from the hookup culture.
➜ ➜ You get guidance & support.

Click here for free enrollment: https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on hookups and meaningless relationships!  
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

► About Paul Angelo MHA, MBA

Paul Angelo is a gay relationship coach working with men who are looking for long-term relationships and marriage.  By 2022, Paul has spent over 12,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships.

With over 80 video testimonials and over 500 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in education about the psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching programs about gay compatibility, gay psychology, and gay sexuality: Your Perfect Husband, Your Perfect Dating Sequence, Gay Compatibility Formula, Sex On Rocks, and Gay Relationship Mindsets.

Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand-new philosophy for relationships and a brand-new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating and creates commitment and monogamy.

Paul is the creator of a popular gay social program called Big Gay Family that changes the way gay men meet and creates relationships that start with emotional connection instead of sexual. All men are welcome to join Big Gay Family and experience a paradigm shift in personal friendships and relationships.

#biggayfamily #paulangelo #gaylove #gaydating #lgbt

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Why is it so difficult to stay consistent with exercise, dating, and achievement? Why are so many gay men falling apart and struggling in their lives? Why are so many gay men addicted to sex, drugs, and self-hate?  What is happening underneath the surface that creates long-term suffering, anxieties, and depression for gay men?  Watch this podcast to learn.  Enjoy!

► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships:

Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. When you meet gay men, you go through these six stages to create a commitment. Instead of dating randomly, you want to date with the intent to move from stage to stage and connect to men emotionally and spiritually.  This lays the foundation for long-term relationships that lead to marriage.  

Watch the free video here:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

➜ ➜ You get convenient access to gay men.
➜ ➜ You get the methods to connect with them.
➜ ➜ You get protection from the hookup culture.
➜ ➜ You get guidance & support.

Click here for free enrollment: https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on hookups and meaningless relationships!  
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

► About Paul Angelo MHA, MBA

Paul Angelo is a gay relationship coach working with men who are looking for long-term relationships and marriage.  By 2022, Paul has spent over 12,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships.

With over 80 video testimonials and over 500 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in education about the psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching programs about gay compatibility, gay psychology, and gay sexuality: Your Perfect Husband, Your Perfect Dating Sequence, Gay Compatibility Formula, Sex On Rocks, and Gay Relationship Mindsets.

Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand new philosophy for relationships and a brand-new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating and creates commitment and monogamy.

Paul is the creator of a popular gay social program called Big Gay Family that changes the way gay men meet and creates relationships that start with emotional connection instead of sexual. All men are welcome to join Big Gay Family and experience a paradigm shift in personal friendships and relationships.

#biggayfamily #paulangelo #gaylove #gaydating #lgbt

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Grindr and most online hookup apps and websites, including Match.com, and OkCupid do not provide a platform for healthy communication. All conversations eventually lead to abandonment, dismissal, disrespect, and often trauma.

Continuous exposure on those platforms takes away a sense of wholeness and innocence from many gay men and often turns them into aggressive jerks.  This is how many gay men who are compassionate and loving at the beginning become negative, angry, and upset after just a few months of using Grindr, Scruff, Growlr, or similar apps.

Staying away from Grindr and similar platforms is a must for anyone who is concerned about mental health and loving relationships.

The easiest way to understand Grindr's influence on gay relationships is to look at a popular communication framework called NVC (Non-Violent Communication). This model was designed for healthy communication that takes into account 4 elements:

1. Observation.2. Feelings in regards to the observation.3. Needs that the person wants to meet.4. Request to correct the situation to meet those needs and validate the feelings.

Those four parts take into account the human need for compassion, understanding, and acceptance. Without those parts, every conversation becomes an injury, a wound, a trauma.

► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships:

Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. When you meet gay men, you go through these six stages to create a commitment. Instead of dating randomly, you want to date with the intent to move from stage to stage and connect to men emotionally and spiritually.  This lays the foundation for long-term relationships that lead to marriage. 

Watch the free video here:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place:

➜ ➜ You get convenient access to gay men.
➜ ➜ You get the methods to connect with them.
➜ ➜ You get protection from the hookup culture.
➜ ➜ You get guidance & support.

Click here for free enrollment: https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on hookups and meaningless relationships!  
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

► About Paul Angelo MHA, MBA

Paul Angelo is a gay relationship coach working with men who are looking for long-term relationships and marriage.  By 2022, Paul has spent over 12,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships.

With over 80 video testimonials and over 500 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in education about the psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching program

Don't Let Grindr & Toxic Dating Keep You Single Forever!
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Value Honesty, Intimacy & Spirituality!

► Meet Available And Friendly Gay Men!
► Get Protection From Narcissism & Toxic Situations.
► Feel Connected Within Days!

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Gay Sexuality Social Contract revolutionizes the approach to gay friendships and gay relationships. In this podcast, you will learn about gay social contracts and how The Big Gay Family Social Program offers tools for faster and healthier approaches to friendships and gay relationships.  You will understand why we need Social Contracts and you will see how to create a Social Contract within a few minutes.  Enjoy the podcast!

► 6 Stages For Committed Gay Relationships:

Discover the six stages required for committed gay relationships. When you meet gay men, you go through these six stages to create a commitment. Instead of dating randomly, you want to date with the intent to move from stage to stage and connect to men emotionally and spiritually.  This lays the foundation for long-term relationships that lead to marriage.  

Watch the free video here:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

➜ ➜ You get convenient access to gay men.
➜ ➜ You get the methods to connect with them.
➜ ➜ You get protection from the hookup culture.
➜ ➜ You get guidance & support.

Click here for free enrollment: https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on hookups and meaningless relationships!  
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

► About Paul Angelo MHA, MBA

Paul Angelo is a gay relationship coach working with men who are looking for long-term relationships and marriage.  By 2022, Paul has spent over 12,000 hours coaching and guiding his clients in the areas of gay dating and relationships.

With over 80 video testimonials and over 500 publicly available videos about gay psychology, Paul is the world’s leader in education about the psychology of romantic relationships and gay sexuality. Paul is the creator of multiple video-based coaching programs about gay compatibility, gay psychology, and gay sexuality: Your Perfect Husband, Your Perfect Dating Sequence, Gay Compatibility Formula, Sex On Rocks, and Gay Relationship Mindsets.

Paul’s contribution to the world of gay psychology includes the development of a brand new philosophy for relationships and a brand-new framework for gay sexuality that simplifies dating and creates commitment and monogamy.

Paul is the creator of a popular gay social program called Big Gay Family that changes the way gay men meet and creates relationships that start with emotional connection instead of sexual. All men are welcome to join Big Gay Family and experience a paradigm shift in personal friendships and relationships.

#biggayfamily #paulangelo #gaylove #gaydating #lgbt

Don't Let Grindr & Toxic Dating Keep You Single Forever!
Join Our Program & Easily Connect With Gay Men Who
Value Honesty, Intimacy & Spirituality!

► Meet Available And Friendly Gay Men!
► Get Protection From Narcissism & Toxic Situations.
► Feel Connected Within Days!

Click below to begin Free Enrollment:
https://BigGayFamily.com

Learn how to enjoy being gay in today's world.  Discover the methodology that ensures you can love being gay, create beautiful relationships and feel happy.  You will also learn about the 3P framework that ensures healthy and long-term relationships.  The right PEOPLE, the right PLACES, and the right dating PROCESS.  Enjoy the video!

► 6 Stages For Gay Dating & Gay Relationships:

Discover the stages that make relationships possible. When you meet gay men, you will be going through those stages to create a committed gay relationship.  Instead of going randomly through dating, you can date with intent and deliberate action to move from stage to stage and ALWAYS go further than in any other dating strategy.  

Check this out:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

Welcome to the Big Gay Family Social Program.  Since 2010, we have coached and matched 1,000's of gay men.  With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

*You get convenient access to gay men.
*You get the methods to connect with them.
*You get protection from the hookup culture.
*You get guidance & support.

You get everything you need to meet gay men and create meaningful relationships with them.  Please click below to begin your introductions:

https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on being single forever!
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

Don't Let Grindr & Toxic Dating Keep You Single Forever!
Join Our Program & Easily Connect With Gay Men Who
Value Honesty, Intimacy & Spirituality!

► Meet Available And Friendly Gay Men!
► Get Protection From Narcissism & Toxic Situations.
► Feel Connected Within Days!

Click below to begin Free Enrollment:
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Sex and Sugar are similar in how they affect your health and your wellbeing.  Sugar consumption causes bad teeth and bad health (even cancer).  Prioritizing sex in relationships also causes extended loneliness and frustrations with gay dating and gay relationships.  

This video explains the dynamics of prioritizing sex over emotional connections and communication. Also, you will learn how to think about sex so that you create the most beautiful gay relationship that can last a lifetime!

► 6 Stages For Gay Dating & Gay Relationships:

Discover the stages that make relationships possible. When you meet gay men, you will be going through those stages to create a committed gay relationship.  Instead of going randomly through dating, you can date with intent and deliberate action to move from stage to stage and ALWAYS go further than in any other dating strategy.  

Check this out:  https://BigGayFamily.com/6stages

► Ready to Join Big Gay Family?

Welcome to the Big Gay Family Social Program.  Since 2010, we have coached and matched 1,000's of gay men.  With Big Gay Family you get everything in one place: 

*You get convenient access to gay men.
*You get the methods to connect with them.
*You get protection from the hookup culture.
*You get guidance & support.

You get everything you need to meet gay men and create meaningful relationships with them.  Please click below to begin your introductions:

https://BigGayFamily.com 

Life is short - don't waste it on being single forever!
See you in the program.  --Paul Angelo MHA, MBA.

Don't Let Grindr & Toxic Dating Keep You Single Forever!
Join Our Program & Easily Connect With Gay Men Who
Value Honesty, Intimacy & Spirituality!

► Meet Available And Friendly Gay Men!
► Get Protection From Narcissism & Toxic Situations.
► Feel Connected Within Days!

Click below to begin Free Enrollment:
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MAT TALES: 40 Years of Gay Adventures.  A Journey of Sex + Truth.

CHRIS: UPSTATE, NY.  1984.

I've learned to accept my kinks and my history as a part of who I am and to embrace the lessons, the thrills and the pain of it all as my truth. 

True Stories.  

Mat Tales. 

I hope they make you feel all the things. 

Carl is 74 and Michael is 40.  They've been together now for twenty years.  We discuss how that's worked out in this May-December romance, partnership and marriage.

Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2022

Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

Bob Blackford discusses how he felt after donating blood, only to have the clinic subsequently call him in to discuss  some "irregularities" that the testing had revealed.... then informing him that he was HIV positive.  This was when he was in the ministry, was married with kids and it was prior to meds being developed.  He basically heard a death sentence.  He had to not only tell his wife that he was HIV positive, but also that he had had some gay sexual experiences.  He describes how they negotiated that, managed to raise two daughters, wrote a book and then share the mic with his wife in telling their joint story to an International audience.  And he tells how feels to be in Palm Springs, living his authentic life today as a gay man.

Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2022

Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

Patrick Prohaska is an author and life coach specializing in personal empowerment, consciousness expansion, and sexual healing. Patrick has a Bachelor’s degree in history of science and a Master’s degree in the religions of ancient India, and has studied several healing systems, including Ayurveda, Reiki, Theta Healing, aromatherapy, and more.

He’s the author of Brain Cells: Escape Your Mental Prisons and Dream Yourself Awake: The Power of Lucid Living.

His newest book Good Sex: Spiritual Principles for an Electrifying Sex Life is currently in the rewrite stage and will be published soon. He recently moved to Kansas, and he's  available for lectures, seminars, and workshops around the globe.

When he’s away from the office, you’ll probably find him hiking in the wilderness.

We chat about his journey and his new book... Everybody loves to listen in to a conversation about sex, right?  Join us now as we explore this topic.

Find Patrick at:  https://www.sexpowersoul.com

Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2022

Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

There is no doubt that I cherish my time getting to know and learn from Liz Massiah.  She has been there and her influence has paved the way for a lot of what our community has achieved.

In this conversation, we discuss GALA's early roots and what came to be with the organization.  This led to a discussion regarding Delwin Vriend and the Supreme Court case that made it so people within our rainbow community could not be fired based on their sexuality.  

Liz discusses a traumatic day in her life when she was removed from Womonspace and the lasting effect it has had on her.  But from that low point, Liz describes creating space as well as 'popcorn' and what can happen with that kernel.  Wisdom and truth.  That is Liz Massiah.